Saturday, November 6, 2021

Only 3lbs away from my goal— self sabotaging

I’ve managed to lose about 8lbs of fat within the last 2 months and I gained a lot of muscle. My goal was to have visible abdominal muscles, and it looks as thought I am about 1-2% body-fat away from this goal.

Despite my progress, I have sort of mentally given up. Whereas I used to be able to resist things like chocolate and cookies at work, I ate ridiculous amounts of chocolate over halloween. I’ve been at home studying a lot too, and this has led to me constantly snacking on foods that are healthy, but high calorie.

I’ve struggled with binge eating for a long time, and I thought I had finally overcome that disorder… but it looks like I’m on the verge of falling back into those old habits.

It’s like I can’t find it within myself to care anymore about the weight loss or controlling binges, but at the same time… when I look in the mirror I hate my body.

I just feel a lot of inner turmoil and I’m not sure how to motivate myself to get back on track.

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Am I pushing myself too hard?

I am [M] 24 year old, 5’8, 208lb and after two years of unhealthy habits and eating McDonald’s every other day I decided to get up and lose the weight. Two years ago I was 175lbs and gained 35lbs by eating fast food every day and never leaving the house (quarantine and work from home). Starting on Monday, I went from no real exercise at all, eating anywhere between 3000-4000 calories a day to walking/jogging 5-10km a day and eating about 1500 calories a day (home cooked, protein heavy, low-carb meals). Am I pushing myself too hard? Is this sustainable for weight loss? Is a 1500 daily calorific deficit too much?

I am not planning on keeping a 1500 deficit diet/exercise routine once I hit my target weight.

My goal is to hit around 150-160lbs before I focus on building significant muscle and toning. I’m mainly looking to lose the belly fat at the moment. Any input is greatly appreciated!

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Aiming to lost 10-15 lbs by March 2022 - How many calories should I be eating per day to lose this much weight by March?

Also, is this a realistic goal?

I'm 5'6F and currently weigh 150 lbs (fluctuates between 150-152). My goal weight is 120-125 lbs. I started my weight loss journey in February and lost 30 lbs by cutting out sweets, adjusting portions, and walking during the warmer months.

Winter is a challenging season. I've always gotten lazy and I know I need to brave through the cold for my morning walks (30 degrees F is freezing for me!). I'm trying to motivate myself to get up early and put on my large coat, gloves, sweat pants, hat, and layers. The cold intimidates me though. I don't want to get sick. I have to sit a lot because I'm studying for exams. Winter is a long season (from Nov to March - I'm counting March because it's a cold month) and I know I can do a lot within this span of a few months. I don't want to gain all my weight back. I want to use it as motivation to get closer to my goal.

I hate going to the gym and using machines. I don't like weights or floor exercises either. None of that is sustainable for me. Walking is my favorite form of exercise.

When I lost the first 30 lbs, I didn't count calories. I only measured out my portions earlier on so I had an idea what my portions should look like.

As you get smaller, weight loss gets harder. I know you would argue that 150 lbs for my height is normal weight. It's on the higher end and I still don't feel healthy because I've got weight on me. I still see/feel fat on my body.

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I lost my mom and don't know if I'll be able to stay on track

I (24F, 5'8", SW 231, CW 192) started my weight loss journey in mid-April and have lost 39 pounds so far. Thursday was the two month anniversary of my mom's death and I've really been struggling lately with everything. My mom knew about my weight loss efforts and was always there to celebrate my progress while also assuring me that I was beautiful at any weight.

The whole reason I'd gained so much weight in the first place is because I've always used food as a coping mechanism. I lost my appetite after my mom passed away and lost 11 pounds without even trying. But now my appetite is coming back and I'm scared that I'm going to turn back to food to fill up the emptiness.

Does anyone else have experience with trying to navigate weight loss while dealing with grief?

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Wanting to start a weight loss journey but scared

I am a woman at 230 lbs and 5’6. Goal weight is 150 (maybe lower as I go along but I wish I loved myself more when I was 150). I know I have really bad exercise induced asthma and extremely anemic which makes my blood pressure suck and I get lightheaded after a lot of strenuous exercise.

I gained a lot of my weight since covid, before that I was going to the gym fairly regularly and working out daily. Since we quarantined back in March 2020, I’ve been living a very sedentary lifestyle. I’m too broke for a gym membership and now I’m too insecure to go. I feel like everyone will look at me like I don’t belong there and be disgusted with how I look.

Because of that, I’ve been trying to get into at home workouts. I also started getting more vegetables into my diet. My home workouts started out as HIIT training, doing some muscle exercises, and treadmill. I want to try fun activities like dance from YouTube but I feel too fat to enjoy it lol. I just hate seeing how out of shape I am now compared to two years ago we’re I was like 60 lbs lighter and had a nice shape to my body. Not skinny but curvy in a good way. Now I just feel huge with bigger arms and wide waist and love handles.

I feel really undisciplined and I don’t want dieting to cause me to have an eating disorder, I just want to eat more well balanced meals. I also think I need to do methods to speed my metabolism (I only eat like twice a day and I keep seeing that I should eat small amounts 6 times a day to keep my metabolism going

Any advice on anything?

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Anyone listen to podcasts?

I listen to podcasts working from home, so am burning through episodes fairly quick.

Currently I listen to The Weight Loss podcast (matt and courtney), which I find helpful but can sometimes a bit intense when listening to several in a row.

I also listen to the secret world of slimming clubs, which is amusing but sometimes frustrating as they go weeks joking how terrible they've been.

So wondered if there was any podcasts others have found around losing weight, getting fit etc., not necessarily easy listening but just another to add to my arsenal.

Find it helps - feel guilty eating crap with a podcast telling me all about how to eat healthier!

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Friday, November 5, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 06 November 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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