Saturday, November 14, 2020

I’m done being a loser

When I started my weight loss journey (this second time around) I set a very ambitious goal 135 lbs. I started at 197, and I thought to myself “ I’m gonna get there, I need to get there”

The journey has been very eye opening and I realized a few things:

  1. I have several disordered eating habits

  2. I don’t NEED to get down to 135 lbs

  3. I look exactly the way I want at 155, and I’m comfortable here.

  4. Lastly, my mental health is far more important to me than my weight.

I used CICO, sometimes unhealthily, throughout my journey, nothing more nothing less. And now it’s time for me to get in the gym to build up all the muscle I lost because I was scared of seeing the scale move up from exercise related water weight, and I’m also pursuing a diet change that consists mostly of fresh fruits and veggies, with healthy carbs, fats, and proteins. I realized I don’t like how beef and pork and cheese make me feel, so I’m not gonna eat that anymore.

I’m also going to stop being a human garbage can just to placate others, and you should too. Your mom or grandma or co worker aren’t going to die if you don’t eat that cake or that super unhealthy or unappetizing meal. You owe yourself more respect than to just dump everything into your body simply to please someone else.

I hope everyone else is having a good journey! Mine is not over, it’s just different now. Stay strong, and always do what’s right for you.

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[NSV] Two victories I discovered today!

We don’t own a scale as my partner didn’t have a one when I moved in, and it’s not really been at the top of any lists of things to get since I got here in August.

I know for a fact that I had a 62” hip measurement before the end of July due to measuring for whether an item of clothing online would fit. Since moving here I have been eating better than I have in years chiefly bc my partner loves to cook >.> I haven’t had fast food with the exception of pizza or Mexican food less than a handful of times since the beginning of August. I’m also way more active as we live 10 minutes from the beach, and we both enjoy hiking. I haven’t gone on walks consistently by any means, but where I’m lacking in walks I’m starting to slowly incorporate yoga and generally always stretching in the morning, having a journal where I track the many things I am doing that I would otherwise forget about, and really just try to establish a daily healthy routine for myself now that I have the ability to. I have the huge fortune of being able to be a stay at home girlfriend for the first time in my life atm and I am trying my best to take advantage of it.

Anywho, I measured myself again for the purpose of seeing if something would fit, and ta-fucking-da I lost 5 inches! Victory number 2 came when I tried on a pair of pants I bought close to two years ago that I couldn’t even pull past my hips, and not only could I squeeze them past my hips, but they fit great with no camel toe present 😆

I have a doc appointment on Monday where they’ll likely be weighing me, so it’s gonna be interesting to see if inches lost correlates to any poundage lost.

Having lost a decent amount in just under 4 months is also amazing news bc within the past week he (partner) and I have decided to try to conceive once I’ve reached a healthier weight, so weight loss being the only thing between me and having a baby is extremely good news to me. I’m 35 and since I as 30 I have had the opinion about having children of “if it happens, cool. If not, also cool.” But after getting out of an abusive relationship at 33 I didn’t think I would find someone soon enough that I would be even remotely interested in having kids with, so signs already pointing to no kinda felt like “Aw... Oh well, it is what it is.” Guess I spoke too soon!

So yeah... yaaay!

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Time for a change....

Hello All,

35/m here who is in dire need for a change. Always been a big guy, currently 6'2" and 325ish lbs. I "wear it well", as I'm fairly muscular but carry a lot of my weight in my gut and such. In high school I was around 200-225 lbs. I used to be a paramedic working long shifts and weeks which lead to a lot of my current situation. I never ate well, always on the go, so fast food and crap food was the option most of the time. Packing enough meals for 24 or 48 hour shifts just wasn't a practical option where I worked at the time. We typically lived in the bus most of the shift. I'm out of that business now but a host of other issues from stress at work, to lack of energy from not sleeping (now being resolved, hopefully), and other things just put me where I am now.

I've been on and off the weight loss wagon so many times in the past. I'd usually do good for about four months and lose interest. I've had success of losing up to 30 lbs in the past, then hit the plateau and lose confidence.

This time it has to be different. I was diagnosed yesterday with SEVERE obstructive sleep apnea. I stopped breathing about 100 times an hour and desaturated down into the 50's, which is VERY bad. My average oxygen saturation at night was in the 80's. This has been my wake up call that if I don't make changes now, I'm not going to make it to 40. Currently waiting for my CPAP machine which the doc says will make me feel like a new man. I'm excited for what that change will bring. I'm currently a constantly exhausted miserable prick about 75% of the time.

I'm here to vent to someone and join the community as a support system to get through this journey. I've had My Fitness Pal for a long time and just reactivated my account, and started tracking my intake. My recommendation from the app is about 2400 calories. I'm moderately active at work- I manage a statewide communications network so I'm on my feet or hiking to a site fairly regularly. I'm also a fairly avid hiker despite my size and get out as often as possible (and have energy to do so). I do a lot of work around my 14 acre property so manual labor isn't something I shy from.

My wife (33) is also starting her own journey so we are going to do a lot of this together which is going to be helpful. My plan is to do CICO, drink significantly more water, and start getting out more to hike. I'll also be joining a gym a few miles from work since I get a fitness reimbursement.

Please feel free to offer any suggestions or ask any questions. I'm an open book at this point.......I'm sure I'll be back for advice regularly! I'm amazed at the transformations I've seen here.

Thanks for listening to my rambling.....

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Do you comment on someone’s weight loss if you don’t know how/why they lost it?

Not sure if this is allowed here, but it’s something I’m unsure about!

I recently saw someone in person I haven’t seen since before COVID-19 started and I noticed she’d lost some weight and I thought she looked really good, but I don’t know her all that well and have no idea whether it was an intentional weight loss journey or not.

I didn’t want to say she looked good in case the weight was lost for negative reasons, but I also know how nice it can be to have someone noticed and say you look good if you are on an intentional weight loss journey!

What does everyone else do - I’m not sure whether to comment, to ask whether it was intentional before saying anything, or to just not say anything at all (what I’m currently doing)!

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I have lost weight but I feel very angry and robbed.

I am 19 now and I've lost 13kg from almost 88kg since I graduated high school. During high school I was that one kid who always bullied and laughed at no matter what. I went to an all boys school so it was even worse. I was too weak to defend myself. But I was a teenager and didn't know anything about weight loss until I was 17-18. But by that time I already graduated high school. I get so angry just thinking about high school because I couldn't experience what it was like being normal or trying to fit in and making friends. During high school you are supposed to start improving your social skills and make friends but I had to deal with this shit for nearly every day for 4-5 years. I was bullied for other things but those were things about me that I can't fix. Now I am full of insecurities, my body being my main one. I don't know if this is normal to anyone else. People do treat me better. But it still makes me angry, because I can't change the past and everytime I look in the mirror I always see that fat kid who was always bullied and had barely any friends.

I still have 8kg to loose before I get to my goal weight of 66kg.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 14 November 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Realizing that the reason I'm obese is because I sabotage my diet after I binge drink alcohol. This is a pattern that has gone on for years.

Hi everyone, I'm a 33F, 5'10, 236lbs, new to the subreddit. I am currently on the keto diet.

I've wanted to lose weight for years, but every time I start putting in effort I sabotage myself within a few days, always the same exact way... I go out drinking with people, and the next day I don't care about my diet.

I had a three day streak on keto this week. Decided to throw it out the window yesterday. I hung out with a friend earlier this week and honestly that wasn't an excuse. I could have done the right thing. I could have had one or two vodka sodas and called it a night. Instead I drank beer (empty carbs), vodka, got drunk, and was ravenous the next day.

Admittedly I didn't eat as many carbs the next day as I actually wanted, but it still happened. I gained back three of the four pounds I've lost this week.

I feel disappointed in myself.

But today I'm back on the keto wagon.

I know carbs aren't evil and that ultimately weight loss comes down to CICO. But for me keto just fills me up and makes me less hungry with less calories.

This was kind of a rant, but also just a reminder to myself. I am choosing to break the cycle. If that means I have to stay in and not go out drinking with friends for a couple of months, so be it. I'm really tired of having this extra weight. I want and need to be healthy, and if that means sacrificing a social life for now, so be it. And it's easy to say now, but it won't be so easy next week when I want to go out again. I just have to remind myself of my goals and that the boredom is temporary and worth it.

Thanks for listening, everyone. <3

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