Sunday, March 14, 2021

NSV: letting go of thoughts that don't serve me

Yesterday at the gym, I saw two other women that I know. Both of them are very thin/fit/conventionally attractive. It was the first time during my weight loss journey over the past few months that I've seen women I know at the gym. I was shocked to find myself immediately feeling super self-conscious/aware/judgmental of my own body and thinking about how I didn't look "good enough" yet. My instinct was to run home and comfort myself with food - that's how I would self-soothe and distract myself in the past.

The NSV was, when I got home I took a few minutes to think about what had happened. I realized I can actually separate myself from those thoughts. I can notice how they don't make a lot of sense, and how they aren't constructive for me in any way. I can acknowledge that I'm having those thoughts because of years of conditioning and learned behavior from society. And then, I can decide to let those thoughts go and remain focused on my own priorities, goals and values. I don't have to react to those thoughts or let their effects on me take hold. I just let them run their course and carried on with my day.

I've been working on meditating and it doesn't always feel like it is doing anything, but this made me realize it is actually helping!

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Is Alcohol Ok If It Fits In My Calories?

I know that CICO is what ultimately determines weight loss, but I have read so much about alcohol being bad for losing weight, that I wanted to double-check.

For example, yesterday it was finally warm out, and I was able to get some yardwork and car maintenance done. It would have been really nice to have a few beers in the backyard on a warm night, after working hard all day.

If I am able to fit a few beers into my 1500 calorie/day limit, does it matter if I drink a little alcohol on a Friday or Saturday night?

For example, 2 24-OZ Coors Light cans (I'm not picky about beer, and I'm a lightweight with alcohol- that's plenty for me) is 408 calories.

If I skipped my nightly 400 calories of weighed-out ice cream once in a while for a few beers, it doesn't matter- as long as I stay within my calorie limit (and make sure I'm getting enough protein)?

Aside from possibly some bloating/water retention the next day, CICO is all that matters, is that right? Obviously consuming alcohol is not ideal while trying to lose weight.

Any thoughts are greatly appreciated!

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Saturday, March 13, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 14 March 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Strange weight fluctuations

Just a quick question, so I've M26 recently lost weight, about 44kg over a span of about 2 years. I reached my goal about 4 months ago and haven't been dieting since. I've gained a little over the past month so I've put my self on a deficit of 1500 calories for 2 days then 2100 for 2 and then alternate, this is what I did to loose the 44kg. I've noticed that on my 1500 day my weight dips 1kg under my usual weight. Then back to normal the next. This hasn't happened to me before even during my previous weight loss. I've had weight fluctuations going up, typical salt / water weight, but never going a kilo under, it's weird. Anyone else ever get this?

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Progress pics: down almost 100 pounds, resulting in some great news from the doctor

Pics: Same outfit, different size. September 337lb to March 243lb

This weight loss has revolved around trying to be healthy. It's a great feeling to see the work is paying off. When I learned that my weight was contributing to a bad-news medical condition, I got serious.

I recently saw my doctor for the first time after starting to lose weight. She was so ecstatic to see my progress, and we did some tests to see if we had made progress on the condition.

When someone from the office called to deliver the test results, she said "are you that girl who lost 100 pounds? The doctor has been bragging on you to everyone here like you were her daughter."

I was so nervous that the weight loss wouldn't help. But I was told this week that with all the treatment plus my weight loss, the condition is gone!

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18M, 6’2, 215lbs - weight loss not working?

I don’t know if maybe my scales are broken or this isn’t working?

For the past 2.5 weeks now I have been counting every single calorie, I only drink water and I’m very strict with the calories I count. I am currently eating between 1600-1800 calories a day and I weighed myself last Wednesday morning and between then and exactly a week before I’d gone from 213lbs to 207lbs. Great. But this week, I had gone from 207lbs to 211 and then since Wednesday (today’s Saturday) I’m now at 214. How is that? I have noticed my scales where inaccurate 2 days ago as it said I was 120lbs and then 5 mins later 205lbs. But now they seem ok.

I don’t workout a lot, I usually get in about 3,000-5,000 steps most days sometimes above sometimes below but usually around that.

I have been eating whatever I want (I’m usually relatively healthy anyway) but I am mainly focusing on calorie deficit and I’m significantly below it anyways so why am I not loosing weight?

Anyone have any tips? Starting to loose hope as I really want to slim down for the summer and get to around 190-185lbs.

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Feeling incredibly discouraged near the start of my new routine. :(

I posted this on the SuperMorbidlyObese sub as well, but I need all the advice I can get.

Here is my original thread on this forum that I posted a couple weeks ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/ltbx9a/m6ft350_pounds_morbidly_obese_and_i_am/

For reference, I'm 6ft tall male, currently weighing around 345 pounds. At the start of the month I decided that enough was enough. I was almost 350 pounds and the health problems had become overwhelming. So I made a decision that I was going to immediately put in work. I cut out alcohol and most junk food from my diet. At first things seemed to be going well, and despite difficulty exercising due to back pain I soon found myself at around 343-344.

I've been using My Fitness Pal to track calories, and according to that app in order to lose two pounds per week, I need to eat under about 2500 calories per day (3500 to maintain). I've been careful about adding everything I eat, even going as far as to ADD calories in cases where I am not quite sure if I went slightly over the serving size. I've been ending up around 2,200 a day on average, and I know I'm eating a lot less because I'm feeling starved at night. It's uncomfortable, but worth it for reaching my goal. On top of that, I got an exercise bike a few days ago so that i could get a cardio workout in without hurting my back. Everything seemed perfect. And yet...

Yesterday I stepped on the scale to see that I was 345 pounds all of a sudden, having gained two pounds in a day. I was disappointed, but figured that maybe it was just a one time thing. And then today I was 346. What??? I honestly have no clue what's going on. I'm not doing much strength training so I don't think it's muscle weight. I use the exercise bike for like 15 minutes a day to burn 100 calories or so, but I don't think that it's meant to add muscle weight (correct me if I'm wrong please). I mean, the sudden weight gain does seem to correlate with me starting to use the bike but that doesn't make sense to me. And I'm DEFINITELY eating at a 1,000+ calorie deficit because I'm not cheating and am logging literally everything I eat. Like I said above, I'll go as far as to add calories to the app if I'm unsure, just to account for any potential mistakes. And I still end up about 300 calories under my daily goal nearly every day.

Here's how March has looked so far. I use the bathroom before weighing myself and don't consume anything (even water) until after in order to keep it consistent.

3/1: 347.0

3/2: 345.4

3/3: 345.2

3/4: N/A

3/5: N/A

3/6: 344.6

3/7: 343.2

3/8: 344.6

3/9: 344.0

3/10: 343.2

3/11: 343.0

3/12: 345.0

3/13: 346.0

I know looking at the scale daily isn't always recommended, but in my mind it's essential in order to stay on top of my progress. And now, all I see is that I've lost one pound since the start of the month, but who knows what the scale will add tomorrow? That's not nearly enough weight loss, and now on top of that I've actually been gaining the past couple days. I swear I'm logging everything I eat on the app, and started with the exercise bike a few days ago. I just don't understand why I'm not losing at this point. I know it's common for people to track their calories on My Fitness Pal and conveniently forget to leave out junk food before wondering why they aren't losing weight, but I promise that's not the case for me.

I do have insomnia, which I heard can mess with weight loss, but I can't do much about that right now and if I'm screwed from reaching my weight loss goals because my body has trouble falling/staying asleep, then that's going to put me into a very bad mental spot.

I thought I was doing well and now I don't know what's going on. It feels like I'm doomed to be this way forever. Even when I was 350 pounds, I looked at what others with similar BMI claimed to eat every day and couldn't imagine consuming that much food. Maybe I was taking in that many calories, but now I know for sure I'm not because I'm closely monitoring them. I'm trying so hard to lose weight, and the fact that I'm not is making me feel incredibly depressed. I'll keep working towards my goals, but it's hard when I can't see any progress. I'm already going to bed feeling starved with my 1,000+ calorie deficit. Do I need to eat even less..? I'm so lost.

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