Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Need advise for wedding weight loss

(26F, 5’10, 190lbs)

Hi rloseit,

I am in an international wedding with a very specific color/texture pattern. All the dresses I’ve tried on, I’ve hated or are too pricy. Today I found the dream dress but problem is, it’s a size 8 and sold out everywhere. I sit between a 12/14. Is it possible to get down to a size 8 by June of 2019 and if so, what is the most effective method? Does anyone with similar stats have advice or a realistic plan they can share with me? I was very thin my entire life and sat at a size six, but recently depression and a desk job caused extreme weight gain. I’ve been wanting to lose the weight for a while and think this dress could be motivation, as silly as it sounds. But is it realistic? Thanks for reading and for potential advice.

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I'm losing weight with zero exercise (40lbs down in 4 months).

  • For the record, I fully believe exercise is important for both physical and mental health. •

I'm doing CICO using MFP and have lost about 40lbs since starting in early August. For me to be successful, I have to completely separate my weight loss plan from exercise because I know myself well enough to know I can't rely on having the motivation to work out. I aim for 1200 calories and have been good about keeping close to that on average (I certainly have my share of bad days). My maintenance goal of 125lbs as a 5'4" tall, sedentary 32 year old woman will allow me about 1500 calories a day. My doctor is on board with this plan.

All that being said, I do have plans to start gradually exercising in the near future, which I will log accordingly and adjust my caloric intake. For me, exercise will be about being more physically fit and to help with some mild, manageable depression. I'm thinking long walks, my old climbing gym, and bike rides will be in my future.

I'm hoping this post might help people who are feeling overwhelmed with the idea of making a lot of lifestyle changes at once. Also, we're told all the time that weight loss has to include both diet and exercise, which isn't accurate and is a goal that doesn't work for everyone. Some people also have physical limitations that make it very hard to exercise in a way that burns enough calories.

I also like think about this process like l am making a permanent change that will last for the rest of my life, this way I don't get too hard on myself for those bad days or weeks because it will be negligible in the long run, but on the other side I don't allow myself to make too many allowances, because that's how I've gotten off-track in the past.

I admit this all takes a lot of willpower and self-control, but it is possible! Also, don't be afraid to seek out a professional to address any mental health concerns that might be related to food or weight loss. If you can't afford private pay or don't have insurance coverage, look in to employee assistance programs, sliding scale therapists or counseling programs at your local college (counseling students usually do practicums and provide therapy for a lot cheaper). Also look into your primary care doctor (or a psychiatrist if possible) if you think you might need medications to help.

Lastly, collagen peptides are supposed to help with loose skin, though it can be pricey and the one I use is 70 calories per serving. Still worth it though!

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My long weight loss journey

I posted a this recently but my translation software messed everything up so I got a friend from the US Embassy in Russia to translate the post into proper english. Below is my accurate weight loss journey.

OW IT STARTED

The date is June 30th, 1988. My name is Katyusha and during this time I lived in the USSR and I weighed 631 lbs. I simply completed an arrangement at the gynecologist to get a hysterectomy. My gynecologist, a sweet asian-kazakh in her mid 30s with a sound body and kind face, discloses to me that the strategy is done and I am ready, however...

"Your circulatory strain is dreadfully high, I am stressed over you," she includes rapidly. "It was high last time, as well. You should see a specialist, there is one here, I can give you a proposal. He's extremely business-situated and logical, you'll like him."

Reluctantly, I concur. This isn't the first occasion when somebody has addressed me about my circulatory strain, however it will be the first occasion when I have visited a specialist in right around 8 years.

Thyroid issues, circulatory strain issues, and diabetes keep running in my family. I go home, my stomach balled into an unpalatable bunch, to consider my forthcoming arrangement. I am as yet pondering it the following day when I wake up hungry. I am considering it I eat my frozen yogurt soon thereafter, researching manifestations for diabetes. On December 18, I am as yet considering it we stock up on wheat, potatoes, corn, and meat to praise the birthday of Stalin since USSR has little food by December.

I've pondered it so much, feared it so much, that it at long last occurs to me: nobody ought to must be this worried about a medical checkup... A basic checkup. At that point the considerations rapidly course through my psyche? "For what reason are you focused on?" Because I am fat. "Whose blame is it you are fat?" Mine. I did this. "On the off chance that you made yourself fat, who makes you not fat?" Me.

I would not like to squander the nourishment we'd purchased, so with a great deal of fear, I advised my sweetheart I needed to begin getting thinner on 7/5/1988.

WHAT HAPPENED NEXT

In the days that pursued, . I took advance photographs. I determined my TDEE out of the blue. I purchased another lunchbox so I was compelled to convey my lunch to work. I followed each calorie. I quit purchasing soft drink. I quit eating out. I invested a humiliating measure of energy sticking "solid" formulas.

The main month, I lost 19lbs. When I went to the specialist, I was in impeccable wellbeing: not even pre-diabetic. I told my new specialist energetically that I had shed pounds and couldn't hold up to return one year from now. From his easygoing, cavalier gesture it was clear he wasn't hopeful about my odds. I pledged to myself I'd refute him.

The second month, I made a diary and started sharing the sustenance I ate. By that point, I discovered I could supplant frozen yogurt with Protein Smoothies (which completely considered breakfast), so I began thinking of mind boggling and delectable protein shake formulas. I progressed from an underlying calorie gauge of 1850 calories every day down to 1500 calories per day. It was working. I discovered that carb-substantial sustenances left my hungry and read that protein was imperative to sound weightloss, so I started limiting carbs and amplifying protein.

Years passed. I started eating 1200 calories every day. I kept cooking. I agreed to accept the rec center, however just went some of the time. I continued following, I continued losing. It was working. I found the informal friction connected in the sidebar and started investing a great deal of energy there. At Christmas, everybody disclosed to me I looked astonishing. In January, I began another activity with a splendid future and double the compensation. In March, I finished 1K ran and ran my first 5K: nearby Moscow neighborhood. I had a fabulous time I've had openly all year and my sweetheart and I guaranteed each other we'd do it again one year from now.

At that point, abruptly, 25 years had passed. I was well over 100lbs down. I took my last selfie in the mirror at store in Moscow, a tear in my eye as their littlest tanktop hang and grouped around my hips. I quietly guaranteed the lady in the mirror that I'd never be back. I started shopping at normal garments stores. My new collaborators started to see my weightloss. I made companions with other sound individuals: the organization rec center coaches, our security protects, the new young lady on my group that brings mealprep for lunch each day. I gladly turned into an arbitrator for the disagreement network that offered me such a great amount of help all through my adventure.

At the present time

The previous couple of days, I have - without precedent for my adventure - had different individuals reveal to me that all that I know and all that I've learned isn't right. I had another redditor reveal to me I don't comprehend what it resembles to be hefty. One disclosed to me how solid you can be in spite of dreary heftiness. Another disclosed to me bodies don't react to calories. Moscow Times disclosed to me that I'm naturally bound to come up short at weight loss and that I'll never keep the weight off.

I'm remaining here today as living verification that you can do this. I am here to reveal to you that all of cynicism you hear, each individual that discloses to you will fail, each ineffectively directed examination that discussions about starvation mode, set weight focuses, metabolic harm from weightloss, and each previous companion that reveals to you don't generally cherish yourself on the off chance that you get more fit...

Each and every one of them isn't right. It took me very nearly 30 years to get here

It is hard to lose weight in Russia. There is a gluttonous and drinking culture here. I used to be an alcoholic and drank so much vodka I had liver issues. By the this is my throwaway account since my real account I know people on reddit in real.

Endorsed by Katyusha.

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Random advice from my 40lbs+ weight loss. Worked for me May help you, may not.

Intermittent fasting. First step I took and didn’t change my diet at all but started losing weight already. Still only eat between 2pm-10pm. Then started eating healthier (fewer carbs, more fruits and veggies, less red meat) within that time and started noticing faster weight loss. Me working out hasn’t been consistent due to anxiety and depression getting in the way but I’ve kept the intermittent fasting consistent and even though I have “cheat days” that turn into “cheat weeks” I wouldn’t gain weight back, just wouldn’t really lose any. Then I would start losing again when I got back on track. If you’re like me and can’t remain super consistent with a meal plan and working out, Intermittent Fasting might help you a lot. The first couple days were hard but I’m not even hungry till 2pm anymore. Hope this might help someone. Feel free to ask me questions if you have any.

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Up and down and back again

So last December I was roughly 210lbs 5'9'' or 5'10'' depending on who you ask. I decided it was time to make a serious change and started running. That's it. I ran every day as much as I could for about 30-45 minutes. I saw almost no results. In January of 2018 I decided maybe this CICO stuff was something to try. I started doing it and lost about 35 lbs by May.

In May I quit working out every day and by June-July I was back to eating whatever I wanted and drinking soda again.

I am now around 195lbs (same height) again and am pretty bummed. I know what I need to do to get back to where I was and my goal originally was to get down to 155-160 but the lowest I got was around 175 last summer and I just lost the will to keep at it.

I know there isn't a secret to losing weight but GOSH I wish there was!

I get tired of chicken breast, vegetables, and not gorging myself on chocolate covered pretzels or beer on the weekends. I started a "contest" with another co-worker to see who could lose more weight in the upcoming months to give me a kick in the pants to get back to work and I have posted here previously about the real secret to weight loss is to just do the work but lately with winter coming on I just don't want to do it.

I regret letting myself slide back this far but I am not quitting yet. I watch your guys posts on here a lot and see mostly three things. Either amazing transformations by some of you who are killing it and doing the work, or people discussing what I call the "side effects" of weight loss, (loose skin, difficult co-workers, etc.) or the others like me who post about this being Day 1 for real this time.

I just wanted to throw up a little story from someone who has done the work, dealt with the co-workers, and lost most of the progress made and is now back to "zero" so to speak. This time around I am going to focus more on the CICO but get back to my workouts because they help with anxiety/seasonal depression etc.

Sooooo, HERE WE GO AGAIN!

And good luck to all of you on day 1! I have been there and am almost back there again this year. It is not impossible but it is work. Hard work! Let's do it together!

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Its hard to balance self esteem and weight loss. Please share any advice. I am listening.

Almost cried in the change-room at Wal-Mart. I wanted to buy this cute unicorn onesie. It was a large, but it did not fit me. I thought "How can I let myself be d2o big that large is too small. Sad. What's with you man!"

Anywho while standing in my undies I stared at myself and realised I was quite disgusted by the body looking back at me. Stretch marks everywhere and a saggy belly.

I feel like I'm 22 and I've ruined my body. I feel like I take 2 steps forward and 3 steps back and I'm getting absolutely no where. I worry I will be this obese for the rest of my life.

I fear I won't find love until I lose 100lbs total.

Some days I think "wow. 24lbs down now! Nice!" But then I see no visible difference.

Thing is I only started thinking this way after consciously deciding to lose weight. I come from a family of large women. I never thought much about my size as I was normal for my family.

Now I can't seem to stop thinking negatively. Please advise.

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How to Survive Holiday Travel Slim-Down Style

If you’re one of those holiday hustlers who will go the distance to avoid missing out on festivities with family and friends (literally), this article is for you. Do your holiday plans include jet-setting from party to party? Will you be so busy making merry that your slim-down is at risk of becoming full-on festivity roadkill?

The holidays, in all their go-go-go glory, can wreak havoc on your health. But with a little planning, they don’t have to. Keep your slim-down cool while you’re on the move with these trim-down tips for travelers:

1. Take it to go: Prepack an emergency snack kit, including Nutrisystem snacks and meal bars, water bottles and fridge-free produce to bring on your travels.

2. Watch the clock: Eat at regular mealtimes. Schedule pit-stops around meals if you can. If not, have Nutrisystem foods on hand for when the clock strikes “Eat!”

3. Be a mover and shaker: Long drive? Plan walking/stretching stops. Flying? Get physical by walking the airport pre-flight.

4. Book it: Bring a book, magazine or deck of cards during your holiday travels. Avoid snacking out of boredom by engaging in other downtime distractions.

5. Snooze to lose: Take advantage of travel time to catch up on ZZZs. Nap on the plane or train; alternate taking the wheel if driving with a copilot.

6. Don’t forego H2O: Don’t slack on hydration. It’ll keep your immune system strong as you hustle along!

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