Sunday, November 8, 2020

I hit my goal, but there is still so much more work needed to be done...

F, 22, 5'3, SW: 184.6lbs, GW: 124.6lbs, CW: 122lbs

where do i start? i hit my goal of losing 60lbs a few weeks ago. i tried writing this post several times, but nothing felt right so i kept deleting it. im motivated to write this because these type of "i hit my goal!" posts have inspired me since i started my journey back in January 2020. however, i don't want to lie or sugar coat how i feel because i know that others feel the same.

all in all from a surface level standpoint, i'm happy i reached a goal i established for myself. i feel a sense of accomplishment for sticking to something and following through. but, when it comes to weighing 60lbs less, i have mixed emotions that aren't necessarily ALL positive. to start, i have more confidence, clothes fit me better/are easier to find as i went from a size 12/14 to 4/6, and my physical endurance has improved immensely.

however, on a much deeper level, some days i still wake up and don't feel confident. i rely on a scale for my happiness some days (even though i'm trying to maintain), and i find myself saying "f*ck it" and eating half a bag of chips and regretting it immediately after more often than before. i sometimes pride myself on going to bed hungry or eating less than my maintenance calories. these things are so hard for me to admit. i lost weight but gained other issues i need to now tackle. to be clear, i don't regret losing weight. i needed to lose weight because my physical health was depleting and i relied solely on food for emotional support. i am saying that with weight loss, i'm now at a new stage in my life where i tackle different types of issues than before. but i need to remember that if i put in the work to improve these mental obstacles i am now facing, this will truly just be a stage. or, if its long lasting, i am working on ways to better cope with these thoughts when they do pop up. things like reminding myself of my original goal to become healthier, pointing out things i love about myself, and remembering that food is meant to be enjoyed and not just to be considered "fuel" is what helps me through those negative thoughts.

and to be clear, this post is not to discourage anyone from becoming healthier. to me, losing weight should not be about vanity or fitting into old jeans. it needs to be about overall improvement of physical, mental, and emotional health. although i am dealing with new mental health struggles currently with losing weight, my physical/mental/emotional health has improved SO much because i've been putting in the work to improve all 3 since January. its better, just new/different.

my biggest piece of advice is to remember that hitting your goal weight will not result in all sunshines and rainbows. this journey needs to be about self-love and overall improvement & the only way to do that is to overcome any new obstacles in your path. you are so much stronger than you think, and you can do this.

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The Last 10 Pounds

I'm a female, 5'5 weighing in at 131 pounds. I began my weight loss journey the end of 2018, at 163. It's been a hell of a journey that's for sure. What are your tips for losing the last 10 pounds? How can I get out of my head that the WEEKEND does not give me a pass to pig out?? My goal range is 120-125 but ideally 121 I will stop trying to lose and start to bulk from there.

I struggle with eating over mainentance every couple of weeks and seeing the water weight. However, I usually start to downward trend a few days after the water weight has come off. Not sure if this is a psychological thing or what. I'm eating about 1500 calories a day, walking at least 10,000 steps a day, and weight lifting 4x a week. I try to prioritize protein and greens as well. However, this past weekend (last night) I absolutely pigged out and am not feeling too great. I know I'm going to jump back on routine today, but I'm frustrated that I keep doing this to myself.

I want those last 10 pounds off!

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I (17F) get uncomfortable when people, especially grown men, comment on my weight loss and it’s hurting my motivation.

I’ve been losing weight over the past few months. It’s going great, everyone keeps commenting on it and it’s making me uncomfortable. I don’t know what to do. I try to make it pretty clear without actually saying something that I don’t want to talk about it, I never say thank you, I pretend I don’t know what they’re talking about and I change the subject.

I don’t understand why people feel entitled to comment on my body. My mum keeps telling me I look ‘hot’. My dad asked me if I was anorexic. My grandma told me I’m half the size I was (which, honestly, I’d only lost like 3kgs when she said that). These comments were annoying and made me uncomfortable but not that much.

My music teacher, whom I’ve known for nearly a decade and is sort of a father figure to me, asked me a few months back if I’d lost weight. And a little after that over zoom he said my face seemed thinner. It was weird and was kind of embarrassing in front of my friends but like, fine.

Then, my mum’s boyfriend told me I’d lost weight and that I looked really good. Which, brrr. I shudder just thinking about it. He and my mum are pretty serious but I barley know him and even though I know he wasn’t trying to be weird but I was so relieved that I was just about to leave anyways. And like my grandpa said I was turning into a woman and that I had a great body. He and also my other grandpa both have this thing were they would gently slap my sister and I’s and our cousins’ as a form of endearment, and I’ve never liked it but now it feels weirder. They’re not even supposed to touch us because of coronavirus. I know none of them think they might be making me uncomfortable or that it’s inappropriate but it doesn’t change how I feel about it.

A couple of years ago we had a family event and one of my grandpa’s friends was making a speech and he started talking about my cousin, who was my age at the time. He was saying things that were actually creepy and it really freaked me out. Also when I was like 11 my dad, my siblings and I were leaving my grandparents’ house (the other pair) and apparently their friends had just been coming over and saw us but we didn’t know. And later my grandmother told us they’d asked her who was this girl my dad was dating. I was horrified and disgusted. So now I guess I’m super aware of how adults see me.

I know how I look. I know that I’m 17 and that there must’ve been at least some adult men who at one point found me attractive. But I hate thinking about it. I hate that I have to get a constant reminder of that only because I’m doing something that’s mainly for myself (and yes, a little because I want guys my age to think I’m pretty, but not grown men). So every time I look in the mirror I think about it, and I get worried that I’m going to make more comments. Each time I get a ‘compliment’ about my body, I end up going over my calories that day.

I don’t know. Maybe I’m being unreasonable. But I just don’t get how it’s socially acceptable for adults to comment on a teenager’s body, even if it’s family. I know they love me and want to make me feel confident. Yet the feeling I get when they say these things is the same one as when strangers harass me on the street. I know it’s the same, but it feels the same. And if I say anything everyone will say I’m out of my minds and I will also ruin my relationship with those people.

Is it different when you’re an adult? Is it normal to not want compliments? Or am I actually just being unreasonable?

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Boost Weight Loss and Improve Sleep with this Before-Bed Exercise Routine

What’s the best time to exercise? When you can fit it in—even if that’s right before bed. You may have heard that exercising at night can make it harder to fall asleep, but that claim doesn’t add up: According to the National Sleep Foundation, a study of 1,000 people found that there were no significant differences in sleep quality between people who exercised within four hours of going to sleep versus those who had worked out earlier in the day.

No matter what time of day you exercise, you’ll likely sleep better: In the National Sleep Foundation study, 83 percent of “vigorous exercisers” got “very good” or “fairly good” quality of sleep, compared to just 56 percent of non-exercisers. And working out before bed could actually improve your sleep quality further: In a review of 23 different studies, published in Sports Medicine, people who exercised within four hours of bedtime had more hours of deep sleep than those who didn’t do those workouts, says RunnersWorld.com.

Getting quality sleep is a big deal to your risk of early death, risk of disease and also your weight loss efforts. When you sleep less, you eat more… and not quality, nutrient dense foods. One study, published in Clinical Nutritional and Metabolism Care, found that when people got fewer than seven hours of sleep, their daily calorie intake increased by 14 percent, with most of those extra calories coming from high-carbohydrate foods.

Burn more calories with a before bed workout and get better sleep to control your appetite. Our fitness experts at The Leaf have created this quick exercise before bed to help you on your wellness and weight loss journey! Just remember to give yourself a one-hour break after the exercise. This will help your body cool down and prepare for slumber—just as you would after a warm bath.

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Get started with some strength training.

Strength training at any time of the day improves your sleep. However, a before-bed strength session can mean you’ll sleep more soundly, waking up less frequently during the night. Of course, it can also help with your weight loss goals: According to The Harvard Gazette, scientists found that men who performed 20 minutes of “daily weight training” experienced less age-related belly fat gains than those who did the same amount of cardio work.

This short before bed workout is lower intensity, so you won’t get too amped up—or too sweaty—in the hours before bed. Perform all sets of each exercise before moving to the next exercise. Rest for one minute between each exercise and set.

Exercise 1: Squat to Chair (or Bed)

squat exercise

Stand with your feet hip-width apart, toes pointed slightly out from parallel. Push your hips back to initiate the squat, controlling your descent as you bend your knees to descend until you sit in the chair. As you descend, keep your chest up and your weight on your heels. Keep the weight of your body in your heels and press back to standing without using your hands. If this is too hard, perform only the lowering portion of the squat—sitting down—then use your hands to stand back up and repeat. Perform four sets of five repetitions each. Over time, try to increase the repetitions.

Exercise 2: Elevated Push-up

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Place your hands on the seat of chair or on the fourth step of a staircase. Assume the classic push-up position: Arms perpendicular to your torso, your body forming a straight line from head to heels. Maintaining this rigid body line, bend your elbows to lower your chest towards the seat. To protect your shoulders from pain and injury, keep your elbows relatively tight to your sides rather than flaring them out at a 90-degree angle. Press back to start. If this is too hard, try a wall push-up instead. Perform four sets of four or more repetitions each.

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Exercise 3: Supine Glute Bridge

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Lie face-up on a mat with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor. Place your arms at your sides, palms up. Keeping your feet flat on the floor, squeeze your glutes to raise your hips forcefully off the floor until your body forms a straight line from your knees to your shoulders. As you’re lifting, keep your knees and thighs parallel—don’t let them pull together. This will engage your hip musculature. Pause for a second at the top of the exercise, then slowly return to the start position. As you’re raising up, don’t let your heels come off the floor. Perform four sets of five repetitions each. Over time, try to increase the number of repetitions in each set.

Exercise 4: Wall Stick Up

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Stand facing away from a wall, with your feet about six inches away from the wall. Your head, upper back and butt should all be in contact with the wall—and they should stay in contact with it throughout the exercise. Put your arms straight up overhead, with the backs of your hands, elbows and forearms in contact with the wall. Now slide your arms down the wall by bending your elbows, keeping your hands, forearms and shoulders in contact with the wall. Keep lowering until your elbows come as close as you can bring them to your sides. (You should feel a strong contraction between your shoulder blades.) Pause, then slide your arms back up the wall until your arms are overhead. Perform four sets of five repetitions each. Over time, try to increase the number of repetitions in each set, aiming for eight repetitions.

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Finish up with some calming stretches in bed.

When people with insomnia do yoga, they become more likely to fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer, says The National Sleep Foundation. Calm your own body down with this six-pack of restorative stretches after your strength workout, and help put yourself on the path to dreamland. Sit on the edge of the bed for the first three stretches, then lie on the bed for the last three.

Stretch 1: Circle Your Ankles

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Sit on the edge of the bed with both feet on the ground. Lift one foot off the floor and circle your ankle 10 to 15 times in each direction. Repeat with the other foot.

Stretch 2: Lift Your Heels

night stretches

Place both feet back on the floor. Press the balls of both feet into the floor and lift your heels off the ground, stretching the midfoot. Perform 10 to 15 lifts.

Stretch 3: Stretch Your Side

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Sit up tall. Place your right hand on the bed by your side and lift your left arm to the ceiling. Arc the left arm up and over the head until you feel a slight stretch in your side. Reverse the movement to the starting position. Repeat six to eight times per side.

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Stretch 4: Rock with Your Knees at Your Chest

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Lie on your back on the bed. Bring your knees towards your chest, and grab your legs just below your knees. Rock back and forth gently a few times.

Stretch 5: Single Knee to Chest

stretches

Still on your back, straighten your legs. Now bring just one knee up to your chest while the other remains outstretched on the bed. Hug the lifted knee to your chest, then switch legs. Hug each knee three times.

Stretch 6: Lying Arm Circles

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Let your legs go straight again on the bed. Spread your arms out so your body forms a “T” shape. Keeping your arms straight, perform 10 arm circles forward, then 10 back. Repeat one more time.

Learn more helpful sleep tips and fitness routines from our wellness experts at the Leaf! We’re here to help you achieve your wellness goals along your weight loss journey.

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*Always speak with your doctor before starting an exercise routine.

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Easy rules or tips for weight loss

Hey guys, I’m new to the sub, so sorry if I’m doing this wrong.

I was wondering, if you had any „rules“ or tips for weight loss, that are easy to incorporate into every day live?

I’ve started to eat more during my actual meals in order to avoid unhealthy snacking at a later time. It’s also made me feel more satisfied afterwards, so that I crave less unhealthy snacks.

Do you have more of those „easier“ rules or tips that could be an inspiration? I’ve just started my weight loss, but want to only do things that are sustainable for a longer time. So cutting out everything sweet or similar things won’t work for me.

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Weight gain after sobriety?

F21, 5'3, SW:198lbs CW:147

I started losing weight around March when lockdown started in my country and Ive decided to lose weight. Everything was so easy since I didn't do anything all day so I just exercised the whole day basically.

With weight loss comes being healthy, and I've been drinking a lot and was an avid smoker. It impacted my running so I stopped. But since I've stopped I've gained 13lbs in a month. This can't be normal right?? I've been feeling so bad about gaining weight I've seriously considered smoking again because I've always used it as a distraction when I wanted to snack.

Does anyone have experience in this or am I just falling of the wagon?

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I Need A Little Advice

So, I've started my weight loss journey about three months ago. When I started my journey I was doing a high intensity workout for an hour and a half (this workout includes weight lifting, sit ups, running, pushups, sparring, and so much more.) My intital calorie count was 1,640. I lost a good amount of weight, but then I started to reach a plateau. So, I cut my calories to 1,300. My daily workout also became shorter, but way more intense (about 1 hour with little to no breaks.) This worked until I started Volleyball and Cheer. Volleyball and Cheer burn a lot of calories and I was losing to much weight too fast. So now my calorie count is 1,540. Despite working out more than I use to and still being in a calorie deficeit I am not losing any weight. On average I workout (including volleyball and cheer) about 3 and half hours per day (volleyball and cheer are only on weekdays.) So what should I do? I'm scared to cut more calories because I don't want to lose muscle. Should I exercise more, because I really feel I'm sufficient in my execrise, but maybe that's the only way. If anyone has any advice please let me know

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