Friday, December 28, 2018

There is no right time to lose weight

I hear a lot of people, myself included, fall into this trap of saying "I'll lose weight when the timing is right," especially with new years right around the corner. Let me tell y'all, the time is never right. There will always be some excuse as to why you should wait a few more weeks to start being healthier.

As a personal antidote, a month into my weight loss my best friend died suddenly. I feel like of all the reasons to emotionally eat, a dead best friend is a pretty good one. I didn't though. I was gentle with myself and I let myself have comforting foods, but I stayed within my calories and I practiced other self-soothing strategies. I don't say this for pity or anything like that. I just want people to know that eating better is a choice, and it is a choice you have to make every day, regardless of circumstances.

I could have stopped losing weight after my best friend died. I wouldn't have lost any weight, probably would've gained it instead, and I would feel worse.

Losing weight isn't a quick diet. It's not something that you do for a few months and then stop. What are you going to do when you face struggles after getting to your goal weight? This is a lifestyle change and you can start as soon as you want.

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1 Year Of Food Tracking

Hi all,

Yesterday was my 365th day of tracking my food in the LoseIt app. I figured I'd make a little celebratory post and share what I've learned along the way.

Weight Loss

First off, I've spent a year tracking my food, and for about 8 months, I lost about 0.25-0.5 lbs per week. I started December 28th, 2017 at 243.5 and I am currently at 233.5. I am up a few lbs because of travel and Christmas, but before this week, I was hovering around 230, so I'm sure I'll be back there in a week or so. My BMI fell from 39.4 to 37.1. My low weight was about 227, but I've gained during my surgery recovery.

Persistence

I tracked my food despite: several 12+ hr car trips, 5+ days without internet, major surgery, and any/every possible excuse I could muster. I can't guarantee it was all accurate. But I did it. And I plan to keep going. Food tracking is/was my base habit. Didn't matter if I was over-eating or depressed -- my base habit was not restricting food. It was merely tracking the food. And that saved my butt more times than I can count.

Next Steps

After spending some time the last few weeks contemplating it, I'm going to keep my food where it is (between 1800-2200 cal per day) and add strength training. I've lost weight but my overall figure hasn't really changed the way I thought it would.*

* I'm a nonbinary, transmasculine person on a low dose of testosterone. I was hoping that chest reduction + some weight loss would adjust my curves, but I've lost pretty symmetrically, and so, I'm hoping that strength training will help where food restriction did not.

Other Lessons

Like most folks, I've tried to -- and successfully -- lost weight before, but it's always come back. This past year has been one step in a three year journey of self-discovery. For me, it was realizing my gender identity that enabled me to deal with my unrealistic expectations (my subconscious believed that working out furiously would turn me into a dude), as well as my chronic depression, which has lessened substantially since adjusting my hormones to where my brain wants them. I couldn't have made a successful habit this year without working on my depression.

The other major change I made in 2018 was eliminating caffeinated soda. I don't drink coffee, so Coke was my only source of caffeine. I was fully caffeine free for 4 months or so, and now I use caffeinated soda occasionally, like when I'm traveling, or I'm really tired in the morning. I keep it under 16 oz most days, and probably use it only 0-3 times per week. My household has flirted with the idea of eliminating soda completely, but we do still drink it when we're out, and occasionally we bring it into the house. I've been using orange juice w/ soda water to fend off cravings.

Finally: I started tracking my food because about 6 months before, I started having chronic, bad heartburn. My doctor and I both thought it was because I had crossed some magic weight threshold. We were wrong. Turns out, I was using too much Aleve and it was degrading my stomach lining. I had to stop Aleve before my surgery, and the heartburn disappeared nearly instantly. Go figure.

Conclusions

I'm still fat. But I didn't balloon from 160 in high school to nearly 250 overnight, and it's okay if it takes me a while to get it off. I'd rather keep tracking my food, lose when I can, maintain when I can't, and keep trudging on. My sugar and other blood work are just fine, my heartburn is gone, and the weight I gained from testosterone (about 30 lbs) is halfway gone. I'm excited for what the future holds.

Me in November, post surgery: https://imgur.com/BYPixxH

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Are there any tips to switching to a "food is fuel" mindset?

I have the age old new year's resoution of losing weight, even more so because I graduate in the spring( May) and I don't want to look back on the habiest day of my life and think, "Woooowwwww...I was fat." My biggest problem is FOOD. I have heard many people say switching to the "food is fuel" mindset has helped them a ton in their weight loss journey, and I would like to try it. I mean it's no reason I should indulge myself every day w/ food (although, I admit I am currently looking for some healthy low calorie treats). So, any tips or tricks from anybody who was a foodie and successfully switched to this mindset?

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Am I losing too fast?

About a month ago, I was diagnosed with insulin resistance and put on metformin. At the time I weighed 137kg (302lb). I have always been skeptical about my ability to lose weight and my doctor confirmed to me that having this problem can make it much harder for me to do so. They recommended I cut down my calories to 1200 gradually and I did. I worked out my goal weight (50kg/110lb) and my BMR (which, for my height, is 1400 calories).

So far I have cut down my calories to just over 1200 and almost entirely eliminated refined carbs from my diet, and I have noticed the weight is coming off. At first it was a huge relief to me, because cutting calories was always difficult for me and my carb cravings used to be so bad. I am currently down to 128kg (282lb). However, I am concerned that the weight may be coming off too fast. Is this normal for weight loss?

(Just to clarify, I don’t feel physically bad and I’m not forcing myself not to eat if I’m hungry.)

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One year 80 pounds

I got out of the Navy approximately 4.5 years ago, shortly after my daughter was born. I had gained around 60 pounds during my pregnancy and since I was no longer working out 3-4 times a week and since I no longer had a PRT hanging over my head, I ate whatever I wanted and ignored my weight. A year after my daughter was born I realized I had gained even more weight on top of the “baby weight” and was on a destructive path of binge eating and straight up laziness. I stopped drinking soda and started making better choices when it came to food and lost close to 20 pounds. A few months in and I was feeling a lot better, then stress started to build up; I was in school full time, there was some drama with family and then, oh hello I was pregnant again. I lost my momentum and motivation and started eating whatever I wanted again (I have an out of control sweet tooth) and drinking several sodas a day. Fast forward to about a year ago, I looked at myself in the mirror and saw someone who I didn’t recognize, I saw someone who was struggling to keep up with her children, someone I didn’t want to be. I had at least 80 pounds to lose and I wasn’t sure where to start. I had tried a few diet plans and fitness apps off and on and nothing had stuck. I then stumbled upon an ad on Facebook for a new weight loss/fitness app an figured I’d give it a try. It cost money and I thought maybe if I paid for it it would force me to stick with it. Boy was I right! I have been using the app for almost a year now and I’m down 80ish pounds. I have mainly been focused on less calorie dense foods, smaller portions (eating off a “dessert” plate helps with this!) and sticking to 1200 calories a day. I recently decided to join a gym to regain my muscle tone. My goal now is to get back to my best PRT scores (which would be 60 push-ups in 2 minutes, 100 sit-ups in 2 minutes, and a mile and a half in a bit over 12 minutes -I don’t remember the exact time). I go to the gym 4-5 days a week and usually spend an hour and a half working out (there is a two hour time limit on the childcare provided) I use another app provided by the gym to track my workouts and help keep me focused as I tend to be a bit aimless on my own in a gym setting because Navy pt sessions are group oriented and have an appointed leader. I don’t know why I suddenly felt compelled to share my snippet of a story with internet strangers, it could be the two glasses of wine I had with dinner...who knows. I just hope I can be motivating to any one out there looking for encouragement. You can dooo eeet! same text post with before/after pictures

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It’s Day 1 and I’m so scared I sort of want to cry.

I’ve been chubby/large/overweight/whatever since I was a kid. And it’s....always sort of bugged me I guess.

I’ve always stress ate. Upset? Food. Scared? Food. Stressed to tears? Food. It’s a horrible habbit that I’m trying to shake, and maybe having more accountability will help me.

And now my body image issues have sort of brought me to a breaking point. I look in the mirror and I feel disgusting and I hate myself and my body so much. I feel...unfeminine and just “eugh”.

I’ve wanted to lose weight for a while. I’ve done short term exercising and saw progress (in like...tone or in how I felt, not in my weight) and that made me happy but I can’t stick to something. Not...well.

There is one thing I don’t hate about myself and that’s my “figure.” I have a large chest/hips and I think that’s been stopping me for so long. I’m so terrified of loosing the one thing that I can look at and say “that looks good, it isn’t disgusting at least.” Like...typing this has me in tears and it’s just fucking awful. I don’t want to hate myself more than I already do? I’m just...scarred. But I think for my health and sanity I need to start somewhere.

So I’m hoping perhaps this post will help me stay committed to this decision.

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Stats

Weight: 233 lbs Height: 5’5” Age: 19 Sex: Female Lifestyle: Sedentary College Student

Goals

Short Term: 200 lbs (next like..3-4 months? I’m not sure what a proper...rate of weight loss is yet.)

Long Term: 130-ish lbs to be in the healthy weight range for my size.

———————— I plan on doing a lot more reading on here and starting my calorie tracking tonight with dinner.

Any tips or advice are definitely more than welcome!!

I’m a bit of mess right now, but I did want to say thank you so much for a) helping be a part of such a supportive and educational community and b) for...reading all of this. I appreciate it.

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How different cultures value weight

Not sure if this is the right sub but just wanted to share a funny story that reminded me not to take myself/weight loss so seriously all the time. One of my coworkers who I hadn’t seen in a while came up to me in the med room (I’m a nurse) and super happily exclaimed: “I haven’t seen you in so long! How are you? Have you gained weight!?” I just laughed, I mean she was right, I had! goddamn Christmas baking😅 This coworker is Chinese. I’m born and raised in North America, but I’m African and my family back home used to call us “Fatty Boom Boom” and mean it with all the love in the world lol. Chasing health/fitness/confidence etc is always a great goal. But I guess I was just reminded that no matter where you are in your journey your body is still this weird/amazing/hilarious thing that we need to celebrate and sometimes laugh about. I hope this comes across okay, not meaning to make fun of any culture, I just think our differences/diversity is cool to reflect on

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