Sunday, June 13, 2021

Do you ever feel like people will say literally anything to convince you that you don’t need to lose weight? [Rant!]

I just need to rant. Quick backstory, I’m 5’7.5, female, and 29. In 2019 I lost 53 pounds going from an even 200 to my lowest of 147. Then, 2020 hit and I struggled a lot. I have gained 21 pounds currently back at 168. I’m now fully vaccinated, back in the office, just got an amazing promotion and decided it’s time to buckle down and get back in the routine I had in 2019.

With that being said, I’m working out again starting at 3 times a week rotating lifting and cardio and I’m calorie counting again. My general goal is around 1300, but I’ll up to 1600 if I’m feeling too tired at the gym. So essentially lower on rest days and higher on exercise days. I also still have cheat days here and there. I’m not overly intense in my opinion.

My family and friends of course know I’m working out and are seeing me actively log on my phone before meals. It’s not that people aren’t supportive… it’s more “well how much do you want to lose this time?” My response is always “I’m not quite sure, it’s less about the number and more about how I feel and look but I think my goal is around 130. I’m just kind playing it by ear.” I keep getting these contradictory responses “well you’ve lost so much already! 30 more pounds is A LOT! You look great! I can’t even tell you’ve gained anything” and I say “oh well thank you, but I’ve actually gained 20 pounds” and then get “well you were getting too skinny before! You don’t need to lose much.. you look healthy” so I simultaneously don’t look like I’ve gained weight but was also too skinny before?

I just want to say you look healthy are some of my least favorite words. Like if were skinny, I would look unhealthy? So I need to be “chubby” so I’ll look healthy? My current weight is OVER the recommended weight for my height. On top of the fact that I’m very long legged and gain all my weight in my mid section. Even at 200 pounds, people always commented on my skinny legs. So with my body type I could certainly fall on the lower end of recommended weight and be perfectly healthy. AND 130 isn’t even the lowest end for someone of my height.

It’s just discouraging and annoying for everyone around me to actually know I am taking care of myself but still believe I’ll be “too skinny” it I hit my goal weight. I am exercising. I count calories AND macros. I am willing to up my calories when I feel my body needs it. I am not afraid to have a cheat day. I am not starving myself, I am not doing a fad diet, my doctor fully supports my efforts and weight loss and was even impressed that I’m “losing weight the right way” sometimes it just seems like those who aren’t willing to try what I’m doing simply don’t support me because they are bummed they don’t have the motivation to do this themselves. So instead of “congrats! Wish I was that motivated” I’m constantly hit from angles that I’m being too intense, not healthy, too skinny, obsessed with weight loss, etc. like guys, I just calorie count and exercise I’m perfectly healthy.

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Finding It Hard To Celebrate My Achievements With My Friends Who Have Gained Weight

Hey, I'm 26F, 5ft6 and 156lb as of this morning I think?

I just had my first meet up with people since I started losing weight (23lb so far, thank you, thank you 😏) and pretty much everyone in the group of friends besides my bf was overweight or obese in the past, my bf being the other way and being underweight) I was straddling the healthy/overweight bmi for years but tipped over during lockdown.

Now I'm back in the green and feeling great, but I also stopped drinking most alcohol and sodas and don't eat as much junk food or at least not in large quantities (my friends actually eat a lot of really diverse food groups and seen to get a good bit of everything, but I guess maybe portions are the thing? IDK and it's not polite to ask so I never would). But as is the case for most over lockdown a few of them have put weight on and I only briefly mentioned exercise and diet and stuff as it prompted immediate comments of 'well I've just gained weight' so it felt like I shouldn't talk about it any more so I didn't.

It sucks though because lately, exercise and diet has been a really good source of joy for me, I've got my life back, I can walk for miles when previously my joints were so shit I couldn't go further than a mile. I feel horrible celebrating my loss and success vocally because I just feel like I'm showing off or rubbing it in. I also struggle because social gatherings are usually around food and drink and I feel like it's noticeable that I skipped the snacks and just waited for the main course or that I couldn't really get excited about the idea of drinking again like everyone else was. I don't really miss alcohol like I thought I would. I also don't wanna sit and talk about food like I used to do. I feel like my interests don't align as much and I don't want to talk too much about exercise or the fun stuff I can do now because it feels like I'm rubbing my achievements in peoples faces because it inevitably leads to others making semi joking comments about their own lack of success and such.

I also feel somehow guilty for now being able to turn food down or not eat if I'm not hungry. There was definitely a spirit of everyone not wanting to waste food and wanting to finish everything left on the table and thankfully no one tried to get me to eat anything I didn't want, which I'm grateful for. I guess I just hadn't really thought about the role of food in social settings before now and was a bit left adrift on where I fit into it now?

Has anyone else had any experience with realising they now don't eat the same way as their friends and feeling a little anxious about it? Or feeling guilty for sharing accomplishments? How did you manage to get through it and how do find ways to celebrate without feeling like a monumental butthole in front of those struggling with weight loss or those who aren't wanting to lose weight and who you don't want to offend or imply that you think everyone has to lose weight?

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Should I be worried about my weight loss

I'm 14 and I was 202 pounds and last time I went to doctor I found out I was 90 pounds over weight so first thing I wanted to do was stop my bad eating habits and start going on a run everyday, the problem arrives with the fact is how much weight I've lost, I'm right now 190 pounds and its been around 2 weeks or less, after talking to other people that isn't normal I should be losing around 1-2 pounds per week instead i've lost around 6 per week and I'm not sure if this is good for me a part of me wants to just keep doing what I'm doing but I'm not sure if this is healthly anyone know what to do?

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Help, How to fight the urge to snack at work?

Hey guys, so I’ve been limboing back and forth with finally getting to a good weight loss routine. I’ve been dating my boyfriend now for over three months, we moved in together and it’s helped me feel like there’s another person around me to help me feel accountable for my decisions. We’d take long walks, we got gym memberships, take weekly yoga classes, eat more fruits and vegetables, drink more water, and cook more often. With working from home I felt happy because I got a good routine down of what to eat during what times, and have avoided buying junk food like chips, cookies, juices, etc.,

But now my office is mandating that we all return to the office full time. My job has a big break room with lots of snacks like potato chips, granola bars, soda, juice, and they often order things like donuts, bagels, and chicken sandwiches for breakfast and lunch. I pack my lunch usually with healthy things and I try to tell myself not to eat the extra things from the office. But even when I start the morning off well, the afternoon slump causes me to reach for those snacks, especially if I’m stressed about something. I know it’s not my job’s fault, and I should learn how to resist the need to eat junk food when I’m stressed, bored, or anxious, but this is usually the hardest part of my weight loss journey and I don’t want to keep messing up. I usually justify it by saying “oh these chips are only 120 calories. I’ll burn it off when I go to the gym after work.” But I don’t want to keep giving myself excuses like that.

For more context, I am 28F, 5’7”, at 197lbs and my ultimate goal weight is 145lbs. I’m not trying to get there at a specific date but my boyfriend is a lot healthier/fit than me, and even though he’s very encouraging, I don’t want to feel like my weight/lack of energy and anxiety will stop me from being able to enjoy a happy life with him and help me do the things I’ve always wanted to do.

tl:dr; going back to work makes fighting the urge to eat snack food so much harder. What are some tips that have helped you stay on track when eating at work/out in general?

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I went from 200lb to 112lb in a year! Some things I learned.

Hi all, I'm really chuffed that I managed to lose 88lb (44% of my body weight) over the last year so I thought I'd share some things that worked for me in case they're useful for anyone else too! Of course ymmv. Progress pic here if anyone's interested. Ignore the disgraceful mess, I fully expected to fail and never have any reason to share it.

  1. Follow the advice on this sub: find your rough tdee, choose your deficit and stick to it! Use an app, any app, to track everything you eat. This is really the only thing that's going to lead to weight loss. I had to stop making excuses and be realistic about how much I was eating.
  2. Track your food before you eat it. I plan out my food in the morning or evening before. You can still play around with it as the day goes on, but it stops you from blowing all your calories by lunch.
  3. Eat yo veggies! Without any oil and dressings. I ate at least 8-10 portions of fruit and veg every day and genuinely like it now. Salad is the main meal. Also I dare you to binge on cucumber. I must admit I had to learn to love it, but veg really fills you up, it's super good for you and of course low calorie.
  4. Make it easy for yourself. If you love cooking that's great, but I'm way too lazy to commit to cooking healthy meals every day. I did this on raw veggies, microwaved veggie soups, stir fries out of a packet etc.
  5. I didn't plan "cheat meals", but I have the mentality that I'm choosing every day whether I want to lose weight or eat all the cake. Some days I'll eat the cake but most days, losing weight is more important to me.
  6. Exercise is for fun and for health, not for weight loss. Not eating a chocolate bar is always going to be easier than running 2-3 miles.

Also being short sucks! It's so much harder to maintain a decent deficit. Solidarity to all the other short women trying to lose weight, you're absolute troopers.

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17 Easy Chicken Breast Recipes for Dinner

Chicken dinners are winners just about every night of the week. That’s because chicken breast has become a weight loss champion—it is high in protein yet low in saturated fat. Plus, it’s so versatile that it fits into any cuisine, from Italian to Mexican to classic American. To inspire you with chicken breast dinner ideas for your Flex meals, we’ve gathered our most popular, weight loss-friendly chicken recipes. Some of them are sure to become favorites at your table!

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1. One-Pan Lemon Chicken Rice Skillet >

one-pan lemon chicken rice skillet

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 1 Extra and 1 Vegetable

Here’s the perfect dish for those days when you need a meal that’s simple to make, easy to clean up and certain to please the whole family. Everybody’s appetite will be satisfied with protein-rich chicken breast seasoned with garlic and fresh lemon, savory rice and tender zucchini (or your gang’s favorite veggie). And there’s only one skillet to wash when you’re done.

2. Pizza Stuffed Chicken >

 

pizza stuffed chicken breast recipes

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuels and 1 Extra

Put everything you love about pizza—zesty marinara sauce, melty cheese and spicy pepperoni—between tender pieces of chicken breast and you’ve got a healthy meal that’s loaded with flavor. The recipe makes four servings so you can share it with others or freeze extra portions for quick meals on busy days. Feel free to garnish with some fresh basil for more fresh flavor!

3. Slow Cooker Pumpkin Chicken Chili >

slow cooker pumpkin chicken chili

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel and 1 Vegetable (add 1 Extra if using cream cheese)

This chili isn’t just healthier than standard calorie-laden recipes, it’s tastier. The pumpkin adds a naturally sweet note to balance the pungent flavor of the fire-roasted green chilis and jalapenos. With a slow cooker, the ingredients have hours to blend while you are taking care of your to-do list. You even have the option to add some low-fat cream cheese for extra creaminess!

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4. French Onion Stuffed Chicken >

French onion stuffed chicken breast recipes

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 2 PowerFuels, 1 Vegetable and 1 Extra

Chicken breast recipes are just about the perfect host for so many of your favorite flavors. In this dish, you can savor the comforting tastes of classic French onion soup—including zesty onions and creamy cheese—while also powering you up with essential protein.

5. Italian Chicken Casserole >

Italian chicken casserole

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 SmartCarb and 1 Vegetable

Casserole recipes are a convenient way make chicken breast and whole grains like quinoa in a single meal and infuse them with your favorite flavors. We made this one Italian style, with tangy tomatoes, zingy garlic and melted Mozzarella cheese. We also add savory herbs, such as oregano and basil.

6. Air Fryer Dry Rubbed Chicken Bites >

air fryer dry rubbed chicken bites

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 2 PowerFuels and 1 Extra

The air fryer gives these seasoned nuggets a crispy coating without loading them down with greasy oil, while the chicken inside stays tender and moist. The whole family will clamor for more, so it’s a good thing you can have a batch ready in about 10 minutes.

7. Healthy Chicken Piccata >

healthy chicken piccata

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels and 2 Extras

Breaded chicken on a bed of pasta and topped with creamy garlic and lemon sauce can be a part of your weight loss plan when you make it our way. This version is lip-smacking good and it’s sure to keep you feeling full for hours.

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8. Instant Pot Buffalo Chicken Lettuce Wraps >

instant pot buffalo chicken lettuce wraps

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 2 PowerFuels, 1 Extra and 1 Vegetable

All of your taste buds will light up when you bite into the flavorful filling of spicy buffalo chicken, creamy blue cheese and crunchy veggies in these irresistible lettuce wraps. With the Instant Pot, you can them whip up for a quick lunch or dinner on a busy night. The Instant Pot makes healthy chicken breast recipes a breeze!

9. Teriyaki Chicken Foil Packet >

teriyaki chicken breast foil packet recipes

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 Vegetable and 2 Extras

You can keep it simple but satisfying with this easy dish, made with chicken breast and a mix of vegetables, all glazed with sweet and tangy teriyaki sauce. Each serving cooks in its own foil packet, so you can vary the veggie choices to match the preferences of everyone at the table.

10. Chicken Pot Pie >

chicken pot pie

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels and ½ Vegetable

With this recipe, you can enjoy the comforts of digging into a warm, fragrant chicken pot pie and stay on track with your weight loss goal. It has everything you want—bites of white-meat chicken breast, tender veggies, creamy sauce and a crusty biscuit topping—but comes with just 267 calories per serving.

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11. Chicken A La King >

chicken a la king

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels and 1 Vegetable

A favorite for many families, Chicken A La King recipes feature sweet peppers and hearty mushrooms along with chunks of chicken breast on top of a bed of pasta. With this recipe, you make six belly-filling servings, so there’s plenty to share or to save for another day.

12. Fiesta Chicken and Rice Bowl >

fiesta chicken breast and rice bowl recipes

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel and 2 Extras

This recipe is your solution when you’re craving a burrito—it has all of the best parts and none of the excess calories. Start with seasoned and grilled chicken breast, add fresh avocado, salsa, lettuce and cilantro. Serve it over cooked brown rice. Watching your carbs? Swap the brown rice with riced cauliflower!

13. Instant Pot Chicken Creole >

instant pot chicken creole

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 1 Vegetable and 1 Extra

Dishes like this zesty Chicken Creole are proof that healthy eating is never boring. It’s spiced with onions, garlic, cayenne peppers and more that amp up the flavors of the tangy tomato sauce and the plump bites of chicken.

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14. Creamy Spinach Stuffed Chicken >

creamy spinach stuffed chicken breast recipes

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels, 1 Vegetable

The outside of this dish is tender chicken breast, while the inside is a savory mix of spinach, melted cheese, crispy breadcrumbs and nutty quinoa. This fancy-looking feast is surprisingly easy to make yourself, even if you’re not a whiz in the kitchen.

15. One-Pan Chicken Parmesan and Green Beans >

one pan chicken parmesan and green beans

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 2 PowerFuels, 1 Vegetable, 2 Extras

This version of the Italian classic has everything you expect—tender chicken breast with a crispy coating topped with rich marinara sauce, creamy mozzarella and grated Parmesan cheese. But instead of filling up your kitchen sink with pots and pans, you make it in your oven on one single pan with a side of juicy green beans.

16. Hasselback Chicken >

hasselback chicken breast recipes

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels, 1 Vegetable and 1 Extra

When you want something different than your usual chicken dishes, try our “Hasselback” chicken. It’s a plump chicken breast sliced open and filled with red potatoes, colorful sweet peppers and zesty red onion. It’s flavored with the zing of Cajun seasoning, treating you to different tastes and textures in every bite.

17. Easy Chicken Fajita Bake >

easy chicken breast fajita bake recipes

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 2 PowerFuels, 1 Vegetable and 3 Extras

Fajitas can turn any meal into a fiesta, and you are sure to celebrate when you sit down to this flavor-packed meal of seasoned chicken breast, shredded cheese, black olives, colorful bell peppers and onions, spiced Southwestern style with chili powder and lime juice. Add hot sauce to taste and let the party begin!

Hungry for more chicken dinners? Check out the Nutrisystem menu for convenient home delivery! Get started with a weight loss plan today >

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Why did I even let myself get here. How can I keep going when even making progress feels discouraging

Sorry if this isn’t coherent I’m kind of hungover and possibly still drunk from last night haha. I just need to vent about something that’s been weighing (Ha!) me down.

I gained a lot of weight during the pandemic, ~30 pounds. What’s really hard is that I gained the weight right after losing all of it and getting to my lowest weight in years. I took a VERY unhealthy approach to weight loss that destroyed my mental health. Though I couldn’t appreciate it more at the time, I was happier with how I looked, how quickly I lost the weight, and how strong I had become. the pressure I put myself under had become too much and I had taken a sharp turn in the other direction, becoming completely sedentary and eating poorly (wooooo depressionnnnn!!!).

For the past few months I’ve been trying to lose the weight in ways that are more sustainable + better for my mental health than before. I figured the reason I rapidly gained so much weight immediately after I had lost it was bc of how much I restricted myself (+ the pandemic of course). This of course means I’m losing much MUCH slower. 3 months into my journey last time around I had already lost all the weight. This time around, I’ve only lost a fraction of that. Other people have even noticed I’ve lost weight. But it just makes me feel so bad bc even though I’ve lost weight I’m still much bigger than I was this time last year.

I’m not going to stop bc what would be the point of that. It’s just HARD knowing how much physical and mental effort I’ve put in just to not even be close to my goal. I don’t know what’s up with me this week, most days I can enjoy the journey and not be too hard on myself. I tell myself Rome wasn’t built in a day and celebrate the fact that I’m making the right choices day in and out. This week it’s been really tough though. I want to cry thinking about it, my therapist is in for an earful.

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