Thursday, April 23, 2020

I (32m) went from 115kg to 80kg back to 105kg. HELP! (pics included)

Hi. For the majority of my 20s i never really worried about my weight. I mean i was clearly over weight at 180cm and 115kg but i was happy. I was in a comfortable relationship, loving life, eating out every night and just living happily.

One day i looked in the mirror and realized that i was ridiculously overweight. I started researching weight loss tips/ advice. I decided that an IIFYM approach would work for me. I religiously started tracking calories, and lifted weights 6x per week. I would never miss a gym workout. I had one cheat day every sunday where i would eat whatever i wanted, usually donuts and pizza, but come monday it would be back on track with 100% focus.

Here are some pictures of me at lowest weight that i achieved https://imgur.com/a/KFPuCoV

Once i lost my weight, i done a super strict lean bulk resulting in me gaining alot of lean muscle. https://imgur.com/a/tTjeC3c

After a while i ended up in a new relationship, got very comfortable and started eating alot and not really training as intensely. Fast forward about 1.5 years, this is a picture taken of me in our house while on holiday. https://imgur.com/a/aBVP2wx

This was about 9 months ago. I am now 105kg. I am trying intermittent fasting but i just cant seem to lose the weight. I dont have the will and passion that i once had where i would track every single calorie, making sure to get exactly 200g protein, 70g fat and 160g carbs. I cant run very well as i get out of breath and i train but it just feels half assed compared to what i used to do a few years ago.

I am really unhappy with my body now and it is defiantly affecting my confidence and overall mentality. Any tips, motivation or advice from anyone who has experienced something similar and overcome it would be amazing.

Thanks in advance!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 23 April 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2020

Weight loss journey starts today

Today I decided to start my weight loss adventure. I’m currently 198 pounds trying to lose about 40 pounds (if reasonable) by August. I feel like posting my progress will keep me motivated. This will be my first time doing something like this and I think this will help. Is there any advice someone can give me on weight loss motivation? I’m a 5’3 female btw. I know some of my downfalls are sweets. I’m currently an IT so you can only imagine what I’m doing all day at work. I’ve always been up and down on the scales I even reached 181 and disappointed myself by gaining back the weight. I feel like this will help with accountability. Everybody on here so far has been very motivating.

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How can I continue to lose weight while needing to eat fatty meals and up my calorie intake?

M/23/5’3” SW:177 CW: 140 GW:125

I have to eat 40g of fat in one meal and make sure I’m eating enough calories in order for my medication to work properly. I hardly have time to cook during the week because I work a lot. I used to eat low fat meals and only ate around 1200 calories a day. I was making progress with my weight loss and now I feel like I’m going to be stuck at this weight. I have to stay on this medication for three more months and I really want to lose another 15 lbs before the surgery I have scheduled for the end of August. What can I do to to continue my weight-loss journey in a productive way while not being able to cut out fatty food and no longer eating at much of a deficit. I don’t even have a gym to go to anymore so I don’t have access to weights or other equipment.

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I’m feeling so discouraged

I’ve gradually gained about 50 pounds since I graduated high school 4 years ago. I put part of the blame on my birth control, but I know I had a big part in it as well. I’ve always been really insecure, but my insecurities get worse every single day it seems. Last month, when I stepped on the scale and it read 215, I knew something I had to change.

I’ve dieted on and off over the past few years but have always fallen off within a month. This time I am convinced that’s not going to happen. I’ve gone through a lot of major life changes lately, one being losing my dad, and I am trying my best to focus all of my energy on weight loss and being healthier instead of all of the negative things that have happened lately, because it was all eating me alive.

Anyway, I started CICO on March 30th. I didn’t get to weigh myself until a week later, and since then have juggled between the same few pounds. It’s been incredibly frustrating but I’ve done pretty well at staying motivated. I’ve been doing 1-2 beach body workouts everyday so I know my muscles are retaining water and I’m trying to believe that’s the reason the scale won’t budge. I’ve been pretty proud of myself for how strict and dedicated I’ve been...

Until just a few minutes ago when a friend sent me a photo of me from last weekend. It literally ruined my entire night. I went horseback riding with some people last weekend so the picture was of me riding a horse. I am completely and utterly disgusted by myself. I hate literally every single thing about myself ESPECIALLY my appearance. And I know that’s the whole reason I’ve been so dedicated to this... but I was just about to do tonight’s workout, and now all I want to do is crawl in bed and cry.

I ate a piece of cheesecake today because it was a co-workers birthday, the first anything CLOSE to a cheat meal I’ve had, and all I can think right now is how could I possibly eat anything like THAT when I look like THIS? Seeing that photo makes me want to hide in my house and never see another soul. I feel like all people see when they look at me is some sad, overweight girl. To be exact... I feel completely worthless.

I see many people preach about loving yourself as you are now or you won’t when you lose the weight. But I don’t think I’m capable of that. On one end, seeing that photo made me want to do an extra workout tonight... but on the other, it made me want to give up entirely because I can’t imagine ever not feeling like this. It doesn’t feel possible.

Anyway... sorry for all the whiny-ness and self deprecation. I thought maybe someone here might understand. I just know that I have a long way to go before I ever look in the mirror and (maybe) don’t hate myself. And it’s just so discouraging.

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Need advice on how to stay focused and on track

Just as the title says, I need help. I've been trying to lose weight, but have major issues staying focused.

My main issue is remembering that I'm trying to be mindful of wanting to lose weight. Constantly, I find myself at the end of the day going, "oh I ate that donut at work because I completely forgot I wasn't supposed to." I don't know how to stay mindful. It's almost like an instinct to just eat and eat mindlessly. How do I stop this from happening?

Another issue I have is I'm extremely lazy and the thought of doing anything that isn't sitting or laying down (outside of being at work) is just 'meh'. Can anyone offer advice on how to keep an active mind for weight loss? I really want to take this seriously as I have tons of medical issues due to my weight, but my mind is being very unhelpful, despite it being something I truly desire.

I also suffer from depression and know it's probably a big factor for the lazyness, but I'm trying to overcome it. I've been attempting to lose weight for ten years now and I'm starting to think it's just a lost cause because I can't seem to stick to anything or even have the capacity to keep it in the forefront of my mind.

TL;DR: Trying to lose weight but get distracted and forget easily, causing me to go back to unhealthy eating behaviors. How do I fix this?

Just in case, my stats are: F 28 5'8" SW260 GW140

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Change of situation does not mean gaining

Today, after being quarantined for over a month and kind of getting in an eating pattern that works with my harder workouts and more sedentary overall lifestyle, and feeling like I was on the right track, I gave myself second degree burns to my left hand. This may not seem like the end of the world, but a lot of what has been helping me stay happy, active and motivated was my yoga and my sewing, with. a little guitar playing to ease my stressed mind. I am now on Norco and have not moved at all today, with the doctors saying to take it easy until some of the skin on my hand comes back, so I do not get infected.

I'm not running, I'm not doing yoga, I'm just vegging. I was freaking out, thinking this would impact my weight loss until I realized, it doesn't have to. I love to run and yoga for my mental health, but I also love it because it allows me to add a lot of extra calories into my day. I've switched MFP to sedentary and now I am at 1320, a 500 calorie drop from what I'm used to.

I am determined to not let this put me back into a binge lifestyle. I am still on my way to being 135 pounds(I'm 15.4 pounds away!) and I know I can get there. I don't need a round of applause, I just wanted to put it out into the public that I am not giving up.

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