Sunday, August 4, 2019

I did it, I went to the gym for the first time.

It's a small accomplishment but just going 20min on the elliptical with a 10min walk outside, I already feel like I'm taking control of my weight.

I got engaged a few months ago and I couldn't help but think about what I weighed when I first met my fiancé (115lb) to my current weight (145lb). I want to feel comfortable in my skin again and not feel super self-conscious about my weight. Doesn't help that I avoid family gatherings because certain people tend to point out my weight gain.

Slow and steady, 30min workouts will get me started and I know I can get back to confidence I had. And build some muscle and stamina to boot!

I just want to remind those who are like me, scared to start working out, not finding any motivation, etc.

YOU CAN DO THIS. Even if it's a 10min walk outside, 10min bike ride, 10 push-ups, it may seem small but it's a start. A great start to achieving your weight loss goals. Something is always better than nothing.

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I’m not going to let 4 pounds become 40

Over this past year, I’ve lost roughly 60 pounds. I’m so proud of myself and my quality of life has gone up. However 2 weeks ago, I went on vacation with some of my friends and decided to take a break from calorie counting as well since it was only a weekend trip and I told myself that I’d get right back on track when I got home. The day I got home was my mom’s birthday so I thought that since I had been indulging all weekend, what was the harm in one more day? Ever since then, I haven’t been tracking or eating as well as I should. The night before I left for my trip, I weighed in at a new low-138.8 lbs. This morning I was 143 lbs.

I’m getting back on track today. I have come way too far to start going back the way I was before. If I start eating at my weight loss deficit again, I can be at my low weight again in about a month.

Yesterday, I went shopping for the first time in a long time. It was actually fun! I instinctively reached for xl tops. They didn’t fit. Neither did a large. I haven’t worn a medium shirt since middle school. But that’s what fits now, and even smalls depending on the brand! I reflected on how a year ago, nothing I liked fit me. And what did fit didn’t look good on me. Thinking of that experience made me realize that I’m at a point where I can keep down the path I’m on or I can start again today. Right now, a 4 lb gain is nothing but I won’t let these 4 lbs become 40. I never want to get back to the point where I was.

So today, I logged my breakfast and have been back meal prepping to stay in my calorie goals. Here’s to getting back on track and reminding myself that progress isn’t linear!

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Rant: I'm disappointed with myself

I regained 10lbs and I pretty much hate myself for doing it.

----weight loss journey----

I'm a natural perfectionist, so I procrastinated a lot before going on this weight loss journey. My mother was an emotional overeater and has lost about 75ish pounds. I've seen how hard it was for her to lose weight and the emotional rollercoaster losing weight was on her, so I was also in a state of denial that I need to lose weight. It hit me that I needed to lose weight when I did a simple BMI and body % check at a grocery store. I was/am considered to be overweight. My mother had several health problems because of her weight--knee replacements, spine problems, heart problems, etc. Knowing that my stats were unhealthy made me question how I had been living and eating.

I'm in a happy relationship with the person I love. When I first met my future spouse I weighed around 125lbs. Since meeting my spouse I've gained "happy pounds," termed by my friend. I didn't have a problem about the way I looked because my spouse made me feel beautiful every day. I love my spouse very much, so realizing that my weight and percent fat could potentially shorten my time with my spouse shocked me into action.

I then went on a 1200 calorie plan (ish) and lost weight. It was hard losing weight and it was hard emotionally. When I lost weight I would compare myself to "skinny" people and just not feel like I'd measure up. Motivated by my competitive personality, I would promise to work harder and be better. When I was at my lowest weight in this journey, 155lbs, I felt amazing. I was proud of myself and felt that I was on top of the world.

Trouble brewed when I had to start a new job that required me to be on my feet about 12 hours a day /5days. I became stressed out with my supervisor, my own high expectations of myself, and the fast-paced environment of my job. As a result, I wasn't able to work my 1200 calorie plan because of time constraints, physical fatigue, and emotional fatigue. I stopped weighing in because I knew that I would gain weight because I was overeating and I was scared to admit that I was undoing my progress. Just like when I started, I randomly checked out my weight and height on a station. At first I thought that my new job would help me lose weight and be healthier because I'm much more physically active, but in actuality, my percent body fat is higher than when I worked the plan.

---- end ----

It may seem small to be disappointed over re-gaining 10lbs, but every time I lost a pound I celebrated and every pound I gained I'd feel upset. I know that if I started up the plan I could lose weight, but I don't know if I am ready anymore. I'm frustrated, resentful, and disappointed with myself. I don't like looking in the mirror and I don't like to watch TV because I don't want to feel like I'm losing to other people.

I wrote this post because I wanted to formally acknowledge my feelings by putting my thoughts, story, and feelings out into the internet. Thank you

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A question for people who have lost and then regained 100+ lbs

Assuming you had loose skin after losing the 100+ (as most do), did the regain fill it back out? If your boobs deflated, did they re-inflate? Did saggy arm skin, thigh, and tummy skin fill out with fat and look 'normal' again?

I ask, because I'm not losing the weight for the reason most people here probably are (health, aesthetic) I'm losing it because I'm transgender (nonbinary) and the gendered way fat collects on my body has caused me a lot gender dysphoria. I've always intensely envied people who were thin simply because they have a better chance of passing as androgynous in our society.

The reason I didn't lose weight sooner is because I was afraid of loose skin and if I'm being honest, I felt and still feel I could be happier with myself fat than with a lot of loose skin.

I've reached the point in weight loss where I'm beginning to notice a good amount of wrinkling in my right inner thigh. I also have 'bingo wings'... they still feel like they have a lot of fat in them yet though so I'm not sure if they will or won't become smaller. My 42 DD boobs have deflated, but I've always intended to either get top surgery (full removal) or a drastic reduction to help me feel comfortable in my body as a transgender/nonbinary person anyway so I'm a little less concerned of that.

I'd already lost 40 lbs over the past few years just naturally after recovering from a severe depressive episode, but only decided to to start making an actual effort to lose more a few months ago.

I guess what I'm asking is, if I decide I can't handle the loose skin and cannot access surgery to fix it, would regaining the weight put me back where I was before the loss gave me loose skin or am I going to be stuck looking weird and baggy even after regain?

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Issues with seeing weight loss?

So I have been on my weight loss journey for around 12 weeks now, I am down 27 pounds (190 - 163). However, I am really struggling to see any changes at all. I have been a long time lurker and notice that people will have NSV’s such as clothes fitting differently etc, but, I have not experienced anything like this. All my clothes seem to fit the same as they used to and I can see no physical differences, even when comparing progress photos. I have had a lot of people telling me to give it time, but I am struggling a lot with this at the moment and it is starting to impact my mental health. Has anyone experienced this same thing and can maybe give me some advice?

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Why can’t I do this?

I’m feeling so discouraged and unmotivated. It’s so sad that I can’t lose weight. I’ve been at this so long I don’t even know how long. I can’t stop overeating. I can’t seem to find the right kinds of foods to stay full throughout the day. I tried Keto and fell out of it. I try counting calories and consistently go over or have trouble logging foods. I just feel like maybe I’m not going to be able to do this. I’m so unhappy and seeing myself the way I am just makes it worse. :( I hate the way I look and feel.

250 lb male 6’ - have been on this weight loss kick for almost 10 years if you can even call that. I feel so pathetic.

How can I stay full without getting so many calories? I’m so discouraged and sad.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 04 August 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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