Sunday, May 17, 2026

second day pangs

hi yall long time lurker, 26m 5’6 sw:255 cw:250 and im just suffering on day two of my weight loss journey. i’ve historically struggled with weight my whole life before getting skinny in college quite literally just randomly. eventually i packed on weight and now i have made the decision to lose it again.

coming to day 2, i know that changes in diet will get better after 3 days but i just wanted some encouragement since i feel like im doomed to fail again and again since historically ive been “saying i am working on my weight for 3 years” without taking any meaningful action.

thank yall!

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Cheat days are a disaster

I am currently trying to lose weight, I started around 1 month ago and lost about 5 pounds, the thing is I am forcing myself not to eat some days because my cheat days (going out, parties) are such a mess. I am able to eat smth like 5k calories in an evening easily.

Then to keep up with the weight loss I fast for like 1-2 days. The issue is that those 2 days I am HUNGRY, like absolutely would want to eat 3k calories evwn those days after the cheat ones.

I am trying to lose around 1-2 lbs per week, I am a 23 years old 6'2 guy, started at 210 lbs and now at 205 lbs. I also do not understand how to measure my calories properly, nor how much I should be eating. Used a calculator which said my metabolism is around 2500-2600 ish calories a day, I am trying to stay in 1700 and it's so damn hard.

I feel hungry constantly.

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Should I update my calorie goal or wait it out?

Long time lurker, first time poster. I started at ~320lbs in August and am down to 258lbs! I know that’s amazing progress, but I’ve only lost about ~18lbs so far this year, and it just feels so slow compared to the rate I was going at before. The only major thing I’ve changed is increasing my exercise—I was pretty sedentary in the fall, but I’ve been doing strength training about 2-3 days a week. I can tell my body has changed since I started, but I’m starting to get discouraged by how little the scale moves. It’ll stay the same for 2-3 weeks and then I’ll drop 2lbs and not lose anything for 2-3 more weeks. I don’t really want to call this a “stall” because the weight is moving, just glacially. Some months this year I’ve only lost 2lbs.

This is the furthest I’ve ever come in a weight loss journey, and I do not plan to throw in the towel. I’m mostly just wondering if my calorie goals still make sense? According to the TDEE calculator I see recommended here the most, my “maintenance” for my height weight/light exercise is 2532, for sedentary it’s 2209. I’ve been averaging 1700-1850 calories for the last few months with about 130g of protein per day. I also drink about a gallon of water, stick to moderate carb (160-180g), avoid added sugars, and make sure to hit my fiber goal. Should I drop my calories lower, or just keep on keepin’ on, trusting that eventually I’ll break through this and it’ll keep coming off? Before January, I was averaging closer to 2000-2100 calories per day, so I did adjust my goals after I hit 275.

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Saturday, May 16, 2026

When should you be concerned about the rate of weight loss?

Kinda like the title says, when does it become too much weight loss? I'm asking this mostly because I'm confused about my own weight loss. I've been trying to slow down my weight loss to focus more on maintenance and muscle growth but I can't seem to be able to. It's not like I'm eating that well either, I eat like shit most of the time(Breakfast was like a cinnamon bun[470 cal], cereal[350 cal], and fruit[200 cal] and lunch was a burger, fries, and apple pie[~900 cal]. I'm about to have some kinda meat, carb, fruits+veggies, and cake for dinner too).

At the beginning of this week I was 172 lbs, now I'm 167.8 and I really don't know why. I do work out a lot but that's certainly not explaining this amount of weight loss. I'm eating like at least a solid 2000 calories a day and only run maybe like 15 - 18 miles a week? I work out 6 days a week but it's like maybe 30 minutes of actually working out. I kinda think that maybe it's cause I'm in a pretty hot area but I can't be sure.

I could just be freaking out for nothing too cause I did just end my period and it could just be the bloating going away but I just want to be sure. I've lost almost 65 pounds at this point in the span of 9 months and I have a pretty intense physical event coming up and I know I'll probably lose like 5 pounds there so I kinda want to start maintaining so my energy levels don't tank. I would go to the doctor about it but I figure that maybe I'm making a mountain out of a molehill. Am I just overreacting and this is normal?

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41 F weight fluctuation questions.

Hello everyone I am 41 and female. I started at 230 pounds around September-ish of last year. When I first started I wasn’t really watching I was just kinda trying. Backstory is that I have had “transient” thyroid issues where sometimes when they test me I am hyper and other times I am hypo. They’re calling it sub-clinical hypothyroidism. The problem with this is that 1. They have no idea what is going on and my diagnosis feels made up. 2. I have the fast heart rate and anxiety of hyperthyroidism and the weight gain of hypothyroidism. 3. I have struggled with weight loss immensely. 4. I was competitive level fit when I first got sick in 2020 (125 lbs 5’4) and the weight gain impacted my mental health. It took me A LONG time to feel comfortable being active with my heart rate issues. I was also immensely depressed. (Picture of weight graph in comments)

In March I got a Tempo Move (absolutely amazing machine) and it’s basically a gym and a trainer in my house on demand. Its changed my entire life and helped me feel comfortable lifting/working out again. I am eating in a calorie deficit and working out now between 3-5 days a week depending on my school and work load. (I am also a full-time student). I am down to 188 pounds with 16 total pounds lost since March. I have cut out any fast food and focus on eating healthy (protien/fruit/veggie/whole grain) rather than “dieting” (not cutting out all crabs or sugar i moderate). My question is what is considered “normal” weight fluctuation? Is it normal to go up and down two pounds throughout the day? I see that my overall trend is down. I am also weighing everyday considering I have the thyroid issues and I am currently not medicated because they say it’s “transient” even though it’s been 6 years. I do this in case I need to use the weight as some sort of evidence about my weight loss because the doctors are completely dismissive about any weight loss questions. They tell me do the healthy eating classes I have. I have turned down GLPs (not out of any judgement I just am not a huge medication fan and I am afraid of the muscle loss) although I would consider this as a last option to help me drop down to a healthier weight if I needed to.

I have a week or two were I am “stuck” at a weight (I still fluctuate day to day) where I’ll be like 193 for 1.5 weeks then I’ll maybe drop to 192 or 191 the next week then I’ll drop to like 189 and be stuck there for a week. Sometimes I’m consistently heading down week over week.

My question is does this fluctuating seem normal to everyone or is this something I should bring to talk to my doctor about? Like I am putting the effort in but not seeing the results I should, maybe we should revisit the thyroid? Or nah just keep pushing this is totally normal? I appreciate you taking a look at this for me. I just want to make sure that I am advocating for myself if I need to (this whole situation has been wild.) or if this what I should be looking like at this point giving myself some grace and a pat on the back. Right now I’m just kind of living in the land of “I’m really trying and I hope this right”.

I would love any advice or help. Please don’t mean to me though. I’m quite fragile. :) thanks guys!

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Friday, May 15, 2026

Adult lunchable suggestions or similar please

So around this time last year I was well into my weight loss journey, I had gone from 330 down to 280, it was going great and I was super excited. Shortly after however, my wife was diagnosed with Stage 4 kidney disease and needless to say, I have gained all of the weight back, through stress, excuses, and fair but I know I can't do this and I need to be healthy for myself, for her and for our daughter as we continue to go down this road.

That being said, meds and visits are crazy expensive and my diet I did last time, with all the protien bars and shakes and stuff, I just cant afford. I also don't have the time to meal prep like I use to, I was thinking of going the route of the adult lunchables, I currently get about 2200 a day and am so overwhelmed that I dont really know where to start or where to turn so any suggestions about lunchable style meals on a budget would be amazing.

Thank you.

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Tips on how to like your appearance while trying to lose weight?

This year I've been working on trying to lose weight and become healthier. I (18 f) started college and from all the walking ended up going from around 200 lbs to 187 lbs. I'm 5'7 and while this is not a huge loss it definitely felt good. I've found what's been working for me is not hyper focus on weight loss necessarily but trying to take care of myself and enjoy movement and healthy well rounded meals while vaguely estimating calories. so far it's been going pretty good and while I haven't lost a significant amount of weight I feel more energetic and happier and I'm trying to slowly implement more cardio and gym visits into my routine without making myself dread it or hate doing it.

That being said while doing this I'm still having a hard time finding myself attractive at all. my bf says he thinks I'm beautiful all the time and loves cuddling and kissing and giving me attention and compliments but I just struggle believing that he's attracted to me. I keep seeing photos of myself from club activities or just when I'm not the one taking the photo and I'm not perfectly angled and hating the way I look. I feel like my stomach is huge and my double chin feels insanely noticeable. I have fun events planned for the summer but I just don't know how to enjoy them when I hate everything I have to wear because I hate how I look. How do I feel beautiful when I know that if someone showed me a picture of myself at that very moment I would hate it?

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