Wednesday, March 11, 2020

I sometimes miss being invisible

Weight loss comes with so many amazing benefits. Though one of the things that is particularly hard to adjust to is the newfound 'visibility' I have after losing a lot of weight.

People treat me differently which is to be expected, we all do it... maybe it isn't conscious but it happens. Anyway, unwanted attention from men is hard to get used to. Especially men that I have known for years and never shown any interest before. It makes me uncomfortable.

Though what surprised me most is how some of my friendships have changed. There is a certain level of competitiveness and jealously now. These friends were sooooo supportive of my weight loss journey when I was morbidly obese, not so much anymore. Whenever I started to get smaller, things did change.

I even had one girl accuse me of flirting with her boyfriend, I don't even know how to flirt lol, I am awkward as hell. This stuff never happened before. When you are big, nobody feels threatened. You have this invisibility at times, it's hard to explain but I am sure a lot of you can relate.

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Be honest with yourself

I came to this subreddit last week to post, comment and do whatever else helps me stay motivated and keep myself accountable for my own weight loss. I have gone through this process before and done countless hours of research and I love using that knowledge and my own experiences to give my opinions on peoples problems. There are a lot of different problems in a weight loss journey that are common between a lot of people here and that I see over and over every day. I find the worst one, while maybe not the most common, is people lying to themselves, usually unintentionally.

I don't mean this in a sense that someone is binge eating and says they have done well for the day, I don't think I've seen anything that extreme. I think the most common of a problem I see is people overestimating their calories burned.

I just want to list a few things that I think people doing a CICO method will be able to identify where the issue might be if they aren't seeing any progress.

1 The first is activity level. This is really hard to measure on any of the calculators no matter where you generally look online. If someone is working out to increase their calories burned, they probably aren't selecting they have a sedentary lifestyle. The problem is when the calculator suggests certain amounts of workouts to be different activity levels, it greatly affects the calories per day that it suggests you burn. For me between BMR-sedentary-light-moderate-heavy-athlete. it's about 400-500 calories (i'm a big guy) but it doesn't explain what these workouts should be. There are days i've tracked on a fitbit that I didn't even burn an additional 400-500 to make it to the sedentary line. Researching online won't help this either because calculators vary, articles vary, and people definitely vary. recently i've done research and found links that show 10000 steps a day to be around sedentary-light and others that say it's highly active.

I think BMR is the most accurate between these calculators and much like tracking calories that you intake, it is more accurate to look at the work outs you have done, input that in an app or do some research to see how many calories you may have burned at your intensity. Someone walking 10-20k steps a day and putting moderate-heavy activity levels in a calculator could be overestimating their calories burned.

2 The second is calorie intake. This one isn't as common but i see it at least a few times a day where someone has put they are pretty overweight, eating 1000-1500 calories per day, exercising at least a few times per day and not losing anything over months of being consistent. There are for sure cases of small people, usually women, who have a sedentary lifestyle and this is so close to their BMR that the weight loss is non existent or hardly noticeable. But I am writing this for those who know that at this calorie deficit they should be losing weight even without working out, to these people, I'm sorry but you have missed something. I'm not going to say a medical condition isn't possible, but it's not anywhere near as common as seeing people post about this and even then, it's unlikely that it's preventing any weight loss at all. So remember to count everything, don't lie and try to estimate on the higher side if you just eyeballing it.

  1. if you have a light snack, even celery, count it.
  2. if you have something tiny like sunflower seeds in the car, count it.
  3. if you add sauce, condiments, or anything else to a meal you've already counted, count it.
  4. sugar in coffee, count it.

I also want to mention that while nutrition labels are usually very reliable, they are allowed to be within 20% in either direction and not have to make a correction. I don't want to recommend taking this into account because it could cause someone to be eating at too much of a calorie deficit if they assume all calories listed at 20% more than they are.

3 thinking you can't do it. This is the biggest lie anyone can tell themselves. I told myself for years that losing weight was too hard, going to the gym was too hard, being seen out in public to get my steps in was too embarrassing at my weight, or saying no to buying that kitkat bar when i'm trying to be healthy wasn't possible. I lied to myself for my entire life up until the point I believed in myself, and nothing could have been further from the truth.

For anyone reading this that is feeling this way, I want to believe that most of the people on this subreddit have felt the same. We have felt the cravings, the embarrassments, the struggles, and a lot of us have pushed through, for some it just takes a little more effort and a little more time.

If you want to lose weight and have the determination, you can do it. Don't jump to the conclusion after a few months of being consistent that your body is just like that and you can't do anything about it. Take a step back from your position, look at every aspect of what you have been doing and find the mistake. There is no shame in making mistake, I myself have probably made more than I can count, but I needed to find and fix them to be successful.

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Weight Loss Wednesday: 6 Things to do on Hump Day For a Healthy Week

Getting over the hump during your work week feels great. Losing weight while you’re doing it feels even better. But how can you turn “Hump Day” into “Weight Loss Wednesday” when you’re so busy during the week?

Wednesday is halfway to the weekend, which we all know is awesome. But when it comes to your health, Wednesday to Friday can be a slide that’s not so good. When scientists analyzed people’s weekly Google searches, they found that searches for healthy things—like recipes, workouts, and tips—were 30 percent higher on Mondays than on Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays.

Stop the slide! Make Hump Day a high point for your healthy week—and set you up for even greater heights as the week goes on—with these five Wednesday must-dos for a healthy finish to the week.

Here are six ways to make Weight Loss Wednesday possible and finish the week off healthy:

1. Reflect on the days prior.

Sure, the weekend is in sight. But you still have two more days of the workweek to get through. Which means this is a great time to reflect on how you handled any healthy hurdles you hit so far this week, and determine how you might handle them differently if they pop up again. It’s also a great time to take inventory on your slim-down successes. Did you skip the doughnut drive through on the way into work on Monday? Did you skip the coworker’s birthday cake at the office celebration? You deserve to pat yourself on the back!

Take some time on Monday to evaluate your successes and challenges, and consciously decide how you will approach the next few days based upon them.

2. Weigh and measure yourself.

The scale is tricky. Normal fluctuations—from your menstrual cycle to the amount of sodium you consumed to the sleep you get through the week—can cause weigh-in changes that can be discouraging. That’s why we encourage our customers to weigh themselves just once a week, and on the same day each week—at the same time. And Wednesday, being halfway through the workweek, is a great time to get an accurate read on where you stand.

Think about it: You’ve created distance from weekend cheats and had a few weekdays of great choices to help push the numbers down. (One study of daily weighing found that people were heaviest on the weekends, lightening up as the work week went by.)

But don’t just rely on a single number: As indicated above, your weight can fluctuate based on your menstrual cycle, or just how much water you’re retaining. So create other measurements to gauge how you’re doing each Hump Day: Grab a tape measure and use it to measure your hips, waist, chest, thighs, and arms each week. Or find a piece of clothing that’s maybe just a bit too tight to wear right now. Each Wednesday, re-measure—or try on that clothing—and see how you’ve progressed in ways besides the scale number.

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3. Plan a workout for the weekend… NOW.

Make it happen by planning it on Wednesday: Search a local park or state forest you haven’t visited to plan a hike or search for a free weekend yoga class. Text a few friends or link up with your spouse and book it NOW. When the weekend starts, you will already have your workout planned.

If your weekend is already booked by a soccer tournament or dance lessons, don’t stress: You can still get some movement in at an event like this. Step away for 10 minutes and use a nearby park bench to perform elevated pushups, with your hands on the bench and feet on the ground. Then do some squats up and down from the bench, controlling yourself as you sit before standing back up hands free. Finish with some step-ups, using the bench like a step, before taking a quick walk.

4. Start a Wednesday walk group, even if it’s just for one.

Walk your way to Weight Loss Wednesday. The Center for Disease Control and Prevention recommend 150 minutes per week of aerobic activity, like brisk walking. But you don’t need to do two-and-a-half-hours all at once—10 or 20 minutes at a time is great.

Turn a Wednesday walk into a team-building activity: Set up a small group of coworkers for a weekly, 20-minute stroll and chat. You can work through problems—some studies, in fact, have shown that people are more creative while walking—or just build camaraderie and de-stress from the day’s work.

Or, if you’d rather go it alone, try a simple meditation while you walk: In one study of 135 volunteers, those who did a combination of walking with an easy meditation practice decreased anxiety and negative feelings about themselves. The meditation done in the study is really simple, too: While you’re walking, count your foot strikes as “one, two, one, two” as you visualize the numbers in your mind. If your mind starts to drift, don’t scold yourself: Just gently come back to the counting.

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5. Review your goals.

People set lots of goals—every Monday, every New Year’s and more—but they often fall short. Sometimes it’s because the goals aren’t realistic, but other times, they don’t stay fresh in your mind: So you aren’t thinking about the goal when you perform behaviors that could help—or harm—your progress toward that outcome. Add to that the temptations that are everywhere, from advertisements to grab-and-go junk food by the register.

Make Wednesday the day you refresh your memory. Review your goals today, refocus on what you’re hoping to accomplish and why: Close your eyes and envision why you’re on a weight loss quest—whether it’s to feel better, to have more energy to play with your kids or to feel euphoric when you look in the mirror. Then remember the positive feelings you’ve had in the past when you made a choice that pushed you toward your goal.

Once you’ve created this spark of motivation, use it! Make one choice right away that will move you in the direction of your goals—whether it’s deciding on a healthy lunch place to visit with coworkers, getting out of your chair to knock out 10 squats or making a written list of your goals that you can review every Wednesday as you do this motivation-building exercise.

6. Refill your fridge with great choices.

Studies show when people spend time prepping their food, they eat healthier. A bonus: Scientists found food preppers saved money, too.

Luckily, if you’re on the Nutrisystem program, you don’t need to worry much about prepping meals. Most of your meals and snacks come ready for you to enjoy, taking the work out of meal prep. But because you should still be adding in Vegetables, PowerFuels, SmartCarbs and flex meals, there is some prep you can (and should!) do ahead of time.

Use Wednesday as a once-per-week reset: Cut up pre-measured, snack-sized portions of unlimited vegetables and fruit options from the Nutrisystem Grocery Guide so you’ll always have access to easy, healthy snacks. When you get hungry later in the day—or on Thursday or Friday—they’ll be easy to grab and feel great about.

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loose skin after moderate weight loss?

Hi everyone. We know that drastic weight loss results in loose skin, typically 100+ lbs. I'm a 5'2" woman and I've lost about 60 lbs in a little under a year through exercise and better eating habits. To give a better example, I went down from about 190 lbs to 130-133lbs, and I had plans to continue until around 120. However, I still find myself with loose skin, even though my weight loss wasn't as dramatic as what we would typically expect for loose skin.

I am 24 years old and take care of my skin well: moisturizing, UV protection, etc. Since I'm young and take care of my skin, I should have some pretty high skin elasticity. The problem is that I have been obese almost my entire life, like 20 years of my life. I have stretch marks all over my body which makes me worry the skin won't snap back to normal. I have been doing strength training and muscle building, and even though my muscles are getting bigger and helping things look a little tighter, it looks like I'll have to build much more muscle than I would even want to in order to fill things out. Most of the loose skin is around my lower abdomen, inner thighs, and breasts, and it looks even more pronounced there because of the stretchmarks I have.

I know that surgery is the best solution for extra skin, however, I can't get behind the idea of considering that as a procedure for me because:

  1. I have enough loose skin that it's noticeable to me and assures me I'll never get that tight smooth look I'd like, but not so much that it hangs of body. In fact, it's not even noticeable to others if they don't squeeze or pull on it.
  2. I am considering having a child within the next 5 to 7 years, so I wonder how the skin stretchiness and all will play a role in all that. I wouldn't want to introduce a new complication in a potential pregnancy, nor go under the knife and then a couple of years later undo this cosmetic procedure if I should have just avoided it completely.

Does anyone have an idea of how much extra skin is "enough" for considering surgery for it? And mothers who have had surgery for skin removal, did you do it before your pregnancy and can you tell me about your experience with this situation?

Also, are there others out there who have enough loose skin to bother them, but not enough to warrant surgery? Any helpful remedies, treatments, etc. outside of surgery? I've looked at vShape or Velashape, but I'm usually pretty skeptical of these kinds of alternative treatments. Thanks for reading all of this!

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What do people here think of the Obesity Code by Jason Fung?

36M, SW:300 lbs, CW:252 lbs, GW:200 lbs

About a year ago, I read The Obesity Code by Jason Fung. It's like, the seven-thousandth book I've read about nutrition/metabolic health/weight loss, but it's the first one to really, truly impress me with how well-cited it is, and how scientifically-based it's claims are.

And the recommendations in that book jive pretty well with several capital-D Diet Plans. Lots of approaches overlap, and Fung's plan recommends the things those plans agree on: fewer processed carbs, moderate protein, more plants, more natural fat, etc. And his biggest recommendation that was new to me was intermittent fasting.

I've been following Fung's advice off and on for over a year. I had one stretch in winter where I didn't fast because I was recovering from surgery, and then the holidays derailed me. But I've been solid in 2020, and I've been hitting the gym 4-5 days a week since February. And I'm seeing results.

But today, a friend of mine posted on Facebook that she had been eating a low-carb diabetic diet for years (she's type 2), and still getting glucose readings over 200. She recently switched to plant-based, and she's eating carbs like crazy, and her glucose is in the 70s. This seriously challenges what I thought I knew about how the body handles macronutrient ratios. I know every body is different, but it shook me a little. Made me question the logic of my approach.

I'm happy with the way I eat. I love the food I eat, and I'm losing weight. I don't feel deprived at all. Nothing is forbidden. I don't draw lines like that, I just increase my focus on the healthy foods I love.

Still, after seeing something that flies in the face of what I've learned, I am curious how people feel about Fung and his books. Did I get duped by someone cherry-picking evidence? Or is this just a case of different strokes?

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Stuck at a plateau I’ve broken through before. Why?!

I. Am. So. Frustrated.

I (F, 30) first got serious about getting fit and healthy around two years ago. My start weight was 62.5kg (138 pounds) and eventually I was down to 56.8kg (125 pounds), which I was able to comfortably maintain. I’m 162cm, for reference.

Then I went on holidays.

In a week in Japan, I put on two kilos. I lost a bit, after I came home, then had another week long holiday a couple of months later, which caused me to regain again, up to about 59.6kg. This is about eight months ago now.

I have not been able to get the scales down past 58.6kg (130 pounds) since then — two kilos more than my lowest weight before. And for the life of me, I can’t figure out why.

I eat the same amount of calories per day now as I did then. I do the same exercise regimen. It’s possible I’m just eating out more on weekends now than I was before and that’s why I’m heavier, but I don’t really think so. I aim for 1400 cals per day on weekdays — which I do a pretty full on workout on — so I just can’t really bring my calories any lower without starving myself.

Is it possible my body has adjusted to my new healthy way of life now and that without the shock to the system my initial weight loss gave, I’ll never lose that weight again? Has anyone experienced this? Is there any way to break through it?

Please help me! I just want my old weight back!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 11 March 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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