Saturday, November 13, 2021

People commenting positive things about my weight loss makes feel worse. I don’t know how to feel

I lost about 20 pounds. Mostly from cutting out negative people from my life and just thinking whether I want to eat it or am I feeling a certain way. Cutting out the negative people made me feel happier and made me want to be healthier.

I’m short so I know 20 pounds would be more noticeable, but it makes me feel awful when people say things. Like you look so good now. I’m so glad you aren’t fat anymore. They never told me I was fat when I was that heavy, it makes me feel terrible. Did you think I looked that bad before the weight loss?

It’s really had an effect on everything. I can see myself getting an ED because of the comments. After being out with people and having a cheat,it made me want to come home and puke what I ate.I didn’t because I knew I was healthy, but it was all my self control not to;

Any advice ? I know people mean well but it makes me feel awful.

submitted by /u/krs5614
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/3CgMQoq

Friday, November 12, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 13 November 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

submitted by /u/AutoModerator
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/3c5XvI3

Eye opening experience

My weight loss journey has been long and uneventful. Long ago when I was in the Army I was pretty fit, once I was out, I let go. Once I got to my heaviest, 235, I knew I had to do something. One divorce, current night shift, and a pandemic later, I've been stagnant at 215. I KNOW what to do with CICO, it's the motivation and sticking with it along with exercise. I have a small home gym with free weights and a peloton, but with my life I feel like I can never stick to anything long term. I frequent this sub and love reading others success stories. Now for the meat of the story. Today before work I decided I would eat the tub of Costco baked potato soup I had in my fridge. After eating I figured I would do the due diligence and actually log my meal for the first time in forever. 1200 calories! What?? I'm so mad at myself. Long story short, I'm going to come back here more often to get inspiration from you guys and keep my motivation up. Thanks for all the amazing stories and good luck to all of you out there.

submitted by /u/LobsterClawDick
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/3F8WZ8D

A couple of rings that I used to not be able to wear fit now!

I had very strictly counted calories for about 2 months, and then really fell off the calorie counting wagon around the beginning of October. I wasn’t completely quitting trying to lose weight, but doing that “oh I’ll just eyeball it” thing.

Then I had family from out of town visit, and then I went on a vacation to see an old friend and when I got back last week I was feeling pretty guilty about having gotten so off track. However, when I weighed myself, I hadn’t gained any weight at all. In fact I had actually lost another 4.5 lbs, making my total weight loss since the beginning of August 26 lbs.

I still wasn’t feeling super thrilled about it though. All I could think about was how much more I would’ve lost by now if I had continued to be strict with my calorie counting that whole time. I’m 6’1 and currently 249 lbs. With all that height to spread out on, 26 lbs is hardly noticeable on me. But then, today I randomly my decided to try on a couple rings that I absolutely love but couldn’t wear because they didn’t fit… and now they do!

In short, even though I wasn’t counting calories for that period of time, my habits have changed enough that it still made a difference. It also gave me a renewed sense of confidence that I can continue doing this!

submitted by /u/sholbyy
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/3kysXmO

My sister is doing it wrong

She wants to lose weight and actually goes to the gym every day for like 1 hour, and that’s good, but she’s wasting all of her effort by eating very badly and I don’t seem to get through her. I’m in a weight loss journey myself and have already lost ~34 pounds and I know that what I’m doing is working. She asked for my help multiples times so I tried to give her meals idea and talking to her about calorie deficit but she doesn’t want to listen (she confessed that). Food wise, one exemple is that she wouldn’t just eat soup to lose weight faster, so she starves herself and end up ordering junk food because she’s too hungry from that one soup-only meal. If she cooks home made meals, she doesn’t count anything so she ends up eating at maintenance or above without realizing it, resulting in her not losing weight. And I don’t know how can I make her understand that, with a little effort and a few adjustments, she would get amazing and actual results. Sorry if I seem judgy; it’s none of my buisness but I find this so frustrating... Have you encountered a similar situation? How should I help? Or should I just not? I’m at loss of ideas here because I know she means for this to work. And I want her to succeed.

submitted by /u/bimbo-proletaire
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/3HiERuL

After 3-4 weeks, I'm feeling and seeing some progress but not as much on the scale. Still motivated. M[26] 5’9” SW: 195 CW: 189 GW: 165

I decided to turn things around after gaining 35lbs over the last year, but I also want to have a more fit stronger body rather than just leaner while I lose the weight.

Since Oct 24th, I've been:

- Walking 6-7 miles a day, burning ~600cals

- Going to the gym for full body 1h-1h30 workouts for 4-5 times per week

- Eating 1500-1900cals per day, mostly sticking to intermittent fasting, reduced carbs significantly and taking creatine (probably contributing to water weight)

- Cut alcohol from half a fifth of vodka every night for 2 months (I had mental health issues) to only weekends and no more than one day of heavier drinking. Still working on reducing this but this was already tough for me

I'm likely burning 3000 cals and eating maybe 1700 average so I'm guessing normally the weight loss might be faster but I'm seeing some muscle growth so I'm hoping that's what's happening. Either way I feel much better physically and I'm motivated to keep going even though 165lbs seems pretty far away.

I was a bit bloated so it's kinda cheating but I'll leave it up to you to judge: Front view

submitted by /u/unfitness_dude
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/3Cdsw7g

Need ideas for celebrating the 150 pounds lost

I'm within striking distance of the milestone of hitting 150 pounds lost, and I'm looking for ideas for ways to celebrate the achievement. When I hit -100, I took a photo at Sam's Club next to ten 10-pound bags of sugar stacked next to me. I'll be doing something similar at -150, but it's a really big milestone, and I'd like to do something special.

I've considered walking a mile (or some specific distance) carrying an extra 150 pounds of weight. I've considered going to the local baseball stadium where I almost couldn't make it up the stairs because of my weight (and related knee issues) and just tackling them with ease. Other than that, I've got no good ideas.

What are some ways that you celebrated (or plan to celebrate) large weight loss milestones?

submitted by /u/Inevitable_Algae4167
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/3qDxZT3