Thursday, October 11, 2018

Goalweight hit! Back is "fixed"! Feeling good!

HI!

So I've done a couple posts in here, mostly to write up my own things to organize it in my head or something.

I hurt my back earlier this year in late April or early may or something like that (dates elude me..) and got close to bedridden for a couple weeks. I weighed myself(for the first time in a long time) and found out I was 94kg heavy. Not a great feeling, I checked my BMI and with me being a shorter dude it was bad, obese bad, so I had to do something.. I started walking as soon as I was able to and turned to my diet. I tried eating less or no carbs at all for a little while, with much meat and much greens, but that didnt really work out, I started to get dizzy and stuff. But the weight fell off. Was down almost 15kg in about a month. I set a goal weight of 76,5kgs because that was exactly "healthy" according to BMI.

I kept walking and doing some activities all summer, still having pains in my leg/lower back as soon as I was stationary and not moving, my diet turned back to eating what I ate before but less, and cutting out soda/chips/trash.

The weight loss started to slow down once I had crossed the 80kg mark, the walking had become somewhat of a hassle, I got in some kind of "I can walk forever" shape where it was rough to get calories burned in a time frame that was acceptable, (what I mean is that to burn XXX calories while walking in a pace that wasn't killing my hips, I had to be at it for longer then I really had time to per day). But I kept doing it, netting something like 16k average steps per day in July. I hit my first goal of getting out of the obese and then overweight category of BMI here, but I didn't feel done, at all, it was still not a struggle in doing anything I was doing, which was my fear when I started this thingy. I had more energy and really wanted to get out and moving after work or whatever. Especially since sitting still made my back hurt. Easy motivation there.. I set a new goal weight at 69,9kg just to get to see a 6 on the scale!

This kept going through July and August, walking walking walking walking golfing etc just staying active while eating less then I had before. I still had some issue with time, not having hours per day to dedicate to walking to get the results I wanted led me to decide after talking to my physician to try running (I still had some major issues with my leg/lower back). I gave it an honest go and while it hurt, it didn't worsen anything and I kept it up.

My first run was something like 2km total with maybe 800meters ran. My entire body wanted to slap me when I got home. I mentioned the leg issue earlier and the problem I had was that my right leg had been lazy this entire summer, letting my left one do most of the work, my calf muscle on my left leg was probably 50% bigger then the right one. So when I got in from that first run, my right leg was almost like pulsating and more sore then I've ever experienced before. A trip back to my doc and she explained the issue of walking being "easier" for one side to compensate then when you are running.

I kept at it though and managed longer and longer runs, with less and less resting periods. This is something that I've never been able to do, I don't think I've ever been able to run anything more then a couple km's at a time before. Today I ran 5km without resting, I also hit 69kg on my scale. I haven't felt any back or leg pains in weeks. My only ache is from exercise and that is honestly one of the best feelings in the world.

I'm so freakin happy. And it feels like I am far from done, nothing has been hard yet. Not compared to not being able to move because of back pains at least. Hoping I can keep this up. Not going to set a new goal weight, just to keep at it and stay energized.

Sorry for rambling, thanks if anyone read it :)

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On people giving unsolicited advice

Ive seen quite a few threads about people giving suggestions for your own weight loss or trying to sabotage it because of jealousy or whatever and just wanted to add my two cents.

When people express interest or concern for your weight loss, I think it's important to remind yourself that you don't know their relationship or history with dieting and food. This goes for people expressing good vibes with you about how you look, as well as people who express concern.

On the people giving unsolicited advice: a friend I met at a dance class I go to commented on my weight loss recently, saying I looked great and didnt need to lose anymore. She even warned me not to lose too much. She herself is very petite and quite the cardio queen. However, I didn't take this as jealousy or anything sinister, because I knew she suffered from an eating disorder in the past. It's still something she struggles with daily, so from this perspective; her words "it's not worth getting obsessed over" is ever more impactful. Because I knew the relevant information about her, I know it doesn't come from this bad place, and actually is quite good advice.

We don't know what other people have struggled with when it comes to their weight and health. I think it's a bit unfair to leap to the conclusion that someone is trying to sabotage instead of having a bit more empathy. I'm sure sometimes it may be true for a truly shitty individual, but most of the time, I imagine it comes from a fear they have about their own weight.

Just needed to get that out there.

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23 F - 30 lbs in 18 months - slow progress is good progress!

During my second year at college I put on about 10 kg (22lbs). It was a very stressful year for me for a number of reasons and I dealt with this stress by eating. I used to go out to the supermarket in the evening and buy whatever I wanted. I was unhappy in many ways but had also sort of just accepted that I will 'always be chubby' and that I have a slow metabolism.

Well then I had a year off college and I decided to take up running. I only run about 3 times a week and when I first started I had to run on the treadmill in the gym as I had to keep stopping to catch my breath. Nowadays I run outside on the roads or in the hills and I really, really love it. I also changed my attitude to food. I know people say that a lot but I've only recently understood what it means. I guess it means different things to different people but for me it means that if I get a coffee, I remind myself that I don't need to get a piece of cake as well. The cake will always be there if I want it. Also if my family get pizza one evening, we don't need to get ice cream for afterwards too. I think this is the key thing - if you want something specific, then have it. But you don't need to take it as an opportunity to have everything else that 'goes with it.'

I don't know if anyone will find my advice helpful! But I'm just sharing my own experience. Also, as I said in the title, this weight loss has taken 18 months. I've never been one for drastic changes and I don't think any kind of savage dieting (as in, cutting out entire food groups, cutting out sugar) is that helpful for many people. I do understand that many people on here would like to lose more weight than I have and I'm not trying to present myself as some kind of expert. But, in my experience, small changes and consistency make for a steady weight loss. Patience is key.

https://imgur.com/a/Dvoif17

P.S. Please excuse awful underwear! I have only kept this bra for the progress pics!

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Self conscious about loose skin and dating afterwards - Help? [F, 5'7", 26, 240 lbs -> 135 lbs]

I’m a 5’7” lady and lost about 100 pounds in a year from ~240 to ~135. I'm 26 now, and lost the weight over the past year or so. It was just basic CICO, starting to work out, and changing the medications I was on.

I look great with clothes on, but because I gained and lost the weight so quickly, I have a lot of stretch marks/loose skins on my belly and upper arms. Kind of similar to this picture - of a post-pregnancy stomach

A good friend recently confessed that he is romantically interested in me. The feeling is mutual, and I told him that. However, now I feel very anxious about being physical with him and being rejected. I’m not sure how to handle the situation? Should I say something to him first? How have y’all with drastic weight loss dealt with dating afterwards?

Another complicating factor is that I didn't date when I was heavy, so I'm kind of out of practice. I just don't really know what to do. Has anyone been in this situation and could give advice?

Thank you!

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Anyone else struggle with Get It Over With Syndrome?

29F 5’9” SW: 200 GW: 160 CW: Afraid to weigh in but probably 195

I’ve been dieting at a 2lb per week/1000cal deficit for about 6 weeks. I lost 10lbs the first month, but over the last 10 days or so I’ve fallen off the wagon, so it’s time to get back on track. I’m considering switching to a 1lb per week pace, to see if I’m able to stick to that better.

But, the idea of DOUBLING the length of time it will take to reach my goal is really hard to swallow. I want to lose 40ish lbs, and the idea of weight loss lasting the better part of a year is daunting. Especially because I have lost 30ish lbs SO MANY TIMES and I know I’m capable of getting it done at a 10lb per month pace.

Also... yes... I know I should be glad to be a height where I have this option. I know a lot of you ladies out there can’t lose 2lbs per week without going under 1200.

Anyone else struggle with this mental game? How did you come to terms with slower weight loss?

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Does anyone else still feel fat or heavy even though they’ve lost weight?

Finally hit onederland recently, weighing 198.2lbs. People legit see me as not just “not fat”, but “thin”.

A few weeks ago at a charity function I’ve been working at, one of the coordinator ladies kept offering me snacks since she always bakes stuff and brings chips and junk for us to eat while we work.

I always turn her down because calories.

This past Monday she asked me again because she made some cookies that are apparently very popular with the people in the charity and the people whom we serve. I politely turned her down again and she laughed and said, “I’m sorry, honey, I just keep trying to thicken you up because you’re so thin!”

And if that weren’t enough one of the girls I was working with followed up and said, “you’re either one of those skinny people who can eat whatever and never gain weight or you’re one of the skinny people who can eat once a day and be good.”

It was so weird. If you’d have told me people would say something like that back before I lost any weight, I’d have thought that those things would make me feel incredible. Instead I just felt slightly concerned that I still feel fat.

I still feel like I take up too much space. I still feel like I’m too heavy. At work, I still religiously check the weight limit on ladders before I climb on just to be safe even though I’ve been ALWAYS been under that limit even at my heaviest.

I still feel inwardly ashamed when people hug me because I feel like I’m suffocating them.

A great friend of mine who I haven’t seen in two years cane to my job and hugged me last week and she was shocked at my weight loss and commented how she couldn’t believe her arms overlapped when she hugged me.

Every shred of evidence says “you’re not fat anymore.” But I still feel fat.

But, why, though?

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Quick question about weight loss

Hi,

I don't want to go too much into details needlessly. I didn't do much reading about weight loss. I installed my Fitness Pal on my phone exactly 1 week ago and learned a lot about what I was eating and made some small but very effective adjustments to reduce my calories intake to about 1500 calories per day on average. While I don't exercise at all, over the last 2 weeks I've been doing a lot of work around the house almost every day, but I don't really track that.

I am a 31 y.o. male, 6'-2" tall.

Exactly one week ago I was weighting 270 lbs and last night I already had lost 7 lbs, I was at 263. (I took my weight every day at the same time and always naked, so clothes didn't have an impact ) I see quick results, which is great because it motivates me a lot to continue but I was not expecting this at all.

Here's the question : Will it eventually slow down? I just want to know what to expect for the next few weeks so I don't lose motivation, or if I should change anything.

Thanks

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