Wednesday, June 16, 2021

Tips I have learned in the past year and a half

I woke up super early today. I got bored and figured I’d write some tips on weight loss. People always seem to ask the same questions about losing weight. I figured I’d try to take a minute to help sum up some stuff I have learned. I’ve been doing this for a year and a half now. I’ve lost around 70lbs down to 170. 5’7” male.

Exercise is unnecessary to shed pounds on the scale. However, if you want that banging summer body you need resistance training at least 3x per week for minimum 30 minutes per session. You’ll be an Adonis!

Cardio is great for increasing caloric burn, but unnecessary for weight loss. It does help if you don’t eat the calories you burn after it. It is good for the heart. I hate cardio. I warm up with a 1 mile jog at a 9-10 minute mile pace before I lift. Why? Solely to keep my heart healthy. I only burn about 200 calories doing that run. For context, a 3 musketeers bar is 240 calories. You have to run over a mile to burn a single 3 musketeers bar off. Not worth it to me. I’d rather just not eat the calories.

Keto, IF, etc. don’t really work. The only reason people are successful on them is because it forces a calorie deficit, but you don’t realize it. Have you ever seen a single serving of rice? Weigh it out and cook just one serving of rice one day. It’s like next to nothing, yet it’s packed with 160-180 calories. Keto makes you lose those carbs, which creates a calorie deficit.

When losing weight do keep your protein high. Protein makes you feel full for longer and preserves muscle mass.

Which leads me to my next note — even ladies want to preserve muscle mass while dieting. What we want is not to lose pounds on the scale, but to lose fat. That’s the real goal. If you lose muscle at a rate equal to or greater than losing fat your body will continue to look fat. You don’t need to look like a ripped sack, all veiny and bulging, but you do need to keep the muscle you have.

Plan to take at least a year to lose any significant amount of weight. It isn’t a quick process.

Tdee calculators are a good tool to help with a starting point. For a beginner, I do not personally recommend starting at 500 calories deficit from tdee. That’s a hard way to start. Gradually cut 100 calories per week off your maintenance tdee until you hit a 500 calorie deficit.

What tdee estimate do you use??? This one was so confusing to me at first. Use the sedentary estimate. Early in my fitness journey I ran a 5k 3 days a week and lifted 3 days a week. I figured I should use a higher tdee. I was wrong. Weight loss was super slow. Even with 6 days a week of vigorous exercise I had to cut back my caloric intake to a deficit under sedentary tdee.

Your body doesn’t look at your consumption over a specific day. I realize this can be confusing. What I mean is to take an average of your caloric intake over a week and use that to determine what you’ve been doing right or wrong. I’m going to use myself as an example. I currently cut with 1600-1700 calories (much lower than someone with significant weight to lose). Some days I might have 2,200 calories or 1,800 or whatever. Watch your weekly average and ensure the average is under your deficit. You’ll be surprised if you open your tracking app and check your average. It could even shed light on why you’ve plateaued.

Spend $15 and buy a kitchen scale off Amazon. This is key. Weigh EVERYTHING you eat. If you don’t do this you will set yourself up to fail. Seriously, it’s $15 and weighing your food takes like 30 seconds. I’m so surprised at how many people reject this idea.

Which brings me to my next point — so many people reject the idea of tracking intake in an app. Use a tracking app. I use MyFitnessPal. It’s free. It caches the foods you log so you can quickly log your commonly eaten foods. I even create recipes in it so I can quickly log the stuff I make from scratch. It takes another 30 seconds to log your food. So a minute per meal if you include weigh time. You can spare 5 minutes a day to weigh and log foods.

Let’s talk about a plateau. Plateaus do happen. They will not last longer than a month. If your plateau does last longer than a month it is not a plateau. It means you’re eating more than you think you are. Redo your tdee, check your weekly average and make adjustments. It is the only way to break it.

“Cheat days”. This is hugely damaging. I hate this term. An entire day of eating whatever you want and however much you want can easily wreck an entire week of work. You can be religious about a 500 calorie deficit and burn 3,000 calories in a week for 6 days. On the 7th “cheat day” you can undo all of it. I’ve personally eaten over 5,000 calories in a day. It’s not that hard to do.

Instead of cheat days have a cheat meal once per week. I do it on Sunday’s. Your cheat meal should still be healthier and lower in calories. For example, I love me some Mexican food. I choose either fish tacos on corn tortillas or chicken fajitas without tortilla shells. Don’t eat the rice and beans. Doing this allows me to still have the foods I love without the diet progress destruction.

Fat in a specific area cannot be targeted. You may want to lose belly or arm fat, but you can’t spot reduce. Your body will lose fat in all the areas it gained it most recently. Like reverse order of when you gained it. You probably will not even have noticed where that was. My lower abdomen was the last spot I lost. Which sucked because it was the spot I wanted gone the quickest.

A week of dieting isn’t going to produce noticeable results. Neither will a month. Hell, I don’t even notice fat loss, or gains, without pics. Take before pics and progress pics. Every 8 weeks for progress pics is a good rule to follow. You will notice results that way.

Don’t get hung up focusing on macros. Lots of people suggest percentages for carbs, proteins and fats. To lose weight you just need that calorie deficit. Again, keep protein high, but having one day at 200g of protein and another at 125g isn’t going to make or break you. Don’t focus super hard on this.

Everyone says that last ten pounds is hard to lose. They’re right. But not because it’s some magical thing. We lose our motivation for losing weight as we approach the end. We get content with our bodies and that motivation we had to lose weight goes away, making it seem impossible to lose that last bit.

Loose skin. It happens. I still have some of mine. Stretch marks happen. They never go away. Accept this. As for the loose skin, that seems to take a long time to go back, but at least it does go back, unlike stretch marks.

Ok, my last little note. Do not go to others and look for positive moral support. That isn’t going to get you results. Seek and accept criticism. You know if you screwed up, don’t ask others to tell you it’s ok. Own up to mistakes you make, and fix them. It’s YOUR weight loss journey, nobody else’s. Be accountable, take responsibility, don’t make excuses and keep grinding every single day.

I think that’s it. These are kinda the basic key points I’ve learned. Hopefully they help people with the same questions I had when first starting out. Feel free to comment if anyone has any other suggestions they’ve learned. I’m not the end all be all.

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Boobs, weight loss, and feeling like I can’t win

Hi all. I’m posting this partially just to get this off my chest (ha) and also to hear experiences of other large busted ladies with weight loss.

In around a year I’ve gone from 99.5 kg (219 lbs) to 75 kg (165 lbs), with a goal weight of 60 kg (132 lbs).

I’ve had G cup boobs even when I was below my goal weight in high school, so I wasn’t too concerned about shrinking too much. (I was still a GG cup at my highest weight just with a larger band size)

Turns out they have been impacted the hardest, and I’m not even close to my goal weight. Stretch marks that I thought had disappeared are now reappearing as indentations. If I bend forward you can see a loss of volume at the top.

I’m still sort of vaguely okay with where they are now but my fat is concentrated in my belly and I still have so much to lose in that area (belly pic for reference). Feel like I’m damned if I do, damned if I don’t! I’ve even been entertaining the idea of lipo to spot-treat stomach fat :/

Okay, rant over, but basically I would really like to hear the experiences/words of wisdom of others who have been in this situation. How was it when you got to your goal weight? Did you end up adjusting your goal? Did the skin firm up or did you require cosmetic intervention? Do pec exercises help (I often hear this bandied about but am a bit skeptical considering my boobs don’t exactly sit over the pectoral region... I do work out a lot but honestly have not seen much results)?

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Advice for husband supporting wife on her weight loss journey

Hi there I need some help here. my wife has been battling weight over the last couple of years and I'm not sure what else to do.

About my wife:

  • 45 yo mother of 2 young kids (toddler and kinder ages)
  • gone through IVF plus other fertility treatments
  • ok with work but influences her mood
  • tried weight loss programs like lite n easy (Australia) and weight watchers to not much effect lately
  • taking a daily injection of an appetite suppressant which does not seem to have desired effect
  • exercises twice a week with PT
  • sometimes her plate sizes are bigger than mine
  • a lot of what she eats take tomato sauce and/or mayo
  • when she binge eats it's scary at times... And it's happening more often than I like to think it does

I know that there's a lot contributing to her weight gain here but even on weeks that she does everything right she hardly loses a couple of hundred grams.

It's frustrating to say the least and I'm not sure what to do anymore. The only thing that's coming to my head is meal planning, cut sugar and salt completely and make her stick to a food plan. It's a bit hard with kids in the house - and she's got a problem with other people telling her what NOT to do - but it's the only thing I can try.

She saw a doctor, did all the exams to see if there's anything wrong with her organism and all seems well.

Help.

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Lost more than half of myself. Thank you r/loseit for strenght and inspiration

The title almost says it all. I wanted to thank you all for helping me to get where I am now. When I joined, it was kind of a last shot I was willing to give to my weight loss. I kind of accepted myself, the way I was, I wasn't depressed about it, more like resigned. At that point, I have tried everything I could think of, but to no avail.

As a healthcare professional, I knew exactly, what I was doing to myself, how I am slowly killing myself. Just a simple blood test always got to me, since I've seen I'm slowly getting worse. It wasn't that bad at first, sure, I was (or still am I hope) young, so my body was dealing with everything well, but it can't do it forever. At first, my blood pressure was high, my pulse was in triple digits from simply walking a few steps. Then, my cholesterol was getting worse. I started taking blood pressure medication. Then my uric acid levels were high. Started taking medication for that. I was already taking medication for my thyroid. My blood sugar was really on the line (or a tad over) for a couple of times and my doctor started discussing medication for that.

At my highest weight (and lowest point in life I would say) I weighed 195 kg (~430lbs) and basically everyone thought I was at the point of no return, myself included. My parents were the ones most worried about me. It really hit me, when my father asked me, whether I wouldn't consider quitting my job and go to a clinic of some kind, to get help, because it's obvious I can't do it myself and if I don't do something, I wouldn't live past my thirties (well, I knew he was right about the last part of it at least).

Me being the pigheaded person I am, I decided I'm going to show everyone, I can do it by myself. Give it one last shot, really try. I ordered scale with high weight limit, since the one at home wasn't enough for me. In a meantime, I did research just about everywhere, from scientific sources, to Facebook, reddit or recipe books. I knew had to reach calorie deficit to lose weight, so I decided to check, how others did that. I found this subreddit and read so many inspirational stories, helpful tips and just general words of encouragement, I knew that I don't just want to, but I CAN do it. I may not be very active poster (it's hard to express everything in words sometimes), but I sure read everything I can and it is helping me with my journey.

So when my scale arrived and I stepped on it, it was a huge slap across my face. I knew I was big, but I wasn't aware I was THAT big. I'm quite tall for a woman (178-180cm; ~ 5'10-5'11), but at 195kg (~430lbs) my BMI was over 60. But hey, everyone has to start somewhere. The journey wasn't easy. It was pain, it was sweat, it was training of my will for sure. There were times I was so angry and felt so defeated, when after so much work, my scale number just wasn't moving, or went slightly up. I knew all about water weight, hormones and so on, but hey, sometimes it just doesn't help, you know? :D But consistency is the key, you have to stick to what you're doing and results will come.

As of today, I'm proud to say that after about year and a half I now weigh around 89kg (~196lbs) and in just 2 days, I'm having the excess skin from my belly removed. I couldn't be happier, I've never been more energetic, I've never felt this.....well healthy. I'm almost medication free (only pill a day for my thyroid). And I sure wouldn't be able to get here, without your inspirational stories and help. So again, thank you r/loseit and please, wish me luck on Friday :)

As a little bonus, here is my before/after pic, where on the left, I'm at my highest weight and the one on the right is couple of weeks old.

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Tuesday, June 15, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 16 June 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Stuck in a plateau

I've been focused on my weight loss since the beginning of February, and I've done well, but for the past month I'm completely stuck. I watch my calories and eat very clean during the week, but drink alcohol and indulge a bit on the weekends. I also intermittent fast 18:6 generally. The scale is stuck. I'm 20 pounds away from my goal weight, I'm so close to the finish line. Why are those last pounds so damn stubborn? Any advice to break this plateau?

INFO: I'm 27, 5 10" female SW: 185 CW: 168 GW: 150. Doing 1,350 calories 5 days a week, and on weekends I'm cautious but don't count. I try to relax a bit around food and drink, it makes it sustainable for me personally.

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Hitting a very frustrating weight loss plateau. Any advice?

Hey guys, this is my first time posting on here so I'm sorry if I don't follow the proper protocols and such.

I'm a 5'4" F (SW: 155, CW: 135, GW: 120) and I've recently hit a very frustrating plateau at about 135 lbs. I think my problem is that I do really well through the whole day but then go crazy on the snacks at night. I don't have the option of keeping snacks out of the house since I live with my parents. I know it's really only water weight but my progress is stalled from these late-night binges. I'm only about 10-15 pounds from my goal so fluctuations are frustrating. Any advice for tackling late-night snacking or binging in general?

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