Thursday, July 1, 2021

I will keep on trying (again) | 31F, 5'5, CW 235, GW 160

About 10 years ago I lost 50lbs by counting calories and getting active (195 down to 145). I maintained it for about 5 years at a weight I was comfortable with, which was about 150-160. My lifestyle was very different back then though. I did not have a car and used public transit or bike 90% of the time, I was a fitness instructor after my weight loss, lived alone and in a neighborhood I felt comfortable walking or running outside.

However, once I moved, got a car, moved in with my partner, got an office job, stopped teaching fitness classes, and live in a area that isn't the best to walk around outside....slowly I found the weight coming on, and obviously COVID hasn't helped. I also work from home fulltime now, so it is sooo important that I build a healthy habits that fit my lifestyle as an adult vs. when I first successfully lost weight.

I can say despite gaining weight I've always tried to keep exercising 3x a week. It may not be as intense as I one did, but I enjoy spinning, HIIT, step aerobics, and circuit training.

As someone who is a health professional and absolutely understands the "math" behind losing weight it does disappoint me that I just can't get myself together mentally to reach my goals over the past 5 years. Now that the world is "opening up" again I really started to realize I have a growing anxiety of being around people because I am not comfortable in my body. This insecurity surrounding my weight has made me ambivalent about going out, attending events, taking vacations, etc. This worries me the most because I don't want to allow my quality of life to continue to decline, and miss out on creating memories because of my shame surrounding my weight and body image. I also would like to start a family in the next few years, and I am terrified of ever getting pregnant at this weight.

I've attempted to lose the weight many times for this "2nd" time around, but I think I may have found a strong WHY recently that goes beyond looking good for a friend's wedding. I just want to enjoy life to the fullest (even at the size I am now), because when I reflect on the past 5 years I can see that my weight is leading me into a life of seclusion and social deprivation.

Diet is my greatest struggle, as I am a compulsive snack-er. I don't drink sodas, rarely have alcohol, and I'm not out buying McDonalds and lattes! But I am the type to get a bag of popcorn and finish it all in one day. Or, have granola and eat 3 cups of it! Maybe even make a meal hoping to save left overs and just finish it all! My barriers are portion control, and simply eating as a hobby.

My goal weight is 160, I liked the way I looked at that size and it was reasonable to maintain back then.

This is plan:

  • Track on MyFitnessPal daily. The app put me at 1,222 calories to lose 2lbs a week.
  • Exercise for 30min 4-5x per week
  • Stop eating by 9pm
  • Every 6 weeks take a week long maintenance break and increase my caloric intake to 1,730. That way I can get used to eating at my maintenance level

I wish everyone much success in their journeys and I am happy to join the loseit community :-)

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The 5 Worst Calorie Bombs at the BBQ

It’s no secret that Americans love grilling: 80 percent of all U.S. households own a grill or smoker, according to the Hearth, Patio and Barbecue Association. 60 percent of those households use the grill all year.

For the other 40 percent, spring and summer are prime time, and no wonder: A backyard cookout is one of the most affordable and fun ways to spend a day with family and friends—and it’s an invitation few people can turn down, thanks to the incredible, flame-kissed food.

But don’t let these awesome, lazy Saturdays put the brakes on all the weight loss progress you made Monday to Friday! Be careful of BBQ calorie bombs that are waiting to sabotage your success. Instead, fill your plate and enjoy the day wisely with our 23 Healthy BBQ Dishes and these five easy BBQ swaps:

1. Cheeseburgers

Instead of: Going back for a second cheeseburger
Try this: Start with one and get creative with your seconds

A lean burger with a slice of low-fat cheese won’t destroy your diet. And, with veggies on top and on the side, it can make for a fairly well-balanced meal.

But if you’re the type of person who just has to head back to the grill for seconds, consider a small burger wrapped in lettuce the second time around to save on the calories from the bun. You can also cut up a small burger and use it as topping for a plate of salad, so you’ll get that burger taste without all those extra calories.

Looking for some tips for cooking up a weight loss-friendly burger?

Check out this article on How to Build a Healthier Burger for your grilling game-plan, then try one of our Better-for-You Burger Recipes. Condiments can also be calorie bombs, so check out these these five low-calorie condiments for some extra flavor. You can also stock up your freezer with the Classic Hamburger from Nutrisystem for a perfectly portioned option that’s ready in a snap!

2. Pasta Salad

Instead of: A big glop of mayo-heavy pasta or potato salad
Try this: Have a little, then visit the veggie tray

There’s nothing inherently wrong with potatoes or pasta, but when fast-acting carbohydrates like these are combined with saturated fats, the food doubles down on risks to your cardiovascular health. Not to mention the calories: A one-cup serving of homemade potato salad has 358 calories—more than the burger and bun you’ll eat them with.

If your cookout isn’t complete without a little of the creamy stuff, take a small amount (no more than half a cup), then pile your plate with raw veggies if you’re still hungry. Better yet, head right to the veggie tray from the get-go. Once you fill up on the nutrient-dense stuff, you may not have room for calorie bombs like mayo-based sides.

Or, probably our favorite solution: Whip up a bowl of your own pasta salad or potato salad. We’ve got a healthier recipe for pasta salad right here. And this article provides some guidance on how to build a healthier potato salad.

3. Baked Beans

Instead of: Canned baked beans leaking all over your plate
Try this: Freshly-chopped veggie kebabs you can eat all day

At an event bursting with fresh, homemade food, expertly cooked and lovingly prepared, canned baked beans are a strange staple—loaded with preservatives, sitting on a shelf for months, just waiting to leak all over your burger bun, contaminate your watermelon slice and intermingle with your dessert.

All this for almost 20 percent of your daily sodium, 10 grams of sugar, and about the same amount of calories of two small ears of corn—and that’s just in a half-cup serving. And who really scoops just half a cup of baked beans? In a list of BBQ calorie bombs, this one can easily be replaced with something lighter and tastier.

Bring a side that’s worthy of the occasion, and that you can actually eat with your hands. Cut onions, zucchini, bell peppers and yellow squash into chunks and make veggie kebabs. Toss them on the grill until the squashes start to soften. Enjoy them, handheld, with your burger, dog and corn on the cob. They won’t sully your watermelon or bun with sticky residue, and you can eat as many as you want without going off plan.

4. Potato Chips

Instead of: Mindlessly munching on chips
Try this: Play a game with the kids

Yes, the event is called a cookout, but it isn’t just about the food. The reasons you came might include your aunt’s famous spice mixture that makes the burgers absolutely incredible, but it’s also about the family or friends that you’ve chosen to spend the day hanging with.

So after you’ve eaten your meal, put your focus on them: Talk to them, catch up and move yourself away from the tempting snacks—studies have shown that physical distance can keep you from munching. In one study involving an office candy dish, dieters ate 1.8 more candies per day when the dish was placed on their desk versus when it was just 6 feet away. Move the chips away from you to combat the mindless munching.

And if you get a craving to have not-just-one, remember that what your body is after is likely not chips, but a change in your brain chemistry: When you eat a salty, savory or sweet snack, your body releases a biochemical called dopamine that’s associated with pleasure. But you can get this pleasure chemical in other, non-food-related ways—like exercise.

Instead of grabbing a handful of chips while listening to your uncle tell another fish story, excuse yourself to play badminton or blow bubbles with your nieces and nephews. You’ll get away from the snacks (and that story!), and give yourself the dopamine release you crave.

5. Desserts

Instead of: The sad wasteland of the dessert table
Try this: Bring something fruity and summery

There isn’t a quintessential cookout dessert, and that’s the problem: What’s there is kind of just there to be something sweet. It’s calorie bombs like brownies wilting in the sun and cookies melting into each other. If you’re on a diet, it’s not the kind of special, delicious treat that warrants a fall off the weight loss wagon. Worst of all, it doesn’t use either of the things that make a barbecue food perfect: Using the grill or being a cool, refreshing treat to take the heat off.

Solve both problems: Bring along some peaches and a container of light whipped topping to make some healthy grilled peaches! Cut them in half and remove the pits. When the grill is just about done being used for meat, put the peaches on, cut-side down, for about two minutes, until they start to soften and get cool-looking grill grate lines.

Serve each half with a big dollop (about a tablespoon) of the whipped topping in the hole where the pit was. If it’s around, top with a sprinkle of cinnamon for a summery, hot-and-cool treat that’s really special—and can only be had in summer.

If you don’t want to commandeer the grill, bring fresh blueberries and cut strawberries with the whip. Mix a half cup of each fruit with a tablespoon of the whip for a cool, refreshing treat that, again, screams summer. Oh, and it’s red, white and blue—a dessert that’s almost as American as apple pie.

Check out this tasty recipe for Fruit on a Stick with Yogurt Dip. Love something sweeter? How about a Healthy Ice Cream Recipe, a Slushie Recipe or a Popsicle Recipe?

Looking for some creative ways to enjoy summer’s best fruits? Check out these great articles:

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Hoping to help someone as many of you helped me.

Hello, this is Honmy. This is my first post ever on Reddit and probably the last one on this subreddit.

I’ve been lurking on this sub since I created the account. During this time I’ve read posts that inspired me to lose the weight I wanted, posts with people struggling the same as me, posts where helped me during my fights, my ups and downs, and I’d like to thank you. I’ll hopefully can return my gratitude by sharing my experience to the people who are currently losing the weight.

I don’t have a photo of when I was at the highest weight, but I got one of September 2012 where I was 105kg+.

I’ve struggled losing weight for 8 years. I yoyoed for like 3 times. Every time I’d got close to “goal weight” and I’d get it all back. Losing weight and regaining every single time.

I was 111 kg in July 2013, lost and gained weight till I found my way to lose the fat and get to the current way of 70kg in July 2021. This graph shows how my lose weight journey has been, and it was for sure a rollercoaster.

This last 2 years have been different, and no, not only for the COVID. I’d like to share you why it was different and hope this “tips” will help you too:

  1. Love yourself.

Whoever is reading this, you are beautiful person despite everything. You may not like how you currently, and I think I can understand as well. But you remain a valuable soul in this world. I say this to all people who starting the weight-loss journey, to all people fighting now, but mainly to all the people who gained it all back. It’s okay to fail, we are humans, there’s no man in this world that didn’t fail once at something, but for as long as you keep trying you will get there. I believe mind and body are correlated, if you want to improve one of this two things, you also need to work on the other one.

  1. Enjoy yourself.

This journey is not an all or nothing thing. In your life there will be social events and family dinners where you will be eating a lot. There will also be sometimes where you want to “binge-eating” the junk food, that pizza, that cake, whatever you are craving for. I’d say just do it, treat yourself. You know that it’s not that day that will ruin that process of losing weight. The next day the scale will say you got 3kg up, but as you return with your diet in 2 days you will probably lose all the water you accumulated. A man’s weight can fluctuate for like 5kg. A good diet is a diet that is sustainable for the rest of your life.

  1. Be patient.

The best things need time to mature. You probably didn’t gain all the weight you want to lose in 1 month. For example, I was basically obese since I was 6 years old and started my weight loss around 16 years old. I’ve been fat kid for 10 years. I believe trying to lose 40kg in 2 or 3 years should be acceptable. It’s also a visual benefit because losing the weight slowly, like 2 or 3 kg per month makes you keep the muscle and you don’t want to lose that. There will be a period where you just can’t get down that weight because of the “plateau”, but please, believe me, just trust the process: calories in and calories out.

Thank you for whoever read this post. I hope I had at least helped one person like the previous posts in this subreddit had helped me.

Weight loss, as it is life, will be difficult, that’s why we need to accept the suffering moments but keep focusing on the fun, happy part of it. I know you will get to the target weight you desire.

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One month into body recomposition; 9lbs lost- a review

Hi r/loseit,

I'm not going to bore you with my life story. I used to train really hard, since Covid and college gained a bunch of weight and detrained like crazy. Previous lifts were 300lb bench, 515lb deadlift, 405lb squat. Essentially, I'm the perfect case for recomp; detrained lifter who gained lots of fat.

Anyways, this is a review of the last month in which I started recomping. Since being fully vaccinated, I started back in the gym. To my surprise, after not lifting for over one year and three months, I was still able to pull 315lb deadlift for clean single- not bad. I'm currently on PPL power building, combining strength compounds and hypertrophy accessories.

Honestly, this isn't as bad as I previously thought. I'm training 6 days a week with active rest on the seventh. I'm eating high protein, 2100cals and, from the 9lbs of weight loss, have been steadily losing 2lbs per week. I'm tracking EVERYTHING via food scale and MyFitnessPal. No strict diet, really just IIFYM with 80-90% "clean" foods and 10% junk. I don't even really feel like I'm dieting to be honest. I think I found what works for me. Previously, I would train like crazy and try to eat less than 1500cals a day- I felt horrible and would wind up binge eating. However, this feels sustainable!

In terms of results- I'm not going to see much in just four weeks. However, total bodyweight decreased by 9lbs. My lifts have also been steadily increasing. I feel as if I've gained muscle; my arms are more vascular and I can feel the veins on my forearms and bicep. In general, my clothes fit better. Previously, I could only do three rungs on my belt, now I can tighten it down to the fifth one! Overall I feel more comfy, more energetic, and basic everyday activities are easier.

If you read this far, thanks! Let's get on with month two!

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Still hate my body after major weight loss

M/19/5’8 SW:230lbs CW: 150-154lbs

So yeah. Major weight loss solved really nothing. It’s taken me a couple of months, rebound alcoholism and therapy/psychiatry to realize I didn’t solve any of my body esteem issues. Thing is I don’t have terrible self esteem and if you eat me in person you would never guess I was so insecure but alas I’m just really good at hiding my flaws from people. After basically sitting with myself I realized that I’m just as insecure of my body now as I was when I was fat, nothing really changed for me. And on top of that I’ve pretty much become a burden to everyone I talk to because of my negativity/ depression. I don’t really know where this post was supposed to go I guess I’m looking for someone that has felt the same or that got out of this negative bodily mindset, but yeah I still have work to do just not physically anymore.

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Wednesday, June 30, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Thursday, 01 July 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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I went on vacation and DIDN’T gain!!!

Guys. I’m just really psyched about this. I didn’t log my calories while on vacation with family, and in fact was a little trepidatious of the scale when I got home, because I had eaten some unhealthy things (including an obscene amount of Rice Krispie treats, haha.) But we also tried to have some healthy whole foods while traveling, and we hiked a lot and even camped in the desert.

My sister texted me saying she’d lost weight on our trip and that piqued my curiosity about where I was after our trip, and inspired me to get back into my regular habit of weighing myself daily. I not only didn’t gain weight, one day after getting home and I seemingly magically lost 2 pounds! For me, the lesson here is one I’m perpetually relearning, which is probably the key to sustained weight loss. First of all: aim for “good” or even “okay”, and not “perfect”. If you can have a perfect day of eating and exercise, that’s amazing. But those are generally rare. The key is to not let a day when you ate bad or felt disappointed in yourself derail you. Or to use it as an excuse to take more time off than you originally planned. Every day is a fresh slate. You don’t need to wait for the end of the year to reaffirm your goals. You have to do it every day, in small ways. And if you’re going on vacation, let yourself have fun. Eat fun stuff. And when vacation is over… put away the vacation mentality. Another thing I realized is: one day of eating bad, even one WEEK of eating bad, is not enough to cause significant gain. The most important part is all the other days and weeks. So like, eating tons of cookies at Christmas is fine. As long as you’re not mainlining cookies all December.

I’ve lost… gosh, 40 pounds since my highest weight, and I’ve kept it off for several years. I’ve done this by trying to make my calorie goals as easy as possible, logging my food (except on vacation haha) and setting my goals as actions rather than results. So my goal is not a specific weight, but rather my small daily habits that I know lead to success (mainly CICO, and aiming to consume more natural foods). This has been most helpful because my goals are only the small things I can actually control, rather than highly variable statistics like weight.

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