Monday, May 13, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 13 May 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Ideas for visualisation...

Hi,

I'm just at the start of my weight loss, and think that having something very physical remind me of my losses would be helpful.

I was thinking about something like playdough , and for every pound I lose, I add a pound of playdough to the lost pile, watching it grow would be interesting and encouraging, and as the weight increases it would really make me aware of how much less my poor bones are having to shift around each day :)

But I'm not sure how heavy playdough is, it could be that the "lost blob" ends up humongous :)

I've seen people use the pebbles in a jar etc but I wanted something to really convey the gravitas of the weight lost.

Any ideas of something pliable like playdough, but heavy and dense so that it doesn't take up huge amounts of space, and also wont go off?

Thanks

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this summer is THE summer

here it comes...summer time. where you have endless amounts of free time to sit on your butt and do nothing. but just like all the at summer, you have said that during the summer time you are going to get in the work out routine and get fit.

WELL THIS SUMMER IS MY SUMMER.

i have finally gained a good, healthy eating style but i have neglected the gym. this summer i make a promise to myself to go to the gym at least 4-6 times a week (sometimes a day or two off is good).

i promise to myself that this summer is the summer i will reach my goal weight and look and feel amazing inside and out.

this summer is the summer i have been dreaming about achieving for the past 5 summers.

this summer is the summer that i will stop being overweight and reach my healthy weight BMI.

this summer is my summer and i want to do it and complete my goal.

setting a schedule and sticking to it is my first step to succeeding. i feel i have a great support system too which will push me even more to reach my goal.

and even though weight loss should be for you and only you...a little extra motivation is the feeling i will feel when i go back to college in the fall and feel like a completely different person, more confident, more open to new things, but most of all the feeling of throwing it in my ex’s face that he missed out on an amazing girl, inside and out.

thanks for coming to my ted talk :)

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Sunday, May 12, 2019

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Monday, 13 May 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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Starting fresh today.

Throwaway, because my username on my other account is literally my first and last name. Also, sorry about the novel.

So, I’ve been lurking this sub for a long time. I love seeing all of the progress pictures and the motivational stories, but I’ve always been too afraid to share my journey on here. But here I am. Because recently, I stepped on a scale and realized I’m nearly 300 pounds. That was a punch in the (pretty large) gut.

So, I’ve decided to try again at the weight loss thing. And to try to stay motivated, I’m going to try sharing a little bit with strangers.

I’ve always struggled with my weight. I’m a 5’8” female, and I’ve never been really thin. My weight fluctuated a lot throughout junior high and high school, but I was always overweight. In high school, I was so afraid of being in PE because of how out of shape I was. But it was a required course, so my senior year I finally decided to take a strength and conditioning class (lots of weights and HIIT). I weighed about 210 pounds at the time. At first I hated the class because what 210 pound person loves working out. I quickly started to love how I felt after I worked out though, and often I would go home and work out some more. Over the course of about three months, I lost 20 pounds and was down to 190. I felt amazing, but I still didn’t feel like I looked amazing. So I was determined to keep shedding the weight. And then my dumb sixteen year old self found out I was pregnant. I had to chill on the weight lifting and HIIT, and pretty much mostly did the treadmill every day.

Over the course of my pregnancy, I got up to 225 pounds, which I felt was a healthy amount of weight gain. After I had my son, most of that weight melted off pretty quickly and I got back under the 200 mark. However, being a teen parent is hard. I moved out of my parents’ house with my son and his father, and the reality of adult life combined with my own mental health issues put me into a really deep depression. I put weight loss on the back burner and slowly gained weight over the course of about a year and a half. I was in a really bad place.

Ultimately, my son’s dad and I split up, and I think a large part of that had to do with the fact that I had kind of let myself go. I remember about a week before I finally moved out, I weighed 291 pounds and I felt absolutely disgusting. After we broke up, I dropped back down to around 250 over the course of a few months, but I didn’t feel good at all. And honestly, I hardly noticed the weight loss because I was so busy being depressed.

Now, over the last two years or so, I have put that weight back on. I don’t blame depression anymore, even though it is still something I struggle with. I blame my lack of self control and laziness. My diet is absolutely terrible. It’s not that I eat a lot, but the food that I do eat is very high calorie and just generally terrible for me (think soda, hot pockets, fast food, etc.)

So anyway, tonight I’ve decided to start fresh and try again. I’ve done the healthy eating and working out thing before, I just really struggle to stick to it. I don’t do any of the fad diets. I know it’s pretty much just about CICO and eating less and moving more. I just need to actually stay on track this time.

So as of tonight, I weigh 294.2 pounds. I did a tiny workout tonight (really tiny, like ten minutes) but it’s more than I’ve done in a long time. Tonight I grabbed a cup of water instead of a cup of sweet tea with my dinner. Tomorrow, I’m taking my big water bottle to work with me so I can avoid the sodas from the vending machine. After payday this month, I’m going to renew my gym membership and start going to the gym again. I do really well with this in the summer, as I’m a teacher so my days are free in the summer.

I think my goal for the scale this month is going to just be to at least get out of the 290’s. I’m going to try making small changes at first that I can maintain and hopefully I will actually stick to it this time. I guess the reason that I’m typing all of this is just to try to hold myself accountable. Maybe if I tell a bunch of strangers that I’m starting this journey, I will feel less inclined to grab a burger for dinner tomorrow.

Oh, I forgot to mention in case it’s important, I’m 23.

If anyone has any advice on staying motivated, I would love to hear it!

TLDR: 5’8” female. I weigh 294 pounds and I don’t want to anymore so I’m going to make some lifestyle changes. I need advice and support to help stay motivated.

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My mom is very supportive of my weight loss but she doesn’t hide her jealousy/feels threatened and it’s starting to get to me. Can anyone relate?

Hi guys, this is something that’s been bothering me for a while but never talked about it anywhere. (This post turned out SO much longer than I thought so I apologize!) 😬

So I’m a 22 year old lady (23 in 2 weeks!) and Ive been on a weight loss journey for a little less than a year now. Ive been obese since early childhood and I did a complete lifestyle change because I was sick of hating myself and was on the fast track to diabetes. I’m 5’6” and down 55 pounds from 250 but I still have a ways to go.

Anyway, my mom has struggled with her weight since she was my age (has some psychological issues with food from strict parents) and I’ve realized recently that she passed on her food addiction to me when I was a kid. I knew jack squat about basic nutrition and intuitive eating until I started researching for my journey and so I harbor some resentment twords her for not bettering herself for her children’s health. (My sister is on the other end of the unhealthy relationship with food spectrum, underweight.) I struggle everyday with fighting my urges because I was taught that if food tastes good and makes you feel good, then eat it. (I.e junk food, McDonald’s, cheese, anything sweet)

My big problem is, is now that Ive lost weight, exercise, and maintain a Mediterranean diet (something she thinks is gross) we’ve lost this “connection.” We can’t share clothes and we can’t really bond over being mutually big anymore. I mean, she’s still supportive of my weight loss, proud even, but she’ll say that I need to stop because I “look fine.” She gets defensive when I say I was and still am “fat” (fat is a descriptor to me, accepting I was fat is what helped me get better) and she always makes the “eat a hamburger!” (I’m pescatarian) And “unlike you, we actually eat food” comments on the reg. (Also comments on my fb photos how jealous/proud she is)

I love my mom dearly but it’s really hard sometimes because I know she is still in the mindset I was; bitter about “skinny” people, miserable but doesn’t want to change, confused. I try to make what I’m doing sound super easy and doable (because it is) but she’s way too stubborn to try anything new and healthy. So she takes it out on me I guess? She’s supportive and very happy for me but it’s hard for her. If I mention that I’m upset that the scale hasn’t moved much, shell say“ but look how far you’ve come!! Just maintain where you are! You’re beautiful now and you were before! Eat chocolate!” I hate when she says that because it’s like she WANTS me to lighten up and eat poorly. (I should mention i don’t live with her anymore so this is just phone call convos)

It’s not helpful in the slightest but it’s like we’re butting heads all the time now. I want what’s best for her but I’m focusing on myself and taking what she says with a grain of salt. If you’ve been in a similar situation, how did you deal? Sorry about the rant, I just wanted to see if people can relate and seek advice I guess.

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35 pounds down in 8 months - slow but steady

Been feeling great about my weight loss lately, as I (F/22) went from 192 lbs to 157 lbs in a 7 month period. Now that the change is much more noticeable, family and friends have been asking what the secret was or what I started doing differently. But when I thought about it, the truth was I had been doing the same exact small things since October, and little by little, this become the big, different thing. Essentially, the weight came off through an increase in exercise and a decrease in overall consumption, but I'm also proud of the lifestyle changes I've been able to build in that time period. I've adopted meal prepping into my ritual, eat out and drink less, and trained for a half marathon. But ultimately, there was no secret, no different thing - I'm happy that instead of drastically cutting out things out of my diet or jumping on a fad, I learned to treat food differently and have learned that it's not the single ice cream cone that ruins you, or the Big Mac at McDonald's - it's those things in excess. Maybe this seems obvious, but posting in case anyone out there hasn't thought of it in this same way. I've always had a poor relationship with food and never thought I'd be able to avoid constant binges. But through time, as my body's changed, so has my mind. In short , don't think you need to lose 10 pounds as soon as possible as try something that will ultimately fail - feel free to take your time with it :)

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