Wednesday, December 11, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 11 December 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Does body shape catch up with weight loss?

As above..... Simple question.

Some context....

In 2014/2015 I lost around 80lbs for my wedding, going from 380 down to 300. I had planned to lose more but the wedding came when I was 300 and you know, lost a bit of interest afterwards and slowly put it back on until I got to around 400 by sept 2019.

Back in 2015, I had bought a smart wedding suit and other clothes off the rack for the first time in a long time. It was great, and I felt and looked so much better.

Fast forward to now, in Sept the scales tipped 400lbs, I was out of control. I have a 2 yo and a newborn and I want to see them for as long as possible etc, you all know this bit... so I’ve given up alcohol, started C25K and try to have between 1600 and 200 calories a day. The weight has fallen off. In 3 and a half months I’ve lost 60lbs.

However, I just don’t seem to be as small as I was at this point in 2015. I have loads of reference points, photos etc from the same weight in 2015 when I was 330-340 lbs, but I just can’t fit into the same clothes?! I know I’ve lost the weight quickly this time and it’s not negatively affecting my motivation, I just wonder, will my body size and shape catch up with the loss numbers?

Cheers 👍

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Tuesday, December 10, 2019

Social pressure to eat/drink

Hi there losers!

yesterday I had my first encounter since starting my weight loss journey with real social pressure to eat and drink.

I'm a referee and had a game last night. After the game we usually drink a beer or two and get sandwiches/bread rolls etc. I decided that 1: I wasn't going to have alcohol and 2: I wasn't going to eat anything. I'm trying to not have alcohol during the week and I had a real full meal with a lot of veggies before leaving. The game had finished around 10.30 PM, so really there was no need for food for me.

When asked what I'd drink I just said 'Coke Zero' and was met with surprise, amazement etc. "Why aren't you having a beer?" Luckily the bread rolls were in a basket on the table, so it didn't really show I wasn't eating any. Still, the guy next to me noticed. "Are you really not eating anything? What's going on with you?" etc.

Took a LOT of courage not to eat anything, because they sure looked tasty.

Has anyone else encountered this and how do you deal with it?

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Young guy trying a serious diet for the first time, looking for answers to some questions, especially on unhelpful friends, and for some general tips on dieting

Hi! For some background first, I'm 20 and a uni student, and have been slightly on the wrong side of average for some 10 years now. As a kid I was a competitive swimmer, but gave up on it at that age, and thanks to my mum's unhealthy attitutes towards food and me gained some weight. I have been doing other sports since ( aikido in middle and rowing in high school), and some light exercising at home, but not as serious. My weight had mostly remained constant- except for a period at ~16 when I was going through a very bad period of depression and gained enough that my BMI moved to overweight, after which I had a ~3 months moderate light diet and some permanent eating choice changes, I got back to a healthy weight again.

Last year I moved to a different country for uni, and from my mum's cooking to a more or less standard student cuisine- my own horrible attempts at cooking, lots of unhealthy food and snacks, and some decent enought Mensa foods. Contrary to expected, I actually lost weight due to a lower ammount of food and going to the gym a bit ( happened again in the next semester). The problem was that every time I went back to my homecountry, my parents would pressure me into eating a lot more ("because I got so thin"), and I would go out and eat out/drink a lot to catch up with all my old friends etc., and I would regain it all and then some, especially during the longer summer break.

So when I got back, I even planned a minor diet- no calorie counting, just some minor reductions of how much I ate in addition to exercise- and it worked decently enough for ~2 months, I visually lost weight according to people etc. To help me along with that, I finally bought a scale

Worst ( or best?) decision of the year.

I had 77.4 kilos ( around 170 pounds), and I was horrified ( I'm 178cm/ ~5'10'' tall). That meant I had over 80kg before I came back to uni, and I didn't have that much since I was 16 and overweight ( the logical things, like me growing 2 inches, having more muscle mass and heavier bones then then didn't come to my mind yet). I decided then that I must once and for all end the possibility of becoming overweight by becoming thin instead- namely by dropping first to 70 kg/155 pounds, and then to 65kg /143 lbs ( which is an average 20 BMI for me), ( and perhaps eventually to 60kg/132 pounds which is the lowest healthy BMI for my height, but that is less important, and mostly there to serve as buffer foe when I regain some) with hopefully the first part being completed by New Year ( as unrealistic as it might be). That was a bit over 2 weeks ago.

Since then, I have been on a very low calorie diet- around 500-800 kcal a day, and sometimes less. With help from my mum ( who is a doctor and I guilted her into helping me), we made a general plan, with my normal day consisting of an egg, a cup of Greek Yoghurt, a fruit of choice, little bit of nuts, and some vegetables- though she hoped that will only last a week or two, and when I said I planned on doing this for months we adjusted and added some additional things to be eated occasionally. Also, I can't be too picky as a student and I work at organising uni events so I often get free food there, so for 2 days I ate small ammounts of sweets, but made up for it by eating nothing else the whole day and very little/nothing the next one ( and I had a few full fasting days in general). I also increased the intensity of my gym training.

It has worked well so far, I'm already down to around ~74kg/163lbs ( and yes, I am aware much of the early weight loss isn't fat but water and glycogene).

So my questions:

  1. How sustainable do you think the diet is for longer periods of time, from say 1-2months, to about 6 months? I have had problems with headaches and it has made my insomnia significantly worse ( I am strictly not eating anything at night so that isn't as bad), but it isn't affecting me too badly physically so far, besides standard tiredness
  2. My biggest one- how to help reduce the ammount of regained weight once I move back towards the more normal diet? Current plan is just to slowly increase the number of calories once done back to a bit below my previous usual level
  3. What is the best way to preserve muscle mass during this diet?
  4. Would any food supplements/weight loss products help, even if in a small ammount? I am already drinking Apple vinegar every morning
  5. How to deal with friends and SO being very unhelpful? I have told my close friends about my diet, but they have done nothing but try to convince and beg me to stop since then, worrying it might affect my health and how I don't need it yadda yadda. I feel most of them aren't even aware of how fat I actually am, due to having well fitting nice clothes and some muscles covering it up.
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600 days of weigh-ins

Weigh-in's graph: https://i.imgur.com/5nsH0nB.png

I started my weight loss journey in April 2018, and though I'm still struggling to lose the last few kg, I've lost 34kg so far and managed to maintain a healthy weight for over a year now! I weigh myself every morning since I'm obsessed with data and graphs and it helps keep me motivated.

Sometimes I'm frustrated it's taking so long to hit my goal (I predicted I'd have hit it in April this year), but the graph helps me realise where I'm still going wrong in my eating habits and to adjust to this lifestyle and know that it's something that I can maintain. Just need to stop the occasional oopsie binges to get down to 60kg!

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What’s the point of it all if you can’t eat well?

ThiS has been the thought that I struggle with most on my weight loss journey...but let me give some of my history.

In middle school (I’m in my late twenties now) I was eating McDonald’s almost everyday and I was definitely overweight. This didn’t last long however, as I became an athlete in high school and slimmed down significantly. i was anywhere from 140 to 160 lbs from college to high school and the heaviest I’ve been before now was 170 lbs when I gave birth to my second child.

That was almost 4 years ago and last year before going on vacation I remember stepping on the scale thinking I was maybe 165 lbs and it turns out I was almost 190!

i have NEVER been someone to check the scale as I was always pretty happy with my weight, but this threw me and it was when I really began to start thinking about my weight.

Fast forward to now and I am a single mom to 2 children and I have been single for almost three years (and celibate). I mention this all because I’ve always justified my bad eating as OK because it was my only source of happiness (besides shopping online). I felt like who even cares if I’m big. My family has been mentioning my weight gain more and I finally had to take a look at myself and admit I don’t WANT to be bigger.

I decided that I would start in January on a weight loss regimen, but then last week Wednesday I decided to TRY and give up my habit of 1-2 large McDonald’s sweet teas a day. This was kind of a big deal because I couldn’t tell you the last time I went more than a day or so without a sugary drink. Tomorrow makes a week since I’ve had sweet tea (and replaced that intake with water which I use to drink none of) and I am so proud because besides a craving or two over the weekend, I have been good! No headache past the weekend either. So I feel like I‘be kicked that. On Saturday I tried to see if I could do a low calorie day and I ended up eating a small pizza by myself, two pieces of fried fish, and a bowl of cereal. Bad day! But today and yesterday I have used MyFitness Pal and with a starting calorie count of 1200, combined with exercise, I‘be stayed below my allotment for both days.

But I’m getting nervous. I’m afraid I’m one meal away from falling off. I feel like will I even ever be happy if I can’t eat junk all the time (which I know is stupid)? I‘m in dire need of something to help me take this one day at a time...any suggestions?

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Getting arranged-married this summer. How much weight do you guys think I should try to lose?

I've been chubby all my life. But somehow, it's only in recent years that I crossed the gulf into overweight. For a few months I was even obese, but those pounds fell away at some point and now I'm back at overweight. I'm getting married this summer (an arranged marriage, so my body will be completely new to him and his to me) and I really want to lose the weight + hopefully tone up a little bit in time for my wedding, which is roughly five months away.

I have a large, protruding belly and big thighs. The rest of my body is pretty average. I have an hourglass figure and full chest + bottom, I'm not sure if that's relevant.

I also have a few medical conditions that make weight loss harder for me - they also, unfortunately, make it incredibly easy for me to gain weight. I constantly have to watch what I eat to avoid weight gain.

My height is 5"3. My weight currently is about 158 lbs.

How much weight do you guys think I should aim to lose in the next five months?

I've started calorie counting at the beginning of December, and I lost about 2 pounds so far. I'm not sure how good my progress is. I've not been sticking to a 1200 calorie diet too well, but that was the goal. I cheated and went up to like 1500 calories on three different days since starting this.

Any advice appreciated. I'd love to know how much you guys think I should aim to weigh, or any other nuggets y'all want to throw in, about marriage or weight loss or whatever.

Thanks!!

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