Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Down 25lbs but lost it all from my ass. How do you deal with losing parts of yourself that you liked?

I (23f) am down 25 pounds today! While I am happy with my progress, I can't help but be upset that it seems that all of my weight loss has been from my chest or ass. I am proud of how far I've come and definitely feel healthier and better from the loss but that doesn't change the fact that I want to look good. Even with the loss I still lack confidence. I'm still a bit far from my goal weight and do want to continue to keep losing, but I'm worried about my motivation going forward. I'm hoping that as I continue to lose things will even out more and I'll look less like a board, but I'm still worried that won't be the case. What do ya'll recommend for helping your motivation when the results aren't quite what you imagined? 5ft2 down from 150lbs

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The reason you fall off the wagon is because you think if you mess up one meal, it messes up your entire progress

This is a cognitive distortion called black and white thinking (aka splitting). Splitting is an inability in a person's thinking to bring together the dichotomy of both positive and negative qualities into a cohesive, realistic whole. Its a defense mechanism I employ frequently and see it so much in other aspects of my life. Weight loss is no different: it’s easy to think in extremes where our choices all good or all bad with no middle ground.

Let’s say your goal is to have 1200 calories a day and you accidentally eat all those calories before noon. You haven’t failed. You can still commit to eating appropriate and healthy portion sizes for lunch, dinner, and all the snacks you eat for the rest of the day.

You don’t have to start fresh tomorrow. You can start today, even after eating your entire calorie budget. I promise you that the healthy eating patterns and shift in black and white thinking will outweigh any small shortcomings.

One thing my therapist told me is that starting to eat healthy doesn’t mean I’m going to pig out and eat my last meal tonight and promise to do better tomorrow. This isn’t my last meal! I can commit to healthy choices every hour of every day and not feel dejected if I fall short of my expectations for myself.

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Starting to struggle with my meal sizes more and more

I started losing weight in January at 295, I'm currently at 229 with a goal weight of 175. When I started losing weight It was a bit of struggle dealing with not eating as much, I felt hongry often. That started to lessen over time and eventually I got better at dealing with cravings and lapses.

Lately I've been noticing the opposite. I've been struggling to finish/enjoy the portion sizes of my meals. I've started to reduce the size of my meals quite drastically and even then I still sometimes too full. Right now my stomach is cramping from my dinner even though I cut the amount of food in half essentially.

I'm just wondering if anybody has experience with the amount of food their able to eat going down during weight loss? It seems natural to me that if it's true you start to be able to eat more as you gain weight then you opposite should also be true, right?

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Does anyone else feel like they can't give themselves credit because you haven't lost "enough" weight?

I can't seem to get out of my own head on this. Starting weight was 295 and I'm currently 250. But even though I've lost 45 pounds, all I can see is how much further I still have to go. Some days I feel like I'm starting to look ok in the mirror, but then I catch a side eye reflection of myself when I'm out somewhere and think, "Oh my god, is that STILL what I look like!?" It doesn't help that I've lost weight before and gained it back (previously started at 280 and got down to 220 before gaining it back plus some). So now whenever I think about it, it's like this current weight loss doesn't and won't count until I get back to where I was at 220 and proceed from there.

Anyone else experience this? How'd you work through it?

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SV: I am in two-derland! 55 pounds in 100 days!

100 days to the day I started Saxenda and logging everything in MFP, I am under 300 lbs!

I have had a calorie goal of 1600, and have achieved an average of 1605. I let myself eat anything, and had daily goals of < 1400: I would encourage myself to eat, 1600 was perfect, 1800 was ok, and 2000 was definitely time to stop eating. I figure the "maintain" caloric intake for my body should be 2800 - 3500 calories, based on the weight I have lost and the exercise I am doing (or not). I have gone swimming about 12 times, and have walked the dog 20+ times... not great for 100 days, but more that I would normally do.

I have an appt with the doctor next month, looking forward to it, and have been speaking with a dietician (Hi Andrea!). I am also in the queue for a government sponsored weight loss program - it may be a year wait. Hopefully I don't need it then, but if I do, I commit that I will go.

Warning: this is going to sound like a drug advertisement... I generally anti-drug / anti-medicine unless it is really needed, but in my case, I think it was warranted. With that, I have been taking Saxenda (and paying out of pocket) for 100 days. It has really, really helped me with reduced appetite, I wish I knew about it when it was FDA approved. It is an epi-pen like injection (pretty small & short needle), and it reduces what I call "the hunger" - a desire to eat a lot of food, especially at bedtime for me. The side effects for me are pretty minor - in decreasing order: diarrhea, constipation, a generalized stomach pain (like feeling full, feeling hungry & feeling like you have to go to the bathroom) and nausea. I would take all of these side effects & more for the results I have achieved. It is not snake-oil, its FDA approved, prescribed by a doctor, filled by a pharmacist... people thought I was taking some random garbage. The first prescription was about $4 / day, now it is about $8 / day (I have been underdosing myself and using my hunger & side effects as a guide to dosage).

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I just hit a whole bunch of SVs, and I simply can’t contain myself

Ok, so I’m f/37/SW355/CW255. I’ve been doing CICO for about 11 months (this time). Normally I save my SVs for the designated thread, but I just can’t help myself.

This morning, I hit 255. This marks 100 pounds lost, exactly halfway to my goal, and the lowest weight I’ve been since I was a teenager. I’ve tried and failed to lose weight for decades, losing as much as 80 pounds, but always gaining it back and then some. This time is just different. I put a lot of time into figuring out why I’d give in and binge, and I’ve finally hit a point where going back to eating the way I used to is unthinkable. I do allow myself to eat a big, fatty, delicious meal once every couple of months, but getting back on track is easy in a way it never was before. So if you’re like me and have failed over and over, don’t give up! I know that “if I can do it, anyone can” is a cliché, but in this case it 100% true.

I still have massive mental struggles... I’m still very fat, so I feel like I look the same. I KNOW that 100 pounds in 11 months is an awesome pace (and I’ve been more consistent than ever), but I still feel like I could have done better. Losing 100 pounds has been mentally exhausting, and now I need to loose 100 more, which is pretty hard to face. I’m doing this while also starting out a new career and getting a masters, so my life is a grind and most of the time I feel like I’ll just be halfway there for forever...

I have a hard time feeling proud of myself and I don’t talk about my weight loss in real life, so thank you to this sub for allowing me to ramble for a minute!

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5 Ways Slow Eating Can Increase Weight Loss

A man named Joey Chestnut (nicknamed “Jaws”) is the number one speed eater in the world. According to Major League Eating, he once ate a record 74 hotdogs (with the buns) in 10 minutes at the national Nathan’s Hotdog Eating Contest on Coney Island. Over the years, he’s also made short work of pizza, pastrami, Philly cheesesteaks and Boysenberry pie. That’s all in a day’s work for Chestnut. He makes a lot of money speed-eating. But for the rest of us, wolfing down our food like a competitive eater just wins us pounds. Slow eating practices may be the answer.

In fact, a three yearlong study published in the Journal of Epidemiology found that fast eaters have a higher prevalence of metabolic syndrome than those who practice slow eating. Metabolic syndrome is a cluster of health problems, including high blood pressure, high blood sugar, high cholesterol and excess abdominal fat that can be a forerunner to type 2 diabetes.

On the other hand, taking your time eating has major benefits. In a recent study published in the International Journal of Obesity, researchers looked at the eating habits of 60,000 people. They found that taking your time can decrease your risk of obesity. Even better, they discovered that the study subjects who put the brakes on their eating speed over the course of the study lost weight.

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Here’s are some other scientific reasons why you should join the slow eating movement:

1. You’ll eat fewer calories.

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According to Harvard Health, the gut and nervous system communicate via hormone signals. They explain that it can take “about 20 minutes for the brain to register satiety (fullness)”. If you eat too fast, you may end up overeating before your gut can tell your brain that it’s had enough.

The secret to slowing down your eating is to chew more. Researchers at the University of Rhode Island found that women who were told to eat quickly consumed 646 calories in nine minutes. When these same women were instructed to stop between bites and chew 15 to 20 times per bite, they reduced their calorie intake to just 579 calories in 29 minutes.

The number of chews per meal may be significant. A 2011 study, published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, found that optimum number of chews to significantly reduce calorie intake was 40. Chewing more may also be able to help you curb your appetite for some of your favorite foods. A study in the Journal of the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, found that slower chewing could even reduce the intake of yummy pizza by as much as 14.8%.

2. You’ll feel full and satisfied.

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Slowing your pace can help you enjoy your food more, feeding what scientists call “hedonic hunger.” According to Live Science, this is the need to experience pleasure in eating. Humans are programmed to take pleasure in our food. It’s a throwback to a time when there wasn’t so much food readily available. When a tasty food presented itself—like a bush full of sweet and highly palatable berries—our tickled taste buds told us to eat more and more even if we weren’t starving or even hungry. Those were feast or famine times and starvation was always around the corner—desiring sweet things gave us a survival advantage.

Slow eating can help you pay more attention to the flavors, textures and enjoyment of a meal. According to a study published in the Journal of the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, it’s also more likely to make you feel physical full than gobbling it in record time.

3. You won’t binge.

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Mindful eating has been shown in several studies to help people not only lose weight but also control binge eating. According to Harvard Health, a government-sponsored study was done at Indiana State and Duke Universities. In this study, binge eaters practiced mindfulness techniques while eating. They found that the participants experienced increased enjoyment while eating and decreased struggle in controlling their consumption.

Harvard Health mentions several recommendations for mindful and slow eating, such as eating with your non-dominant hand, eating with chopsticks, setting a timer for 20 minutes, taking small bites and asking yourself if you’re really hungry prior to eating.

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4. You’ll burn more calories.

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Hey, chewing is exercise! A 2014 study in the journal Obesity found that chewing your food “until no lumps remain” increases the number of calories you burn. They found that participants burned about 10 extra calories per every 300-calorie meal when they ate slowly. You could potentially burn 1,000 calories or more a month, the researchers suggest.

5. You’re less likely to gain weight.

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Slow eating can keep you from struggling with losing that “last five pounds” over and over again. In a study published in the journal Appetite, researchers at Fukuoka University in Japan tracked over 500 people for eight years and compared their weight change. Those who ate more quickly gained more weight (almost five pounds) than those who ate slowly.

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