Sunday, September 26, 2021

Being overweight can sometimes be a symptom of a deeper mental health issue, and it should be addressed.

Background: 21M, Height: 170cm; SW: 205lbs, CW: 181lbs, GW: 140lbs.

Sometimes, weight can be a symptom of a deeper psychological issue. Research shows that eating disorders often coexist with depression, anxiety, etc. Personally, I have both depression and anxiety which got me to my SW in the first place. It is incredibly challenging to lose weight when you cannot even get out of bed.

I have started to lose a lot of weight after I started therapy because I started putting massive effort into improving my mental health, which requires a lot of introspection. When I started thinking about why I eat the way I eat, I figured some things that prompt me to eat. This helped me figure out how to deal with these and build better eating habits. For example, I have a self-loathing cycle where I hate myself, often for my body, and eat to calm myself down. Now, whenever any intrusive thought comes up, I practice some self-compassion exercises that my therapist recommended. This helped me avoid binges and eat reasonable portions.

While my habits are still not perfect, I believe that without addressing my mental health, it would have been a massive challenge to lose weight. I firmly believe that weight loss is a psychological thing more than physical. And weight loss is not just reducing a number on the scale, but building a healthy lifestyle that helps you be the best version of yourself. It is incredibly challenging.

Mental health is as important, if not more important, than physical health. Try to take care of it before you start your weight loss journey because it is easy to worsen your mental health when you are trying to lose weight. It is also the ideal way because you will be more realistic with your goals and not be too hard on yourself when you are mentally stable. Most importantly, do not let others demotivate you. Looking at people talk about how easy it is to lose weight can be demotivating (fitness YouTubers in particular), but know that to each their own. It is your personal journey, not anyone else's.

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I'm here again. Weight gained for the third time.

This is a public post for myself. To really get myself in gear. I was chubby and fat in high school. Lost 50 lbs in college. Gained happy weight back with a gf, broke up, lost it again. I'm here now with a fantastic wife and newborn son, happy weight gained:100 pounds exactly.

It hit me so hard. Before I realized it, I became as big if not bigger than I've ever been. Ive been putting it off for "just a couple more weeks" telling myself I'll start after the holidays, or after any kind of celebration... No more. I'm getting healthier for my family. For my son. I want to run with him, play with him, and just do things in general without feeling like I just ran a marathon.

I've found myself ashamed. Not wanting to go out and socialize. The pandemic hasn't helped. Working from home is easier with snacks... a lot of them. This roller coaster weight gain/loss will be no more.

This is my final weight loss journey. I'm here for real. For my wife, for my son. They deserve me at my best. This is the start. It's not going to be easy. But I am here to post publicly into the internet void to hold myself accountable in some strange way. If I put it to words, it's not just an idea in my head anymore. It's out there. The world sees it. And maybe, I can inspire a few people along the way as well. Wish me luck.

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I’ve been losing hair while losing weight? Will this go away eventually?

I’ve been losing weight very drastically for the last 2-3 weeks. I was 130 lbs and been trying to get to 115/whenever I think I look better than before. Right now I’m 123. The thing is that I’ve been losing lots of hair recently and I think it’s due to my weight loss? I just showered and when I shampooed and pulled my hand away a clump (like maybe 6-10 strands) of hair came with it. I also noticed that my shower drain has been clogging much much faster than before. When I googled “hair loss weight loss” I got “telogen effluvium”. Apparently it occurs when drastic weight loss happens, which is definitely what I’m doing. But it also says that it’ll go away when the stressor goes away, and I intend on maintaining my weight when I get to it. So is this just a temporary thing that my body will adjust to once some time passes?

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Saturday, September 25, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 26 September 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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100 lbs lost - just wanted to tell my story with before/after pictures

I’ve struggled with weight my entire life. I was always the fat kid, attempted to lose weight a few times, but did a lot of lying to myself in the process. I was thankfully spared from being bombarded with yo-yo diets. When I decided I wanted to try to lose weight, my mom taught me to track my food. Which is great, unless you don’t write half of what you eat down.

In 2018, I found out that I was pre-diabetic. Not a huge surprise, I wasn’t only obese, but I also have PCOS and a strong family history of type 2 diabetes. But it was a small wake-up call. At the time, I weighed 337 lbs. Over the course of 4 months, I lost 55 lbs. Things got busy with school finals and holidays, and I used that as an excuse to stop. I didn’t regain, but then in February of 2019, I found out I was no longer pre-diabetic. I had full diabetes. That pushed me into a long depression. I started taking metformin, but it didn’t do anything (which I didn’t know, because I refused to check my blood sugar – big needle-phobia, couldn’t do it). I let my diabetes go on uncontrolled with no changes in my lifestyle and eating fast food for just about every meal or just really unhealthy foods at home.

I went in for a physical because I moved and needed a new primary care doctor for my prescriptions. Still didn’t do anything about the diabetes, just decided I didn’t care. I was in denial and wanted to believe despite my blood work that the metformin was doing what it was supposed to. Covid hit, I gained 10 pounds. By mid-2021, I decided to get things in order again with my health. In May, I lost 10 lbs, and I have no idea how – I didn’t make any changes then. At the end of May, I went in for a check-up again and got bad news. My triglycerides were dangerously high, my A1C was the worst it had ever been. This was the big wake-up call for me. I also had to start taking a new injectable med (Ozempic), which with my needle-phobia was just fantastic. Thanks to a pharmacist and a lot of patience from her, I was finally able to do it.

After that, I changed my entire diet overnight. I started calorie restriction (1600-1800 calories, which was above my calculated BMR), saturated fat restriction (less than 22 g a day), and carb restriction (for the diabetes, less than 40 g per meal). I later found out with a DEXA scan and an RMR test that my bare minimum was really 2000 calories and made that adjustment when I found out. I did not restrict foods outright, but I did avoid fast food for a while (I don’t now, but I only eat it occasionally, and instead of binging, I order a reasonable amount of food within my calorie limit), and I learned that I am not responsible enough to keep gummy bears around my apartment yet. I will add here that the Ozempic did help significantly with the first 6 weeks of weight loss. I would have lost weight without it, but it caused severe nausea and made me very full very fast, so that weight loss was amplified until those side effects passed. I had another appointment yesterday.

As of now, I have lost 45 lbs in 4 months, which makes a 100 lb total loss from my highest weight (in 8 months combined). More importantly, my triglycerides have dropped from 470 to 150 (dangerous to normal), my HDL cholesterol is up, my LDL cholesterol is down, and my A1C went from 9.4 to 5.6 (for those that don’t know, anything over 6.4 is diabetic, anything from 5.7-6.4 is pre-diabetic), which puts me in the normal A1C range (albeit on the edge) for the first time since 2017.

I’m just extremely happy and proud today and wanted to share my journey. I have a long way to go, but I know what I’m doing now, and with the calorie adjustment and the Ozempic side effects gone, I am losing weight at a safe and steady pace.

Also, here’s the reminder to always take before/after pictures, they are a hell of a motivator. I didn’t at my highest weight, but I found some pictures from that time. I really had no idea how big I looked then. I also didn’t really see a difference in the mirror until I found the pictures. They’re not direct pictures because I didn’t start until recently. But I think the difference is pretty clear.

https://imgur.com/a/6aSAQzO

I also know I needed a morale booster, because after hitting 100 lbs lost, its easy to fall into a trap of wanting to quit. So here are my mini-goals for the rest of my journey. I don't necessarily have an end number. I just want to be healthy and with any luck, end the diabetes and get off my meds.

232 lbs - 50 lbs lost in 2021 226 lbs - more weight lost on second journey than first journey 224 lbs - third of total body weight lost 203 lbs - 75% of the way to a normal BMI 199 lbs - first time under 200 lbs as an adult 190 lbs - obese to overweight 159 lbs - overweight to normal

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Very slow weight loss?

Hi,

I am male, 25, 168 cm and I weighed 204 lbs. I started trying to lose weight 12 weeks ago but that just brought me to 199 lbs.

Those 12 weeks, I have tried to reduce my calorie intake gradually (started at 2400, now at 1800). This involves calorie counting and increases in activity (steps and cardio) every two weeks.

I think that was incredibly slow especially given the amount of effort I put in. Now, I have stopped losing weight (hovering around 200 lbs over the past few weeks).

What would be your advice to continue my weight loss? 1800 calories feel terrible already. Do I have to drastically reduce my calorie intake even more?

Thanks!

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Diet conflicts between weight loss and rosacea

After struggling with my depression and everything that’s been going on, I finally shot up to 220. With my kids back to school I have gone to eating better for myself. I eat approx 1500 a day, have gotten a menu that doesn’t leave me bingeing late at night, and have lost 8 pounds in a month with no exercise(my eating had gotten out of control so it’s only the dramatic calorie reduction. I was going to start working out when I lost a bit more weight)

I thought maybe my rosacea would get better. Instead it has exploded. I have more consistently been using my medication but there is no relief. With research I found a lot of foods can be triggers. Dairy, nightshade family Plants (tomatoes etc) histamine fruits (strawberry’s, bananas) as well as gluten.

I am so gut wrenchingly distraught. I have overnight oats with yogurt. If I crave sweet I have yogurt with banana in it. I found that I love cheese and tomato sandwiches (made with whole wheat seed bread)

The foods that have made this journey bearable are now attacking my face, and to top it off I can only do low intensity exercise.

It’s really hard to deal with. Mine isn’t just a face flush. I could live with that. For me it’s hot, itchy and flaky skin that constantly feels like it’s having a chemical peel. I can’t even put make up on because it only aggravates it when I have a flare up.

I’m so lost. I’m cutting out dairy to see if that’s the problem. I’m so disheartened that I don’t know how I can keep up with this regime -_-

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