Saturday, February 8, 2020

I'm losing weight pretty fast but still very overweight, but my Mother wants me to stop losing weight?

I am 13 stone 5ft 6 which makes me technically obese, and my Mother is 12 stone and 2 inches smaller than me. She thinks I am smaller than her, she was literally surprised when I said how heavy I was. I don't know if maybe the weight is just more hidden like in different places (thighs or arms?) or if it's muscle mass because the work I do is very physical i.e heavy lifting. But I am still losing weight and dieting but for some reason she thinks I should stop. Like I can still see the fat on me and I want rid, and that's what I am doing.

She thinks I am not looking after myself, so does the manager for a different section at work. Not sure what's wrong with losing weight? A lot of people have said how great I look since I started 6 months ago (i've lost over 2 stone since starting), so I am for the most part, happy with my weight loss, except for the few people worried, Is it the rate I am losing it? Maybe they can't see the fat that is obviously there. I am 13 stone for a reason. I wanted to be at least 11 but I don't want my Mum to think that's a bad thing.

She isn't the type to be jealous and want to be skinnier than me, that isn't it at all, she is genuinely worried. I just don't know why. Any suggestions? I just moved out a couple months ago so she can't see what I am eating but I am for the most part, eating well, even been having fatty foods sometimes! Maybe I should just send pics every day to show her I am eating fine. Or semi-fine. It's difficult to do nights and then eat well especially living with people who would not appreciate me cooking 'dinner' at 8 in the morning, haha.

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It Feels So Good!

I started adding exercise in while eating healthy over many months. In 2016 I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism and it wasn’t regulated with medication until 2018. July 2019 I had my six month check up with my doctor, showed her my Fitbit activity and basically said “Halp Please”. She said her daughter was stuck at a plateau as well. I was 176 at that visit at the end of July. She wrote me adipex (please no one freak out I know that not everyone can safely take that medication) and referred me to a weight loss clinic my insurance covered where I was monitored every two weeks by both a nurse practitioner and a dietitian. Because I was being monitored while on the medication I used it correctly and safely. I started with walking outside. We went on vacation the week after my birthday which means we went the second week in August. The condo at the beach had a small gym and I discovered I would happily walk on the treadmill for hours as long as I had something good to read on my kindle. By the time the vacation was over I had lost eight lbs. When I got home, I started using my gym membership that comes with my job and started getting up at five am every morning to get on the treadmill, I also started to sporadically (at first) take yoga classes. When I hit another plateau in the low 160’s, I added in strength training and hit the 150’s fast. Today I’m 147 and only 7 lbs away from a healthy BMI. Moral of the story, you can do this if you set your mind to it. I’ve gone down five pant sizes since August and I feel amazing.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 08 February 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Didn't realise I had such fat fingers...

This weight loss journey started at a BMI of 35.5 in May 2019. Since then, I've lost 54lb and come down to a BMI of 27.0. It has been great - I'm wearing clothes that I haven't worn in years, I'm more functionally fit, I feel more confident in myself.

But I have also had some unexpected consequences - yesterday I lost my wedding ring! Turns out I have lost enough body fat that my fingers are now significantly slimmer!! To the point where my ring fell off in the supermarket without me even noticing it had gone.

After panicking, retracing my steps and asking at customer services, I luckily found it at the bottom of one of my shopping bags. It's now safely on a necklace chain until I can get it resized.

Amidst all my sense of panic, there was also an underlying sense of pride at how hard I have worked over the last nine months. It's hard to see the day-to-day or even week-by-week changes, so it felt somewhat rewarding to be reminded of how far I've come!

Warning to others - careful with important rings as you lose weight!!

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Hoping to hit the 20lb weight loss this weekend

35F 5’0 SW: 174 CW:155. I started this journey December 1st and am down 19 pounds. I’ve been consistently losing until last week. I’m going on vacation in 3 weeks and had a goal in mind and not losing last week is really frustrating. I didn’t change anything with my workouts and still was sticking to 1,000-1,500 calories a day. Saturday and Sunday I see a trainer and do an hr of strength training. weekdays I do 30 minutes on the elliptical and 30 minutes of strength training/weights.

Until I go on my vacation I’m going to try IF. Any tips on that would be appreciated. Also the past 4 days I’ve added on another 30 minutes on the elliptical after work. I workout for an hour every morning before work and then sit all day. Also sticking closer to 1,200 calories.

I’m very proud of the work I’ve done. Losing weight has also been a big motivator in keeping me from drinking. I’ll be 3 months sober next week after drinking way too much wine everyday and gaining like 30 pounds. I’m seeing a special someone and want to feel and look my best. I know how I look wont matter to him, but I really want to feel confident when I see him. I have 3 weeks!!! As for the cardio should I be focusing on strength? Speed? Heart rate? Any suggestions are welcome. Thanks!

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Friday, February 7, 2020

How do I determine a goal weight for longevity?

I'm 5 foot 10, male, 33yo, SW180 lbs CW173 lbs and out of shape. I've been finding the weight loss process (which for me, has been slow and steady wins the race) not that difficult over all (I did have to give up a few habits!)

Originally, I had arbitrarily picked 160lbs as a goal weight, because it seemed like I probably had at least 20lbs excess weight. I've now read a bit more and seen calculators like these (https://www.calculator.net/ideal-weight-calculator.html?ctype=standard&cage=33&csex=m&cheightfeet=5&cheightinch=10&cheightmeter=180&printit=0&x=44&y=10) and decided to adjust my goal to 155 before beginning more serious exercise to shift some of that weight towards muscle.

I am wondering though, if anyone has done any research into optimizing weight for health and longevity. At my current weight (and body type), I'm sure I'm a risk for cardiovascular disease, diabetes, cancer, etc. I'd like to make a goal to be at a minimal risk for these things.

Has anyone looked into this? What did you find?

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Feeling hypocritical

I’m a weight loss/nutrition counselor. Every day, I’m encouraging people to transform their lives and nourish their bodies with nutrient-dense foods and achieve a realistic, healthy weight. Because I’m constantly talking about weight loss every day, I feel as though I’m a hypocrite or I’m letting people down. I grew up a fat kid and got into nutrition when I was in high school, losing around 50 pounds. I got my degree in nutrition when I was in college because food and health and helping people are all things that I’m passionate about. My weight has fluctuated since then, and a particularly hard relapse into depression caused it to skyrocket. I’m not “fat” in the obvious sense, since I’m tall and carry it better than most. But my boss frequently points out that I need to lose more weight if I want to be taken seriously as a weight loss coach. I get it. But it’s also very triggering. I’ve tied my worth into my weight for so long, and I feel so worthless right now. I want to be a good example for my clients, and at the same time, the pressure I feel to be a certain weight almost makes it harder to do it. I don’t know how to find the energy or the willpower to take care of myself.

TL;DR - a fat weight loss coach feeling super guilty and dejected on my own weight loss journey

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