Weight loss comes with so many amazing benefits. Though one of the things that is particularly hard to adjust to is the newfound 'visibility' I have after losing a lot of weight.
People treat me differently which is to be expected, we all do it... maybe it isn't conscious but it happens. Anyway, unwanted attention from men is hard to get used to. Especially men that I have known for years and never shown any interest before. It makes me uncomfortable.
Though what surprised me most is how some of my friendships have changed. There is a certain level of competitiveness and jealously now. These friends were sooooo supportive of my weight loss journey when I was morbidly obese, not so much anymore. Whenever I started to get smaller, things did change.
I even had one girl accuse me of flirting with her boyfriend, I don't even know how to flirt lol, I am awkward as hell. This stuff never happened before. When you are big, nobody feels threatened. You have this invisibility at times, it's hard to explain but I am sure a lot of you can relate.
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