Friday, November 8, 2019

Should weight loss be this unnoticeable?

So please don't judge me if this question is dumb. I just don't know much about weight loss.

So when I started out on losing weight a month ago I weighed 69.9kg or 154.2lbs. Now a month later I weight 66.7kg/ 147.2lbs. I am 25yo and 6ft tall and while this weight may not seem like much for my height, I have very little muscle mass so I'm skinny fat I guess? Something like that, I have fat on my belly and a lot on my ass and thighs which I don't like (I'm a guy). Anyway while it's obvious that I have lost some weight, and while I know it's not a lot of weight to lose, I have to say it's still a bit disappointing that it's not reflected on my body as much as I thought it would. Am I doing something wrong here or is this normal?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 08 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Mental block - appreciating my 95 lb loss after yo-yo

4 years ago, I lost 150 lbs. I then regained 160. Devastating, as you can imagine. I have diagnosed binge eating disorder and thought I'd been treating it (counseling, meds), but I got in a shame spiral after I reached my weight goal and my disordered thinking was as bad as ever.

I've now lost 95. That rocks. But emotionally I don't even feel like I've accomplished anything. It is like my brain isn't even allowing me to be proud of myself. Sometimes I can recognize negative thoughts like, "Well, you're still 60 lbs over your lowest" and "Just making up lost ground," but most of the time I just feel nothing. Not mad at myself, but not proud of myself. Almost dissociated from the loss.

Intellectually, I am able to be very proud of myself and list off accomplishments. I went back into treatment. I surrounded myself with even more support (continued counseling instead of short term, 2x/week recovery meetings, better commitment to my meds and a psychiatrist instead of GP, fully accepting my eating disorder including the restrictive voice it has, more daily mental health practices). But I feel zero excitement over my weight loss.

It's not the first time I've yo-yo'd. I'd lost 50 and 85 in two prior weight loss attempts, then regained it and more. All three times I got into a certain weight range and then started regaining (um hello need to explore this in therapy... I am pretty sure that is the weight I was when I had a significant adolescent trauma). But I was able to still be excited for my progress each subsequent attempt. Maybe because I went "further" than my prior attempts in terms of total lost? Maybe I have more fear than I realize about history repeating itself?

Any suggestions for how I can emotionally drop my barricade and feel proud of myself, get in touch with the reality of the changes I've made? I'll talk to my therapist as well, but I'm between insurance for a few weeks so on a little hiatus from my regular appointments.

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Thursday, November 7, 2019

Does anyone else stop visiting this Sub-Reddit when they go off the deep end with their weight loss?

Three and a half years ago I started this journey at 220 lbs in May 2016. I had gotten to 135 by December that same year, admittedly through some healthy ways and some not so healthy ways.

By Novemberr of 2017 I had been maintaining for a while at 130, I was happy and confident there. But then I met my boyfriend and I got happy and gained 30lbs by June of 2018 because I got lazy and I noticed while I was gaining the weight I stopped visiting here, maybe because it was me avoiding holding myself accountable or something.

I eventually got back down to 130 by like March/April of 2019, slower than I would have liked but I was so happy to be back at my goal weight. It didn't last long, by September this year I was at 155, and I once again noticed that I stopped visiting this Sub-Reddit while I was losing the weight again, just I just actively avoided it at all costs, a bit of shame and not holding myself accountable to my actions. As if I were to visit this Sub-Reddit it would make my situation of gaining back weight "real" to me.

Well I am back! I don't particularly comment or post but I used to lurk religiously. I'm currently 143 as of today and I am eager to back to my goal weight.

Hopefully this time I can keep it up, but I think so as later this month I'm moving so I can actually use a real kitchen without anxiety (due to my current living situation and some people I'm with).

Hopefully I can make good meals with my boyfriend, meal prep, and just hold myself accountable, I don't want to gain the weight back and I need to take the appropriate actions to lose and maintain healthily. Probably should go see a dietician or therapist to help with my binging problems.

This post is longer than I expected, but I was just curious if others did the same when they gained weight back .

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Weight loss with limitations?

Hi guys, I'm a new follower to this sub but man do I have a situation. You'll need a bit of my health backstory. I was super skinny for years and years. I had to gain weight to stabilize my very low blood pressure, and then I was put on antipsychotics and gained thirty pounds in a month. I have PCOS, and therefore an insulin resistance. I also have hashimotos, and am still on antipsychotics that slow the metabolism. After a struggle with a miscarriage, I worked hard and lost 30 pounds (from 190 to 157) before getting pregnant through IVF with my son. I went to the gym 4-5 days a week, and found I really love working out, as it's also very good for my mental health. Baby was born, I had complications. I had seven surgeries over the summer to resolve them. Before pregnancy, I had fatigue and joint pain and muscle weakness, but post pregnancy it got worse. Way, way worse. There's now visible joint damage to my bones in x-rays. It's looking like sero-negative rheumatoid arthritis, although an official diagnosis is still pending. I'm back into the 180s. I keep trying to re-institute an exercise routine but my body fatigues so quickly and I have a ton of inflammation and pain. I can barely care for my baby most days, and had to hire help due to excessive pain. I'm trying to get my diet back under control, but with all my metabolic issues I really struggle just maintaining my weight when I can't include a hefty exercise routine. Worse, the last problem. I'm on so many medications for my health problems that I often feel very nauseous. I need to eat every couple hours to not feel very sick, and usually something more carb based to settle everything. I am recording calories and starting to cut sugar and carbs, but after three months of a calorie "deficit" I gained three more pounds. I'm feeling hopeless and I know my medical problems will make it harder but I don't know what to change next to make this happen.

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Weight loss calculators keep recommending me 800 calories a day to lose 2 lbs a week?

Hey all, I'm wrapping up my first week of CICO and it's worked out great so far, lost 4 lbs since I started! I know that the first week is just going to be a lot of water weight and stuff, and I can expect a slower but steady weight loss trend from now on if I keep it up. I'm trying to shoot for losing 2 lbs a week and have been pretty good about keeping my intake to around 1200 calories a day and just doing some yoga every other day. This is what I have done in the past and has worked for me before.

Today though I tried out some TDEE calculators and set it for weight loss, and many of them gave me a ~800 daily calorie intake to lose 2 lbs a week. Obviously I'm not going to listen to that and plan on sticking to 1200, but is it just impossible for me to lose 2 lbs/week at a healthy rate? I thought 1200 would basically guarantee that.

My stats are F 23, 5'8" and currently 157 lbs, trying to get down to 145 lbs.

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Quick share!

It's my(23F, 5'6) first time posting here- just wanted to share my joy and hopefully motivate a few people at the same time! I don't have a set goal weight, but I would like to end up somewhere around 130 if possible.

Growing up, I was a figure skater and easily kept my weight close to 120lbs while eating absolute crap. I had to quit skating in my mid teens due to knee injuries, and I admittedly fell into quite the depression at the same time because it was my passion and I had to pull out. This manifested in a quick weight gain, and by grad only a couple years later I was about 190lbs and absolutely uncomfortable, but also unwilling to acknowledge or do anything about it. To be fair, I was struggling a lot with my knees still. I'm now 3 surgeries in, with more to come as 'maintenance' when I eventually need them.

3 years ago almost exactly, I went vegan(that's another story, but the switch was never about weight. Moreso a combination of realizing what I was eating, and ethics). I stayed close to my original weight for the first 2 years, though I did notice other changes like my skin clearing up and less digestive issues. I ate a lot of 'vegan junk food's like fake chicken strips and pasta, because that's what I knew how to cook. Then, last October, I switched positions at work to one that requires a ton of lifting and I now put in about 25,000 steps a day on average. I slowly started losing weight then, which has motivated me to continue!

Since then, I've tried to make more whole food swaps, eat a little cleaner, pack my lunches, etc. This summer, I started practicing yoga. After adding that in, I'm proud to say that today I'm down to 155 lbs... 155! I haven't seen that since about grade 9, and while it isn't by any means the biggest loss or greatest weight loss journey that I've seen posted here, I am so proud of myself for doing better. I feel better, I have more energy, and I naturally eat better because I know that I feel better when I do! My knees bother me a little less, probably a mix of having less weight on and the strength coming back with yoga. I can tell that I am in better shape, I can feel and see my muscle tone. I'm excited to see what else I can do!

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