Saturday, November 7, 2020

I know I’m in a healthier place (mentally)

I got on the scale this morning and nearly stopped breathing when I saw my weight had gone up to what it was at the start of the year. All my progress during lockdown wiped clean. I could feel my mind starting to spiral. Every instinct in my body was telling me to start starving myself immediately, to go back onto a diet, to do anything in my power to move that number down. But I was able to recognise that this was neither healthy or sustainable to my weight loss journey. Over the past month I have been tackling my lifelong bad eating habits. I have been forcing myself to eat three meals a day, 1500 calories and no snacks. And it has been hard. There were days where I failed, but days where I succeeded. And I know that my weight gain is due to that, because up until a month ago I was eating 1200 a day. But I was miserable and lacking energy. Despite this weight gain, I am able to recognise that this is the first time in a long time that I can say that my relationship with food has some semblance of being a healthy one. I still plan to lose weight, but I also think it’s important to make small but life long changes to the way I think and behave around food. I got off the scale and sat myself down, forced myself to breathe through the panic and reminded myself that this is a long journey, and that I will not allow myself to stop at the first hurdle. I then went downstairs and made myself breakfast. It was incredibly surreal.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 07 November 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Problems faced after losing weight

Over the lockdown I managed to put my workoıts and diet on a stedy path and lost around 20 pounds ( 10kgs) in a span of 3 months. Im proud and happy with my current state however losing weight and being happy with my body after being overweighr for years has caused me problems. It was brought to my attention by a girlfriend of mine that I had developed a slight body dysmorphia. I always felt the need to wear tight clothes that showed that I was thin and fit. This is a reminder for everyone who might be feeling the same: Wearing relaxed and oversize clothes does not make you look fat they look great on you. I know we lost weight and want to show it off but there is not need to shy away from clothes that dont hug your body tightly. If you avoid these because you think they will make you look fat as those were the only things I used to wear you are going through the same thing. Dont worry and be happy everything looks good on you and they dont hide or cover up your gains or weight loss!

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[Let's Discuss] Gaining weight but not losing/ gaining inches on any parts of my body. :(

Hi everyone.

I [22 f] started my weight loss journey when I was 19 with very little knowledge whatsoever about diet and exercise. I mostly ate below 1000 calories and worked out 45 minutes every day with a 1 day break and managed to lose 7 kg successfully and it was quite visible how much weight I've lost.

But overtime eating so little had proven itself to be detrimental to my health as I was always tired and burnt out. Soon I learnt that it was from eating too less so I bumped my calories from 1500 to 1800 approximately. But since then I found that I've been gaining weight while more or less maintaining the same circumference on my waistline, arms, thighs etc. and I'm still very far from my body goals.

I don't understand why this is happening when I exercise regularly and even keep my diet in check. I just want to get to the bottom of this so I don't look like a melting candle anymore.

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Friday, November 6, 2020

Goal Rewards in the time of Covid

So I know there are lots of posts here asking for ideas for weight loss goal rewards, believe me I've read through a ton.

Unfortunately, the pandemic has put a damper on a lot of my goal rewards. Things like taking a weekend vacation, shopping in person, spa day, mani/pedi, float tank, massage. These are all goal rewards I had, but now have to adjust.

I still have a few rewards that are buying things I can shop for online (recently bought a bicycle off amazon), and I have moissanite necklace and earrings for 2 of my rewards.

I also prefer my rewards to involve spending some money, not simply stuff I can do around the house like take a bath.

So my question is: What are your suggestions for rewards in the time of Covid, that involve spending some money, like $40-$100 even

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Fear of Stopping Weight Loss

Hi guys! I just discovered this group tonight, and it seems great to have a community around me going through something similar. I am down 36 pounds since May. At the beginning of the pandemic I sat in the house and enjoyed everything in abundance. Food, alcohol, Netflix... After gaining a good 10 pounds I started walking 4 miles, 6 days a week at a greenway. It saved me more mentally probably than physically. It got me outside in nature, socializing with my mom, and exercise all in one activity. I started limiting my calories and have been more successful at losing weight than in the past. I think it’s due to not going on vacation and getting off of my game.

With that being said, I don’t know how to move forward without losing weight. I’m terrified that I will gain it back if I start upping my calories, but I really don’t need to continue losing. That seems to be where I’ve gone back to old habits in the past. Any veteran tips for me?

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Weight loss accountability

Hi!

I'm a female in my late teens, and 174 cm tall, 71 kg heavy. I used to be around 53, but due to depression wound up emotionally eating a lot and... yikes...

I'd like to get back to where I was. I'm almost out of the emotional eating phase, and I'm confident that I'm ready to go cold turkey.

Since I'm starting uni in February, I figured my first real goal should be to be 61kg by then - just over 3.3kg a month to lose.

I run daily, at alternating lengths - longest is 10km (I'm really proud since it's been a long term goal of mine to get that far) - and try to average in at 1500-1600 calories/day.

This is my first post and I will keep posting updates. :)

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