Tuesday, November 19, 2019

How breaking up with girlfriend of 10 years fuelled my weight loss journey. (M)

I was 211 pounds in august 2019. Pretty nasty break up with ex-partner. After lots of crying, loss of appetite etc. I just went to the gym every other day and worked and put my anger out on the weight. I now weigh 172 pounds, and I feel so happy with myself and my life. I'm glad this break up happened to me, I was so oblivious and comfortable with my previous weight. Now I love going to the gym and I feel more confident. Sometimes you think stressful situations like break ups are the end of the world, but for me it was just the beginning. My goal weight is 161 pounds, so I have 11 pounds to go and I hope to reach this by the end of the year. Just wanted to share with you guys. Thanks.

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5’6 ladies, how much are you eating? Can’t stop binging

I’m 5’6, 127 lbs, and 22. I workout 5X a week doing orange theory style workouts (hitt treadmill/row/weights) and I have no clue how to eat! I have read the faq and looked up my tdee but it just seems like too much food.

I ate 1400 for a while and that was going well but lately I can’t stop binging. I don’t know if it’s just a lack of discipline on my end (probably) but I feel helpless! I’m curious what others my height are eating and/or if I could get some tips on how to not beat yourself up and stick to goals. I’ve gained back 6 lbs and I feel really crappy about it and don’t know how to get back into weight loss. My goal is 115 lbs because I have a very small bone structure with little muscle.

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I've lost 20lbs since July.

In July I was hospitalized in the midst of a bipolar 2 meltdown of epic proportions. This year has been the shittiest year of my life. There have been good things, of course, but an overwhelming amount of bad as well, especially in regards to my mental health.

At the hospital I weighed in at the highest weight I've ever been in my life. I don't even want to post the number because it's just awful to me. It was so fucking depressing and honestly still is when I think about it. I'm only down 20ish pounds since then but that's 20 pounds I'll gladly take. I've only told my grandma about my small weight loss because she's my person I tell shit to. Wanted to tell some strangers so it seems more real and hopefully will motivate me along.

Trying to take my weight loss more seriously so I'm trying to celebrate small milestones like this and recognizing that while this year was shit I'm coming up on new beginnings!

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Weighed myself daily for 6 months, lost 20 pounds. Some thoughts.

My weight graph: https://imgur.com/0xKQH8O

6 months ago I found r/loseit, and read in the Quick Start Guide:

Have a Baseline

When starting weight loss, you will probably feel very motivated to keep going. But as you progress, your initial motivation will wane and it is easy to get discouraged. As you progress, have a baseline for things you do when you are feeling discouraged or unmotivated, things you do no matter what. For example, you might stop going to the gym for a couple weeks, but you maintain a baseline of logging your calories and eating 200 calories below maintenance.

I decided my baseline would be simply weighing myself daily and logging the weight. It only takes about 30 seconds a day. I chose this because weighing myself consistently had been a common theme through all my weight successes.

It's been at least 15 years since I've had a <25 BMI, and it looks pretty clear that I'm about to be there again, right in time for New Years!

Here's a bunch of random thoughts and observations about the last 6 months:

  • I started intermittent fasting. I found it was fairly easy for me to skip breakfast. I had been a big cereal eater previously, and could eat 2 or 3 full sized bowls every morning. This alone may account for most of my success.
  • I weigh myself every morning, and skipping breakfast means that if I forget, I have several hours to catch myself. Before, I would accidentally eat breakfast and then was discouraged that the weigh-in would be tainted because I had eaten before weighing myself. I decided not to worry about that this time, tainted weigh-in or not, I was going to weigh-in. You can see this in the first weigh-ins where I had eaten and was fully dressed with shoes and all.
  • I eventually started doing IF longer, and would sometimes wait until 4 PM before I started eating. I started adjusting my fasting length based on my weight loss rate. I had a little formula I used, but basically if I was losing slower, I would fast longer, and if I was losing faster, I would fast less time. This is why the weight loss rate is so linear at 1 pound per week.
  • I always focused on that trend line more than the individual weight measurements. The trend line is an average over the last 3 weeks of weights (I think Libra uses something like an "exponential average" but I'm not sure, nor does it matter). The long averaging window meant that the trend line (or "average line") was lagging behind my actual weight, which is why I nearly always weighed-in below the trend line.
  • I would remind myself that as long as I continually weighed in under that trend line, I was losing weight. I also got to see the trend weight drop a little every single day without fail (with only a single exception). This was a big mental success for me.
  • There was one time I ate out with family at a Mexican restaurant and ate so much I was honestly worried I couldn't keep it all down. The next day I weighed in below my trend line, I was still losing weight. A single meal does not break a diet, and the data was backing me up on that.
  • To change your life, you have to change what you do every day.
  • A good trick to change your life with minimal willpower is to do something you've never done before. It might cause a permanent change. You only have to muster the willpower to do it once, and then it will be easier the next time. (See next point for an example.)
  • I had previously purchased mostly frozen foods and eaten out a lot. I started buying raw ingredients, and doing basic food prep myself. Previously, I was avoiding healthy foods simply because I didn't know how to prepare them. Learning how to do basic food prep by going outside my comfort zone just a couple of times permanently changed my perceived options. With no further effort or willpower, I will always look at the (relatively few) raw ingredients I've purchased as options; something I at least know what to do with if I do buy them.
  • I still skip breakfast, but I've stopped deliberate fasting. I'm surprised to see that my weight continues its linear loss. I think I've internalized my new eating habits.
  • I do make mental adjustments based on the weight loss projections, but I no longer make deliberate plans based on the scale.
  • I bought a food scale. It was only 10 dollars. I love electronic gadgets. I was amused to see the scale was sensitive enough to weigh a paper towel. Amazing. Food scales are a cheap useful tool.
  • I only counted calories for 3 days. I restricted myself to 1800 calories on those day. It was a hassle, but I learned what 1800 calories looked like.
  • A lot of what I thought was the effects of aging turned out to be the effects of slow and stead weight gain over the years. I was only 27 BMI at max, but I felt the effects.
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Should you use a Run Tracker App or Running Watch?

What’s the best way to measure or track your runs – GPS Running Watch, Running App, Fitness Watch, driving around your running route and using the car’s odometer?? Those are all real options and the best way to track your runs really depends on you, your goals and resources. A run tracker app can track […]

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How do you feel sexy with your loose skin?

To all the ladies (and gentlemen) out there... How do you feel sexy with your loose skin?

I am meeting my long distance boyfriend for the FIRST time tomorrow. (ug so nervous) He knows (and has completely supported) my weight loss journey. Since January I have lost 133 lbs. 182lbs in total so far. 18lbs to go yay! But because of this I look like I melted. My thighs are my biggest insecurity. The inner portion has a lot of loose skin. I lucked out I feel on my stomach. My arms are bad but meh I can deal. My neck is a bit crepey but I hope that will bounce back eventually. But at 29 I know my things probably won't. I accepted the fact I would have loose skin. I would rather have that than fat. But man how do you feel sexy?

I know confidence is sexy. I have so much more now. But looking at myself naked. I begin to feel anxious. Has the loose skin affected anyone else's love life? How do you cope with having that sag?

Bonus: My weight loss photos https://imgur.com/9FgOsXH

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eating at deficit and not losing weight

Hello! I’m a 22 year old 5’2 female who (currently) weighs 273. I started at 280 on October 31. I had initially started my weight loss journey May of 2018 where i’d lost 20 pounds in a month! I was going to the gym 5 times a week, counting my calories, and eating healthy. But things in my life got a little crazy, which ultimately led to me gaining it back. Now I’m trying to get back on the wagon, and while I haven’t been exercising as often as i used to (i usually go to the gym about 3 times a week now), I’ve only lost about a pound since November 5th. I know it’s only been a couple of weeks, but seeing that progress last year and comparing it to now has me wondering if I’m doing anything wrong other than not going to the gym 5 times a week. My TDEE is 3025 calories, and I’m eating 1500 calories daily, (sometimes i only get to 1200) Should I get myself out of my own head or is there something I need to fix?

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