Sunday, December 30, 2018

You’ve got this 👊

F 5’3, SW 218.6, GW 175

I made the decision, when I woke up yesterday, that it was day 1 of weight loss.

To give a bit of background, In school I was very active and I didn’t weight very much. Despite this, I struggled with my self worth and was unhealthily obsessed with weighing myself.

University hit and I stopped exercising and gained more and more weight. I didn’t own scales because of my history but finally brought some in 2013. I remember crying the whole night when I read that I weighed 201 pounds. I started to lose weight through calorie control and exercise and dropped down to 171 by the next year.

Since then I have gradually gained the weight back (and more!) partly due to a new desk based job. I’ve had little attempts at dieting but nothing has stuck.

So yesterday, aged 28, I stood on the scales, read the number and I didn’t cry. I didn’t fall into a ball of shame. Instead, it was just a starting point and I realised the number doesn’t define me. To think how far I’ve come in terms of my self worth in 10 years is incredible.

Here is to all of your badasses starting your own journey’s. I can’t wait to read all about them.

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Comments in the bedroom after weight loss and insecurity

Who else has found it difficult to adapt to the way their body changed and see it in a completely positive way? It hasn't even been a drastic change for me as it has for many people. I've lost 25 lbs - from 130 lbs to 105 lbs at 5'1". This took about 8 months.

In many ways I love how I look and feel now; I feel fitter and healthier. My body has gone from very curvy hourglass to more of a small hourglass. I think I look better in clothes... but without them I oddly feel less confident. I used to have incredibly large breasts, and I've lost A LOT of volume. I can pull quite a lot of loose skin when I pinch them. They're also fairly saggy and I'm only 22. They just look kind of sad now and it's distressing when they used to probably be my best feature. A guy I was seeing made an insensitive comment about my breasts in bed recently without thinking. He apologised, but the damage is done. He never really compliments my body either, but that's a whole other issue.

I've also had friends say they think I should put a bit of weight back on so that I get some boob back. My mom thinks I'm too skinny and says she's worried (even though I'm a healthy weight for my height) and also said she thought I looked better with more weight. I guess I could gain some weight back without it being a health risk, but there's no guarantee it'd go to the places I'd like.

Has anyone else weirdly found it hard to feel sexy after losing weight, and struggled with body shape changing? How have you dealt with adapting and feeling confident, especially when a lot of people seem to agree with your insecurities?

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Finally decided that I'm sick of being depressed and overweight-Where to begin? I feel so ashamed

I more or less created this account to follow this sub, I've been stalking it for a few days now and reading how everyone is getting on has really motivated me to change. I'm a 26yo woman, about 170and 5"3. I break my own heart everyday by being this way though I feel like I'm always on a never ending spiral of falling deeper into depression and weight gain. It's time to stop. I can't take it any more.

Clothes shopping is like torture for me and always end up crying in the changing room (pathetic right?) so I don't do it, as a result I own one pair of work clothes and endless PJs. This makes socialising difficult so I avoid it, making my anxiety worse. This makes it all too easy for me to binge eat and sit around the house which is silly of me, I feel so ashamed. I always think to myself, "maybe this is just who you are" like being useless and fat is who I am. I know that's self pity but I can't seem to stop that train of thought, my mind wanders and I'm being negative again without my permission.

I don't know where to start or how to begin. I read that counting calories is key but I was wondering how much exercise to incorporate into my daily routine, I feel so lost in that regard. I've lost weight before by trying some weight loss shakes and that worked, I shed about 20Lbs in a short space of time but gained it all back again. I know losing too fast was stupid of me. During that time I counted calories and struggled to allow myself more than 800 cal per day, this was with a full time job in a busy restaurant (never standing still) and walking to and from work. I convinced myself that I must have been adding it up wrong and that it must be more so I'd cut down further "just in case" I'd missed something despite measuring everything and only eating whole foods so there wouldn't be any "hidden calories". My problem is that I get a bit obsessed with it, if there was any way that I could keep my head in check with not over doing it I'd be more than happy to hear it!

I'm nervous because I obess over things, though I suspect that that's just an excuse I've given myself for not starting over and trying again. In terms of weight loss, what is a reasonable expectation of how much I could lose being someone of my build? I feel so clueless in all of this.

I am so grateful I found this sub, everyone seems really helpful and so friendly that reading everyone's posts and comments makes me overwhelmed. I can't wait to start my journey now, to feel free in my body and my in mind.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 30 December 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Good luck in 2019!

M 5’11, SW 286 CW 233 GW 190.

My entire life I was always overweight, I’ve hated the way I look for far too long and decided a while ago it was time for change. So I began my weight loss journey. Sure I have my days where I eat an entire medium pizza or drink 6 beers. But that hasn’t stopped me and I’ve still managed to make up for those cheat days.

With the new year approaching I just wanted to wish everyone good luck with their goals for the upcoming year! Weight loss is a very simple thing that tends to get over complicated. Wether it be healthier eating habits or a new gym membership, you got this and don’t give up!

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When you finally do it and you still don’t believe it [Progress pics, 215 > 155]

Hi! I’ve been a member of this community for years and finally somehow managed to actually lose weight in 2018.

I started eating keto full time in January and added in intermittent fasting (16/8) in June. I went to the gym about 3x a week in spring and 5x a week in summer with 600 calorie workout session goals. I started keto in 2012 and followed it off and on but didn’t see any major results until this year.

I saw the biggest change between June - August and have been stalled since September. It is a lot harder to lose weight being a similar size to most of my friends if not one of the slimmer ones in a given situation. I still want to lose 30 lbs (to hold steady at 135) and tone up but that will be a 2019 project.

Keto did me a world of good. I have had constant stomach problems my entire life and when I follow a strict low carb diet they disappear. I also have a huge problem with binge eating that feels more controlled when I’m eating low carb. I haven’t gotten control of my cheats and hope to work on those going forward.

I have a little bit of body dysmorphia and feel the same as I did at the higher weight. I constantly put together comparison pictures because it is the only way that I can see my weight loss.

A few of my faves are here: pics pics pics my fave is the calves.

If you have questions send them my way! I’m going to be traveling but I’ll try to answer.

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Saturday, December 29, 2018

How do I convince myself to lose weight and become a healthier person when all I want to do is just eat?? also looking for a weight loss partner to keep me in check

Recently after a physical, my parents are concerned with my weight and forcing me to lose weight and basically making me exercise with them and controlling my diet. But I don’t want to. I know that I am overweight and I want to lose weight sometime but I don’t feel like it. I’m trying to force myself to accept it and just do it but then I end up I either binge watch Tasty videos which effects for my work or become super hungry and overeat. Even thought I am at risk for diabetes or high cholesterol, I still feeling like I don’t care and want to stuffy my mouth with anything I can get. How can slowly change my attitude towards my weight and health and what can I do to overcome these obstacles? How should I start this journey and what diets or exercise routines should I do? Btw I am 17 @ 165 lb

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