Monday, February 15, 2021

I'm heavier than I've ever been

Three years ago, I was 20kg lighter after a year of focusing on nothing but working out at the gym, eating within my means, and curating my mental health after a series of breakdowns which resulted in me flunking out.

The thing is, despite the weight loss, I didn't feel like I looked any different. Yes, my clothes fit better and jeans I can wear comfortably now felt ginormous to me. But my stomach, my legs? They were still flabby and honestly, not that different from what I look like today. Yes, I wasn't down to my goal weight yet but it was less than 10kg away so I don't know how that would have miracously shrunken my stomach.

In the three years since my sabbatical, I've graduated with my bachelor and I'm finishing my master's. I'm doing great academically, but at great cost to my mental health.

Now, I'm constantly under stress, angry, frustrated. I eat out of stress, I eat out of boredom, I feel myself getting cranky and crabby when I don't have anything sweet to munch on. I eat till I feel nauseous and uncomfortable.

All in all, it's not even just the incremental effect of eating that impacts me negatively - I feel my health deteriorating in real time. But it doesn't stop me.

I desperately want fo return to lifting weights but I can't because gyms are closed and even if they weren't, I can't risk getting the virus.

If I had a home gym with a barbell and weights, I would use it every day without hesitation. Covid isn't an excuse for me, I genuinely want to lift weights again. It was effortless, despite always trying to lift heavier than last, and so good for my mental health. I was really flourishing. And I could just lift my frustrations away.

Yeah, I can do bodyweight squats, but how effective is that compared to me squatting with the heaviest amount I could lift?

I don't really know what this is or what I hope to accomplish by posting here. I just feel miserable because I want to take care of myself but even just washing my face and brushing my teeth every day is hard for me right now. And then I remember how even 20kg lighter I still felt and looked fat with a protruding stomach.

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looking for a buddy [F30 | 150kg/330pounds]

I'm not sure if it's ok to post this here but I'm looking for a weight loss buddy. Lets plan our goals together and help each other stick to it! I know there are challenges here on r/loseit you can participate in, but I'd prefer a more one-on-one approach. I'm looking for someone near me (The Netherlands) So we can actually meet up every now and then for a weigh-ins or maybe even exercise together. Send me a message if you're interested and let's get to know each other!

Also, this is my first try in finding a weight loss buddy, but I've been thinking about it for a long time.. I just don't know where to find someone who'd be interested? Do you have any ideas? Where can I find someone who'd be willing to do this with me?

Thanks!

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Lifelong dieter here. CW: 93kg/205lbs SW: 96kg/211lbs GW: 66kg/147lbs. Surprised myself by teaching my Instagram fitness model-esque housemates about CICO! I know stuff! We know stuff!

So I'm back on the weight-loss bandwagon.

5' 7" CW: 93kg/205lbs SW: 97kg/211lbs GW: 66kg/147lbs

I'm 35/F and have been at this since I was literally a child. Overweight kid etc etc. As a result, I've pretty much told myself that I'm rubbish at this and a failure at weight loss and fitness.

Anyway, I currently live with a couple who are not Instagram fitness models but 100% could be. Their bodies are both incredible. They are both super active and workout just about every day. It's good for me because it encourages my healthy habits. Diet-wise they appear to eat healthy most of the time, so I assumed they knew what they were doing. I'll call them Hayley and Steve. Hayley's dad is a PT and Steve did sports science at uni so fairly knowledgable I assumed.

Hayley did give me some dubious advice once. I told her about my weight loss goals. I currently IF, count macros and calories and run three times a week. I also go on one long hike a week and ride horses a few times a week. I'm currently losing at a rate of 1kg/2.2lb a week which I think is fairly healthy.

She said, 'oh if you don't want to prolong the pain and ramp up the speed you lose weight, you should do strength workouts a few times a week, it'll come off much quicker'.

Don't get me wrong, I totally understand the value of strength training, but I don't think the goal should be to up the speed of my losses. We all know here that fast losses are generally the least sustainable.

The other day female-could-be-fitness-model housemate says that she wants to lose 5kg/11lb. My first thought of course is 'from where??!'. But whatever, she has her reasons I guess. So I'm sat with both of them on Sunday as they are trying to work out how this can be done. I wasn't initially part of the conversation but I had to interrupt. They really had no idea. The conversation goes like this:

Me: 'Are you guys okay?'
Hayley: 'I really can't work this calorie thing out. And how am I suppose to know how much protein to eat??'
Me: 'Have do downloaded MFP?'
Hayley: 'Yes but I don't understand it. It's giving me 1200 calories per day and 120g of protein!'
Me: 'Well just change it to what you want (thinking this is a tech issue)?'
Hayley: 'How do I know what that is??'
Me: 'Have you worked out your TDEE?'
Hayley and Steve: 'What??'
Me: 'Or your BMR?'
Hayley and Steve: ??!!

So I proceeded to explain to them all about TDEE/BMR and how to work out a deficit and their desired macros. This was all brand new information to them.

It made me realise that we know our shit!

We've been doing this so much that we could run courses on the science of weight loss.

We are the experts! We even know more than those fit folk sometimes!

We just need to listen to ourselves!

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For the first time in my life I'm doing this weight loss journey alone and it's so different than doing with an accountability buddy.

I always had an accountability buddy to help me lose weight. I'm a super competitive person so it helped me a lot. Accountability buddy - so today I ate healthy and walked 8 miles. Me - I'll eat healthy today, walk 8 miles and run 4 miles. You get the gist, I always had to be a step ahead of my A Buddy.

The problem with this was, the moment we both lose weight and reach our desired goal, we'd stop talking weight loss and I would (and her too) gain all weight again. This year I have decided to not include her in my weight loss plan. This year I'm doing everything alone. Motivating myself, giving myself target, going on long walks and not telling anyone. This year's weight loss is slow but one positive is, I'm not gaining weight when I take a break( I take long breaks in between of my weight loss journey for no apparent reason.). Example - this year's weight loss journey started in June. From June to November I lost 7 kilo (14 lb). And in November I took a break and resumed in January second week (2 and half months) and I gained just a pound which is a great achievement ( because of hypothyroidism I gain weight very fast). So, this year I'm hoping that all this will work out better. Thanks for reading. Wishing you all good luck.

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Sunday, February 14, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 15 February 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Finally reached my goal of being in the “Normal” BMI range (246lbs–>178lbs)

My weight has been a life long struggle but I’m really proud to say that I have escaped the overweight/obese BMI range for the first time since middle school (I’m 24 now and 5’11). The heaviest I got to was just over 260 when I was 16 but the lowest I could get down to was 220 a few years back. In august I had creeped back up to 246lbs and decided to go all out, restricting carbs significantly and trying to be in a slight calorie deficit everyday. My best advice is to just keep trying different approaches to weight loss until something clicks. Everyone is different and something is bound to be doable if you keep putting the effort in. My focus now has shifted to muscle building and improving my cardio abilities. I have a very active job that involves me walking around 6 miles a day, but I’d love to be able to run longer distances. Here are some progress pics of august 2020 vs today

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In my (18F) first month of weight loss, I only lost 2 lbs

I'm 5'1" and my weight is 121 lbs. I have a little chubby stomach and disgusting back rolls. It took me a while to finally realize that if I want to see change then I had to make a change. I don't really workout (maybe 2 or 3 times a week I will use ab wheels or a resistance band). For the past month, I have only eaten 1000 calories (with the exceptional cheat days) a day. I see people losing up to 2 lbs a week meanwhile I only lost that much in a month which is very questionable to me. Not only that but it's kind of discouraging. What could be wrong? Should I workout more? Lower my calorie consumptions? Any advice would be really appreciated.

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