Saturday, March 9, 2019

What caused me to reevaluate my health. Also in need of some advice.

So between last summer and when I started taking my health more seriously (about 3 weeks ago), I've had a slew of things occur to take the initiative about my health. As a background, I'm 17 yr old female and a senior in high school, which probably influences a lot of my view. If this isnt the proper subreddit to post this in or you guys need more details, please lmk! This is my first post on Reddit and I'm not too sure what I'm doing. TLDR at the end.

The shift started when my 2 best friends started gymming together last July. I felt kinda left out knowing they shared something together, but we all participate in marching band which formed the basis of our friendship. Marching band, where I am, is competitive in nature, and in the summer requires pretty rigorous hours marching and playing music. I knew that I just wasn't as fit or athletic as them, which caused me to become more self conscious of my weight and lifestyle. I mean, I was always the chubby kid growing up and I was afraid of change. I didn't do much about my position other than trying to be better at marching and being discontent with where I was.

A couple weeks later, my dad started having severe back pain. He took vacation days to avoid work, so I didn't think much of it because I believed it was just some muscle strains as he was healthy and didn't have really any obvious problems. However, it quickly came apparent that his pain wasn't something to be overlooked. After a couple of x-rays and scans during the summer, we found out he had some bulging discs. Now, almost 7 months later, we now know he has a degenerative bone disease that may or may not stem from cancer. (He's reluctant on getting a diagnosis in fear of becoming depressed) Now this caused a lot of change in my life in and outside of health. He's retiring, meaning my family is losing health insurance and the major source of our income. I've also become aware that I needed to take of my body for the future because he always sacrificed his well-being to make sure that our family was comfortable.

Between that time, my mom also got diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and got put on insulin shots after 6 months of being told to watch her blood sugar. If you're not familiar with diabetes, most pre-diabetic people can manage to not resorting to insulin for years, but my mother's lifestyle habits are so bad that she went from pre-diabetic to severe diabetes in a dangerously short amount of time. This was the biggest eye-opener for me since I got most of my eating habits from her.

With marching band being my only real source of exercise, I trained even harder at our practices. During the season (July-November), I want to say a lost about 15 pounds from my highest weight. This wasn't anything astounding because a lot of people in my band lose about 10 pounds participating, but it was pretty amazing for me because I never really experienced it so dramatically. However, marching band season ended, and I didn't know any real way to stay in shape. I fell to intuitive eating and managed to maintain my weight. December came around and I became sorely aware I needed to exercise because I felt physically awful. So, I asked my mother to get a gym membership, which she surprisingly agreed to despite the cost. I was terrified by the gym but excited because I knew my friend could lead me through. However, her seasonal depression made it hard for her to get out to the gym, and I was left to tackle exercising alone, leading to another plateau in weight loss. I was going twice a week, but I wasn't pushing myself or eating right.

Only a month ago, I discovered Reddit and found this community of such highly motivated people. The energy here is so positive and moving, and I lurked and became reinspired on my road to fitness. I started calorie restricting, tracking my good, and pushing myself a little more at the gym. However I'm not sure if I'm going about it the right way. MFP is putting me on a 1200 calorie restriction diet while other tdee calculators are varying between 1500 to 2000, putting my deficit at possibly vastly different numbers. The thing is, I haven't been following the 1200 calorie restriction well, usually falling between 1200-1600 everyday. I also have been using the weight machines and elliptical at the gym, usually 30 minutes each, 2 times a week. I've also been taking a 1 hour barre class offered at the gym. It's been 17 days and I've lost 3 lbs, but I don't know whether how I'm going about it is the best way. Just need some advice on what I should be doing. My goal is to lose weight and become stronger so I can be more agile and help lift things around the house. I should mention that I have bad knees and ankles, so there are some restrictions to what I can do. Visiting a nutritionist or dietitian is also out of the question because of the financial situation. At my last gp appointment in late December, I had a blood test done and everything came back normal except my CO2 and albumen. My gp also said my health was okay besides my stress. Thanks in advance for any possible advice!

Stats: 17yr/F. Height: 5'3" Highest weight: 147, SW:132 CW:129 GW: 117 (hopefully before I graduate in June)

Tldr: I've become aware I need to learn how to take care of myself before it's too late while finally trying for some weight goals. What is your recommendation for a safe and sustainable routine for a teen like me?

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Friday, March 8, 2019

My mom noticed my weight loss!

I went over to my parents to let them meet my new dog that I just adopted (ps:she’s on my page;)). And I have currently lost about 10lbs so far. My mom said she noticed that I had lost weight and it meant a lot! Because I thought the changes were so small and unnoticeable that even I could barely tell!

This helps me stay motivated and feel like my hard work isn’t going completely unnoticed.


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I went over to my parents to let them meet my new dog that I just adopted (ps:she’s on my page;)). And I have currently lost about 10lbs so far. My mom said she noticed that I had lost weight and it meant a lot! Because I thought the changes were so small and unnoticeable that even I could barely tell!

This helps me stay motivated and feel like my hard work isn’t going completely unnoticed.

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2 months of CICO

Hello. I’m hoping maybe some of you can guide me in my goal to lose some weight and let me know if I’m doing something wrong. I’ve been doing CICO for a solid two months now and have lost only 6 lbs. I’m not sure if there’s any underlying issue that’s making it hard for me to lose weight or anything. Here’s some info that might help figure things out:

Starting weight in January: 246 lbs Current: 240

I track everything that I eat and drink. I have coffee and tea a lot but I track it on MFP. Protein and veggie some days, other days pasta or so. All of January to mid-feb I limited myself to 1500 calories. From mid-feb to now I’m on 1200 calories/day. I’ve had maybe 6 cheat days all together.

I go to the gym 2-3 days a week and do cardio mostly. I’ll try to go more but right now my schedule only allows me to go this much.

I think I should have lost at least 10-15 lbs by now? I weigh myself every 5 days.

I count calories that are provided on the food packages or google (ex. Boneless chicken breads pan seared 50g calories). Should I invest in a food scale?

I am on low dose of anti depressants and a high dose of migraine meds (these specifically I cannot live without). Maybe these are hindering weight loss?

Any opinions/feedback is appreciated.

Thanks!

Edit: I’m going to put in that there are days where I only have time for one meal a day which would be 7-800 calories and a tea/coffee. It’s unhealthy, but I’ve had under 1000 calorie days so I know I am not overeating.

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I’m annoyed with people questioning how I’ve lost so much weight

I don’t mean question as in asking how I did it, which I don’t mind. That’s actually cool. But question as in assuming what I’m doing is unhealthy or making a snarky comment about how I’m doing it. People automatically assume I’m starving myself if they don’t see me eat. It’s so annoying. No, it’s called planning ahead and scheduling when you’re having your meals so you can control how many calories you’re taking in throughout the day. I’m still eating enough. I’ve done it through a combination of CICO and IF, neither of which are unhealthy. I’ve done so much research on these things. I’ve also been working out a lot. I wouldn’t be gaining muscle if I wasn’t eating enough. It’s been a good change for me. I feel better, I look better, and it has helped my self esteem. Why can’t people just be happy for me instead of being rude about it? Or sometimes people won’t say anything but I get a weird vibe because it seems like they’re talking to me and making eye contact with me differently now. And don’t even get me started on the whole “up-down” look followed by silence thing.

That having been said, I genuinely feel bad for those people too. I’m not trying to be rude, but the majority of those people are not in shape. People who workout and eat properly are normally the ones who don’t question it and if they do decide to comment, it’s a positive one. I’m actually getting fit, while all other people can do is make rude comments about it. The reason I feel bad for them though is because I know what it’s like to not know how to eat healthy and exercise properly. I was like that for the majority of my life. I know what it’s like to be super insecure. I still am. This is just one thing lifted off my shoulders. It just sucks that there’s so much misinformation about weight loss and nutrition out there. People obsess over what they’re eating when it doesn’t have to be that hard, and in turn obsess over what I’m eating.

I just wish people would keep their mouthes shut if they’re going to be rude though. I’d much rather they just ask how I did it and actually listen to me explain instead of making assumptions and automatically shunning me for how I’ve done it.

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How do I find balance after weight loss?

Hey everyone,

I'm 22F, a college senior, and recently lost 17 pounds (SW 167 CW 150) after doing an elimination diet. I have celiac and suspected I had other sensitivities, and eliminating certain foods made me feel a lot better/made the weight come off. I was thrilled about this and felt so good and confident for once!

However, I recently went on a family trip where most meals were served buffet-style/weren't the healthiest. I'm back at college now and have been trying to get back to healthy eating and workouts, but I've been eating out a bit and feel kind of gross again. It's senior spring semester and lots of friends want to go out and drink a lot, and all of this has been stressing me out.

I feel like I'm having a lot of trouble maintaining the weight loss and finding a healthy balance. Has this happened to anyone else? Do you have any advice? I'm trying not to be too hard on myself, but I'm also currently afraid to step on the scale right now.

Any help is appreciated - thank you so much.

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My first 90 days

Hello everyone!

It’s been 91 days since I began my endeavour into proper and committed weight loss. There’s been thrills, spills, pain and pleasure. It’s been fucking difficult, to be honest, Here’s my 90 day report,

I actually started back in May of 2018, where I was 271lbs/123kg. I didn’t put my entries in properly until around the 10th December, which is where the 90 days starts, You can see my full chart since the beginning here.

As it’s coming up to the end of my 91st day of proper committed weight loss, I thought I would impart my top 5 learned tips and tricks for steady loss here upon this wonderful community.

1. Go easy on yourself.

As some of you might see if the chart shows it properly, I took weight loss a little too seriously at the beginning. There’s a fine line between good, steady progress and crazy fast detriment. To be honest, I felt an immense amount of pride in the weight I’d lost to begin with, losing lbs and lbs. However, as much as you can lose A lot of weight very quickly and feel great about it, problems arise when sustainability is pulled into question. I found very quickly that I would crash and begin to creep over my maintenance calorie limit almost intermittently. Be careful with the speed of your weight loss and be aware that while losing a lot quickly is rewarding it may not be the best choice long-term.

2. Cardio and weights is the best option.

This one may be a little bit subjective but it has also been proven that individuals trying to lose weight, when under a program of cardio and resistance training, have lost substantially more weight than one or the other. I personally work on a program of six days a week training, where every day I’ll begin a weight session with 20 minutes of cardio. Sometimes it drops back to 5 due to fatigue but I’m always getting those sessions in. I’ve seen a significant improvement in my confidence due to my weightlifting efforts which I feel as though would not have come if I’d of been doing cardio alone.

3. Watch what happens in the kitchen.

As much as training as much as I do is beneficial for me, something that I’ve become increasingly aware of during my time of losing weight is that everything is done in the kitchen. If I’m on a day where I’ve done 12 miles of walking and an elliptical session and weight training, none of it will matter if I’m not getting the right nutrition. Nutrition is everything. Knowing what works for you in terms of calorie intake versus calorie expenditure is incredibly important. Aside from this, knowing what macros you prefer to intake can be beneficial but that’s not for everyone. One of the things I overlooked at the beginning was what macronutrients I was taking in. I quickly realised that I needed to increase my protein consumption in order to maintain a good level of muscle.

4. Forgive yourself for messing up.

I’ve had days where waves of depression and anxiety have washed over me and I couldn’t escape them in any other way than to eat. I did what I knew worked best and through that, I gained and gained lbs. You will see from my chart that I had ups and downs and that my loss has been very staggered. I am a stress eater, and the last couple of months have been very very difficult, This reflected in my weight loss. I have overeaten, I have spent money I couldn’t really afford on takeaways to fulfil my unhappiness, and I have regretted. One of the important things you must account for is that this will happen. You will have days where habits of old seep through the cracks and it’s hard, god knows it is - but to grit your teeth and fight through it, you must allow it to happen every now and then. It will become like a buildup and you will eventually let it all out at once, and I found that that is how individuals give up as quickly as they sometimes do.

5. Self-love is key.

One of the things I think a lot of people enduring weight loss don’t do frequently enough is reward themselves. Now I’m not talking about letting yourself have another roll of chocolate in the chocolate bar, i’m talking about looking in the mirror and feeling good about what you’ve done regardless of how far you are from where you want to be. God only knows that some days I would get up and look in the mirror, wanting to give up because I felt like I was getting nowhere. But I learned to look and find the positives. Despite my slow weight loss I’ve seen a significant improvement in the way I look and the attention that I get. I have developed an ego - which is not always a bad thing. As long as it is under control to have an ego is to reward oneself for the hard work put into achieve the goals achieved. While rewards that are physical - most specifically, edible - are beneficial, it’s important to let yourself know how well you’ve done.

That’s it, that’s all the tips that I have personally. One of the things you shouldn’t be scared of is to share how you feel about what you are doing. I’ve learnt this and this is why I’m here, to help individuals like me to feel comfortable with what they’ve achieved already, and to let them know that the light at the end of the tunnel does actually come.

In April, I will be doing something I have termed “Active April”, where every day will be a deficit day. Every day I will walk the required amount of steps. I will clean eat. I will train on my schedule days. I will work harder than I have been to get where I want to be. I’m thinking of doing it for charity and trying to hit 15lbs of weight loss during that period.

I think we should all try and have an active April, especially those of you reading through these Reddit posts wondering how are you going to start. Start now and join me in having an active April, and we can all just lose a few more pounds together.

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