Monday, April 15, 2019

Need to brag a little bit because I can’t tell my wife

My wife wanted to try a plant based diet and I said I would join her. We normally split the grocery shopping and the cooking depending on who is having the busier week, but for the last month she has really been into this and insisting on doing both. (I have happily become Dish Guy).

We’ve both also cut out dairy, and most alcohol.

After one month: I’ve lost 11 lbs, and wife had lost 3.5.

She is disappointed but not defeated, and weight loss was not her primary goal, anyway. But this morning after weighing herself, yeah, she is bummed. On the other hand, I was obese, whereas she is definitely not.

Meanwhile I am fucking ecstatic. I have about 15 more pounds to lose, but I know longer look/feel like I am smuggling a bowling ball under my shirt. My digestion is better. I look forward to gym days.

But I am not stupid, and will not (yet) express all this to my wife. I told her that her results sound really frustrating, and I know she’ll keep making progress. I told her I love her new recipes and I want her to teach me some. She’ll get to where she wants to be.

But meanwhile, hooray for me, Reddit. Thanks!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 15 April 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Recap of my weight loss journey and what went wrong

Hey guys, i've been struggling with weight (loss) for nearly my whole life (since around 8-9 years old), when i was 15 in 2016 i tried to stick to a diet but i just could'nt after eating junk for my whole life, so i started to just eat less and less, i started to weigh myself multiple times a day and only ate when i was comfortable with my progress, if i wasnt i would'nt eat until i was. Later i only ate one meal a day, i had school break during this time so i layed awake all night feeling hungry and watching videos of people eating fast food (i wonder how many people do that aswell). But it worked so i continued, i lost around 14 kilos (30 pounds) and my friends and family told me i looked great. This was around december of 2016. For the next couple of months i could not keep it up anymore and only maintained my weight. I started to eat nothing as long as i could (sometimes 30, 48 hours) and on other days i bing ate so i gained it all back. In July of 2017 i flew to Kazakhstan (visit family) and there i refused to eat almost always, i lost around 7-11 kilos in two weeks (didnt have a scale there) and was at my best in years (I attached a link). After i returned to germany i threw all of it over board and started to eat like when i was obese. I went from 101kg to 77kg in 9 months and lost all of it after. In the next two years i struggled with the weight and kept adding more pounds until it was worse then when i started out. It was also really stressful for my mom because she was so happy that i lost all the weight and hated it to see my general mood getting worse as i got fatter. I've now started a diet, yet again, i started on friday and its going well, when i woke up today i wanted to go to the store and get a bag of chips, i love chips (crisps for the brits), but then i saw a video from my favorite youtuber about his weight loss journey and how it changed his and life and i remembered how happy i used to be, then i didnt want the chips anymore, i just fell into bad and looked at old picturs of myself. I wanna stick to the diet, i want to be happy again.

I dont know if this is well written or if you enjoyed reading it, but thank you if you did.

Yours sincerly

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Sunday, April 14, 2019

So...when do people get nicer?

I started my weight loss journey last August and am down 55 pounds as of this week. I've been either overweight or obese my entire life, which hasn't been the best emotional ride. Sure, I've always had friends and a relatively good life from the outside, but I never felt truly liked or appreciated. It's as if the layers of fat made it difficult for people to see there was an actual human inside. Feeling particularly down one day last summer, I randomly came across a post on this forum about the wonders of people magically becoming friendlier after the OP lost weight. I was enthralled and searched for similar topics here and happily found so many posts with more or less the same message. I began to revel in the thought of society seemingly changing for the better overnight. I was at a point where it was almost laughable to see how quickly people would avert their eyes during conversation - I remember several incidents where I met up with friends I hadn't seen in awhile only for them to see me and quickly look away and avoid eye contact pretty much all night. It's like I was acknowledged for being present but still invisible, if that makes sense. But I saw a definite pattern and wondered if everyone was in on some master plan against me, like Truman Show-esque.

To give you some perspective, I'm in my 30s and am 5'1" with my highest weight reaching 190 last year but mostly hovering around the 160-170 range over the last decade. Petite but not horizontally petite by any means, though I've been told many times that I didn't appear to look anywhere near my high weight range.

I was perplexed by people's reactions to me mostly because it was so damn noticeable and I didn't think the degree in which people were treating me was warranted by my looks, personality, etc. Anyway, this part is a little nuts to me thinking back, but that's all it took to get me to finally lose weight. After reading that post, I simply wanted to see for myself whether or not people would actually become nicer. Thankfully, I'm here now, 55 pounds lighter with about 20 pounds to go (goal weight is 115). I am the same weight as I was in high school! I lost the weight with CICO and some IF, nothing surprising to anyone here.

Anyway, point is, EVERYONE IS EXACTLY THE SAME. If anything, people are even more effing obnoxious because I kid you not people (strangers/coworkers/friends) will stare directly at me, and when I notice and look in their direction, they won't even avert their eyes. No smile or even a look of hatred, just staring. So I guess it's the opposite problem because now they're looking at me, but still kinda the same situation?

So when is all the love and kindness going to start trickling in? For those of you who've experience the extra attention, friendliness, and just general fuzzy love from society, when did that start?

Btw, since posts are somewhat tone deaf, I am being partly facetious here but also genuinely curious. All in all though, aside from some strange staring people, I am SO MUCH HAPPIER in life. This forum is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Thank you all!

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Monday, 15 April 2019

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Today my 6 year old stepson, who absolutely adores and loves me told me: "When I grow up I want to be fat like you!". Well if this doesn't make me get back on track and losing weight, nothing will.

I was over 600 pounds in September 2017. I lost 235 pounds over 14 months.

Over the last 6 months I found a girl, fell in love, moved in with her, and got married.

With all of this new stuff in my life, I kinda let the weight loss slip and haven't lost anything in the last 6 months. I've stayed on the diet, still eating clean for the most part but have been eating too much and starting to use food as an emotional crutch again. I have to realize that binging on chicken and salad might not be as bad as pizza and donuts, but its still bad.

Today with my stepson saying that to me, knowing how much he loves me, hurt me so much. The last thing I want for him is to be fat like me. I have to do this for myself, but more than me, I have to do this for my stepson and for my future kids.

This was a wake up call. Time to get back on track and break through the plateau.

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Any tips on how to take advantage of ramadan/fasting to lose weight ?

First of all I'm so grateful for this community. It really helps being exposed to people this driven and this helpful, really does motivate me to stick to my goal, especially with the WWoW challenge going on.

I just had a little question if any of you can help me: Ramadan being only 2 weeks away I'd like to know if htere is any good plan to maximise weight loss during it.

So far, I have set myself the goal of not over-eating during the fast-break, where the calories cas easily pile up, and drinking a lot of water at night, but I don't know how to approach the exercise side of things.

Is going to the gym in the afternoon when you haven't eaten or drunk for 12-15 hours feasible/healthy ? What practices would you recommend to take ful ladvantage of the fast ?

Thanks in advances friendos. :')

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