Friday, September 6, 2019

How to address my fear of regaining

I'm on my third major weight loss (2 before, where I regained again). I had what amounts to a nervous breakdown a few months ago over my body image, and vowed I must get slim and healthy this time, and never, ever have to lose significant amounts of weight ever again. I'm doing really well so far.

I'm just trying to get ahead and put myself in the mindset of what to do if I start gaining again. In past times I got busy jobs, got depressed and kind of lost the momentum and vibe of healthy living. I'm honestly terrified of that happening again.

This is what I'm doing at the moment to address these fears:

  • Trying to address emotional and stress triggers wherever possible.
  • Telling myself I should keep the worry in a mental box and use it to not take my eye off the ball
  • Writing a detailed methodology of HOW I am losing weight and getting fit this time. Past times I kind of did low carb / WW Green but I can't honestly remember all the details. And that was the part of the problem, I forgot how I'd done it.
  • Making a plan to address any small gains quickly. When I get to target I will allow myself only a 1kg margin of error before I take action. I will also have a target waist measurement and resting heart rate, with similar small parameters. I won't rely on the fit of clothes like I did before.
  • I will not let people discourage me or tell me I can relax now, just have one biscuit blah blah. When I say I won't let them, I don't mean I won't listen to them. I mean I will actually tell them specifically not to say it to me.
  • I will organise my weekly routine so that meal prep time and exercise is prioritised ruthlessly. If this means life isn't so fun and games, that's fine.
  • I am writing a letter to my future self reminding myself what being overweight is really like. Ghastly details and all.

Please can you comment on any of the above, and give me any other ideas you can think of. Thanks :)

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5 Reasons You Can’t Fall Asleep at Night

It’s that time of the night when your eyes are glazing over, you’re yawning uncontrollably, and your favorite TV show has started to lose its appeal. You’re exhausted and it’s clear that your body is desperate for a little shut-eye. You crawl under the sheets and close your eyes, just to find yourself waiting for sleep that never comes.

Whether you have difficulty falling asleep or you wake up throughout the night, you could be suffering from insomnia. According to the American Sleep Association, there are two types of insomnia. Primary, formally known as idiopathic insomnia, refers to an inability to fall asleep that is not caused by a medical condition, psychiatric issue or medication. Secondary insomnia is a consequence of a medical condition, such as chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) or chronic pain.

No matter what type of dozing dilemma you find yourself facing, you need help fast. According to Healthline, research shows that people who do not get enough sleep have an increased risk for chronic disease, reduced coordination, lack of concentration and minor or life-threatening accidents. 

Before sleep deprivation starts to hinder your health and ability to function, it’s crucial that you identify what is keeping you up at night.

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Here are five reasons why you can’t fall asleep at night and what to do about it:

1. You Don’t Stick to a Schedule

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The hormone melatonin is released in the body as a response to a decrease in light says Harvard Health Publishing. Melatonin plays a huge role in the circadian rhythm, which is essentially your internal body clock. During the day when it’s bright outside, melatonin is suppressed. As dusk falls, your body begins to release this hormone to help you wind down for sleep. To keep this process running efficiently, try to follow a consistent sleep schedule as recommended by Healthline. Even on the weekends, strive to wake up at the same time every day. Your body will eventually adjust to the routine, helping you fall asleep more easily at night.

2. You Don’t Power Down

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If your nightly routine includes cuddling up to your laptop, phone or tablet, you might want to find another snuggle buddy. These close-range electronics can emit blue light. According Harvard Health Publishing, multiple studies have shown that exposure to blue light can suppress melatonin and impact the circadian rhythm. To prevent blue light from keeping you up, it is suggested to set an electronics curfew two to three hours before you intend to sleep. Try to leave your tablets and laptops out of the bedroom. If you sleep with your phone nearby, tuck it in your nightstand drawer or just beyond arm’s reach so that you aren’t tempted to surf the web before snoozing. You may also want to consider replacing your nightly social media scroll with a relaxing pre-sleep activity like reading or meditating.

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3. You Eat or Drink Too Late

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The National Sleep Foundation suggests that if you want to sleep well, you should pay close attention to when you’re eating and drinking. Eating a large meal too close to bedtime can affect your circadian rhythm and hinder your ability to fall asleep. Try to eat your last meal a few hours before hitting the sack and keep it light.

Caffeine is also a known stimulant that can keep you awake, so be mindful of how much you consume throughout the day says Healthline. If you struggle to fall asleep, you may need to cut back on the quantity or avoid drinking it too close to bedtime. Don’t forget that caffeine is in more than just coffee. Chocolate, teas and even medications can be sneaky sources of caffeine. 

Nutrisystem offers a variety of weight loss programs that can help you create an ideal eating schedule and healthy habits. Click here to learn more >

4. You Exercise Too Close to Bedtime

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Exercise at the right time of day can be more effective for good sleep than counting sheep. However, the National Sleep Association states that cramming in a sweat session too close to bedtime can actually hinder your sleep quality. It has been shown to increase your heart rate and body temperature, ultimately keeping you from drifting off to dreamland. People who exercise in the morning typically tend to fall asleep faster than those who exercise later. However, this can vary between individuals. It’s recommended to try different workout schedules to find what works best for you. Hate morning exercise? Here are some tips to make it easier >

5. You Put Too Much Pressure on Falling Asleep

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If it’s been about 10 to 20 minutes and you’re still not falling into a slumber, don’t stress. The American Sleep Association suggests that you get out of bed until you are sleepy. Try heading to another calm space in your home and do something relaxing, such as reading or listening to calm music. Staying in bed any longer can lead to frustration or anxiety. By getting out of bed and doing something relaxing, you may find it easier to sleep and can prevent negative associations between your bedroom and the frustrating inability to fall asleep.

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Thursday, September 5, 2019

Need advice for leg pain

Not sure if this is the right sub, I'm in an ongoing battle for weight loss. I'm currently 26F CW: ~260 lbs (the battery in my scale died). I lived in a flat area for a year and a half and got really lazy about exercise.

I just started school at a university in the mountains. Sometimes it's uphill both ways, and for my long trek at the end of the day to get back to the bus stop I have to stop and take a break because my leg is hurting so badly. When I first started, it hurt, but not bad enough for me to stop. Is there anything I can do besides making sure I stay hydrated? I try to do light stretches...or at least tell me when it gets better lol.

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4 Years Later - Progress Pics

Hi all,

I've been coming to this page for a long time, but have never posted anything until now. I'll try to keep this brief:

Progress Pic

I started law school in 2015 weighing in at just under 300 pounds. I had just moved back home to Chicago after undergrad and decided I wanted to make my health a priority. Something I failed to do during my four years of college. I had attempted to lose weight previously, but would always fall back into old habits. This time, I decided to start out by making some small adjustments rather than changing everything all at once. For example, if I was getting a macchiato from Starbucks I would use skim milk instead of the 2% default. I might walk to class rather than take the bus. I really just wanted to get myself moving. Eventually, these small, healthier, choices started to snowball into larger, healthier, choices. I began counting calories and entering all of the data into My Fitness Pal. I would make sure that I got at least 10,000 steps in each day. I didn't restrict myself from any food entirely, but I was much more conscious of what I was putting into my body. Some nights if I wanted pizza for dinner, I made sure that I allotted for such a meal (calorically) throughout the day - perhaps I would have a yogurt for breakfast and a salad for lunch. I started going to the gym, running a few miles at a time. I would take spin classes with friends and maybe a yoga class on the weekends. I took progress pictures throughout my entire journey, and each time I was able to see a change, however minor, my desire to continue would grow. Take pictures along the way. I didn't realize how motivating they could be. My weight loss journey has not been a linear one by any stretch of the imagination. I slipped up more than once, but always got back on track.

I graduated law school in May of 2018 around 180 pounds. All in all, I lost just about 110 pounds. Today, I weigh 165 pounds, the goal weight I had set for myself my senior year of undergrad (2015). My weight loss journey has taken 4 years so far, but I'm not done yet. I'm not sure that I ever will be. I'm now working towards toning my body, cutting body fat, and focusing less on the number on the scale.

A few things I've learned over the years...

  1. You will have setbacks. Get back up and keep moving forward.
  2. Take progress pics! They will motivate you to continue your journey.
  3. Diet is important. Exercise is important. Don't sacrifice one for the benefit of the other.
  4. Reward yourself when you've earned it. Maybe you're down another 10 pounds so you buy a new article of clothing.
  5. Rather than "dieting" you're changing your life, and prolonging it. We've got one body, give it the love and care that it needs.
  6. You can have fun while exercising. Go for a walk with friends, hit up a spin class, ride your bike, walk to/from dinner. It doesn't have to be so monotonous.

TL;DR - started out at 300 pounds. 4 years later and I'm down to 165 pounds. Made small changes at first which gradually grew to big changes. Focus on what works for you and get back up after a setback. I focused on a caloric deficit and counted my calories. Not done with my weight loss journey, but looking forward to the next chapter.

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Weight regain... what do I do?

Hi friends! I'm new to this sub but I was a longtime lurker. I'm looking for advice, I'm at a bit of a loss.

Three years ago at 22, I had a sleeve gastrectomy. I lost almost half my bodyweight - I was 189kg and went down to 92kg in eight months! It was an amazing time for me, and I'm honestly pretty sure it saved my life.

The honeymoon period lasted almost two years until last September, when I started gaining weight again. I've gained 10kgs since last September - this is a big kick in the gut to me, and I can see myself turning back into that awful monster I was all those years ago. I don't think it's my eating; I don't eat a lot these days because I don't have the room for it, and I know my sleeve is as tight and functional as it was the day it came out of surgery. I suspect it may be because I drink a lot more these days (not just alcohol, but most of my calories are drunk in the form of juices/shakes/milk - I'm an illustrator, and often forget to eat sitting over my Cintiq all day so drinking is faster than eating over 30 minutes for me) rather than overeating since that's physically impossible for me to do without hurting myself.

I was obese since childhood, however, and I don't think I ever got a good measure for my body or how it works; since all of my weight loss was food-restricted, I never ended up working out or doing much of ANYTHING and now that the weight is coming back, I'm not sure what to do. Should I be working out? I am a pretty weak person and I don't have any strength or stamina at all.

Do any of you have any advice to help me stop backsliding? I plan on seeing a doctor soon (I'm new to the United States! Your health system is confusing!) but any sort of tip or workout regimen or diet pointer would be super helpful to me.

Thank you so much for your kindness!

EDIT: Here's what I looked like before and after my surgery! https://imgur.com/a/DDlbDc9 lol they're out of order tho?? ok boomer

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Only 3.4 pounds from my original weight loss goal, and...

(5”9 19 F) Well, I thought I’d feel ecstatic at this point, really. I thought I’d be over the moon happy, yet here I am. I’d even say I’m more skeptical and slightly disappointed, honestly. I’m so close to my original goal but I don’t feel any of what I thought I would. Maybe it’s because I don’t look like how I imagined I would by now, but it just feels really odd, to say the least. I started at 174 (I thought it was 176 but looking back I weighed myself at night, so I took off two pounds to make up for food and water) and now I’m 148.4, my original goal being 145. I have shifted the goal posts to 140, as I know I won’t look how I want at 145, and I think I’ll be happiest with my weight there. I am still happy to be at this point, I just originally thought I’d be so much more excited about it. Either way, I’m only 8 pounds from my new goal weight, so yay!

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It's taken me years to ask for help when I was struggling...and I finally did it this week for my weight

This will be long but TLDR: My doctor suggested a weight loss program at the hospital (bariatric surgery certified) a few months ago and I finally called them and my first appointment is Thursday!

Throughout my life, things have always came easy to me. Didn't need to study much in school, sports came easily, I could draw and paint, musically inclined, accepted into programs etc. etc...basically failure didn't happen to me. I remember failing some spelling tests back in the 2nd grade. Anytime I started struggling, my stubbornness and pride ensured that no one ever knew and I would quietly breakdown and push on. I didn't cry, I didn't show emotion, I was bubbly and personable but I didn't show anyone the pain and hurt that bubbled just underneath. Until a wonderful professor in college. It was my final year and I was struggling.....hard. I had experienced many stressful school loads in the past, but those seemed like child’s play compared to the research I was currently working through, on top of my typical studio projects. Somewhere between my 67th page of a literature review, 12th concept sketch for studio and my 8th straight day of less than 5 hours of sleep, my mind became completely overwhelmed. During a meeting she asked about a missed checkpoint and I revealed my struggles, fully expecting to be berated about my laziness or lack of effort I had received from my parents in the past. But, I was met with more empathy and understanding than I've ever received or had for myself. She game me a second chance and I finished school incredibly strong and with a very important lesson - ASKING FOR HELP IS OKAY.

Two years ago, I had an incident and realized that my anxiety was becoming dangerous. I worried constantly and it would occasionally come out as anger towards undeserving victims. Luckily, I had become very close with some new friends and while I was upset and mad with myself, they asked if I'd ever considered talking to someone. "No, I don't need help" But I really thought about it....and they helped me find someone in my area that I could go see. I've been in therapy for about a year and a half and have resolved so many issues in my life...but even in therapy I struggled to be emotional and ask for help. One early session, I was becoming increasingly aggravated at myself because I was on the verge of crying and my therapist looks at me and says "You know, this is a safe space and I have you flanked on all sides by boxes of tissues. It's okay to cry." and I lost it. Now, I have empathy for people, I embrace my own emotions and don't hide them, I am able to set boundaries and am more confident than ever before. But even with all this self-improvement there has been an underlying voice saying "You're not worthy" and since I'm posting here I bet you can guess what that voice represented...

Ding Ding Ding!!! If you said "Weight" you are today's big winner!

I have struggled since middle school to lose weight. Mind you, I was at a fairly healthy weight in middle/high school, maybe 5-10 pounds overweight at max. but I was constantly being told "Don't wear that, it's not flattering" "You can't wear those shoes/skirts/shorts because of your cankles/thighs/large calves" (I played soccer...yeah my thighs and calves were beefed up) "Are you sure you want to wear that?" from my mother. She has struggled with her weight since I was born and I can now realize some of what she said was projecting onto me, but it truly destroyed my self-confidence at such a young age. I still have anxiety visiting them and freak-out and have to put make-up on before I get to their house for fear of my mom making a comment. I recently wore a new outfit I adore while visiting them and was panicked all day wondering what she thought and if people were judging me because I was *gasp* wearing shorts in summer even though there is cellulite on my legs. I honestly don't remember a time I wasn't trying to lose weight, I remember trying to count calories, doing leg lifts and crunches in bed every night, trying to develop anorexia (teenager brain wasn't always so smart), feeling the need to lose weight for any event, terrified of performing on stage, sitting in different ways so my "gut" wouldn't show...the list goes on. But, since my initial college struggles, I've learned that asking for help can be amazing and extremely...well...helpful. So, after getting a referral from my doctor a few months ago, I finally called and set-up my first appointment for a Medical Weight Loss program at the local hospital. They are all board certified bariatric people and have behavior therapists to help address food issues, dietitians, group therapy and different program options that they design a program for each individual based on food preferences (real food vs meal replacements) and go through an entire body composition testing and a bunch of stuff that's in the packet that I don't remember off the top of my head.

I know, r/loseit can be a stickler for "Just count calories, it's math" and I've seen that work for people and I'm soooo happy for those that can do it! But, living with my boyfriend and seeing how he and his family view food and treat themselves, I realized that how I think about food and weight isn't awesome and I want to work on my relationship with myself and be healthy and feel worthy of love. I've always tried to lose weight to look nice or from fear or judgement (parents, family, random people, myself) And I've never shared with anyone my struggles to lose weight and what I look like, yeah I may act confident but there is a very very insecure lady at my core. And I don't want to feel this way forever, I don't want to be so harsh, judgmental, and full or resent towards myself. So I asked for help. Most people struggle with weight at some point in their lives and we kinda talk about it in a superficial Mean Girls way, but really being vulnerable and open doesn't happen too often in the real world. I'm going for it, all in, and I'm not sure what to expect, but I am so loved and supported right now, that I honestly don't think I could fall even if I tried.

Apologies for the novel, it kind of turned into a therapeutic raving. I will keep y'all posted with my journey (if y'all aren't mean) and I am so looking forward to continuing my path of self-improvement!

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