Friday, June 11, 2021

Losing the final 20lbs/9kg

Hello :) I am a 15 year old female to male (I’m trans but haven’t started transition yet. I’m closted) I weighed 64.3kg this morning and I’m 162cm tall. I started my weight loss journey towards the end of November 2020, starting at around 90kg and I want to get to 55kg.

I’m really happy with my process so far (25kg lost), but recently I have been struggling to lose 1kg a week like I used to. I’ve only lost 0.4kg this week, but gained 0.2kg this morning. I’ve been fluctuating from 64.5kg-64.1kg all week and it’s really upsetting.

I try to walk 10,000-17,000 steps a day with my mum and sleep around 6-7 hours on school days. Recently, I’ve increased my calorie intake to around 1,000-1,200 calories a day (I get full easily and don’t eat a lot but I try my best to reach my daily goal) I used to eat 700-900 a day, but realized my mistake and have been making an effort to eat more. I take vitamin supplements in the morning as well.

I’ve been really struggling to lose the last 10kg and wanted to ask for some support/tips since it has been really upsetting. I want to hit 55kg by August-September but I don’t know if its an unreasonable deadline.

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Thursday, June 10, 2021

Lost 200lbs can't do a pushup. Mix in divorce and a sprinkle of dysphoria! Any advice?

Okay so I don't want to be too emotional or wordy so I will try my best..

This is me at 400lbs. in 2016 https://postimg.cc/JDjKC0qH

I cannot do a pushup

This is me at 290lbs in 2021 January https://postimg.cc/gallery/zNyQyzG

Cannot do a pushup. Wife of 7 years wants a divorce. Promises me a chance down the line 6 months to a year from now. Looooong story there I'm sure this isn't the place for it.

So I decide to go hard af. Make a huge change and dive deep into a new lifestyle

This is me June 2021

https://postimg.cc/gallery/HCtt0VZ

I am now 215 lbs.

I still cannot do a pushup.

Did the extreme weight loss by fasting 2-3 days a week and limit my calories to around 1700 the days I did eat. Mixed in a ton of cardio and averaged 10k steps a day + and focused on closing my exercise ring on the apple watch each day.

Idk if it's body dysphoria but I do not feel like I look like other people who weigh 215lbs. I see all the weight in my gut and I personally think that is why I cannot still to this day do a push up.

I cannot see a difference between the 290lb pic and the 215lb pic. I see like I have a collar bone at all times now and I lost some neck fat but yeah idk =/

My friends wanted me to focus on building muscle and losing weight at the same time but I felt that would be too slow and I wanted to hit 180lbs ASAP and then build up 10-20lbs of muscle.

I want to know if I cucked myself by focusing so hard on fasting and not lifting more while I was doing it. Should I go to 180 and then focus on lifting or should I cut back on fasting and protein it up and start lifting more then the excessive fasting and cardio I have been doing?

I also think I may be close to the finish line in terms of if I lose the 30lbs more I am obsessive about the weight will have to finally come from my gut because where else is there. My upper frame is tiny I wear a large now comfortably. I am aware you can't target fat and it just comes off where it pleases but yeah any help would be appreciated.

I have toyed with the idea of okay it's time to get a personal trainer to show me form and what to be lifting etc.

I do have a nutritionist and she is not a fan of my fasting but obviously I ignore her advice and fast a lot. I truly feel I wouldn't have gone from nearly 300lbs in Jan. 2021 to 215lbs now without doing it though and being so disciplined as I have been.

I guess I just have a fear of if I now start the protein grind and the lifting grind I am going to gain weight and I do not want to gain weight. I want to be muscular and look good and be like 220 max.

I am not a linebacker I don't want to be bulky and muscled and 250lbs

So in my mind. Get to 180 lift lift lift protein protein protein be like 210 and chad it up. versus Start the lift protein grind now. My body will recomp a bit and look better than it is now but I will be like 240 by the time it's all said and done.

I guess with everything going on in my life. All my fear and how far I have come. I don't think I want to be 240 if you know what I mean?. I can get that same muscle and gain and looks while being smaller weight wise if I start the protein stuff at 180. But I do think I am a bit obsessive with the scale at the moment.

I lift but very irregularly and with all the fasting I do I never really am in the mood to go super hard in the gym.

I want to be comfortable in my own skin and I truly feel I am committed to doing this and I have been doing great so far and now I want to know how/if I should switch it up and where should I put my focus.

Also for reference I am 31 years old and 6 '3

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 11 June 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Need accountability partner for the next few weeks

Hello, I have been realising the benefits of a partner in crime for another project I've been working on, so now I'm looking for a weight loss accountability partner. :) I've just finished six weeks of keto as well as a 24 hour fast, all of which were more a successful test of willpower than a losing weight situation. I've actually gained weight on keto as it made me learn how to cook which I thoroughly enjoyed, so a win in my books. Along with that I've also built a solid workout routine over the past few months, so I feel I'm in a really good position to lose my last 10 kilos. My main issue is I love to eat and I eat too often as well as eat emotionally. I am basically looking for someone to message each other before snacking or after a successful day etc. Someone to talk to during the journey which will keep me on track, as I have no doubt I can do it if I only get through those moments. Thanks for reading and feel free to message me if you're looking for something similar!

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Weight 220, Goal is 170. Should I plan on doing some muscle mass increase along the way (which would include some weight gain periods)?

I'm counting calories and exercising to achieve my goal of losing 1 lb per week. Tracking with My Fitness Buddy and a good scale. Doing at least 30 min cycling each day (at least 100 cal), and will be doing some lightweight resistance training to preserve some lean muscle mass.

I'm considering occasionally adding in a small weight gain/lean muscle gain period. Do people even do that? What kind of a system might that be called?

Sex: Male
Height: 5'10"
Weight: 220 lb
Age: 56


Below this line is just background info blah blah blah that is not necessary to answer the above question.

I was born in 1965. I used to weight a lot less but gained 40 pounds during covid. I hope that someone here can help answer my question above. It would help me out a lot and I would really appreciate it. I'm sure that I can lose my weight. The system I'm using is to just buy frozen dinners and that makes counting calories super easy. I'll add in some bread and butter or something. Other than the frozen foods, I carefully weigh everything.

I'm also using my fitness pal, which lets me scan the bar code and get that added to my diet. Easy peasy! I also have a Withings Internet bathroom scale. I chose the withings over a cheaper bluetooth because that way I can just step on it and it automatically records, no need to worry about connecting to a phone every time.

But my main question is whether or not I should add in cycles of lean muscle mass gains into my weight loss plan.

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Has anyone ever lost weight a second time? What did you learn?

Hi all,

I'm an old member here but lost my first account. I'm 5"3 and in my last weight loss journey I went from 196 pounds (89kg) to 121 pounds (55kg) over the course of a year. I really enjoyed my journey the first time around. Unfortunately, I got pregnant around 7 months after finishing my weight lost and gained it all back. I'm now starting over from 191 (87kg) and looking forward to making my way back to 121.

I was wondering if anyone else here has done this twice and what they learned from doing it a second time that was different from the first? It feels cool to hit the ground running knowing what worked for me last time and what pitfalls to avoid. I didn't excercise last time and ended up with weak muscles so I'll fix that this time around. I also am mentally better prepared for plateus and fluctations.

Looking forward to hearing from my fellow losers <3

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I’m struggling

I was working out/tracking calories in an effort to lose weight since March of 2020. I was doing great for a year, and I ended up losing about 70 pounds and even making it into “onederland”. I was feeling great about myself and my weight loss, and if I’m being honest, eating healthy and exercise came pretty easy to me from March 2020-March 2021. I’ve struggled with a binge eating disorder for most of my life, but once I buckled down, it just seemed easy to control for some reason.

Everything was easy until March of 2021. I don’t know what happened but I started losing motivation and my daily workouts became shorter or I wasn’t able to put in as much effort. I fell back into my binge eating disorder and began having multi-thousand calorie hinges every night, just like I used to.

During my weight loss journey, my biggest fear has been losing motivation and gaining the weight back. That’s exactly what’s happened. I’ve already gained back about 15 pounds of what I lost and it makes me feel like shit. I look back at pictures of me from a couple months ago when I was at my lowest weight and I just cry. Mentally, I want to be where I was three months ago but food and binge addiction is so hard and feels impossible to mentally overcome.

Eating well and healthy portions along with working out every day feels completely impossible even though I was able to do it almost effortlessly for a year. I don’t know what to do or where to turn for help. I feel like I let myself and everyone around me down. I want to get to my goal weight (about 40 pounds away now) but I just feel helpless.

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