Sunday, February 10, 2019

Needing help maintaining weight loss during grief.

In 2016, after the birth of my daughter, I took a look at myself and realized my weight had gotten out of control. I went from 105 lbs in high school/college to 200 lbs in a few years and I was miserable. I signed up for Weight Watchers and lost 75 lbs in a year and maintained that for 2 years. I was so proud of myself and my confidence was so much higher. I felt like I was finally in my groove. Here are some pics of my original journey: (https://m.imgur.com/gallery/Ccg6T)

In July of 2018, I found out I was pregnant with our second child. We were more than elated, and motherhood is truly what I feel I was made to do. I maintained healthy eating and only gained 5 lbs in 4 months (as opposed to the 65 lbs I gained with my first). After 4 months we found out that I was miscarrying and the baby had no heartbeat. It has been 3 months and 1 week since I heard those words and it still feels like a knife in my heart. All my drive and motivation to stay healthy completely disappeared. And honestly I was okay with that for a while, I was trying to focus on my mental and emotional health as well as keeping my family going, and I was trying to be gentle with myself. The problem is, I have gained 20 pounds since my lowest weight and I feel awful. My clothes barely fit and my confidence is shot. But I still can’t manage to find my way back to where I was. I have managed to lose 5 pounds, but it has been so slow to come off. I am trying, but my motivation is just gone... I don’t know how to get it back. I never had this issue the first time around, I stayed active and ate so much better and never had to force myself to do that. But now every day is a struggle.

Has anyone else experienced this? I need help and if I try to talk about it in person I break down so I don’t know where else to go.

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Saturday, February 9, 2019

Need help with my girlfriend's weight loss progress.

Hello. I've came here to this subreddit to ask for help for my girlfriend (26, 5'2) who is having trouble losing weight. Quick backstory, we have been together for a little bit over 3 years but the past year or so, she said she has noticed that she has been gaining a little bit of weight. In 2018, she said she has gained a huge amount of weight compared to a little bit from the previous year(s). My girlfriend has mild PCOS which causes her to gain weight easier but she takes medication to help control that. She doesn't want to tell me her weight which is understandable, so in around October of 2018 we decided to join LA Fitness to help her lose weight. Honestly, we haven't been keeping a consistent gym schedule from October to December of 18' due to holidays and maybe some laziness. Sometimes we would go 5 days a week and then there are times where we miss a few weeks all together. We currently do not have jobs and have horrible sleep schedules (sleeping at 5AM and waking up around noon). Still trying to fix this.

In January of this year, a new LA Fitness opened like 5 minutes away from our place (which is better than 20-30 minutes away). Since then we have been going to the gym 5-6 days a week consistently working with weights and cardio, but it seems that she isn't losing any weight at all after weighing herself recently. We know eating right is huge part of losing weight so she changed her diet from the beginning as well. They said to lose weight, the recommended calories intake should be 2000 a day, but due to her PCOS she has restricted herself to 1000 calories or less a day while only eating 2 times a day (lunch and dinner). We try to eat at home instead of eating out like we use to. Sometimes we eat out at a fast food place probably one meal a week. She also drinks the recommended about of water every day (at least 64oz.) Below is somewhat summary of our workouts and what she eats a week. Her lunch and dinner are usually the same every day. Our workouts consist of 2 versions that alternate every day.

Lunch - Sandwich which consists of wheat bread, turkey slices, half avocado, alfalfa sprouts. Served with baby carrots, Sun chips (salsa verde) and with unsweetea.

Dinner always varies - Lean cuisine meal or frozen boca burger (spicy) with mayo, spicy ketchup, lettuce, coleslaw and the regular buns. Honestly dinner is usual random. Some days it just a bowl of cereal(special K cereal with cut up bananas) or a bowl of fruit (grapes) or homemade food from parents.

Workout at the gym #1- Weights (Legs & Arms), stretching, treadmill, basketball sometimes

  • (Legs)(3 sets with 8-10 reps for each workout) - Squats with free weights, single leg deadlifts and sumo squats.

  • (Arms)(3 sets with 8-10 reps for each workout) - Bench press with free weights and triceps curls.

  • Stretching on mat.

  • Treadmill - Sprint 8 workout (level 8) for 20 minutes.

  • Basketball sometimes

Workout at the gym #2- Weights (Back & Abs), stretching, treadmill, basketball sometimes

  • (Back)(3 sets with 8-10 reps for each workout) – Lateral raises, lying down rows, weight assisted chin up machine

  • (Abs)(3 sets with 8-10 reps for each workout) – leg raises with medicine ball, pulse up with medicine ball

  • Stretching on mat.

  • Treadmill - Sprint 8 workout (level 8) for 20 minutes.

  • Basketball sometimes

Notes: She received a weight loss book from her brother called ‘Thinner Leaner Stronger’ by Michael Matthews. This book is what we are basing our workouts from and why we chose to work out this way such as not doing isolated exercises, not using machines since dumbbells are superior in most cases and etc., but currently it seems like it is not working.

She said in 2015, while she was in school she lost 15 lbs in 6 weeks from just alternating running/walking on a track 3 times a week for 30 – 40 minutes. While eating only one lean cuisine (pizza) with grapes for lunch and Special K cereal for dinner. No weights just running/walking.

What are we doing wrong? What needs to be changed? What else do we need?

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Tips for my snacking problem?

My exams are nearby & I have recently discovered that I have a snacking problem? I never realised it because from November - January I was not really caught up with studying and my primary focus was my weight loss. (been losing 1kg/2.2lbs per week)

However, since the start of February I've been spending more time studying and I realise that I snack more than I thought I did.

I still exercise 5-6 times a week as I've already made it a habit that I enjoy. but i find myself grabbing a slice of cheese, or a piece of chocolate pastry in the midst of studying. My lunch/dinner meals are 400-600 calories, so WITHOUT snacking, I usually consume about 1200 calories a day, but for the past 2/3 days I've been consuming about 1500-1800 calories. It hasn't slowed down my weight loss by a lot but I think it might if I don't get a real wake up call.

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Well, that wasn't a side-effect I planned for... (nsfw? probably)

So, I'm on day 3 of my journey so far! I know that the honeymoon phase for trying something new will wear off soon enough, but it's still exciting to at least feel different. Like I'm not sitting around, drinking tons of coffee with sugar and then topping all of that off with a 2000 calorie fast food dinner.

The first few days I've been trying a few different recipes to see which ones I'll like, still sticking to my 1200 a day and always having a backup of eggs and salsa in case I cook actual garbage. But today I woke up with something I hadn't really anticipated.

A period. After a year without one.

Now, a bit weird to be excited about something like that, and I'm bunkering down for one that's going to be absolute hell. It really does feel like, even if I end up with the slowest weight loss imaginable, it's still worth it. Like, I'm still doing something to better myself and it's my decision.

I suppose I can call that a NSV?

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I don’t want to eat bad foods anymore

My story is pretty simple - I was overweight since I was a little kid, overfed by nannys and grandmas, never learned portion control and was very lazy, became severely depressed as a teen and became obese at 18 years old. I was always kinda trying to lose weight, but often binged and used food as a coping mechanism, so all my attempts eventually failed. Recently something clicked in me after I ripped my last pair of pants on my thighs and couldn’t buy a new pair because I gained so much weight that I wouldn’t fit in the last size, that stores in my country usually carry. After that something changed. I got... tired. Tired of always trying and failing, tired of being insecure, tired of being weak, both mentally and physically. I actually started losing weight after that.

It was very hard at first, because - I fully admit that - I’m a food addict. I want to eat a lot, always, big meals, snacks, lots and lots of carbs. It calmed me down and it’s tasty as hell. But I pushed through. I was tired of my ways.

Today I noticed something. I have an open bag of honey breakfast cereal sat on my counter and I haven’t even thought of touching it for a week or so. Usually I could eat a whole bag without batting an eye, and if something like that was open, it would be eaten no matter what, so I tried to avoid buying this stuff all together when I started my weight loss journey. But I bought this for my husband 2 weeks ago, he didn’t like it, and I ate a couple of tiny bowls, all measured out and counted. But for the last week I didn’t even want it. Not a single feeling of craving this sugary stuff. I don’t want McDonald’s anymore, I don’t want bread and pastry, I don’t want ice cream, I don’t want pizza and I have some kind of special disdain for soda. I haven’t even noticed this change in mindset until today, but it’s definitely there.

Let me tell you, after I noticed that, I almost cried. Hell, I’m almost crying right now. Because I’m so damn proud of myself.

I still have 40 more pounds to go, but now I truly know that I can do it.

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I lost 150 lbs in 10 months (vsg). Now what?

I had the Gastric Sleeve 4/18 at 345 lbs. Today I weigh 195 lbs. I have crushed every projection and lost so much more than I thought I would by this point.

I've done the mental work, too. I have a strong support system. I'm a figure in the weight loss and bariatric surgery social media/podcasting world and I bust my ass daily. I work out. HARD. I track macros. All that. I follow every post op rule to the letter.

This was not the easy way out. It is still not. I am finding that I can eat more now and it is messing with me. I got down to 190 and now I'm 195. That gain has me completely in my head. Am I going back to my old ways? If I can gain 5 lbs, can I gain 50?

I know this surgery was just a tool. That's everyone's favorite thing to say. I'm not relying on this restriction to stop me from gaining weight. I'm just scared. My selfies look great and I feel better and I'm proud and grateful, but extreme weight loss is a total mind f.

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