Thursday, August 8, 2019

Weight loss made my personality shine through

I've been dissatisfied with my appearance for a while, so in January (like many people) I decided to do something about it! I didn't actually start doing anything about it until March, but better late than never.

I went from 6'1" 220lbs to 6'1" 185 in 2 months.

I felt proud that I could make the conscious effort to take control of my appearance, but I didn't stop there. From May to August, I've gone from 185 to 195 muscle growth and I have never felt better about my appearance.

I've always had broad shoulders, but now they really pop. My jawline is more defined and I couldn't believe how important face gains are to my self confidence. I also kind of enjoy watching my bicep contract when I pick things up. And my legs? Oh lord, believe me, I didn't skip leg day. Glute workouts seem to be my favorite and my inability to squeeze my newly found rear into my pants shows it.

Suddenly, I was a different person. I was confident, funny, outgoing, and I could talk to anyone like we were fast friends. I made a new friend and upon meeting their friend group, I had no problem being sociable. It truly is a different world when you're confident in yourself.

My voice improved when I realigned my posture and (from what I can tell), I no longer snore. I've never had an issue with being in front of crowds, but now I actually enjoy it and don't mind making a fool of myself in public.

The thing is, none of the positivity I've recieved has been about my appearance. This whole time, I was holding myself back because I wasn't confident. I thought other people saw me as the person I saw myself as, but really they respond more to how I act than how I look. Who I am now is who I've always been, but I've just been so focused on my appearance I forgot to let it show

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Throwback Thursday: I started 2 years ago today at 174 lbs. I'm currently trending at 138 lbs.

Hey r/lose it fam! Happy Friday Jr!!!

I know I could've shared this in the N/SV thread but it's a pretty important date for me so I hope nobody throws any tomatoes for the standalone post. (Feel free to throw entire pizzas, however! :D)

Anyway, here's a little ditty I posted on MyFitnessPal today (my 731st):

2 years ago today, I started my weight loss journey -- restarted, technically, as I'd bounced between a high of 180 and a low of 140 for several years. This is the only time I've maintained the loss for any significant amount of time (about 18 months, now). I've counted calories that entire time, though currently I'm not tracking and trying to see if I can manage my weight more casually via the healthy habits I've developed in this time. The jury's still out on whether I'll be able to do that, though it's okay if I can't and need to go back to using my good pal MFP here. In any case, I was about 139 this morning, so cheers to 2 years and many more of living a happy, healthy lifestyle!

I started on August 8, 2017. I lost the weight by eating about 1300/day and tracking very carefully in MyFitnessPal with the help of a food scale. I hit my goal weight of 139 in February 2018 and have maintained within a few lbs since then, getting as low as 133 but spending most of the time around 136. I've continued tracking this entire time, excepting last December, and I'm currently taking another break and working on eating intuitively. I've also modified my goal weight to be 140. Oh yeah, I'm 5'8", for reference.

Here's my TrendWeight: https://trendweight.com/u/957a8d7a65534a/ ... I love and recommend this tool to everyone but particularly maintainers!

And here's a silly photo of me for those 1994 feels: https://www.instagram.com/p/B06BIitAXqY/

Thanks for reading and helping me partybrate this date! :)

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My start to weight loss

Long time lurker finally making my first post. I starting my weight loss journey July 1st at 376 lbs. As of Monday 5 weeks later I am down 25 lbs to 351. I have been overweight most of my life and finally decided to do something about it after many months of reading positive post from this page.

Currently I am walking/slight jog 6 miles a day 3 in the morning before work and 3 in the evening when it starts getting a reasonable temperature outside. I've also immensely dropped my calorie and carbohydrate intake. I was consuming close to 5000 calories a day, a good majority from 12 cans of mountain dew a day down to 2500 calories a day. According to an apps calculation I'm burning about 4000 calories a day.

I realize this is just the start and plan on some hiccups along the way but I feel the best I have in I dont know how long. I'm going to be doing my first 5k run in a few weeks and could not be happier.

Also wanted to say thank you to everyone for their inspiration from reading enough posts to finally do something myself.

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Reset time!

I started my weight loss journey in October 2017. SW was 250lbs (F32, 5'5") and I hit 160lbs by November 2019.

Since then, I have maintained for about 4 months and then began a steady gain. I have lost all control over my eating, have stopped tracking (why???), and have started playing the mind game of "I'll get started tomorrow. So today I'm going to eat myself sick, so I don't crave junk." Yeah right. The more junk I eat, the more I crave.

So, in the past 6 months I have gained 25 pounds and now find myself at 185lbs. I feel AWFUL. I am getting winded more easily. My clothes are uncomfortably tight. I am self conscious. And now, I am done with excuses.

The past 6 months have seen me eating at the first twinge of percieved hunger. I don't think I've actually let myself get hungry once.

The past 6 months have seen me spending entirely too much money and ingesting entirely too many calories. That stops now.

The past 6 months have seen me failing to plan and planning to fail. MFP got me there once and will get me there again. I need to do my part.

I'm thankful that I am stopping this before I gained it all back and more. I will not let this by my story. I am someone who will rely on tracking calories forever, and that's ok.

Thank you for reading. I needed to get this out.

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CICO works! I'm not overweight today!

I became overweight (per BMI) 2 years ago after a cruise. I had never been overweight before and vowed that I would quickly lose the extra one or two pounds. Well, over a year I actually GAINED about 10-15 more pounds, being 190 as my heighest weight for a 190 lb female at 5'10. This was highly distressing for me because growing up the repetitive message from my mom was that being overweight was bad and fat people were to be pitied and pointed out. As someone who is a lot more compassionate than my mom, I thought that was incredibly judgmental but still struggled with the idea that she was judging me harshly every time she saw me. I exercised regularly, as I always have, but of course it was not enough.

I have also struggled a lot with alcohol my whole adult life and that hindered my weight loss. It also gave me some insight when reading other stories on here about binge eaters and their stuggles. They treated food the way I treated alcohol. I tried CICO while also trying to drink a bottle or more of wine a night and up to 2 bottles or sometimes more on Fridays and Saturdays. It was impossible to lose weight this way because I didn't feel satisfied with having enough food when I was saving 650 calories for wine on a weeknight.

Over time I started meditation, therapy, read books, and developed a whole bunch of coping skills and learned that alcohol did me absolutely no favors. I've been sober awhile now and loving it. It was really hard at first but now it's easy because I don't want to drink. I've deconditioned myself towards alcohol. It makes CICO so much easier. When I was drinking I'd snack past my calorie limit and then on the weekends when I was more hungover I'd eat fattening brunches. That all stopped and today I weighed in at a normal weight (per BMI) for the first time in years.

I'm also doing loose intermittent fasting. I don't eat until noon, have a smallish lunch, and a big dinner. I usually stop eating around 8 or 9pm. This helps me manage my calorie deficit.

5'10 female; highest weight: 190; current: 173.6; goal: 155

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Depression and Weight Loss

I’ve been in the battle of attempting to lose weight for YEARS.

To set the stage, I’m a 30 year old female with a wonderful husband and an adorable six month old son. Before I met my husband, I was in the Army for four years and was in great shape. Once I got out due to PTSD and depression, I ate. And I ate. And I ate some more.

I met my husband when I was 212 lbs. We got married when I was 235 lbs. I got myself down to 187 lbs and was on my way before we hopped states and then surprise! I’m pregnant.

I got myself back down to 195 post baby but then PPD hit and it hit hard. Now I turn to food for comfort. I’m the moneymaker while my husband is on daddy duty and tbh I prefer it this way. I’m not a housewife type of person and I have a degree already. I’m currently working on my Bachelors degree while I work full time. So add another stressor on top of everything.

Before you ask, yes I’m attempting to get therapy. I say attempting because my first appt isn’t until November. But I’m very concerned about my binging habits. I will sneak food without telling my husband. He only realizes it when he checks our bank account and I’ve had multiple fast food runs all week.

So my question is this: how do you all keep yourself from binging and turning to food to comfort you when you’re having a bad day? I tell myself at the beginning of the day that I’ll stay on track, count my calories, and not cheat on my count. But by midday I’m in my car for lunch heading to Wendy’s.

Is this a mental battle that I need to figure out how to win? I want to stop this before I gain even more weight and get to a point where it’s out of control. I want to be healthy for my son.

Thank you if you read all of this and you have any advice!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 08 August 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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