Sunday, May 19, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 19 May 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Saturday, May 18, 2019

Only a week into my weight loss journey and I’m already getting real sick of the constant comments

I’ve already gotten the usual “should you be eating X?” “X isn’t good for your diet”, etc. I’m literally counting and recording every little bite of food I eat, if I’m eating something like the tiniest bit of chocolate or a chip, I don’t need the comment, “but it’s bad for you!” If I’m eating it, it means I have enough calories to spare for a little treat. I’m the type of person who can’t completely cut myself off from these treats because it’ll force me into a binge in a week or two (which I’ve learned the hard way from past experience).

But today really pissed me off. I do home care and my boss has analyzed my “diet” to death!

“How many pounds have you lost?” Well, I’m only a week in so probably not much. “But you have to keep track, otherwise how will you know how much you’ve lost?” Well, it’s not healthy for me to weigh myself too often because I get too obsessive about the number on the scale and get discouraged. “Well, how many do you think you’ve lost?” I don’t know, I haven’t weighed myself. “Well how many do you think?” I don’t know. Maybe 1 or 2. “Well, that’s not enough. You should be losing 4-5 pounds in your first week.” I just stayed silent.

“How often are you exercising a week?” 5 days a week. Tomorrow is one of my off days. “Well, you shouldn’t be getting an off day, you should be exercising every day.” At that point, I just shrugged and said “maybe”. I felt like if I said anything else, I would burst.

Later, we go out to dinner and I get a salad. He says, “if you were REALLY dieting, you wouldn’t have gotten it with nuts and with the dressing on the side.” I didn’t even know what to say. I just shrugged. Later, we get home, and I was craving chips so I had a chip. Literally, A chip. One. “What are you eating?” A chip. “You’re not allowed to be eating.” At this point, I’m fed up and I gave him a dirty look. “What? I’m just trying to help you!” he replied.

Back home, before I started, my mom had told me (many, many times btw) to make sure I was exercising enough. I’ve been doing about 15-20 miles on my fancy new bike I just bought and when I exercised for about an hour and a half split into two sessions yesterday, I’m suddenly doing “too much” and to “pace myself”. I woke up early this morning before work (which is a first for me) and didn’t get to do as much as I was hoping, and now I “need to wake up earlier so I can get in more exercise”. I’m getting whiplash at this point!

Jesus FUCK! It’s been a week. A FUCKING WEEK ! It seems like everyone has an opinion on this and I’m already sick to death of it. I have about 100+ pounds to lose, and I don’t think I can handle this type of hawkish scrutiny for another 100 pounds. I’m literally on the verge of tears as I write this but I have to hold it in because I’m still at work. I can’t even lie and pretend I’m no longer watching my weight to get him off my back because I know that every time I would order a salad or something healthy, he would make the comment “I thought you weren’t dieting anymore.”

I don’t know what to do. I’m so fucking mad and irritated and now all I can think about is food and how I can’t even eat a goddamn chip or a salad without being questioned. What am I supposed to do cause I sure as shit have no clue.

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Weight loss dating app?

Just a random thought, but I’d be super interested in a service like Tinder but for people who have lost a lot of weight. I feel like it’s hard to date traditionally while sticking to a very specific eating/exercise regime. Also, loose skin, stretch marks, deflated breasts, surgery scars, etc. don’t scare people off as much when they’ve experienced the same issues.

I’ve always been super open with potential partners I’ve met online about my significant weight loss and its resulting issues, but men and women my age (early 20s) are still are frequently put off by it and make rude comments.

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My Grandma Came to Visit...

...for my college graduation last week. She was with us up in the city, then stayed at our house for the past week.

Now the important backstory to this is that I started my weight loss journey last summer, fell off the wagon in the fall, jumped back on in the winter, and REALLY screwed myself over in the spring again. After a year, I’m only 8lbs lighter and struggling with those first week blues again.

And as I’ve struggled this week, I’ve seen my 79 year old grandmother who’s probably around 300 lbs struggle walking/standing for more than 2 minutes, stubbornly refuse to carry a portable oxygen tank, and barely able to get up and down stairs without help. Compared to my other grandma who, while still dealing with the problems of old age, is much more capable of moving around and keeping up with her grad kids.

I’ve also watched my obese grandma ‘forget’ how much food she’s had in a day, ask for extra sauce when we go out to eat, and make generally unhealthy decisions.

I’m in my twenties. When I decided to start losing weight last year, it was for vain reasons: I wanted guys to like me, I wanted to look better in pictures, and wear more fashionable clothes. But looking at my grandma, I’ve seen a future that I don’t want. I need to get healthy now so that I don’t deal with those consequences later. I want to walk around with my grandkids and not need oxygen. I’m hoping this is the final wake up call I’ll need. Third times the charm?

TL;DR my 79 year old obese grandma and her medical problems make me want to make sure I’m not obese when I’m old.

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Losing and gaining the same 2 pounds every week

3 years after having twins I reached a breaking point with my weight. I’ve never been so heavy and I’m feeling really bad about myself. 4 weeks ago, I started a weight loss program and have been logging my food as accurately as I can. I weigh about 157 and want to get down to my college weight of 135. I’m 5’8”.

I’ve been well within the calorie limits and walking almost 10k steps a day. I’m so frustrated because I started at 157.4 and last Thursday I was at 155.2, but then it creeped up today to 156.4. The same thing happened last week. I got down to 156.4, then back to 157. So it’s like 1 .5 steps forward 1 step back each week. I’m not cheating on the weekends- I don’t get it. Also, I would be fine losing just one pound a week, but 2 pounds in 4 weeks??? That’s a little too slow. Has this happened to others? I’m trying to stay motivated, but I’d like feel like this is working and I don’t right now.

I’m planning to join a gym and do weights 3x a week in July, but it’s not possible for me to do that right now. I also really don’t feel like I can function well eating less than I am now - about 1400-1500 calories a day. I’m at a loss. (No pun intended:-)

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Maintaining a 92lb loss - with photos & story

Hi all,

I've been toying with the idea of posting about my weight loss journey and finally feel ready to after today's gym trip.

In March 2017, I had a breakdown and committed to losing 92lb. Start weight was 204lb, and after exactly 52 weeks I hit my 112lb target. 14 months on, I have some issues mentally and lapse but I'm holding on tight. Before (May 2017) and after (today!) here:

http://imgur.com/8SgrdaU

So how did I do it? I joined a Slimming World group here in the UK. I was very sceptical about how it would work, because the consultant kept using buzz words like 'free food', 'speed food', 'syns', 'food optimising' and 'body magic'...this was surely nonsense and I wouldn't lose weight. In any case, I jumped right in and starting filling up on free and speed foods (low calorie foods that are more filling than others), kept within my syn limit (higher calorie foods that are less filling) and had my healthy extras (to make sure you're getting dairy and fibre) and in the first week I lost 6lb. I couldn't believe it.

The following months I followed it religiously. I cut out alcohol (I didn't drink much anyway), started walking more and ate huge portions of low calorie food, and it still kept coming off. I even managed to go away on holiday for a few days and come back with a 0.5lb loss. I started calorie counting alongside SW to try and understand how I was losing weight, and worked out that the plan automatically kept me around 1200-1300 calories a day, without counting a single one. 300 calories would come from my syns (things like chocolate, crisps and so on...as long as they were measured) and meant I didn't feel as deprived as I thought. Now that I reflect, it's basically CICO but makes sure you're not missing out on any big food groups. I didn't miss a single group the whole year on my way to target and was completely focused. The groups held me accountable as I felt like people would look down on me if I gained (they wouldn't, but my mindset helped here).

I've been finding it more challenging to maintain, especially when I was studying and working, and had a 11lb gain that I had to lose again. I'm back at target again, and for the past 2 months have been going to the gym twice a week (mostly light-moderate cardio but often add some legs and arms in). I still go to SW group every week as they give you your membership free when you're at target, but now I've mostly changed to calorie counting to see if I maintain better this way. I have a lot of loose skin, especially around my chest and tummy, but overall I'm happy with how I look now. I might try and tone up more but it's not the biggest priority.

Sorry for the huge post, but thought somebody might find something useful here. Happy to answer any questions about my journey!

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Recently started my weight loss journey. Aiming to lose 20 kilos.

Never have I shared my weight with anyone, as such. I weight 75 kilos, and I'm only around 160cm "tall", girl btw. My arms are fat and soft, so they look terrible in short sleeves, I dont dare to wear anything shorter than jeans reaching my ankles. Breasts are getting in a way, shopping for clothing in general is a

hell. My face? Ugh. My face is so round and chubby, it really reminds me of a potato.

I have decided I have had enough. I do not want to look so bad anymore. I want my boyfriend to be really proud of how I look, I want to look better. I have had enough of people shaming me, or me ruining every single photo i am in.

I got some weird app that shows me some exercises, which I am using for 5th day now. I walked around 8km today, just because I could.

I think my major issue would be that I eat nothing but candies or junk food one day, or nothing at all other days. My budget is really tight, so the only things I can afford sometimes are ramen instant noodles or some pastry with salami. No variations whatsover. Apart from ramen, I barely get a warm food once a week. What would be of similar budget that would be a little bit healthier?

What should I expect from this journey? What to really, really avoid? What is something people tend to overlook, but is really crucial?

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