Monday, November 8, 2021

Today is my birthday and I had my first real cheat day after 6 months of strict dieting

Hw: 398lb Cw:290.8 Gw:175lb. I’ve lost 107.2lb as of today. I’ve been on a weight loss journey for almost 13 months now. The past 6 months have been strict dieting with almost zero cheating or over eating. Today’s cheat day was planned but I can’t seem to shake the guilt and disappointment out of my head. My deficit is 1750 but so far I’ve consumed 2350 calories. My brain keeps telling me to eat more and enjoy the day till it finishes. But I know if I eat more I’m gonna gain a lot of weight. The reason I feel bad is because I wasted these calories on just random worthless junk instead of actually eating the foods I missed. So now I have this void of wanting to eat the foods I missed out on like cake and French toast and it’s eating at me. I know I’m gonna wake up tomorrow morning and restrict again for months to see results and I won’t be able to enjoy anything for like 3-6 months. Anyone relate? Can u guys give me some words of wisdom on what to do and how to get over this feeling? The mental pressure of weight loss can be really tough

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Maintenance Monday: November 8, 2021

If you've reached your goal weight and you're looking for a space to discuss with fellow maintainers, this is the thread for you! Whether you're brand new to maintenance or you've been doing it for years, you're welcome to use this space to chat about anything and everything related to the experience of maintaining your weight loss.

Hey everyone, here's your weekly discussion thread! Tell us how maintenance and life in general is going for you this week!

If there's a specific topic you'd like to see covered in a future thread, please drop a comment or message!


I'm going to sub in over posting these since u/satisphoria said they couldn't continue a few weeks ago, but looking for someone to take over hosting duties from me if possible here and Wecipe Wednesday so I can focus on Thursday's Century Club.

I may or not post a prompt.

How's your maintenance going?

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Wait, healthy food isn’t bad at all (lol)

24M, SW: 211, CW: ~205, GW: 170. Started taking weight loss and my healthy seriously just over 2 weeks ago. I go to the gym 5-6 times a week and focus on cardio with a decent routine of strength/abs I do with the gyms machines + at-home workouts.

I have STRUGGLED with food my entire life. I would eat healthy, hate it, and then force myself to eat it til I gave in to fast food and it was like my brain reset. Y’ALL, I’ve taken the time to learn recipes that are healthy for me and it’s re-ignited the love I’ve had for cooking. Of course I make all the good, simple things (boiled eggs, salads, etc), but I’ve been trying new ways to cook chicken, I’ve made spring rolls, I’ve been trying new spices, etc and I can definitely feel a mental difference in how I approach my food.

I do calorie count and trying to get better at accurately recording my intake, but so far, with a healthier diet and being consistent with the gym (albeit, I don’t stay SUPER long when I go, unless it’s the weekend - and losing weight is very much more so made in the kitchen), I’ve lost roughly 6 lbs. I’m still adjusting things, eating more when I need to do, but always making sure what I eat doesn’t feel like I’m forcing myself to eat it. It’s such a mental game and I still have a long way to go but food is good and there’s so many good things I didn’t realize I could do with it.

Drop your favorite foods you’ve eaten while on this journey! I’d love to try some new stuff

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Feels like I am starting over

Hello friends! So I started my weight loss in March 2019 at 320lbs (F 33 5ft9in). I steadily lost weight until I reached a low of 210lbs this July when I had some stomach issues preventing me from overeating (yay). Then in September my stomach issues resolved and I was able to eat again. Well I started to overdo it like I did in the old days. No tracking, no watching carbs, calories or portion sizes. I just ate whatever I craved even getting up at 3am to raid the fridge. I convinced myself that I could slip a little and still maintain my weight loss. Well this morning I weighed myself for the first time since Sept and I was shocked. The scale said 238lbs. Almost 30 lbs in 2 months. What have I done?? Do any of you have advice on how to get back on track? I know relapse is part of recovery (thank you AA) but I am really down on myself today. Any advice and encouragement is helpful. Thanks!!

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Walking vs. Running: Which is Better for Weight Loss?

If you’re trying to lose weight, you might feel like you have to start running. It’s the way seemingly everybody gets fit … or tries to: In a survey from 2017, 60 million Americans were running for fitness, and 80 percent said their reason to continue doing so was to stay healthy.1

And exercise is invaluable to your health: The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends that Americans get 150 minutes of exercise per week to reduce their risk of cardiovascular disease, diabetes, osteoporosis and premature death. Even with all those benefits, almost 80 percent of Americans don’t hit that 150-minute mark.2

To reach those weekly minutes—and add to your weekly calorie burn, increasing your overall weight loss—you could run, but you could also slow things down and walk. So … which is better? Should you walk or run for weight loss?

8 Tips to Burn More Calories by Walking

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Factor 1: Which one burns more calories?

a man and a woman talking to each other in the park

For calories per minute, jogging beats walking: According to the American Council on Exercise, a 180-pound person will burn 13.9 calories per minute while jogging, compared with 9.7 calories per minute while walking. So if this 180-pound person exercised for 20 minutes, they’d burn 278 calories. A walk of the same time would burn 194 calories.3

You can catch up by walking for longer: By walking just nine more minutes, our 180-pound person would burn more calories than they did on the 20-minute jog. For many dieters, 30 minutes of walking is easier than 20 minutes of jogging.

The calorie burn of both running and walking can get a boost if you vary your tempo during your workout: Interval training or HIIT, where short bursts of higher-intensity work are alternated with easier work, has been shown in multiple studies to burn more fat and increase heart function better than medium-paced, steady-state cardio work.4

Whether you’re running or walking, try alternating one minute of slightly harder efforts with one minute of easier efforts. In one study, when scientists had walkers increase their pace by as little as five inches per second for one-minute bouts, the walkers burned 20 percent more calories than when they walked the same pace throughout their walk.5

No matter which of the two activities you do for burning calories, make sure you’re not eating them all back and more once you get home: Runners often anecdotally gain weight while training for big races because big runs give them bigger appetites. They also overestimate how many calories they’ve burned: One study found that after a moderate-intensity run, people overestimated how many calories they burned by 300 to 400 percent!6 In another study, that type of overestimation led runners to eat 20 percent more calories in a post-run meal than they’d burned on the run.7

Your Solution: The NuMi app. It’s the free Nutrisystem app that will not only help you determine how many calories you’re actually burning during exercise, but can also help you find post-run or -walk snacks that fit into your daily plan.

Factor 2: Which one will help me lose weight faster?

a woman stepping on a scale

According to one huge study, it depends on if you’re a man or woman, and how much weight you have to lose. In the study of 50,000 people, men lost significantly more weight from running than walking, as did women who were in the top “quartile” of BMI—those who had the most pounds to lose.8

But for women in virtually every other category, walking was just as effective for weight loss as running was. For both men and women in the highest starting weight categories, walking led to about half the weight loss benefit that running did—meaning running was more effective but walking was still very effective, too.8

And for people in those high-starting-weight groups on down, that can be more sustainable: Up to 79 percent of runners are sidelined by an injury at least once per year.9 And if you’re injured, you can’t get the weight loss benefits of the exercise. So walking could be a safer long-term bet.

So You Want to Start Jogging? How to Begin

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Factor 3: Which one burns more belly fat?

a man measuring the circumference of his waist with a measuring tape

You might think this one’s a no-brainer: It’s running, right?

Not so fast—literally. While high-intensity training can burn more body fat overall, low-intensity exercise, like walking, is more effective in specifically targeting belly fat.10 It makes sense that walking burns fat, too: Slow-twitch muscle fibers, which you use for lower-intensity, endurance movements like walking, use fat for fuel.

“Submaximal” exercise, performed at about 60 percent of your maximum effort, may be the most fat-burning of them all. In one study, people who performed this “submaximal” cardio were able to reduce fat in their butt and legs even when scientists were injecting estrogen into those body parts, a process that usually triggers fat gains.11

Whether you choose to walk or run to fight fat, adding strength training is a powerful partner to your cardio moves: In one study, men who did 20 minutes of daily weight training had lower levels of age-related fat gains compared to guys who did the same amount of cardio work.12

So mix it in! Take a walk or run break halfway through and do a set or two of lunges, bodyweight squats, pushups or step ups onto a bench. The muscle-building you’ll get will help boost your fat burn.

Enough beating around the bush! Which is better, running or walking?

a close up of a woman’s legs as she runs in nature

The real answer depends on you: Whichever one you’re more likely to stick to is the exercise type that’s best for your weight loss goals. Studies show that about 50 percent of exercise program participants drop out in the first six months.13

What makes people stick to their programs? A big factor is doing something they enjoy,14 or as scientists put it, “anticipated positive feelings” associated with physical activity makes you more likely to do it.15 So if running sounds good to you, and you can hoof it without getting hurt—that’s great! If walking sounds better, that’s great, too.

You’re more likely to stick to an exercise style you’ll enjoy, and there’s a bonus: Enjoyment also leads to enhanced results.16 So which one is better? You decide!

4 Tips for Enhancing Your Treadmill Workout for Weight Loss

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Sources: 

  1. https://www.statista.com/topics/1743/running-and-jogging/
  2. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/exercise.htm
  3. https://acewebcontent.azureedge.net/assets/education-resources/lifestyle/fitfacts/pdfs/fitfacts/itemid_2666.pdf
  4. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8897392
  5. https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/full/10.1098/rsbl.2015.0486
  6. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21178922/
  7. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24680797/
  8. https://journals.lww.com/acsm-msse/Fulltext/2013/04000/Greater_Weight_Loss_from_Running_than_Walking.13.aspx
  9. https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/bjsports/41/8/469.full.pdf
  10. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40279-017-0807-y
  11. https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/ajpendo.1998.275.5.e853
  12. https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2014/12/using-weights-to-target-belly-fat/
  13. https://www.scirp.org/%28S%28351jmbntvnsjt1aadkposzje%29%29/reference/ReferencesPapers.aspx?ReferenceID=1387726
  14. https://academic.oup.com/abm/article-abstract/38/3/180/4569495?redirectedFrom=fulltext
  15. https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1472-6874-14-49
  16. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11002-014-9301-6

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My partner is no longer attracted to me.

This is a weird problem to have, I guess. I've been overweight my entire life. I remember my mother telling me I was too fat for cute clothes and 2-piece swimsuits she'd buy my thin sister when I was like, 5? 6? I've been with my partner for over a decade, and one wonderful thing is that they have always appreciated me at whatever size I was, whatever I was going through. They would also support me in any weight loss efforts I endeavored upon.

I wonder if they thought I'd never succeed however, seeing me fail over and over all through my mid-20s to late-30s.

Now, somehow, things have clicked and I'm down over 50lbs in 8 months. I'm definitely not "too skinny" by any record of measurement, and still hoping to lose 15-20 more lbs. My BMI is 26.5 and I wear a US size 10. Yet, I can tell when they look at me, how they never touch me or comment on my appearance anymore that they are disappointed. Yet they half-ass deny it when I ask directly.

I don't really know how to manage this. I never wanted to be with someone who would leave me if I gained more weight. I truly never thought I'd end up with someone who resented that I've lost weight. I'm stronger than ever, I fit in clothes I've never been able to fit into, I have a lot more confidence in my appearance. I don't want to give that up, and I can't imagine them asking me to. I wonder if anyone else has gone through anything similar in their weight lost journey and how they dealt with it.

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Starting my weight loss journey tmrw! Wish me luck :)

I (23M) was a big kid throughout school. But i looked quite good for my height (196cm) for the weight i had and my broad frame only helped. I was in a very serious relationship which lasted 3 years, till she dumped me by calling me fat(which crushed my ego) and went abroad to pursue her education. I got depressed and for the next 4 years i was in a total slump. I gained a huge amount of weight (rn i weigh in at 175kg/386lb) and my motivation in life just got crushed. I cut off all my friends, family and became a total dick. I couldn't snap out of this at all and i hated my life. Last week, I realised I wasn't going anywhere like this and wanted to change things up. I started planning and finally I'm gonna start out tomorrow.

Contrary to popular belief, we fat ppl have great knowledge in how to get fit and that's what I'm trying to utilise. I don't want to lose weight drastically, rather be more healthy. I'm gonna be taking control of my diet and eat quality food. I'm NOT joining a gym yet as I want to first explore the free options like walking, sports, etc and get a start at my fitness journey .

I will become a better person, and I'm sure you can too.

Cheers and good luck :)

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