Saturday, July 18, 2020

A Necessity, Not a Choice: The Story and Journey of losing 104 lbs in 8 Months.

When we begin our weight loss journeys, we often think of it as a choice: We want to get better, be healthier, we want to live for our relatives.

Yet, while true, often times we may see it become a necessity, or else we'd suffer the consequences of inaction.
Mine was such case.

Beginning in September 2019, my health conditions greatly worsened to such an extent that I could have dropped dead at any moment. All primarily to me weighing 309 pounds.

To give you an insight of such health conditions:
-My blood pressure was consistently 180/110, this is a hypertensive crisis, and I have a significant chance of getting a heart attack and stroke. I frequently had severe headaches, edema in my legs, and chest pressure and/or pain.

-I had black patches of skin in my neck, feet, blurry vision, and severe fatigue. As you may know, this significantly indicates prediabetes.

-I could not stand still for a minute without feeling significant pain in my joints and feet.

-I struggled to use the stairs.

-I had a resting pulse of 90/min

-My heart was broken.

I had an appointment with the cardiologist to see if my heart is healthy (thankfully, it was), and he mentioned that if I ever wanted my blood pressure wanted to change and to keep my heart healthy, I had to lose weight.

Beginning in December 2019, I heeded the warnings of prediabetes and blood pressure, and immediately decreased my food intake to 1500 calories/day.

Here is what I did:

Diet:
Besides the regular and necessary CICO and counting calories, there's a couple of things that I did differently than most weight-loss success stories.
-In order to stop me from binging, I had 2 cheat days where I could eat ~2500 calories (This would change with my weight over time). At first glance this may seem counterintuitive, but I ate tons of protein on those days, sweets were also consumed, but at a minimal.

-I completely stopped eating junk food.
-I replaced all drinks with water
-I frequently did cardio exercise
-I played with colleagues at the gym (Badminton, Kickball, Dodgeball, etc)
-I consumed sweets minimally
-I ate whole wheat bread and no-sugar jam for a snack.
-I had biscuits (270 cal) and milk tea (90 cal) for breakfast every day, this gave me enough energy and satiated me for hours.

Psychological:

-The biggest barriers were family, they will be like the devil in your ears, tempting you with the most unhealthy foods you'll ever see, and consistently beg you to eat unbearable quantities of them. To this day, I jokingly say that my family made my diet significantly harder than it should've been; and it's true. Fortunately, it gets better over time, you won't be tempted, as long as you learn to say "NO!"

-The cheat days were seen as a reward for my hard efforts, I'd frequently lose 2+ Ibs with them until very recently. They help you keep control. Whenever I had cravings, I'd frequently say "I can eat this on my cheat day". The majority of the time I'd end up not eating it on said cheat days.

-I frequently put sugary foods in front of me for a specific period of time (often 30 minutes), I'd often try to tempt myself and then resist, this helped up build an "immunity" of sorts over time of practice. This really helps. Not only would I not binge when I get at my healthy weight, but I learned to resist temptations vehemently; not just food, but in all matters of life.

-Envisioning:
I'd often envision how I wouldn't worry about my then health conditions when I lose weight, how I'd look sexy, and, very optimistically, would get all the women. I always kept this in the back of my mind, no burger, fried chicken, or pizza will make it worth it for me to risk diabetes on a daily basis, make my joints hurt, or have my chest pressured and in pain.

-Be busy:
I found when I am sitting fiddling with my thumbs, I'd often increase my eating portions, and thus halt me from shedding the pounds. To deal with this issue, I would often study, research, or watch educational videos.

Not only did this keep my mind and growling belly off food, but it also helped me finish many books and studying large quantities of information in a short timespan!

The Aftermath:

As it stands, I am very slightly overweight, at 205 Ibs, I no longer have any of the beginning health conditions, I sleep better, I think better, it's much easier for me to move, and I am happy on a consistent basis, eating healthy food, and appalled at the idea of eating a single french fry; although chocolate isn't out of the question just yet!

I hope my success motivates any of those currently struggling. Remember that struggling and failing is better than accepting the status quo and doing nothing! Know that your current problems will not last. Be patient, control yourself. Use my psychological methods if necessary.

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After so many years, I think I finally found a weight loss method that works for me.

Me: F, 31, 163 cm (5’4). SW: 312 lbs CW: 270lbs GW: 154 lbs (???)

So, I lost 30 lbs. And gained it back. Then I lost 40. And gained it back. Then 55. Then gained it back, and added 20 more. You know the drill.

What I tried earlier was a complete 180 of what I was before. No food after 6PM. No sweets. No pizza. More greens. Peas. Fruit. Nuts. Eating 1400 calories or less. It worked like a charm, but after a while I felt miserable. So I quit. I was hungry, and I didn’t like the food I was eating. And now I’m qualified to be in The Biggest Loser.

This time around, I thought what I can do that I can keep doing for the rest of my life. And for now, weight loss has never been easier.

First and foremost - I like big meals. I love feeling so full that I want to take a nap afterwards. So I only eat one or two big meals a day. I stil count everything and use my kitchen scale almost obsessively, but I have my big dinner. Completely by accident, because I hate eating and working, I am now eating 10:14, or sometimes 8:16. And my body adjusted just fine.

I’m an insanely picky eater and I never ever in my whole life ate anything green or leafy. And nothing I ever tried to change this stuck. So for now, I gave up. I eat stuff I like, but in a healthy way. Pasta and bread? Make it brown. Potatoes and burgers? I oven bake them without any oil. Popcorn? Sure, but with like a teaspoon of oil. I’m trying vegetable patties, or I put broccholi in mashed potatoes, or baby spinach in my egg scramble or eat pasta stuffed with spinach and ricotta.

Calorie restriction? Of course, but not by more than 650 or so calories. Somewhere between 1 and 2 lbs a week weight loss. I can’t do this I feel like I’m not eating enough. So, my current max is 1750 calories, which is a 650 calories deficit for my weight.

I have a huge problem with portion controlling when it comes to junk food (I’m not really into sweets), so I’m not the kind of person to have just one handful of chips. So I eat a whole bag, or a huge pizza, or fries, once or twice a month, and log it, but then I balance it out with eating slightly less for the rest of the week. Sometimes I even say fuck it, I’m only human. But what’s important is I keep going.

Workout? Not for now. But I do plan to when I reach a certain mental checkpoint.

I know it’s not 100% healthy or by the book but all I care right now is it’s working. The kilos are down by a whole lot. My bloodwork is better. I feel better. And I’ve been doing this for almost 9 months. It’s almost become normal now, to weigh everything from pasta to bread to oil and log everything I eat. And not eating fries and fast food almost every day. Maybe later I will have the willpower to have better food choices but for right now, I’m doing whatever is sustainable so I don’t have a heart attack at 40.

I hope this helps people who are thinking that they need to do drastic changes in order to lose the weight. Just do wharever works for you in the long run. You’ll get there. We’ll all get there :)

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as someone who's never been active a day in their life and can't choose their food....how do i ease into things? is there even any hope for me? ;n;

i'm sorry if i'm breaking any rules by making a "what do i do" post... i'm sure theres millions of these but i figured i'd be typing too much to put in the q&a thread.

backstory: i've been depressed my entire life. i've always hated my body and everything about it. (F, 5'3, 170 as of a year and some change ago) just seeing things about weight loss would trigger my depression and self hatred so i couldnt even think about trying to get better. and even if it didnt, i wouldn't have enough energy or motivation to do anything anyway.

i'm doing better now. depression has risen a bit since quarantine started but my self imagi e has improved a lot the past year. getting a boyfriend helped a lot. he loves my chubby body.

while he likes my body which has done wonders for my self image, and i kinda like being a little squishy and find it cute, i still want to lose a little bit. not all of it, i just dont want a belly that protrudes this much. now that I like myself a little more i can safely say that i want to do this for myself, and not as a desperate attempt to get people to like me.

i have 2 problems though

  1. i live with my parents. we're pretty poor and my parents tend to buy a lot of cheap food. it's not really unhealthy a lot of the time, but it's not 100% healthy all the time either. think of it like a broke college kid diet. i dont really have a say in what i eat for dinner because they're in charge. i can cut out snacks and for the most part pick my breakfast and lunch (if theres even anything i can make with what we have) so food is going to be an issue. i will try my best with what i have though.

  2. i've never been active. ever. I was always too terrified of people seeing my exercise, and honestly i still kind of am. the most i've ever done is walk a couple of km to play pokemon go lol.... i havent run since high school gym class, or done anything active of the sort either. its embarrassing. but a bunch of mental health issues and crippling anxiety will do that haha. the point is, even the smallest things will strain me cause my body isnt used to it and i dont know how to ease into things.

is there like...any hope for me? what can i do in the safety of my bedroom? i'm still nervous about people seeing my exercise so i dont know if i can go out and run. i probably wouldnt get very far anyway without feeling like i cant breathe. i just have no idea where to start. theres too many websites and forums and sources about losing weight and I'm so overwhelmed... (a lot which i assume arent right or safe... i kept getting recommended intermittent fasting but it seemed to close to an eating disorder for me to be comfortable with)

again i'm sorry if i'm breaking any rules and i'll delete the post right away. i'm just very overwhelmed and i don't know where to start.

edit: ah apparently diet is like 80% of the journey and i dont have control over that so i guess i'm stuck :(

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Feeling discouraged, could use a little support/advice right now.

I've (20F|5'7") put on some weight (about 7 pounds) as a result of being at home all the time now due to COVID-19. Even before the extra weight gain associated with the pandemic, I've never really been satisfied with the way I look, so I really want to get to a place where I feel confident in my own skin.

I started my weight loss journey (if you can even call it that) on June 16. I've lost 10.2lbs so far, and have got down from 156lbs to 145.6lbs. Ideally, I'd like to get down to 120lbs, so I've still got quite a ways to go.

I thought I was doing okay, as my weight has been decreasing since I started counting calories and exercising more last month. I use the LoseIt app to keep myself accountable. I'm pretty sure that I record my calorie intake accurately as I measure/weigh what I eat, and if I'm really unsure how many calories something has, then I'll overestimate to be safe. My calorie limit is set at 1,150 and I eat around 900-1,100 calories per day.

For the past 4 days, the scale just doesn't seem to be shifting. I'm not sure why. I feel discouraged as I'm eating under my calorie limit but I don't see the change on the scale. I am also exercising. I'm scared that I'm going to lose motivation and get off track, and gain all the weight back. Today I had an ice cream bar, which was 160 calories, and I feel so guilty for eating it. I'm still under my calorie limit for today but I can't help but imagine how good it would have been if I didn't eat that ice cream bar. I guess I'm just terrified of ruining my progress.

I'm not too sure how to go from here, specifically how to "jumpstart" my weightloss again. I'd really appreciate any words of wisdom, support or advice. I'm thinking of lowering my calorie limit since it seems to be too high now that I've lost some weight. I know it's not healthy to go under 1,200 but to be honest, I don't really care, because I hate myself right now.

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Just starting my weight loss journey after jot being being able to walk for a few months. Looking for any advice!

Hello all! So as of now I’m around 430 pounds and am a right leg below the knee amputee. I haven’t been able to walk since January which put my in a funk and made me put on some more weight. I’m hoping to be able to walk within the next few months. All my wife an I really eat is pork, chicken and deer/elk/antelope as we butcher our own meat and of course veggies. Before hurting my residual limb I was going for 2 hikes a day with my dog and doing yoga. Hopefully I’ll be able to start that up again shortly after walking again.

What all advice would you guys have for a newbie who has around 200lbs to loose.

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Friday, July 17, 2020

Weird Tips.

So, I've been following this sub pretty closely the past two months and it's absolutely been a huge help and inspiration when losing weight. But, I have to say, some of the conventional tips didn't help me at all so I wanted to make a post laying down some of mine that might help a subset of people.

  1. Life philosophy. Super underestimated and important in my opinion - it's so hard to lose weight while simultaneously believing people genuinely have no free will. I had to change parts of my philosophy on life to be able to lose weight and there are just as many intelligent and thoughtful philosophers who disagree with you and can change your mind if you give them a chance. I'm a complete dumbass and not hugely educated so this might not apply for a highly intelligent person, but I think is useful for a lot of us.

  2. Turn your defects into positives. I like eating more than I like food, which means there's not that much of a difference to me between downing an entire package of steamed broccoli and an entire bag of chips. I have a shitty palate and tastebuds but know which benefits me more in the long run so it's hard but not impossible to make healthier choices. Do I eat the chips sometimes? For sure. Do I eat the broccoli more? Great - that's what matters.

  3. Do NOT become a foodie! You're a bad cook and don't earn that much money - you're going to make some shitty healthy meals. Learn to shut your senses up and at least tolerate them.

  4. Pretend you're a robot or you're caring for an old car a relative asked you to look after. Thinking of food as fuel helps me keep to a boring but routine bit of healthy meals. I wouldn't put the cheap gas in my favorite uncle's car - why not fill myself up with the same fine things his car gets?

  5. Find a YouTube community that inspires you. Mine was unhealthy mukbangers/weight loss journey channels, because they showed me what not to do and satisfied the occasional craving. People better than me might find more use in cooking or exercise or pure and wholewome weight loss channels and I welcome that, but negative reinforcement really helped me.

  6. Experiment and spend money if you can! A huge game changer for me was realizing that a protein filled breakfast satisfied my body the most despite 20+ years of me insisting I didn't like breakfast. IF seemed great in theory but was awful in practice, but I had to make good faith effort to try new things and track their results even when I thought I know the answers and it helped me the most. I also found out my favorite veggies were some of the most expensive. Ah well. Buy them if you must.

I'm only 20 pounds down or so but wanted to share in the hopes it might inspire more bleak and gloomy folks like myself.

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7 years of weight tracking

https://i.imgur.com/1aKw0Sy.jpg

TLDT; get your mental health right first then focus on the weight loss.

7 years of weight tracking and I am finally found something that works for me. Prozac.

Okay, before you go off, Prozac is not a weight loss drug. But after suffering from depression and anxiety for over ten years, I went to the doctor. I discussed my anxiety (and the occasional panic attack) and depression, he prescribed Prozac.

I feel like myself again. Which has enabled me to be focused on the goals I set for myself, and weight loss being a major goal.

My highest weight was 333lbs, about a month later I am 313 lbs. combination of CICO and OMAD. 20 lbs down 80 more to go!

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