Sunday, August 23, 2020

Have any non scale goals? Throw them hear. I wanna know.

TL;DR: Feeling good this morning. Got thinking to about riding roller coasters with my daughter and shopping in the regular clothes section. Wanted to hear some of your non-scale weight loss goals

Im feeling especially good this morning. Im coming up on a year(minus the 3 months in quarantine and the 3 weeks I had covid) in which I decided to change my life. Its been hard at times and i thought about giving up at various points but this sub has kept me motivated in times of struggle.

I stepped on the scale and liked what I saw so I got to thinking about some things I really want to do when I get closer to my goal. I havent ridden a roller coaster with my 11 year old daughter and she really likes them. I've been too big for them her entire life, so that one of the first things Im doing when we can.

Also I cant wait to shop for clothes in the regular section. I hate the big and tall selection. I like to wear graphic tshirts and the really cool ones never come in my size.

I'm really interested to hear some other people's non scale goals. Might hear something I havent thought of yet. Thanks in advance

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A message to those (like me) who HATE working out

Hi, lurker here to talk about a big struggle of mine on this journey towards self improvement.

So I am a 27 F, been losing a pound a week since December using CICO and very pleased with how that’s going. I started out at 182 pounds, today I weigh 147, and I have gained enough confidence through this process that I have adjusted my goal weight from 130 to 120. Adjusting it is a big deal for me because I never even expected to get near my goal weight, seeing as I’ve failed at weight loss so many times before.

However, this post is not about the diet that is going quite well but about the exercise which is a big struggle! I am not on this journey just to see a different number on the scale. I am going for a FEELING. A feeling I have never experienced in these 27 years of life. I want to feel healthy and capable and strong and quick. I want to feel light on my toes. I want to feel like I could do (almost) anything other people can do without being winded or chafed or embarrassed.

All that to say, I really want to put on some muscle in addition to losing weight. But exercise is SO HARD! It has always been really hard for me and I get embarrassed and self conscious about people seeing me struggle with these very simple things. For an example of how easy the things I struggle with are, take stretching. That’s not even supposed to be the hard part but it kills me! I am so inflexible that a pilates instructor nicknamed me “the tin man.” And it’s not just that it hurts and is hard to do, it feels like I can’t breathe from a simple stretch. The one where you raise your arms over your head and lean to one side, for example, makes me feel like I’m suffocating. Then sometimes I see posts on here of people with higher starting weights than mine, who say they just started running a bunch and did a 5k and all this kind of stuff I can’t even imagine doing at half their weight. It makes me feel pathetic and weak.

But I’m not just here to complain. I’m here to tell you two things. First, if you really struggle with exercise you are NOT alone! Not everyone just changes their mindset one day and can then run a mile the next morning. And not everyone can go couch to 5k as quickly as those who post their successes do. The second thing I want to say is, don’t beat yourself up and make it an all-or-nothing kind of deal. Just because you get winded after 10 mins on the elliptical or an embarrassingly low number of reps with weights, or just because you can’t make it through half of a 30 minute home stretching video, doesn’t mean your effort doesn’t count. If you are struggling, sweating, out of breath, or just tired from your “workout” then you still accomplished something. And the final thing I want to say is, even if you just barely worked out your physical muscles, you worked out an important mental muscle. The fight muscle. The determination muscle. If you work out for an entire month but can’t increase the weights coz you haven’t been doing enough reps or all that, that’s not a failure. You still did it, even if it was 5 minutes every day, and your mental fighting muscle is stronger.

That is all. Best of luck to all of you on your journeys!

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My dad is in the ICU with Covid and Pneumonia. I can’t get myself back on my workout/healthy eating routine.

Hi guys,

This is a little hard for me to write but I need some help.

Since May of this year I started a weight loss journey which had been going great for me and I lost 29 pounds. F23, 5’3, SW:208 CW:179 GW:150. I have been calorie counting and working out almost everyday of the week.

Then last Sunday I found out my dad has been in the hospital for 5 days with Covid and a severe case of pneumonia. My parents are divorced and my stepmom and little sister also have Covid which is why I didn’t find out sooner. Needless to say my world came crashing down and my diet went right with it. My dad is finally stable but is still in the hospital on a ventilator and the stress is getting to me.

Food has definitely been a comfort to me the past week and I’ve been working out about 2 times a week but not as intense as before.

My question is, have any of you gone through a traumatic event during your weight loss journey and how do you get yourself back into your routine? The anxiety and stress I feel everyday now just makes working out and eating healthy feel so useless.

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24/M/India | Progress Post | 14KG/30lb Lost, Easier Than It Seems!

Greetings, fellow warriors! Been a lurker for a year or so here but never took my health seriously until February 2020. I'll just lay out the stats and progress pic first for those who don't want to read the full story, although I do plead that if you're finding it difficult to lose weight/unsure of how to start, you give this a read. I am honestly in a state of general happiness mixed with a bit of disbelief as to my current status, compared to where I was just a few months ago.

Context:

I was one of those people that never took health too seriously (or at all), be it physical or mental. In Feb 2020, I was 125kg, at my lowest point. I used to chug half liter bottles of soda every few days, order burgers late at night, and throw all caution to the wind because I used to tell myself I'm more active than a lot of people (which was partially true considering my work as a freelance wildlife guide and camp coordinator then). And then my body couldn't take it anymore. Random chest pains, elevated heart rate, a general difficulty in doing things compared to other people my age. Along with my already screwed up mental health, I had this to take care of. Great. Physical checkups weren't too positive: I was at massive risk for hypertension and was also prescribed meds for a month. The doctor gave me an ultimatum: Lose weight now, or continue these meds for the rest of your life.

The journey:

And so began what seemed would be a grueling journey towards weight loss. Like the majority of us, I was filled with self doubt and negativity, thinking I'd never be able to lose weight in time to "get rid" of the hypertension. But finding r/loseit opened up a new world to me. I started begrudgingly logging calories on MyFitnessPal. Walking a kilometer every day, then 2, then 5. Reading nutrition labels. Understanding the science of a calorie deficit diet (as opposed to intermittent fasting, which didn't seem as elegant to me personally).

And that brings us to today, where I've finally moved down a shirt size, I shockingly look like a new person, I've been eating wiser, but also eating the things I love and not really compromising on that front. Never in a million years did I think that I'd lose weight, let alone this much, and look better for it. What I've learnt, and what I hope will inspire my fellow weight loss enthus, is that it eventually becomes a part of your life, which it should. And as long as you make wise choices, you don't have to really compromise on what you eat or how active you are. Below are a few things I've learnt:

  • Commitment is not easy. But it gets easier, if that makes sense. The urge to get back to snacking, the urge to go back to sleep instead of going on that walk, all of it takes willpower to overcome.

  • LOG. EVERYTHING. The part I hated the most, but now I do without fail, every single day. Log every single bite you take, if you can. You really, really realize how much you eat, and where you can cut back. I cut down on processed snacks and soft drinks entirely.

  • Find substitutes to snacking: Your average packet of chips contains 500 calories. Find something else that's more filling at 500 calories. My go to became mixed sprouts with spices and a few veggies. Perfect for meals or for snacking.

  • It's okay to fail. But you have to learn to get back up. That is the only way you can overcome this. Some days you can't overcome it, and that's fine, but you have to remind yourself of why you're doing this, and I promise you, the end result WILL be worth it.

  • Don't push yourself. Be it exercise or diet, just stick to a plan, don't starve or overwork yourself, and slowly get better at both. Make gradual, long lasting changes instead of superficial changes. Learn to love your body, understand its limits over time, and treat it with the respect and care it deserves!

I hope that some of you will have read through this whole tirade of mine, and learnt a little from it. I'd be happy to answer questions on this thread or in DMs! Love and best wishes to everyone!

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Help me create a realistic target

For context, I am a 30 years old male, with a current BMI of 29.3, just barely below the obese category. I have tried dieting casually for around 2 years, and managed to keep my weight at 72kg for a few months before bouncing back to this current state of 77kg as of now.

One positive is before I was consciously trying to be healthy, my weight was at 80-82kg, and I was able to keep myself just below the obese category for almost 2 years. But with my appetite for food (I am in south east Asia where almost all local delicacies are full of oil and fat), I know I am one binge-eating week away from going back to my previous state.

Now, I am trying to seriously putting effort in getting healthy but the prospect of losing 13kg of weight to be in a normal BMI range looks so daunting.

What is a realistic goal that I can target for short term, say until end of this year so I can feel accomplished and motivated to continue with my weight loss goal of a healthy BMI?

Also, for anyone living in Indonesia, Singapore, Malaysia or similar country, if you have a suggestion on how to live a healthier life while maintaining social interactions, please advise me!
I live in Malaysia where you know the culture is always eat eat eat, especially during family gathering and those morning Nasi Lemak or night Mamak eating is sometimes hard to resist.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 23 August 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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The big whoosh happened

H: 4’10 - SW: 72.6kgs- CW: 68.3kgs - GW: 48kgs

So I’m 25f and for the past 6 weeks I’ve been counting cals (1500-1400 cals a day) and exercising 5/6 days a week and I’m also doing Pilates 3 times a week. However I was only seeing tiny changes on the scale and it felt like it was stuck in the 69s. I stepped on the scales yesterday I was 68.7kgs and it felt so good. So it just wanted to make this post to say that the ~6 weeks ~ woosh thing actually works and don’t give up! I weighed myself today and I was 68.3 but I think I’m just dehydrated because I had some drinks yesterday. Anyway, I just feel like it’s important to celebrate the small victories on this weight loss journey. You might not see any big changes in the first couple of weeks but don’t let that discourage you - you’ve got this!

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