Tuesday, August 18, 2020

Counting cals + TONS of exercise = no weight loss?

Hi, all.

My boyfriend (26 y/o, 5'10, 190 lbs) is trying to lose weight. I have a full home gym, and he's been doing intense workouts (mostly Peloton) 5/6 days a week.

He bought a smart scale, but after a few months of constant exercise, he didn't really lose any weight.

One month ago, he started counting calories, since exercise obviously wasn't enough. He has stayed under 1500 calories pretty much every day...and he hasn't lost weight either.

Does anyone have any idea why this could be happening? We eat very healthy, home-cooked meals every day. I'm the kind of person who doesn't work out and hasn't gained a pound in a decade, so I can't really help him with this.

Thank you all so much!

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How did I lose weight after a cheat day?

My weight loss journey has been a long one. I started off being very small and fit, got pregnant and ate a ton thinking I would just work it off easily after giving birth. Wrong. I ended up being 60 lbs heavier after having my daughter.

I’m now halfway through my weight loss journey.

Sometimes I slack and gain 5 lbs, other times I maintain, or I go hard and am super disciplined. Right now after backsliding and gaining 5 lbs, I’m back to being super disciplined. Possibly the most disciplined since the beginning of this journey.

I’ve been slowly losing. Counting calories better than ever before. Last night I decided I would have a bit of a cheat night since my husband was craving pasta. I got the kids size alfredo (which honestly, should be an adult size, no wonder we have an obesity problem in this country) and ate 3/4 of it and some bread. I had stomach cramps last night because I’m not used to eating that heavy food anymore!

I dreaded getting on the scale this morning (I weigh every day for accountability, it works for me) I lost 1.5 lbs...

HOW?! This has happened to me before when I am very disciplined and eating healthy and then I have an extremely unhealthy meal and I lose weight the next day. Does this ever happen to anyone else?! Does anyone know why this happens?

Tl;dr Multiple times after being very disciplined with exercise and eating, I have a cheat day and lose weight the next morning. Why does this happen?

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15 Self-Improvement Tips for a Successful September

September is all about new beginnings. It’s a new season and many people begin new routines that will carry them through the rest of the year. Plus, September has been officially designated as Self-Improvement Month. We can’t think of a better time to start anew and better yourself! It’s time to think of every day as an opportunity to take simple steps that will help you look, feel and live better. To get you started, we’ve gathered this list of hints that you can use to build a happier and healthier you this September.

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Here are 15 self-improvement tips for a successful September:

1. Reset your habits.

September

We make lots of choices every day. However, we also do many things without thinking simply because they’ve become habits. The good news is that not all habits are harmful. There are many healthy habits that can turn your September into a successful start to a new season. Even better, research shows that it can take as little as 66 days to build a new habit that’s good for you, says University College London  This can include drinking more water, starting a new exercise routine, getting more sleep or even cutting down on screen time.

Not sure where to start? Check out these 10 workday habits of healthy people! >

2. Practice positivity.

September

You have more control of your inner dialogue than you realize. By making a concentrated effort to think positive thoughts, you can improve your mood and your health. “People with a family history of heart disease who also had a positive outlook were one-third less likely to have a heart attack or other cardiovascular event within five to 25 years than those with a more negative outlook,” says Johns Hopkins Medicine. They also explain that smiling reduces heart rate and blood pressure during stressful situations, even if it’s a fake smile. You really can fake it ’til you make it!

3. Give yourself goals.

September

Every achievement, big or small, starts with a goal. And the goals you are most likely to reach are specific and attainable. Simply saying you want to lose weight or stay in touch with old friends, for example, makes it easy to keep putting those things off. Instead, define your goals as “fitting into my favorite dress for a wedding” or “calling one friend every week.” Click the link below for tips on writing your own goals!

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4. Accept setbacks.

September

No matter how motivated and focused we are, sometimes forces beyond our control prevent us from reaching our goals. Too often, that makes us feel like giving up, as if we’ll never succeed. However, progress rarely goes in a straight line. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves that even when we go two steps forward and one step back, we have moved closer to our goal.

5. Try mentoring.

September

People with experience in careers, parenting and life skills have invaluable knowledge to share with those just starting out. Mentoring can be rewarding for both sides—mature people get to pass along their well-earned wisdom and younger folks get help in overcoming obstacles. Plus, when one teaches, two learn! Check out The National Mentoring Partnership, which has a “connector” database that matches mentors with people who want to be mentored.

6. Widen your circle.

September

If you have a few close friends, you are fortunate. However, regular contact with a broader range of people is also good for your mental health as you get older. According to research, published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, “The midlife wellbeing of both men and women seems to depend on having a wide circle of friends whom they see regularly,” says ScienceDaily.

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7. Make time to read.

reading

We all spend more time than ever looking at the screens of electronics. It’s time to put down your smart phone and pick up a good old book! Taking time to read books helps both our bodies and our minds: Research shows that reading can reduce stress levels by up to 68 percent, says the University of Minnesota. Whether you enjoy inspirational self-help, biographies or fantasy fiction, there’s a book out there for everyone. Audio books are also a great option when you’re on the go! Listen to them on your commute, your daily jog or while you’re cooking up a healthy meal.

8. Try new apps.

new apps

Our phones and tablets bring the world to our fingertips and offer us many ways to make our lives easier and more enriching. You can try apps that help you work on your memory skills, learn new vocabulary, pursue creative ideas, manage your finances, try new workouts and so much more. Want to lose weight this September? Check out the FREE NuMi app from Nutrisystem, available for both Apple and Android devices! It’s the ultimate app for weight loss because it makes it easy for you to track your progress and provides with you daily information and inspiration. Learn more here! >

9. Learn a second language.

September

Being able to speak two languages not only allows us to communicate with a wider variety of people but it’s also  good for our brains. According to Annual Review of Linguistics, “research in recent decades has demonstrated that experience with two (or more) languages confers a bilingual advantage in executive functions and may delay the incidence of Alzheimer’s disease.” You can learn a new language using one of the many online courses or apps. Solidify your skills by practicing with native speakers whenever possible.

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10. Fix your posture.

September

Sitting all day and staring at a screen can cause poor posture. This can damage your spine, cause neck and back pain, decrease flexibility and impact breathing, says MedlinePlus. You can avoid these problems by bearing in mind the basics of good posture throughout the day: Harvard Health Publishing recommends keeping your chin parallel to the floor and your shoulders even. You should have a “neutral spine” with your arms at your sides. Be sure to keep your hips level, knees and feet pointing forward and your body weight distributed evenly. Run down that list when you’re sitting and standing to re-balance yourself and prevent the slumping that pushes us out of alignment.

11. Meditate daily.

September

Taking a little time each day to clear your mind of your daily cares and concerns can help you enjoy a stress-free September. According to Mayo Clinic, meditation has been shown to decrease the symptoms of high-blood pressure, chronic pain, anxiety, headaches, sleep problems and more. You can find many apps and online videos to help you get started. However, the basics are simple: sit in a comfortable position in a place that’s as free from distractions as possible. Focus on the rhythm of your breathing and let any thoughts or worries that enter your mind drift away. All you need is 10 minutes to get the benefits of this little break from the rush of daily life.

12. Cook often.

healthy cooking

When you prepare your own food, you pay attention to the ingredients and can avoid unhealthy additives like salt and sweeteners. If you don’t have much experience cooking, start off simple and practice your skills before you take on more elaborate dishes. Don’t know where to begin? Check out The Leaf Weight Loss Blog for thousands of easy and delicious recipes that fit into your healthy diet! You can also pick up a copy of the book How to Cook Everything by Mark Bittman. It covers all the basics and shares the little tips and secrets that great home cooks learn after years in the kitchen.

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 13. Sleep more.

sleep

You might not think of sleeping as a way to improve your life. However, so many of us are chronically tired that it actually harms our mental and physical health. Lack of sleep even increases our chances of overeating and makes it harder for us to lose excess weight, says Current Opinion in Clinical Nutrition and Metabolic Care. Try your best to stick to a regular bedtime and wake-up schedule. If you find yourself tired in the middle of the day, taking a 20-minute nap can refresh you without disrupting your night-time sleep.

Learn more about the importance of getting good sleep! >

14. Lose weight.

weight loss

According to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases, being overweight or obese can lead to a wide range of health concerns, such as diabetes and heart disease. Losing the excess weight can reduce your risk of these problems, as well as promote positive feelings, a sense of accomplishment and better self-image. To help you reach a healthy weight, consider trying a convenient meal delivery service that fits into your new September schedule. The all-new Nutrisystem program provides you with a personalized weight loss experience and perfectly portioned meals delivered to your door. You take a quiz and we provide you with a plan that’s tailored to you. Click here to learn more! >

15. Be grateful, be happy.

September

Simply being thankful for the most basic things that we have in our lives—food and shelter, health and safety, family and friends—improves our sense of well-being. Practicing gratitude is associated with “greater life satisfaction,” according to research, published in the medical journal Psychiatry. And what better way to improve ourselves this September than to be happier about all the good things we have.

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Three months of painfully-low weight loss (and sometimes gain)

TL;DR: I lost 10 pounds in three months and I am trying to kick it back into gear. I am really happy for people who lost weight quickly, and I really thought I would be one of those people. That said, I think even slow weight loss is worth discussing and celebrating. I am hoping to get five or so pounds down in the next month. Here's a few snapshots of my weight loss journey by date: 5/5/20: 184.5 5/12/20: 180.7 5/19/20: 180.6 5/27/20: 178.5 6/3/20: 177.6 6/12/20: 172.7 6/19/20: 173.0 6/25/20: 173.3 7/2/20: 173.5 7/9/20: 170.4 7/22/20: 178.2 8/2/20: 171.5 8/5/20: 171.1 8/17/20: 170.0 8/18/20: 174.1

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I should eat the cake, right?

It’s been two months since I (30F) started my weight loss journey and I’ve lost about 18lbs (SW 220 CW 202). I feel like I’ve been doing really well - ie, not hungry all the time, enjoying my exercise, the outfit I put on today is one that didn’t fit me in May.

One of my best friends, who happens to be a professional pastry chef, is coming to visit this afternoon. I haven’t seen her since before lockdown started so she’s bringing a chocolate cake for us to celebrate our reunion! But there’s part of me that’s really anxious about eating the damn cake. I can’t figure out how many calories it will be and that’s really stressing me out. Tomorrow it’ll be raining so I won’t be able to go for my walk (I’ll cycle at home but it’s not the same). I feel like all of this is definitely an unhealthy reaction to the whole thing and means I should definitely eat the cake. Right?

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Please help me

My mother is really overweight. 5 foot 3 inches tall, 133kg. She has trouble breathing and walking, sleep apnea, feet swelling etc etc. I've noticed in the past few years her mood is very bad. She is always very angry and takes her anger out on me. I am her 19 year old son. I have tried to help her with diet and eating habits but Im lost right now. She has so many health issues right now and it's a bit hard seeing her go through this. Everyday is the same cycle. " il start my diet on Monday". Will do a "diet" for maybe 3days Max and then goes back to her old ways. My father ( parents are divorced) has told me she has been trying to lose weight ever since 24,and is now 50. I'm not overweight so I really don't understand how to help my mother from her perspective ( if that makes sense ). She can't get any surgery for weight loss, she is too heavy and doctors refuse to operate unless she loses weight first. They put her on meal replacement shakes in order to lose some weight for gastric bypass or sleeve I think it was. She couldn't stick to them and ended up even heavier than before. I work 2 jobs. Post office night shift 10pm - 7am then convenient store from 8:30am till 2pm. My mother is too unfit to work. As a result of corona virus, she is being paid twice her normal benefit. I don't know what benefit she is on, but she gets around 1k a fortnight. She usually orders the food or has me / my sister pick it up. Either that or she will go for a drive and get it herself. There have been times where I have refused to get her food and she will go crazy. She will turn nasty and throw insults at me. Everything. I do my own grocery shopping as I try to make it into the gym 4-5days a week if I'm not too tired after working . I make healthy meals but she refuses to try it. I'm at the point now where I don't know what to do. My mother is starting to have a very negative effect on my life. I don't have much time for anything besides work, gym and weekends to catch up with friends. Also it pisses me off having to pay my mothers rent as she blows most of her money on fast food. I love my mother to death, but I just CAN'T get her to stop. She even said herself that if she doesn't stop eating this way she will die soon. Confirmed by her doctors too. She is on the edge of getting diabetes "doctor said it's amazing she hasn't gotten diabetes yet". When she got rejected for the gastric bypass, I think she gave up inside. Please anyone I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice, any tips or help on what I can do to help my mother will be greatly appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read this and sorry if it's a bit all over the place.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 18 August 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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