Sunday, June 16, 2019

A summer away from home and stress to learn how to properly diet and control myself

Hi all, long time lurker here who finally made an account.

Basically, I just feel really good right now, for the first time in my entire obese life (highest weight 325lbs) I havent stuck with something longer than two weeks. Today marked the fourth week of staying with my chosen weight loss "program", that being intermittent fasting. Starting May 27th, I've been studying in Germany, and I'll be here until the end of August. I've used the time I've already been here getting used to fasting and decreasing my eating window little by little as I get more comfortable. The only other thing I'm doing is CICO. I debated doing keto but it's my belief that the only diet that works is the one that you do forever, and I really love bread, so I'm working on learning how to eat cleanly and building up my discipline and resilience to the foods I crave. Those being fast food like McDonalds for the most part.

Already, I've gone down two holes on my belt loop. I'm so excited that I've got 2 and a half more months of basically being in this bubble, away from all the worries and stresses I have back home. I believe I can quash my cravings to gorge myself on double quarter pounders and drink gallons of coke, build up my willpower to keep from doing those things when I return.

I don't have a scale here, so I won't know what I weigh until I go home, which kind of excites me. When I left I was between 295 and 305, so I have my fingers crossed for big and healthy losses!

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Have 80+ lbs to lose and feeling hopeless

I had PPD and got up to around 244 lbs. I then lost 100 lbs, tracked my macros, did a lot of lifting, etc. But I was still so devasted by how I looked. It was nothing like before. I had an enormous amount of loose skin and doing any sort of cardio hurt a lot because of it. I was thin-ish, but my stomach stuck out. My breasts had deflated.

I got a lift and breast implants thinking it would boost my self esteem. I did look a ton better, but the lift was mediocre and the surgery caused a great deal of pain. This was almost a year ago and it still hurts.

Since all that I've gained most of the weight back due to depression. I know I need to lose it again, but I don't have the same motivations as before, thinking I'd look like my 20 year old self again.

I've looked through reddit for success stories to help with the motivation, but couldn't find any I felt a connection to. The successful ones all seemed to have had weight loss surgery or they starting running 20+ miles a week, or took up mountain climbing, or something of that sort. Not anything simple like, "I tracked my macros and here are my awesome results."

I know I don't need motivation, only discipline. But I do need some sort of driving force to do this, other than knowing I probably should.

Anyway, this was mostly just a rant. Thank you to whoever took the time to read this.

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Please help me understand, weight loss isn't working and I'm so confused

5'5

CW: 179

SW: 196

Female

Age: 22

I'm really confused by everything I know about weight loss. About 5 years ago I got from 180 down to 135, but put it all back on. I lost that weight by eating 800 calories a day, and it made me lose about 1lb a week. I know this is unhealthy, but it's what worked and I was young and had disordered eating. My other understanding is <1200 calories a day is unhealthy and unsustainable. My calculations of BMR/TDEE say that I should lose 2lb a week by eating 1170 calories. And I'm very overweight. My other understanding is that as you lose weight, you have to decrease and adjust your calorie intake to keep losing weight. But if I'm almost obese (BMI is 29) and the only way to lose 2lb/week is to eat LESS than 1200 calories, how can that possibly be? I'm eating 1200 calories a day at the moment, and I'm not losing anything. I've gained 5lb this past week. I track everything accurately as my first assumption was that I was eating more than I thought. But I'm definitely eating 1200 calories a day. I only lose small amounts of weight when I drop it to 800-1000 calories a day. But this isn't healthy or sustainable. Does anyone have an explanation of how I'm only losing weight on low calories, and how I'm supposed to continue to lose weight loss if I can't eat less than 1200, but my calculations show that I should be eating maximum 1170/day to lose 2lbs/week? I'm getting really down and it's affecting my mental health so much. I'm trying so hard. I'm eating wholefoods (I'm vegan) and cut out all junk food. I'm so lost, am I stuck being overweight forever? Is it possible I have a bad metabolism and that's why I only start losing weight at 800-900 calories/day?

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Day 1.... Again

Hello all! I have been on this weight loss and better health journey for a few years now with more learning success than scale success. I’ve learned that small, consistent changes are what work best and that I need to be watchful of how many bad”treats” or “chest days” I allow myself as they tend to spiral out of control. Last year I managed to lose 20pounds but have gained it all back. I’m a 28F, 5’4, currently weighing in at about 170. I just ran my first half marathon and am now training for a full in December. December is now my goal month to lose 40-50lbs. The half marathon was hard but doable. But there is no way I can run a full at 170! My motivation for fitness is setting an example for my son, being actively involved in his life ( no sidelines for me), for quality of life, and so that I can grow old and go on adventures with my husband. Last week I cut out all refined sugar and today I will begin weekly weigh ins along with measuring. I have also purchased a planner specifically for health planning/journaling. My biggest issues in the past have been making things too complicated. So my rules this time around for the eating portion are really simple. 1. No refined sugar 2. Carbless dinners 3. Calorie counting at my BMR ( Currently 1700) For fitness I am beginning a preplanned marathon training 18 week course so that should take care of itself. I’m really excited to be here to share this journey with you all! I hope that my story can encourage others out there.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 16 June 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Small victory from 395lbs to 385.7lbs

Hi all,

I started my journey at r/loseit a week ago. I was desperate and didn’t know where to start. I was 395 lbs and very desperate because nothing seems to work for me. Some of you recommended to make small sustainable adjustments and work from there, that no Personal Trainer was needed . Guess what? You started a revolution with my weight loss journey. It might seem simple advise, but very powerful when you realize what it means.

I was presented with more than 6 or more opportunities to make bad decisions and make wrong food choices and I didn’t fall for any of them. Planning my meals ahead helped me combat these situation with whatever the “treat” was .( sweet, salty or savory) which is usually what I get cravings for!(this will highly depend on your tastes). Anyhow, planning ahead WORKS! if I’m able to do it , anybody who’s determined will accomplish this!

After a week of having a weigh in routine, preparing breakfast,lunch and dinner with portions being controlled and a determination to make good decisions, I finally reached 385.7 lbs on my last weigh in for the week on Friday. I’ve never felt this in control of myself and I really appreciate the encouragement and advise. You all rock!

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Saturday, June 15, 2019

Help with control?

So I’ve been struggling with a lot of stress for the past year or so and it’s resulted in a lot of weight gain. I can remember being ~125 at the start of freshman year, but lately I haven’t even bothered checking for fear of what my actual weight would be (though it’s almost certainly over 135, which is borderline overweight for a 5’4 lady). I’ve been regularly eating 2000+ calories a day, just eating whatever makes me feel good in that moment even if I’m not hungry or feel disgusting afterwards. It’s caused even more stress which translates into late-night snacking, binging and occasional purging + an incredible insecurity about my weight. I’ve tried sticking to weight loss methods in this order: keto (lasted a week before giving in to cravings), vegetarian/vegan (another week), CICO (a month), exercising at the gym (I haven’t gone in two months since AP week became an excuse to stop going), OMAD (couldn’t even stick with it for a day before mentally convincing myself I wasn’t overweight and it was fine). I can feel my impulsiveness and cravings getting stronger and stronger. I have no idea what to do or where to go from here. Does anyone have any tips on how to achieve weight loss when most people around you advocate overeating? My parents work and eat out nearly every day, and cooking my own food seems possible but proves to be a challenge once I can motivate myself to get off the couch. I feel like if I could find a way to control myself, I wouldn’t feel so disgusting 24/7. I’m aware that I might not be trying as hard as I need to, but sometimes I literally can’t stop myself even if I feel disgusting as I’m eating. I find it easy to get myself in the mindset but oftentimes it becomes just as easy to snap out of it if my siblings happen to be eating bread...

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