Thursday, June 10, 2021

I have officially lost 50 pounds!

This weight loss journey has been a lifelong struggle for me. I have found the reason why things weren’t working for me long-term was not because of what I was doing or what I was eating, it was because of my toxic relationship with food. The poor decisions I have made were the reasons for how I felt and looked.

I never binge eat or strictly ate junk food. I was quite the opposite. I did everything from vegan, to keto, to intermittent fasting, to OMAD... you name it, I probably tried it. I even was at the point I would go to the gym 5-6 days a week for 2 hours a day.

What I realized was, I was restricting myself too much, not allowing myself to enjoy the food I loved. And I don’t just mean I’ve cream and burgers. I stopped myself from enjoying foods from my culture, food that reminded me of growing up, food that I loved to cook.

I’ve learned that weight loss isn’t about all the restrictions, it’s about making better choices and balance. It’s about enjoying the food you love.... in moderation. It’s about listening to what your body wants and replenishing the nutrients it needs to thrive. I’ve incorporated more nutrient-dense, lower calorie-dense food to balance out the treats I give myself. I learned to not hate myself if I had a donut or a piece of bread but instead balance that out with a healthier dinner or maybe skip the afternoon snack I would normally have. Maybe if I want to have a nice dinner, I’ll take my dog on a long hike.

I dealt with body dysmorphia and atypical anorexia for a while now. I didn’t realize I did until I started this journey again. I wanted to share this with you all because someone shared their story with me and it made a big impact on how I view things now. I hope someone out there finds inspiration from my story!

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Giving up CICO and weigh ins for better mental health

Hello everyone, I wanted to ask this very large community if any of you have successfully given up weighing in daily and counting calories and still found success in weight loss?

I have found after months of ups and down that weighing myself too frequently and setting a calorie limit (no,it wasn't too low) just had me discouraged, upset, over eating and constantly feeling like a failure.

I have used CICO in the past and on multiple occasions (4-5 times) lost 20-25 lbs in the summers but I always end up back around 155lbs (at 5'4") due to falling off track or winter inactivity or S.A.D. in the fall.

This time I'm trying to take a different approach. I only have 3 goals during the day: Drink water, eat mindfully and get 10k+ steps (and a bike ride weather permitting).

Has anyone else found freedom and success by dropping the numbers and doing things very old fashion (clothing fit, appearance, measurements)?

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Weight Loss Plateau, No Self Confidence

Long time reader, first time poster. I've also posted this to the hypothyroidism thread.

Background: 26F, 5'3, CW 65kg or 143bs

I've been diagnosed with Hypothyroidism but my doctor says my medication level is "fine" and doesn't really see the need to increase/adjust.

I can't for the life of me lose weight. I have no self confidence, no self esteem, just feel awful every time I look in the mirror and it's really getting me down. My boyfriend says he thinks I look great but I just feel like crying. I get stressed out when I have to get dressed up or go to meet anyone because I feel like I look awful in everything and I just want to wear baggy clothes. I'm not overweight, but I'm not skinny either. I carry a lot of weight in my legs/bum, but have a small waist and would say I have a more muscular build. I lost a little bit of weight (about 4kg) last year but that's completely stopped.

I feel like I've tried absolutely everything to lose weight (fat) and nothing works. I've stayed basically the same weight since Aug 2020 and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I understand weight loss plateaus but I literally cannot shift this.

I watch everything I eat, in a calorie deficit, get enough sleep, drink 2.5-3L of water a day, I've even started doing 16:8 Intermittent Fasting. I don't eat gluten (coeliac), dairy, or soy, and limit sugar and alcohol.

For exercise I do weight training 4-5 times a week, an hour of HIIT training twice a week, and go for an hour long walk every day (I make sure I always hit at least 10k steps everyday). I'm thinking of starting running 3 times a week too. When the gyms were closed I kept it up weight home workouts.

Any tips/advice/questions are very much welcome!

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Anyone else struggling with disordered eating habits and depression while losing weight?

23F, 166cm. SW: 101kg, CW: 78kg, GW: 55~kg

Just writing this post to get it out there and see if anyone else felt like this. I'm roughly halfway through my weight loss journey and the past month or two my progress has really slowed down and some weeks plateaued. I know this is normal and I shouldn't get disheartened but it's hard not to.

Lately I catch myself doing some things that I know aren't healthy. I've had thoughts/done this in smaller doses earlier on but it's gotten more extreme now like waiting as long as possible to eat, seeing it as a competition about how little calories I can eat, cancelling calories with exercise, enjoying the fact I get light headed when I get up, etc. etc.

I was also roughly tracking calories by googling things and roughly looking at nutrition labels early on but now I've starting actually tracking and because I don't know what I was actually eating at before I'm scared to go above 1400kcal so I think vary anywhere from 600-1200 even though I know this is too little for me/the exercise I do.
It's also really frustrating with this slowing down/plateau period because just when I think I'm getting on track again it's that time of the month and I retain extra water. But I think because of my weird eating my period is late until I have a refeed so I hold onto this extra weight/delay progress even longer. You'd think this'd be enough incentive to eat better but if I do, I feel like I gained weight and go back to eating less as 'punishment' or to 'cancel it out.'
Don't want to talk to anyone I know because it feels stupid/illogical that I'm still overweight but having disordered eating (that isn't binge eating)–almost as if I deserve it and this is necessary. I am quite aware these thoughts and actions aren't the best so I do try and force myself to eat normally as often as possible but it's hard when you're results driven.

I'm even more insecure and depressed than when I started because I feel embarrassed I have this much to lose still and now I'm more aware of my body and what I look like. I don't want to see people or go out, just posting here to see if anyone feels the same..

TL;DR: Eating too little/having bad thoughts when I'm still overweight and in a plateau

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Bulking up instead of losing cm/inches

I am pretty sure I will get scolded for this post as everytime I bring this topic up with someone who is even a bit into fitness totally disregards my experience saying it's impossible. I have always only done cardio training because whenever I do anything else I don't lose weight I just bulk up. Everyone I know loses weight from crossfit, while I made a nice form for my body but didn't lose literally any weight in 2 months. My latest experience is: I lost some weight with just dieting and I wanted to incorporate exercise in my weight loss journey. I started doing a youtube challenge for slimmer arms and what happened was when I measured my arms after 3 days of doing that I was actually 1cm more compared to 1 month ago. I checked my waist too so I'll know if its water retention or something but I've lost 6cm in the waist. My calorie intake is under 1200 every day(I am also trying to 5:2, where I go 5 days with 1200 and 5 days with 500 calories), I may go a bit over about once a week every secodn week. My body is pretty muscly even though I haven't been exercising regularly(I used to be a dancer and was roller blading regularly up to about 5 years ago) I am aware that is not possible to gain muscle in 3 days but this really frustrates me and demotivates me to continue. What I am looking for is for someone with similar issue who has been able to lose weight in the long run with exercising (not cardio), or for someone with a scientific explanation for this and what I may be doing wrong. Thanks in advance!

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What to do over the summer?

This summer I’m staying with some family that lives far away. They love to eat and do so often and in large quantities. Like “My 600 lb life” type of food intake. I’ve lost 17 pounds over the past few months and want to continue losing but i don’t know how i will. This is how a typical day goes:

breakfast: someone goes out to get mcdonald’s, or some type of sugary cereal

lunch: out at a restaurant or someone gets takeout (burgers, onion rings, fries etc)

in the afternoon we will go get ice cream, donuts, cupcakes, something like that

dinner is either at a restaurant, takeout, or a very large home cooked meal with things like barbecue chicken, mashed potatoes, bread, cake

snacks are provided all day (things like little debbie cakes, cookies) and highly encouraged (“don’t you want a snack? i got these special for you because i know you love them!”)

(of course some days will look different depending on what we do)

This is literally the worst possible environment for my weight loss and I don’t know what i’m gonna do. Telling them about it is definitely not an option. But I don’t want to be constantly stressing about food either, I want to enjoy my time there. Any advice?

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Wednesday, June 9, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 10 June 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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