Sunday, July 28, 2019

My loved ones joked about my weight and that’s how my most successful weight loss attempt started. [26F]

5 months ago, I started what would be my most successful weight loss attempt by far. It started one fateful weekend in March where my parents and boyfriend joked about my weight on 2 separate occasions on the same weekend. My feelings got really hurt. Back then, my weight was 71 kg. I wasn’t happy about it and I already knew I was overweight. They didn’t need to point it out. Those were my main thoughts at that time.

The pain and hurt became a turning point in my determination to shed the weight. I started reducing my carb intake and became more disciplined in logging my calories. I joined a fitness interest group and did Tabata with them once a week on my lunch break. I go to gym to do weights on weekends. Whenever I felt my motivation flag, I would remember that feeling of being made fun of. I would remind myself the benefits of not being overweight like. “Do you want that snack or do u want to be xx.x kg (the next goal weight)” became my mantra. More recently last month, I started intermittent fasting. It was a no brainer, it’s much easier to do nothing vs trying to cook one more healthy meal.

Since then I have lost 8kg. I just weighed in at 63kg this morning. Recently, people around me are noticing I’m slimmer now.

If you are still here, thank you for reading my story. Sometimes the truth hurts coming from your loved ones. Pain can be a great motivator as I have discovered for myself. Cheers and have a great week ahead. :)

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The hardest thing I've ever posted

Hi all,

Over the course of 2 years, I lost over 100lb. https://imgur.com/a/drSqOYh

That was the beginning of the worst 1.5 years of my life to date. When I was at my lowest weight, I thought the lifetime I spent struggling with my health was over. Boy, was I wrong.

Over the course of my weight loss journey, I picked up some habits that were healthy at first, eg eating less junk food, regularly going to the gym. However, over time, I began to take those healthy habits to the extreme and they became unhealthy. I worked out for hours and hours each day till my body ached. I was terrified to eat anything that was not low calorie and healthy. I developed a full blown eating disorder and I was fucking miserable.

One thing I learned the hard way was that my body was ready to fight back against the abuse. I started binging. Everything was spiraling, and I would try to work off the binge at the gym, only to binge again.

I finally got help and I can happily say that I am in recovery and in a much better place mentally now. However, I gained a fair amount of weight while I was binging. I'm ready to get to a healthy place physically, but it's hard because I do not want to go down the same path I went the first time.

I guess I just want to share what I've been going through as a step in the right direction and for y'all's support and advice. Sorry for the long post.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 28 July 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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A bit confused on advice I got

I've been on my weight loss journey a while now but my weight has barely moved on the scale. In fact it's gone up?

This is an example of what I eat in a day. https://imgur.com/oayP4iX Pretty much everyday is just like this. I don't really stray much and I've been doing this for a few months now. I'm 29, male and I was at 163 lbs but now i'm at 165.

I go to the gym every day but sunday and lift for about an hour and then cardio for another.

A person at my gym told me that I needed to actually eat more in order to start losing weight. Like, 1,000 calories more but my tdee is about 1800. I'm a bit conflicted, hoping I could get some tips here.

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I lost the extra 10 kgs I gained last year over a tough phase, so close to being in the normal weight range! (A free lesson in description)

I started weight loss journey in February this year, but been on and off, because... raisins! I lost about 7kgs and then, this month, I was out on a long distance hiking trail, which I read "overweight people should not attempt, considering the difficulty level", so, I was scared, but did it, anyway; and it helped me lose weight, too! I am fitting back in all my old clothes now, feeling smug about finishing that trail, and now, only 2-3 kgs more to lose, before I am in the normal range! Woop woop!

Also, something I learnt! In the beginning, I was so keen on following an ideal schedule, and it worked for a bit, but then, I started resenting it! For instance - I started my day with hot lemon water, and I am not a big fan of hot water, especially, in the mornings (unless in form of coffee!) and I found it hard to get out of bed thinking that the first thing I need to do is to go to kitchen and gulp a drink I don't like. Later, I switched it with coffee, and started looking forward to sitting in kitchen peacefully, sipping my coffee, and scheduling the day, etc. TL;DR - So yeah, it's okay to not do the ideal stuff (which you think is ideal!), tweak it a little, and enjoy the journey!

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Starting on weight loss journey. Its going to be a long one for me.

So I am 38 years old male. 300 lbs, 6 ft 1 inch tall. Been smoking and drinking for last 15 years. 4 days back I was in ER. My Blood pressure was 250/150. Doc said it was a miracle I didn't have a Stroke on the way to hospital. I have chronic Blood pressure.

I gave up smoking and drinking 4 days back. And am trying to regain control of my life.

I have started walking about 4-5 Kms daily combined for past 3 days in two parts, morning and evening. Is it ok for a start? Need advice.

My walk stats are https://m.imgur.com/a/ugO0pTS

Did not record the first day.

My weight loss journey is very important for me, my kids and my family.

I have been irresponsible till now. Trying to correct it

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Saturday, July 27, 2019

How Do You Overcome A Bad Week?

I write this as I am beginning to realize summer break is taking a toll on my weight loss. This past week alone I have gone over my daily allotted amount of calories almost every day and I am beginning to freak out. It is becoming harder to keep dropping how many calories I can eat since that's what MyFitnessPal is estimating. I started with being allowed 1900 calories. Now I am at 1700 and I'm feeling hungry all the time. Even after fluids I am still hungry. I haven't gained or loss weight, but I'm still upset because I'm stuck again.

Today I went over by probably 600 calories and had a panic attack because my biggest fear is gaining weight back. I've struggled so much with yo-yoing and I'm 5 pounds from my original goal. But now I feel I need to lose even more weight after I hit my goal.

I've been lifting weights, but haven't been consistent because stuff keeps getting in the way. I have so far been able to only get maybe two sessions in a week and ideally I want at least 3 to start. My hope is that it can help tighten things up and make me look leaner.

And what made tonight worse is someone who I won't name said a joke that I'm going to get my jiggles back if I eat that way. This same person has also said I might want to keep my 38 and 40 inch pants aka my "fatboy" pants, as they call them, just in case I gain it all back in a year. This person just doesn't realize how much hearing that messes me up and makes me really hate life. I don't know if this person realizes how bad I feel about my body, even though I say, "God I am so fat and ugly," out loud every day multiple times a day. I think they feel I'm just joking.

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