Thursday, November 5, 2020

just found out that scale i used was wrong the whole time, i’m so sad and disappointed

i started my weight loss journey august 25th and lost 9kg within the first 3 weeks. i was so happy and so proud of myself even though no one really noticed my change. after these first weeks i couldn’t keep up with how i started out. i got into binge eating once again and developed bulimic behavior. we’re starting our second lockdown over here so i’m not able to weigh myself at the gym anymore. today i tested the scale i have at home but didn’t use because i thought it’s inaccurate by putting on 2 water bottles. and it showed the exact weight of these two, so i stepped on and it showed 75kg. i thought i was at 68kg. i thought i had lost so much more weight. i’m 16 years old and saved up all my money to afford a personal trainer, gave up on all the things teenagers normally buy with their pocket money to afford paying 200€ a month. and now i just realized that i only lost 7kg in almost 4 months. i just hate myself right now, because i didn’t give my best as i did the fist 3 weeks. i rest on having lost a lot at first and then slowed down the progress. i feel like i’m not good enough, disciplined enough, strong enough, skinny enough, pretty enough and never will be. i feel like i’m not capable of ever reaching my goals in the future and that i’ll be trapped in this body i hate for ever just because i can’t bring up the discipline as every other person seems to be capable of doing. i’m so so disappointed and sad.

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Where can I find reliable weight loss information?

I'm new the science aspect of weight loss. I know that in order to loss weight I have to use more calories than I consume. I also have my bmr and body fat percentage.

However, I have so many specific questions and because weight loss is such a money grab industry it's so difficult to find actual answers through all the clickbait and ads.

For example, I want to be able to find the answers to things like:

"How long does it take to excess calories to turn into fat?" (I assume there's like a temporary holding cell before the permanent transfer?)

"If there's no excess calories then how do the fat cells get transformed into energy being actively used?"

Also, let's say that I've been at a 1,000 calorie deficit for a week and then do intense exercise; my body is already using the energy from what I eat plus fat to survive so where does the energy needed for the exercise come from so quickly?

I really, really want to have legitimate resources to find these answers on my own and not just have them answered by other people. Thank you!

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Has anyone here taken a break from booze to lose weight? How did you reincorporate it into your life?

At the beginning of Covid I recognized that I was drinking way too much. I made a deal with myself that I would not drink any alcohol until bars reopened. I also started exercising and eating healthier all around the same time. After about a month, this deal evolved to “I’m not going to drink again until I hit my final weight loss goals”.

My problem was never drinking every day. It was drinking too much whenever I decided to drink. I had the same problem with food. Portion control was a massive issue of mine that I seem to have gotten in check. I want to be able to enjoy a beer with friends on occasion and every now and then fully let loose at say a bachelor party.

I’m a 28 year old 6’ tall male. I was 340 on March 22nd. I’m 243 today. My final goal is 199.

Has anyone else followed a similar path in regards to alcohol? I’m curious to hear your story.

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accountability post & update: 26%

I've stayed under my ~general calorie goal of 2400 calories - which is maintenance, not weight loss, only on 13 days out of the last 49 days of calorie counting. that's around 26% of the days I stayed near or under maintenance.

My first weigh in was 45 days ago, I was at 182 lbs. My weight has been fluctuating, dropping to 179 only once. In the last three weeks my weight has only increased, from 181 I am now at 185 lbs.

I've been feeling like a failure but in reality it's been a good educational tool so far.

Some things I'm working on:-getting more steps in throughout the day-overcoming my fast food addiction-overcoming binge eating-"slow food": food that takes its time being made, and being eaten-drinking more water-getting 8 hours of sleep and having a regular bedtime

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Keep losing and regaining the same 5-8 pounds. I want to give up.

My boyfriend just started travelling for work. He’s gone 3 weeks back for 1 week. The first time he left was last month and I decided I was going to get in shape. Well, I did really amazing the first 3 weeks, I lost some weight and felt amazing, but he came back and then we ended up eating out a lot. I gained some weight back and I’m feeling really, really discouraged. He just left for work again and I want to lose weight and get my dream body but I feel helpless. I’ve actually lost 38 pounds since last November but I need to lose 20 pounds to get to my goal weight. I keep losing and regaining the same 5-8 pounds since September and it’s only worse now that he’s gone to work and comes back.

Just need to rant. I feel so helpless right now and it feels like even when I do eat healthier and workout , nothing is happening. This is the first time in a year since starting my weight loss journey I’ve felt completely discouraged and I kinda just want to give up.

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I’m struggling with sustaining my diet and I need advice.

| F18, 161-162cm(5’3), CW;71kg(156,5lbs) GW; around 58kg(128lbs)-60kg(132lbs) |

Hey, this is my first post in the subreddit and as someone who’s never really liked asking for advice, it’s incredibly hard to share my struggles like this but I’m reaching a bit of a breaking point.

I’ve been eating around 1200kcal for a longer while now (yes, I use MFP and I measure and weigh everything) and I have steadily been losing around 1kg (2lbs) a week while building muscle with exercise at home - usually calisthenics and small weights for around 30 mins + around 9-10k steps a day. Honestly, this amount of food used to be enough. I had energy, felt great, the weight loss was giving me motivation... but I don’t feel this way anymore. I’m not really sure what changed, but I started to feel really tired, don’t have any energy to exercise, and the urge to just binge is almost unbearable. The calorie counting and weighing has turned into a bit of an obsession and as someone who hasn’t yet recovered from eating disorders, I’m not sure anymore that it’s a good way to go about it. I really don’t want this to turn out to be another restrictive diet that fails, as I was hoping it’d be a lifestyle change on my part and I could sustain it for the rest of my life, and stay a healthy weight...

Is there any way to lose weight without counting? Should I up my daily calorie allowance? (My TDEE is 2069kcal, while my BMR is just a bit over 1500kcal) Should I just suck it up and stick to 1200kcal and have my body... readjust? Do you have any other advice for me? I’m really not sure what to do.

And if it matters at all, I am vegan. :)

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 05 November 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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