Saturday, November 9, 2019

Comments about my weight loss make me very uncomfortable

I’ve attended a gathering that mostly consisted of people that’ve had known me for 5+ years, and as soon as I entered the room the main subject was everyone’s instant shock over my weight loss, nobody even “opened” the convo with the usual “hey, how are you?” everybody immediately started commenting about how different I look now, what’s my secret, what exercises I’ve been doing, one person even said that I look “half the size I was last year”. It just felt horrible, being put in unwanted center of attention, even though I believe everyone’s remarks came from good intentions, I’ve always tried to hide my body and flaws as much as possible and now listening to all this just made me feel really bad about the old version of myself, it felt like I’ve been walking around with dog poop on my head and everyone had to deal with it without telling me and now that I’ve finally got rid of it I’m being praised for making everyone’s life easier.

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SV and NSV- After plateauing for a month or more, I am finally in the 60s!

SV: My weight had plateaued for maybe around 6 weeks, anywhere between 70.5kg to 73kg and I was SO frustrated. I knew I needed to change something to kick start it again but despite the frustration, I just kept being lazy.... 6 years of weight loss efforts told me I either needed to eat less (but I love food, wahh) or do more. Then I remembered I'd gone from 10+ active hours a week around the farm, plus riding nearly every day, to only 4-5 hours and no riding. Welp! So even though I don't get paid for it, I've made it a point to go out every two days to pick up horse shit. Not a huge difference in physical activity, over the week it might add up to another 3-5 hours depending how many horses we have in, but apparently it was just the shift I needed- this mornings weigh in read 69.9kg. JUST in the 60s but I'll take it! Bonus point, I find picking up manure to be therapeutic- going from messy yards to pristine clean ones makes me feel good.

Side note: I logged into MFP recently after a LONG break, like a year or two. My goal weight was 75kg- when I orginally set that (from 92kg at the time, 102kg top weight), I truly believed I'd never be 'really' slim, and that 75 was probably the best I could get. I thought my 170cm frame (5'7" for those not playing at home) would just be fat forever.... However by the time I did log back in, I'd already smashed that goal. Don't cut yourself short ladies and gents! I mean it- I *believed* with every ounce of my soul that I was destined to be fat forever, and here I am now merely 6-8kg from my ideal weight. It's taken me forever, I've learned what works for me and what doesn't, for the first few years my weight went up and down like noones business, but for the last 2 it's been steady- albeit slow. Don't give up.

NSV: A few weeks ago I posted about fitting into size 12 clothes for the first time in my adult life. I still can't believe it, like even though my wardrobe is predominantly 12s now (with a couple of 10s!) I keep feeling like the tags must be wrong, I am still definitely fat. I suspect it's going to take my brain a long time to catch up with my body shape and what not. But my NSV is that I went to the races on the weekend- Derby Day which meant black and white only- and honestly I felt amazing. Well, at least until my shape wear started riding up and giving me the ultimate day long wedgie, but that aside... I was in a size Medium dress, tanned, heels, makeup, lashes, fascinator, clutch.... I feel like the world is opening up for me fashion wise. Previously I would find stuff that fit me, sometimes even attempted to flatter my shape, but I never felt AMAZING in those clothes like I do now.

Unfortunately I didn't get a decent full length shot on the day, but this is trying everything on (sans iron, hair, makeup and nails), and this is my makeup etcon the day.

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NSV - Secondhand Shopping

Hi everyone! Obligatory stats: 5'7.5" HW: 200 LW: 148 CW: 159

My weight loss journey started about 2 and a half years ago - my senior year of college. At the time, secondhand and thrift shopping were starting to be the cooler option and I was excited to get some unique and sustainable pieces. At my higher weights, I struggled a lot. While there were probably the same amount of options for me when I was a size 12, the misfits hit me harder.

Today, I went shopping for a winter jacket and, as usual, got distracted in the racks. I tried on a pair of vintage pants - size 10 - and they did NOT fit. Usually, I'm a size 6/8. When I was a size 12, if I had tried on a size 16 and not been able to get it above my hips, I would have probably spent the night feeling bad about myself (and eating a Ben & Jerry's).

Even though my weight creeped up from my low weight, it's creeping back down again. I'm happy that I'm finally able to go about losing (and shopping) in a healthy manner. When I was first losing weight, I might have used an ill-fitting pair of pants as a way to negatively motivate myself to restrict, but I just went about my day, eating normally and feeling normally.

I'm excited about hitting my goals and enjoying the trip there! Also, I cannot recommend thrift shopping enough to those who are losing weight or looking for a goal dress/pair of jeans/what-have-you. You can really make a statement with a unique piece that you feel super confident in!

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I think this is the first time I’ve taken weight loss seriously, and I love to see it’s working. :)

For the last 10 years or so I had been slowly and consistently gaining weight. I’d gone on a diet more than once, but never really took it seriously.

A few weeks ago I decided it was time and got on it for real for the first time. Since starting I’ve lost about 10 pounds, I have a ways to go and I know it might be harder the closer I get to my goal, but damn, it feels so good to see I can actually do it if I really want it. I feel so motivated and so happy every time I see the scale shift closer to my goal, even by a little.

Anyways, I just wanted to share my excitement and hopefully motivate anyone that feels like they can’t do it. I’m not there yet, but I sure am on my way and it feels amazing!

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Heres my weight loss plan, help me with tips!

I am doing this thing right? weight loss

Hey, i am a young male, i am 20 years old and i am tired of carrying fat with me everyday, my currently weight is 93 kg, 170 cm. , i want to lose weight fast because not seeing progress it will make me quit and don t stick to this, so i need some help from you, advices and what i should do/add or remove to my weight loss journey, give me your tips maybe i can use it in this journey

i was 65 kg before starting changed my life in junk, i gained 30 kg in 6 months or more

here s what i am doing everyday: eating 1300-1400 cal a day, trying to eat only high protein meals, homemade only

i am doing stationary bike 5-6 times per week, 30 min and speed over 26, burning 200cals, doing over 100 push ups 3 times a week, i don t wanna kill my energy because it will make me eat more

i ve been on this "program" for almost 3 weeks and i can t see a big progress, i guess it need more time

how much weight i will lose per week? how many weeks i need to change my body or at least to see progress

thanks for attention and for your tips!

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Documenting my reasons for wanting to lose weight to try to keep myself motivated

I'm female, 23 years old, currently ~198 pounds. I started somewhere around 210 pounds, the heaviest I'd ever been. I first logged my weight at 205 on October 22. The last time I tried to lose weight was in 2017, when I started around 195 and got to 175 before falling off the bandwagon when my life kind of fell apart.

I've never been a healthy weight. I was a chubby toddler, reached a point of almost being healthy around age 8 after a growth spurt, but I've never had good habits. I hit my adult height at age 12, and I estimate I was about 140 pounds at that time. I've gone up and down since then, but I've gained ~5 pounds per year on average since then.

I'm tired of it. I've struggled with anxiety and depression (not weight-related, to my knowledge, but you never know) my entire life. I always feel better when I feel in control of aspects of my life, and I've never felt in control of my weight. I always expect to see progress immediately and fall off the bandwagon when I don't. This time I'm making a conscious effort to realize that I put this weight on over the course of more than a decade, I won't be able to take it off overnight.

To try to keep myself motivated, I want to list the reasons I want to lose the extra weight:

  • I want clothing to fit. I want to be able to fit into a large shirt instead of XL/XXL. I want the majority of dresses to be manufactured in my size and not have to look for the few made in size 18-20. I want jeans to stay up despite the fact that I have no hips.
  • I want to stop looking like an inverted triangle (broad shoulders, broad waist, narrow hips).
  • I want to be able to run without destroying my joints. I want to be able to have a conversation after climbing stairs without having to stop to catch my breath. I want to feel strong again and have muscle definition.
  • I want to comfortably fit into an airplane seat without feeling like I'm hogging the armrests!
  • I want to see if weight loss has a significant effect on my sleep apnea, blood pressure, anxiety, and terrible periods.
  • I want to stop hating having my photo taken.
  • I want to get my belly button pierced.
  • I want to lose the fat in my face so short haircuts are flattering on me.
  • I want to find bras that fit that don't cost a small fortune.
  • I don't want to have a heart attack at 30 or develop diabetes.
  • I want to feel confident enough to eventually start dating.
  • I want to be able to hike even a small mountain without feeling like I'm going to pass out.
  • I want to be able to chase my dogs around the yard.

In no particular order, of course. 😂

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 09 November 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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