Monday, February 1, 2021

I am appalled at what took place yesterday at a family gathering, and quite honestly humiliated. People go to the extremes to discourage weight loss..

Some background: my whole family is overweight. My grandpa is a diabetic, my mom had to have a gastric sleeve (but put most of the weight back on), etc. I got pretty heavy for my height and age (5’4, 200lbs) and so I’ve been going to the gym now for 2 years and I’ve lost down to 160lbs. I’m still not where I want to be, as my normal weight before I gained was 145lbs. So that’s where I want to get back to.

What happened:

My great aunt was discussing her own attempt at losing weight and how much more she needed to lose, and I then just in conversation told her I needed to lose around that same amount, too.

As soon as I said this my grandfather started yelling at me, saying “YOU ARE TOO SKINNY YOU HAVE TO STOP WITH THE WEIGHT LOSS. YOU MUST NOT BE EATING, YOU LOOK PALE AND SICKLY” and I said “I’m not even near the healthy weight range for my age and height yet...??” Then he made me announce my weight in front of everyone.. “160 pounds..” then on top of that they didn’t believe me.

They actually went and got the scale and set it down and they gathered around me to watch me weigh myself (I weighed in at 165 actually) and they couldn’t believe it. Basically still saying that I shouldn’t continue to lose weight, I’m “large framed” and “big boned” and I need to stay that way, etc. it was so embarrassing and exhausting. I kinda just needed somewhere to tell this story, so I’m sorry for the rant.

Bottom line is, people will go to the absolute extremes to keep you from succeeding. Your success makes them uncomfortable because it shows them what is possible for themselves- and what they’re not working towards.. don’t let them get under your skin, it’s really hard not to but keep pushing towards your goals and dreams.

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An Ode of warning to those that think losing weight will heal their souls. This is my 100 pound lose journey. 27/M 6'4" 286 to 176

(Non native english speaker ahead)

I used food to comfort me as a child. I grew up in a bad environment despite my close family loving me. My dad left us when i was 3. My then 23 year old mother had to raise me alone in a very poor situation financially. Sadly, my father visits and being forced to go with him and visit his new families living lavishly while me and my mother lived in the projects Made me real angry, bitter and sad. Growing up fast was even worse considering ive lived two wars and endless rounds of terror attacks all through my child hood. Trouble sleeping, vivid nightmares made my nights restless. Fast forward after my military service and those same nightmares switched onto ptsd fueld nightmares, which in turn dabbled me into alcoholism and drug abuse. Horrible experiences with women made me even detest the though of loving and being loved. I always thought weight loss would make more successful, a better person, a fuller soul. But its all bullshit. Im trying my hardest to drift away from alcohol or drugs but for now i dont see a way out without ending it all. Heal yourself, better yourself before thinking about "fixing" your body. I do manage to get laid a lot, its all love less and bitter. Does nothing then widening the pit in my heart. I wish you all a safe and fulfilling journey to better yourselves and to better understand and love your flaws. Before and after : 286 to 176

https://ibb.co/NVgHxVJ

Took me 8 months of counting calories and mixing cardio with iron training. Im maintaining pretty easily because i completely lost my appetite. Body dysmorphia makes me judge my self pretty harshly whenever i indulge and gain a couple of pounds. If you have any questions regarding weight loss i would be more then happy to be of help.

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This is What Happened When This Guy Ate Lionel Messi’s Vegetarian Diet for a Day

Fitness YouTuber Aseel Soueid regularly tries out the nutrition regimes of famous athletes like basketball legend LeBron James and bodybuilder Ronnie Coleman. In his latest video, he takes on the meat-free diet used by Argentine soccer star Lionel Messi when he’s in training. (Rather than being a strictly plant-based challenge, this one qualifies as vegetarian or pescatarian as the meals Soueid eats throughout the day include fish and eggs.)

The challenge kicks off with a hearty breakfast of 2 large eggs with extra egg-whites, and a bowl of oatmeal with almond milk, strawberries, blueberries, and mixed nuts. “A lot of people say if you’re a hard gainer and you’re struggling to put on weight, avoid oatmeal because it’s super filling,” says Soueid. “But I tend to disagree, because this is actually where you can pack on the calories with the toppings.”

This is followed by a pre-workout meal of cooked tilapia, steamed white rice and broccoli. “That was obviously super simple, but extremely delicious,” he says. The post-workout meal is a simple staple: a protein shake and a banana.

The next big meal is cooked salmon, with more white rice and broccoli. “Salmon is one of my favorite protein sources,” says Soueid. “Obviously there’s a lot of fat, but you can make room for it.”

After one final meal—another banana and shake—Soueid has consumed a total of 3,229 calories, consisting of 406 grams of carbs, 82 grams of fat, and 229 grams of protein.

“This was fun, I don’t typically follow a vegetarian diet plan,” he says, adding that it’s far from necessary to cut meat out of your diet in order to start seeing results in your weight loss or fitness. “At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is your total calorie intake goal for the day, along with the specific amount of macros that your individual body needs.”

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The FUPA/Fat pad above the penis is engulfing 2 inches of my size. Help I need some advice and a few questions I'd like to ask.

Hello, men and women of r/loseit. I am new to the sub and just getting into weight loss. My goal is to reach a BMI of 21.5 which I believe is the middle of the healthy weight that I should be at. I am currently 55-60 pounds overweight for my height. Now, lately, I've been quite bothered by the fat padding above my penis which hides 2" of my real length. The questions I want to ask are (both genders are welcome to answer!):

  1. I heard that all of this extra length is usable in sex as the fat is really squishy and compresses. Is this true? I can compress to the bone with my hands easily.
  2. Has anyone here experienced/seen a significant change in the FUPA after a 50-60 pound weight loss? I am just really scared that it may never go away.

Thank you!

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Fundamentals of Weight Loss Nutrition

Hi folks,

I recently found this sub-reddit and thought I would lend a hand by discussing some of the basics of nutrition for weight loss. I am currently doing my PhD in performance nutrition. I have an MSc in Human Nutrition with specialization in Sport & Exercise Nutrition and have spent numerous years in the field. Here I will cover some of the basics of nutrition for weight loss.

Energy Balance

As many of you are aware, weight loss is a product of being in a consistent energy balance. This means consuming less (kilo)calories than our bodies expend. We get energy from the food and drink we consume and we use energy maintaining our bodies functions (known as Basal Metabolic Rate), moving around our day to day lives (walking, fidgeting) and via physical activity.

If weight loss is your goal, you’re going to want to slightly REDUCE the energy in and INCREASE the energy out. Simple things like walking up stairs instead of talking the lift can help this.

Although you don't need to track calories to lose weight, you do need to be in an energy deficit. Some people like to put themselves in a deficit by lowering carbohydrates, some like to track calories, some like to lower dietary fats - they are all tools in the toolbox to achieve the goal of weight loss.

Although it isn't for everyone, I personally like to track my caloric intake when i am dieting down. Humans are pretty poor at accurately tracking their energy intake however consistent tracking and monitoring weight loss (visually, using the scale and measurements combined are a good way to do so) will allow you to identify whether you're eating appropriately for your goal

Diet Quality

A lot of people talk about weight loss as calories in vs. calories out, which is kinda correct but also very reductionist thinking. Diet quality is of major importance because if you are deficient in nutrients your body requires, you run the risk of impairing your physical and cognitive performance or damaging your health. Eating in a slight energy deficit (300-500 calories below your maintenance) and consuming a wide variety of nutrient-dense foods (fruit, vegetables, dairy, lean meats, fish, whole-grains, nuts, seeds and pulses) will help ensure you remain nutrient-sufficient. A high-quality diet is important not only for ensuring nutritional adequacy. It also provides dietary fibre and phytonutrients, which aren’t essential but is very beneficial for health as they’re associated with lower risk of cardiovascular disease, T2 diabetes, certain cancers and coronary heart disease.

They will also promote weight loss because the fibre provides satiety. Fruit and veg are also very volumous for their energy content, and eating a lot of veg will physically push against the stomach (gastric distention) which signals to your body that you are satiated. More information on these can be found here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gpbk--mRXOQ

Protein Intake

The most important macronutrient. I am biased because my PhD research is in this area but that is because protein is so diverse. Whilst carbohydrates and fats primary function is to provide fuel for our bodies metabolic functions, proteins have many other roles. They can be used as fuel in times of starvation. They provide structure, stability and function (think muscle proteins). They allow us to transport molecules around the body (haemoglobin is a protein that is involved in oxygen transport). They act as signalling molecules (hormones), they catalyse biochemical reactions in the body (enzymes) amongst many other functions.

Protein is particularly important for weight loss for a number of reasons. It will help preserve lean muscle mass, which will ultimately improve body composition. Protein is more satiating than carbs or fats, meaning it will promote fullness. Protein is also very thermogenic, with around 25% of the energy contained within protein ultimately acting to digest, absorb and metabolise the nutrients.

Protein from lean meats, fish and dairy will provide all 9 essential amino acids (they must be obtained from the diet). Soy and mycoprotein-containing ‘fake meats’ also contain all 9 essential amino acids. Other proteins from veg-friendly sources are typically lacking in one essential amino acid however a varied intake of these sources will allow for all 9 to be consumed.

Aim to eat between 1.2-2.6 grams of protein per kg of bodywight per day. So an 80kg person should aim for between 96g and 208g per day (I would certainly advise going to the higher end if weight loss is the goal).

Meal Timing

Meal timing is a hot topic. Some folk say you should eat once per day, some people reckon 7 meals a day is the holy grail. The truth is, purely from a weight loss perspective, how you distribute your meals is up to you. If you prefer intermittent fasting until 3pm and eating all of your food in the evening, go for it as long as you stay in an energy deficit.

Protein intake spread throughout the day might be more optimal for preserving muscle mass. Our muscles are built and maintained when in a positive protein balance – when synthesis exceeds breakdown. Protein feeding (and exercise) increases synthesis. Fasting increases breakdown. If you eat protein spread throughout the day then theoretically you would maintain more muscle during weight loss. The research is in its infancy so I cannot say for sure however I do spread my protein intake throughout the day to be on the safe side.

Spot Reduction

This is a question I’ve seen raised a lot here. People want to know what exercises will burn certain types of fat (belly, man boobs etc). I am sorry to say that you CANNOT spot reduce fat. Your genetics determine where your body mobilised fat stores from (so blame your parents lol!). Males typically store their fat around the waist and lower back and females around the hips (think child-bearing). It is unfortunate but the reality is if you have a problem area of fat then you just need to keep grinding and reducing your body fat. Some people can get extremely lean in certain areas before other areas start to reduce the body fat.

Bad Foods for Weight Loss

There are no bad foods for weight loss on their own – you need to consider the wider diet. Weight loss isn’t just an acute process – it is something which occurs over many months. Rather than thinking about your food intake over a day, think about it over a week. One McDonalds meal in a week will amount to around 4-8% of your total food intake. If this isn’t displacing the nutrient-dense foods in your diet then this is perfectly fine and might actually be beneficial at allowing you to adhere to a weight loss regimen. If you eat one McDonalds meal a day ten you could still be in an energy deficit but you’d be likely to displace nutrient-dense foods as this now accounts for 25-30% of your total food intake. I say there are no good or bad foods, just good or bad dietary patterns!

Hydration

Water intake is crucial for healthy living. We are around 60% water – our blood is mainly water, or joints are lubricated by water, water is the medium which all biochemical reactions occur in our bodies..you get the idea of how important it is! A lot of the time we mistake thirst cues for hunger cues, so drinking water may offset some unwanted snacking. Slight decrements in body water (2% bodyweight) can impair exercise performance so inadequate hydration might mean you can’t exercise to a decent intensity.

That is all I can think of now. I will do another post about nutrition for muscle building soon. If you have any questions feel free to ask!

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Please help- eating 1000 calories not losing weight

Hi everyone,

This is probably going to be a long post but I would really appreciate everyone’s advice. I’m 5 2 and 132 lbs currently. I have been between 120-140 for the past 4 years. I originally was 120 at the start of college then went to 140 after sophomore year. I spent a year working out and losing weight eating 1000-1200 calories and went back down to 120. I’ve been eating in a deficit most days and then would binge maybe 2x a week so I am now at my current weight of 132. After the holidays I decided I really wanted to lose weight because I was unhappy with my body. I am really struggling with the eating parts and CICO. I workout 6x a week doing a pull push leg split. I workout quite hard. Right now I’m doing 190 5x3 deadlift, 160 3x5 squat and 95 5x5 bench just to put it into perspective and on sundays I usually do about 45 minutes of walking.

I’m currently eating an average of 1000 calories a day and I started really trying to lose weight again 12/27/20. Since then I have a lost a total of 2 lbs and I know weight loss can be slow and 1 lb a month is normal but at my high deficit I thought I would be losing more. I track my food to the gram when I eat at home about 4x a week and when I go out I typically eat a very light lunch and a snack and have that outside meal as my last meal. I try to estimate it as best as I can i.e. beef noodle soup or Korean food I estimate around 800 cals.

I do calculate my calories by doing 1000+ the number of calories I burned while exercising typically I estimate about 150-200 cals. I workout for about 45 minutes to an hour.

In the past 3 weeks I have stayed at 131.8 even though I’ve been tracking. It’s getting me really discouraged and I know weight loss can be slow on the scale but it’s very discouraging.

I’m always thinking about food and maybe binge now about 2x a month. On binge days I estimate about 1800-2000 cals.

I always think I should eat more and see everyone say 1200 but I’m scared to go up because I’m not seeing much progress at 1000. TDEE calculators show I should eat about 1600 calories to lose weight but that just seems way too much for me.

I feel as though I keep having to go lower because I’ve been on a calorie deficit somewhat consistently at 800-1200 calories for 3 years now.

Sorry for this extremely long post I’m just so discouraged and really want to have the transformation I see people doing in 5-6 months but it seems like it’ll never happen for me. Should I eat out less since I can’t track, should I eat more since I might be losing muscle mass, am I doing something wrong since I should be losing it faster?

Please help!!!

Thank you!!!!

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What should I do now?

As the title suggests, I am completely blank.

A brief introduction/summary of mine: I am 26M, 75kgs, 167cm, 31% body fat (checked using those BCA machines in my gym). Went on a weight loss journey last year in May. My highest weight was 131+. I introduced workouts in a very planned manner, initially I used Nike Training Club, then cycling and basic cardio, then introduced resistance bands, switched to running (am able to do 5k+ 2-3 days a week), and finally weight training 3-4 days a week.

Right now, I am doing running+gym 6 days a week, alternating between them in a not very planned manner. I am using a personal trainer for past two months, but am thinking of doing stuff on my own as it's becoming a bit too expensive for me.

For my diet, I am doing 1300-1400 cals a day with 125-130 gms protein. Till last month, I was doing 100 gms but I was still losing muscle mass, so upped it by one scoop basically.

I don't know till what weight I should go, so I have set <20%bf as my current target while maintaining weight between 70-75 kgs. 2-3 days a week running. 4 days PHAT program, minus the leg hypertrophy day as my thigh and calf muscles are already quite huge from carrying so much weight. Basically PHUL program, but spread like strength upper, strength lower, hypertrophy chest and arms, hypertrophy back and shoulders. Will manage a day for abs and functional training.

My ultimate goal is to live a healthy and fit lifestyle, so not really targeting a huge ass bulked up body, but toned up one (as of now, might change eventually). I didn't really like the concept of bulk/cut, firstly because I am shit scared of gaining weight, and secondly, I will only do whatever I can pursue for my entire remaining life. But maybe I am wrong.

Is this plan good enough? Should I change something? As of now, I can't give more than 3-4 days to gymming.

Also, should I start taking creatine? Many people are suggesting I should.

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