Monday, November 18, 2024

A Dietitian’s Guide to Setting Realistic Weight Loss Goals During the Holiday Season

Can you lose weight during the holidays? Sure. But let’s be real for a minute. This is the time of year when many diets fail. Stress, sleep deprivation and indulgent festivities make this season extra challenging for anyone managing their weight. So how do you handle it?

One option is to rely on your willpower. Try to push through, stick to your plan and avoid every temptation. But, as a dietitian, I will tell you this plan may be the quickest way to sabotage your long-term goals.

Why? A rigid, all-or-nothing mindset during the holidays (or any time) leads to feeling deprived, guilty and sometimes resentful when you miss out on the things you enjoy. That’s a perfect setup for yo-yo dieting, where you end up fluctuating between extreme restriction and overindulgence.

Instead, let’s talk about how to set flexible, realistic goals that keep you feeling empowered, not discouraged.

Aim to Maintain

woman weighing herself to check in on holiday goals

First, rethink what success looks like for this season. Instead of aiming to lose weight, consider setting a goal to maintain your weight through the holidays. Shifting to maintenance mode isn’t giving up, it’s adopting a long-term approach, which research shows strongly predicts lasting success.

Think of it like the story of the tortoise and the hare: a fast start doesn’t matter if you can’t keep up the pace. Giving yourself the flexibility to enjoy the holidays might mean a slower journey to your goal, but it lowers the risk of throwing in the towel entirely due to feeling guilty or frustrated by unrealistic expectations.

Still, aiming to maintain doesn’t mean anything goes. People tend to gain one to two pounds over the holidays, so it’s still a good idea to be intentional about your choices. Here are a few simple strategies for mindful eating:

  • Listen to your body’s hunger signals and work with them, not against them. Avoid skipping meals or “saving up” calories for special events, as this can lead to overeating later. Instead, eat when hungry and focus on eating enough to feel satisfied.
  • Take time to enjoy your food. Enjoy your meals more by chewing slowly and savoring the flavors.
  • Fill up on nutritious choices. Load up at least half of your holiday plate with veggies, fruits or lean proteins before moving on to richer options.
  • Walk away from the table. Move away from the snack table once you’re satisfied to help prevent mindless eating while you socialize.

Set Healthy Behavior Goals Instead of Weight Goals

woman weight lifting at home during the holidays to reach goals

While you’re focusing less on the scale, you can still aim for non-weight-related health goals. Think about small, achievable habits to help you feel strong and energized in the new year. Here are some ideas:

  • Increase your daily steps. Maybe set a target to walk an extra 1,000 steps a day or take a 10-minute walk after each meal. Movement supports your physical health and boosts your mood, which can help during the holiday hustle.
  • Stay hydrated. Drinking more water can help control your appetite and support your energy levels. Try to keep a water bottle with you, especially during busy days.
  • Prioritize sleep. Strive for seven to eight hours of rest each night. Sleep deprivation can increase cravings.
  • Practice stretching. Even short stretching routines or gentle yoga can ease stress and improve flexibility. Use them as a way to center yourself during hectic days.
  • Start a journal. Take a few minutes daily to jot down your thoughts or set intentions. This can help you focus on your goals and reflect on what’s working.

Be Mindful of Alcohol

Christmas time. Serving drinks for new years party.

Holiday parties and family gatherings often include alcohol, and those extra drinks can add up. For example, going from two to three drinks per week to four to six might mean an additional 200-600 calories a week or more. Alcohol also tends to lower your inhibitions around food.

Here are some ways to stay mindful of alcohol:

  • Set limits before events: Decide how many drinks you’ll have so you feel in control and avoid overdoing it.
  • Alternate with water: Try drinking a glass of water between drinks. This practice keeps you hydrated and can help slow down your intake.
  • Choose lighter options: Opt for lower-calorie options like sparkling wine or light beer.

Make Self Care a Priority

Person practicing self care during the holiday season

The holiday season brings plenty of stress along with the celebrations. Between shopping, cleaning, cooking and family obligations, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. And when stress levels go up, so do cravings for comfort foods. That’s because stress hormones can trigger the urge for quick energy sources, often sugary or high-fat foods.

Combat this by making self-care a regular part of your routine.

  • Schedule time for yourself: Even just a few minutes helps. Take a walk, read a book, meditate or do something that helps you relax and recharge.
  • Practice mindfulness: Try breathing exercises or guided meditation to help manage stress. Apps and online videos can make this easy, even for beginners.
  • Connect with supportive people: Spend time with low maintenance friends or family that make you feel good.

Make a Plan for the New Year

Woman Writing New Year's Resolutions

When the holiday season winds down, be prepared to shift back to your weight loss goals. Setting up a clear plan ahead of time can make this transition easier. Here’s what to include:

  • Set specific New Year’s goals: Make your goals measurable and time-bound. For example, “I’ll log meals in a food tracker three days a week (Monday, Wednesday, Friday) starting January 6” or “I’ll walk 20 minutes four days a week (Monday through Thursday) starting February 1.”
  • Build in accountability: Find an accountability buddy to support and share progress. Or consider pre-booking non-refundable workout classes to help you stay committed.
  • Prepare your environment: Make it easy to start strong by stocking up on what you’ll need. For instance, schedule a meal delivery service to arrive in early January so you’ll have healthy foods ready to support your goals.

These strategies can help you find a balance that works this holiday season. Remember: progress, not perfection.

References:

  1. Koritzky G, Rice C, Dieterle C, Bechara A. The Biggest Loser Thinks Long-Term: Recency as a Predictor of Success in Weight Management. Front Psychol. 2015;6:1864. Published 2015 Dec 8. doi:10.3389/fpsyg.2015.01864
  2. Díaz-Zavala RG, Castro-Cantú MF, Valencia ME, Álvarez-Hernández G, Haby MM, Esparza-Romero J. Effect of the Holiday Season on Weight Gain: A Narrative Review. J Obes. 2017;2017:2085136. doi:10.1155/2017/2085136

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M23, 5’10, 260lb, need help with weight loss

I need help figuring out what meals would do best with what I’m trying to do. I want to stick to 1,600 kcals a day to stay on track to losing about 2 lbs a week to cut as quickly as possible to 190. I want to incorporate protein a lot, but it absolutely makes using the bathroom a chore. I'm mainly wanting to focus my meals around the "real good chicken" tenders, which have 23g of protein a serving, with doing 112g of protein a day. I definitely need fiber as well. If anyone that is knowledgeable about this stuff can help me figure out what I can do, I’d appreciate it. I've Googled so much and have come to no kind of meal plan. What kind of sides should I add to hit my fiber need and any other nutrients I may need? Thanks in advance.

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Sunday, November 17, 2024

After weight loss

There’s really no point of this post it’s more like something that’s been on my mind that no one in my life can relate to.

About me - Female, 22 H: 173cm (5’9) ST: 93kgs CW: 68kgs

So my entire life my parents have been weird about my weight. Like they’d look at how much food I’d take, they’d judge what I ate. Even now.

Since I could even remember, my dad would make little comments about my weight, calling me heavy, comparing me to my siblings, he’d ask me to step on the scale in front of him when I was like 11.

When I was 11 he offered me some chocolate (like one of those huge blocks of chocolate) and I took a row (4 pieces) and I started laughing like “sorry I’m taking the row it just broke off” then he got really mad and started yelling and calling me fat. It really stuck with me but I never reacted.

Ever since then I pretty much had an eating disorder. I would binge eat for days and then I would starve myself for days. And that went on for years.

I feel like I’m in the best shape I’ve ever been in my life right now because I improved my relationship with food and I have a bit of muscle. But losing weight gave me severe depression and social anxiety and I think I have body dysmorphia. I still haven’t processed that I’ve lost the weight and I still see myself as fat. But my sister jokes and says I look anorexic sometimes. After losing the weight my dad said “are you okay? You look skinny. Don’t lose too much weight you can’t be underweight and you can’t be overweight” pretty much implying that I look underweight and unhealthy now. And mind you I’m at a healthy weight.

You just can’t win. People will always have something to say so just focus on yourself and improve yourself. I know my dad was probably just trying to make me understand that it’s unhealthy to be overweight but he never really helped me. Honestly he would just judge me and mock me. I wish that as a kid my parents would try and help me instead of pass a comment.

Idk what the point of this post was but I thought I’d share since nobody in my personal life can relate and you all probably know what it’s like to be fat shamed by your own people. Feel free to share your stories.

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Starting my weight loss journey!🎀

Hi everyone! I (18 F) am just starting my weight loss journey, and I think this is the best I’ve ever done so far! It’s been three weeks, and I’ve managed to stick to a calorie deficit and go to the gym for an hour every day.

I’ve always been very overweight, starting out at 276 lbs at 6 ft tall. I’m now down to 270 lbs, and I’m so excited about this progress! <3

This is the most consistent I’ve ever been, and I’m feeling really motivated to keep going! My first goal is 200 lbs, then we go from there!

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Stupid question, can I count calories during the week but just not think about it during the weekend? Will I still see progress?

I’m on a pretty big weight loss journey, basically because my doctors said I will die if I don’t lose weight lol. For the past few months I’ve been counting calories on the weekdays because it’s easier to watch what I eat at work, work pays for dinner so I grab salads and on the mornings I’ll have something small, but on the weekends I just wanna relax and eat ice cream cream that’s actually good, and not these sad diet ice creams bars. Will this still help me lose weight or will the weekends ruin it?

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Saturday, November 16, 2024

At what point in your weight loss journey do you buy new clothes?

Hi everyone! For context, I'm a 5'2 female. I went from 180 lbs to my current weight, 145 lbs. All of my clothes is loose on me, I don't mind some of it, but I do want some clothes that fit. However, I'm planning to lose another 20-30 lbs.

I bought some new clothes recently for work, but I understand they might be loose when I'm done with my weight loss, and I will have to buy more clothes again.

Do you buy new clothes when you're not at your end goal yet, but all of your old clothes is loose?

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Going from obese to skinny-fit back to obese again.

I’m 29, 5’2F and 165lbs. My doctor let me know that I’m obese.

A year and a half ago I was 105-110lbs. I was skinny my entire life until after HS. I went from being 100lbs to 170lbs from ages 20 to 26. I knew I had undiagnosed B.E.D.

By the time I was 26 I started taking a**rall and it helped so much with my BED along with me being on my feet all day at work, I lost 40lbs in 4 months.

I felt so confident and I became a better version of myself. Fast forward a year and I had troubles at work with being s*xually harassed and unfairly terminated- I stopped having an income to pay for my meds. I gained back all the weight so quickly.. probably in a few months.. it happened in the blink of an eye..

I went from being confident to being a NEET (not in employment or training) and being shut in.

It’s hard to find a job because I only graduated from HS, my old job paid really well but I can’t work in that field now that I don’t have anyone to put on my resume. I can’t pay for my a**erall medication. It just really sucks.

I try to eat healthy and walk 10k steps a day but I end up eating all the calories I burn off and then some. I just feel so stuck and I’m not sure what to do.

I’m pushing myself so that I can lose weight by watching my calorie intake and be a better version of myself. I just wish I could lose it all again and feel like myself. Noticing how people treat me when I’m skinny vs obese hurts so bad. I really want to help myself. My doctor put me on BED meds 8 months ago and I’ve gained weight instead of losing but now has prescribed me something else that will help kickstart my weight loss.

I just want to feel like myself again and I’m trying to have hope again that I will have a miracle happen like how I did before and lose 40lbs quickly. 😞

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