I’ve attended a gathering that mostly consisted of people that’ve had known me for 5+ years, and as soon as I entered the room the main subject was everyone’s instant shock over my weight loss, nobody even “opened” the convo with the usual “hey, how are you?” everybody immediately started commenting about how different I look now, what’s my secret, what exercises I’ve been doing, one person even said that I look “half the size I was last year”. It just felt horrible, being put in unwanted center of attention, even though I believe everyone’s remarks came from good intentions, I’ve always tried to hide my body and flaws as much as possible and now listening to all this just made me feel really bad about the old version of myself, it felt like I’ve been walking around with dog poop on my head and everyone had to deal with it without telling me and now that I’ve finally got rid of it I’m being praised for making everyone’s life easier.
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