Saturday, December 22, 2018

Thanks r/loseit

Last summer, I decided I was going to try to lose some weight and get healthier. I’ve been a healthy weight most of my life, but in the last year the combination of the stress of my job and family and starting to brush up against 50, my weight started to creep up into the overweight category.

I made my resolution when I went clothes shopping and realized if I bought medium sizes (I’m 5’2’’) I’d fit my overweight frame, but have ridiculously long sleeves and legs on everything. If I went down to a small or extra small, my clothes would fit and would feel better about my appearance.

5 months later I finally hit my goal weight of 120. I haven’t been this weight since before I had kids. I went out and bought a bunch of clothes that fit and look great.

I know in comparison to a lot of folks who post on here my challenges have been small, but I will say I’ve tried off and on to get to a lower weight for 15 years without sucess, and I’ve finally done it and it looks like it is sustainable and healthy.

I wanted to share the stuff that works for me:

  • Get a calorie tracking app and a food scale. I use lose it, and I splurged for the pro edition. This was the most important thing to use to learn what I was eating that was causing me the most trouble.

  • Take some time off if you can. When I was starting out, I changed jobs and I put three weeks between the end of my old job and the start of my new. This let me spend that time adjusting to my new diet in an otherwise nonstressful environment, and to focus time on learning to cook new low cal healthy meals and read up on reddit and other sources about weight loss.

  • Do some food prep. I wouldn’t want to prep all my meals every week, but I have found that cooking a couple of things on the weekend that are healthy, low calorie and easy to reheat is essential for me.

I’m just too exhausted at the end of many days to cook a decent meal with a lot of prep. A lot of weekends I just cook some tasty veggies, or a dish of sweet potatoes or refried black beans that make it easy to up my veg content during the week. And I like to cook some easy one pot meals like chili or split pea soup. That small effort makes a big difference for me.

  • Try to find easy to make, healthy snacks and meals. I invested heavily in trying new foods. I think it’s a lot easier to start a new good habit that displaces an old bad habit, than just simply stop doing something unhealthy.

I found that miso is easy to keep in the fridge and mix with a bit of hot water for a super quick, tasty, low cal soup broth. I found I like snacking on raspberries which are super low cal and high fiber. Both these things are new things that I would chose to do, and the displace other higher calorie foods in my diet.

  • Keep away from restaurants, but if you go have a plan. This was a big one for me. My family likes to eat out and I often eat out with colleagues at work. I avoid eating out if I can, but if I want to go with others I try to look at the restaurant menu before I go to find the low cal option. Deciding at the restaurant makes me freak out and just get comfort food. Generally soup is an acceptable choice. Salad is sometimes ok. In general restaurant meals will take all your calories for the day :(

  • Have a treat plan. I can’t really go without treats, so I worked to find small indulgences. My go to are chocolate and almonds. Trader Joe’s has delicious almonds covered in dark chocolate and salt. I like choco crispy crepe cookies (20 cal each) and sometimes just some of the mini altoid mints or a stick of gum is what I need.
    If I’m really out of calories, I make some green tea. I found a really tasty sencha.

I found I have to keep some healthy quick snacks at my desk in case time pressure keeps me from getting a meal and turning to the vending machines. I like a dark chocolate and peanut butter KIND bar or some Finn crisp and laughing cow cheese as a quick snack.

I also keep a can of high quality tuna in my desk along with a shelf stable vacuum sealed pack of precooked lentils and barley for a super quick, super healthy high fiber meal when I am unexpectedly pressed for time.

I also added a lot more heat to my meals with hot peppers and cayenne. That makes me a lot happier and the food much more delightful.

  • Focus on the healthy and the sustainable. As I approached my target weight I’ve changed my focus from just calories to overall health. I try to stay in the calorie allotment now, but I also try to hit my daily protein and fiber every day. I’m hoping this will help me stay on track. If I track those two things, my diet ends up having very little refined carbs and relatively little sugar. I’d love to push my sugar even lower.

  • I didn’t really exercise while making this change. I generally walk bout 5 miles a day just in the normal run if things. I didn’t change that. Now that I’m holding to a good weight I’d love to exercise more and maybe lift some weights for extra strength.

I avoided big changes on this front while doing the diet, even though it could help to lose quicker, I think making to many changes at once risks losing focus and just abandoning everything.

I’m hoping to stick to everything as time marches on. I’m nervous about abandoning the food logging. I might stick with it for a full year just to get those good eating habits really ingrained.

Thanks loseit community. Good luck with your own weight loss goals!

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Just starting my weight loss journey: How much weight is realistic to lose per week or month?

Additional info: I’m 26, 164cm, female and currently 103kgs. At 18 (when I stopped working out or caring what I ate) I was between 60-65kgs and since then have put on approx 40kgs. Obviously I knew my lifestyle change at 18 would mean weight gain but I didn’t realise just how much...it’s crazy how much you don’t notice it til your body is unrecognisable, you have stretch marks in new places and your formerly baggy t-shirts now look like crop tops 😞

Anyway, tomorrow will my day 1. Just researching as much as I can tonight. One of the things I was wondering: how much weight could I realistically lose per week at first? And how much could someone my size realistically lose once I’ve built up my fitness levels and found a 1200-1500 diet that suits my lifestyle?

Also any general tips for someone at the start of their journey? Thanks in advance for any info/advice shared :)

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I finally figured out what the hardest part of this journey is

I started my weight loss journey in October and have since busted my ass and shed 30 pounds. But I’ve been stuck in a rut lately and could not for the life of me figure out what was causing the mental blockage in my brain to keep me from pushing through. And then it hit me: I’m fucking lonely.

I did my research and I prepared myself for every challenge and hardship I could possibly encounter, but I never prepared for this. No one I know eats how I eat. No one I know understands the mental battle I’m going through every day. No one understands how easily my willpower can break.

Finding this subreddit changed a lot for me, and I know I’m not alone in this struggle. But damn this is the biggest challenge I’ve faced so far. I’m working on pushing through it, and if you’re having the same issue, you can too. We just have to be strong and remind ourselves every day how far we’ve come.

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Falling off the health train (and Christmas)

A bit of backstory. I started my weight loss trip (or more how I like to think about it, my journey to a better me) about 2 years ago. Then I was around 340 pounds. I knew I was overweight, but I don’t know it just sort of crept up on me over 25 years. Things went well for about 6 months or so, I lost around 100 pounds, and I felt great for it. I’d picked up walking about 6 miles a day around my small town a day as exercise, I felt like a new person, not where I wanted to be yet but I know its a journey and I was going in the right direction.

Then about 18 months ago a few things happened that knocked me off course. The biggest is probably my sister had just lost her job and came to live with me for a bit while she figured what she wanted to do next. She eats more like how I used to, and I just slid into my old patterns. She did find her own place about 3 months later, but something had changed in me, I was back on my old path and I couldn’t seem to drag myself back to the right one. Secondly, the amount of travel for work increased a lot so about one week a month it felt like I was literally on a path of “eat anything to stop me feeling hungry, I’ll get back to eating properly when I get home“. Sadly, it seems I get home and don’t sort stuff out.

Fast forward to now and I’ve put on about half of the weight I’ve lost, but the worst part is unlike when I was at my heaviest, I’m now hyper-aware of how unhealthy I’m being for this, and I hate myself for it. Like really hate myself. Judging by what my sister has been telling me, I’ve been constantly complaining, almost blaming her for the past year, even though I don’t realise it, and I hate myself for that too. Also my body just aches from all the crap combined with my daily walking for two years, so it feels like my body just wants me to stop and I don’t know, probably eat some more.

Finally now it’s Christmas, I’m visiting my parents for a week who basically live off anything that has bread or fries strapped to it and that’s the last thing I want to think of. I like Christmas, and I want my family to enjoy it, just I don’t want to be that person complaining and ruining everything without realising. I just need to find the path I was enjoying so much before.

Thanks if you’ve read up this far what feels a bit like a rant. I just wondered if anyone has felt they’ve been in this place before and have an idea how to get back on the right track, and how to survive Christmas without turning it into yet another "I'll just do that tomorrow".

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 22 December 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Friday, December 21, 2018

I really want to lose the weight now. I'm going to start taking my weight loss seriously.

Alright then, today I weighed myself and I saw that I was 310 pounds. I haven't been this large in over 5 years when I went on my first journey of weight loss.

I found a woman 5 years ago that I loved so dearly that I would do anything and I will soon be moving in with her in the upcoming summer. However, in the time that we have been together, I now understand how much I have let myself go.

I feel so uncomfortable looking at myself in the mirror and I feel disgusting. However, I think it's been enough fucking time dwelling in the past. I am no longer 240 pounds.

If by this time next year I haven't lost at least 40 pounds, I will literally eat a shoe.

It's time for me to take my life a lot more seriously and my future health as well. If not for myself then for the people that I love, so that I can be there for them.

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Saturday, 22 December 2018

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

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