Sunday, June 13, 2021

Why did I even let myself get here. How can I keep going when even making progress feels discouraging

Sorry if this isn’t coherent I’m kind of hungover and possibly still drunk from last night haha. I just need to vent about something that’s been weighing (Ha!) me down.

I gained a lot of weight during the pandemic, ~30 pounds. What’s really hard is that I gained the weight right after losing all of it and getting to my lowest weight in years. I took a VERY unhealthy approach to weight loss that destroyed my mental health. Though I couldn’t appreciate it more at the time, I was happier with how I looked, how quickly I lost the weight, and how strong I had become. the pressure I put myself under had become too much and I had taken a sharp turn in the other direction, becoming completely sedentary and eating poorly (wooooo depressionnnnn!!!).

For the past few months I’ve been trying to lose the weight in ways that are more sustainable + better for my mental health than before. I figured the reason I rapidly gained so much weight immediately after I had lost it was bc of how much I restricted myself (+ the pandemic of course). This of course means I’m losing much MUCH slower. 3 months into my journey last time around I had already lost all the weight. This time around, I’ve only lost a fraction of that. Other people have even noticed I’ve lost weight. But it just makes me feel so bad bc even though I’ve lost weight I’m still much bigger than I was this time last year.

I’m not going to stop bc what would be the point of that. It’s just HARD knowing how much physical and mental effort I’ve put in just to not even be close to my goal. I don’t know what’s up with me this week, most days I can enjoy the journey and not be too hard on myself. I tell myself Rome wasn’t built in a day and celebrate the fact that I’m making the right choices day in and out. This week it’s been really tough though. I want to cry thinking about it, my therapist is in for an earful.

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Accountability for myself!

hi everyone, I’m trying to keep myself accountable for my weight loss journey, so here I go! I’m a 19 years old female, 5’8” and weigh around 86kg (don’t know exactly as I hate weighing myself). I’m still in my exam period so I’m not focusing as much on my food choices, but I’m almost done and I really want to dedicate my headspace to working on myself.

Exercise isn’t a problem for me as I usually do a few gym classes during the week and I enjoy going on walks, but my diet is a lot harder to maintain. During COVID, I gained a lot of weight and I’m finding it really hard to not be depressed when I look back to when I was thin. I find it hard to keep motivation for myself, especially in consistently calorie counting. I don’t enjoy doing it, and I like to think that if I mainly eat healthy then I don’t need it, but it seems like that is not the case.

Anyway, my main goal is to do weekly updates and hopefully I can start to see progress if I consistently stick to my goal. I just want to feel better in my body and be happy. I want to finally see a change and stop feeling so bad about myself.

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Kinda frustrated about how non-visible my weight loss is.

Heyo! I (18F) started my weightloss journey from April, it's been nice and I'm surprised I continued for as long as I did! My starting weight was 76 kgs and my current weight is 70 kgs.

In all fairness I have lost 6kgs but it's uncanny how light I do not feel? Like 6kgs is still something right? I have never been on a weightloss journey before so my experience is very very limited but I did think it would show atleast! I did take pictures and I guess there's a little bit (just very little) around my stomach fat amd back fat but ig that's pretty much it.

On the top of that ig it's worth mentioning that I don't feel like really really heavy anymore. Like when I was 76 I'd usually feel so bad about my body and sometimes when I used to sit I just used to measure my belly fat lmao and it was overflowing! It's still there but I don't feel all that bad or heavy but I'm assuming it's just in my mind? I'm kinda scared that my goal that is 55kgs won't be sufficient for me, which is pretty demotivational because it's still 15 kgs away and I have wanted to be 55 for ages🥲 idk if it makes sense but yeah.

My question however is how long before I can expect some visible changes? Like something off my face fat or some inches? Now I'm regretting not taking measurements lmaooo! I'd appreciate if someone shares their own experience! Thankss!

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Saturday, June 12, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 13 June 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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I started going back to the gym a month and a half ago and now I’m down 26 pounds!

I’m 5’7 and my starting weight at the beginning was 281 and I managed to get down to 255! I have a long way to go since I want to lose 100 pounds by next year and now feel more confident I’ll reach my goal soon!

I’ve also notice a difference with myself already! I don’t feel slow or sluggish when I wake up and my face got a bit smaller. However, I still have a lot of work to do. I have trouble maintaining my calories since I hit a plateau around 260 and recently broke it.

I love looking through posts on this subreddit of people’s body changes and being more successful on getting dates. I’ve always had troubles getting dates. I don’t want to make my mentality based on what others think of me and therefore only focus on the health aspects, but I be lying if I say seeing people manage to attract others for dates after a huge weight loss isn’t a huge motivator

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Struggling with diet

A few months ago I went to the Gyno and weighed 185 (I’m a female, 5’0) I was so ashamed of myself that I decided I needed to get serious about my weight loss. I’m down to 180 but I’ve been stuck on that number for weeks now. I know it’s my fault because I’ve fallen off a bit but it’s still discouraging because I’m still trying to only drink water, and cut out junk. Now I just feel super bad when I eat anything and I just feel hesitant about any kind of food. It’s almost like food my enemy. And I’ve been trying to control my emotional eating habits but it’s so hard due to some personal issues going on. I just wish I could stay on track but I feel like giving up because I feel like I’ll fail no matter what. Any advice?

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Getting frustrated

I’m 25F, 5’3, 186lbs, and live a sedentary lifestyle (I work at a desk job). I’m getting frustrated with how slow my weight loss has been. I’ve been doing intermittent fasting for about 2-3 months now and CICO. The last 3 weeks, I’ve only lost one pound. I keep hearing how eating less than 1200 calories is not sustainable and can slow down my metabolism so I started eating 1400-1500 calories a day but I didn’t lose any weight. 1300 calories is when I started losing the weight very slowly but then I hit a plateau.

My current TDEE is 1875 so for a 500 calorie deficit, I need to eat 1375. 1350 is my daily calorie limit and I’ve only lost 1 pound in 3 weeks. My goal was a pound a week. There were days that I did over eat by 100 calories but no more than that and I recently started doing HITT workouts every other day but that hasn’t helped budged the scale at all this week.

I think I may have to go back to eating under 1200 calories since that’s the only time I’ve ever seen weight loss. I usually lose about 1.5 pounds a week eating between 1100-1200. I weigh and measure everything I eat and never miss any days.

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