Wednesday, April 24, 2019

Counting calories?

Hi guys! Yesterday I started counting calories again. I'm a big girl, despite having lost over 60 pounds from medication for my PCOS. I figure the best way to keep the weight loss going is to actively change my lifestyle. My initial calorie limit is 1900 a day. I know that's quite a lot for many of you, but I don't know how many I'd normally be eating and I don't mind really going at it slowly, especially at first. The thing is though, I've basically been on diets since I was 7. I've never had a healthy relationship with food, and when I was younger I got into eating disorder territory. I never got a diagnosis because I've never told anyone, but I both binged and purged and restricted quite heavily. I managed to mostly overcome this on my own, except I've been kind of scared to count calories again in case my brain starts to go back into that headspace. Hence why it's been years of me refusing to count calories. I think I'm more or less ready for it now though. I'd like to lose enough to be at a healthy weight, both to lessen my chronic pain, to be healthier in the future, have more ease finding clothes and loving my body and such. But I can't help but worry that some part of my brain is just lying in wait to try and send me down a bad spiral. I do have mental health issues, and while I want a healthy body, to me my mind comes first. So I was wondering if any of you have advice on how to tackle this? How do you stay positive? Do you have any personal mantras that help you stay on task, without taking things to extremes? Thank you! And sorry if the format is weird, I'm on mobile.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 24 April 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Has anyone had any success getting over the emotional blocks to weight loss? What are your stories?

Hi r/loseit!

I’ve lurked here a long time on various accounts and I’m always inspired by how hard you’re all working. I have read the things in the sidebar about motivation and binge eating - all useful but still don't seem to gel with the below.

I’m about 60lbs overweight now. I know how to lose weight, I’ve done it before, but emotional upheaval always gets in the way.

Food is a combination of comfort, rebellion and self soothing when I’m stressed/angry (almost becomes compulsive in this context). I've had a counsellor for years, and even when we approach these things I never have any long standing success.

I’m not sure what the answer is anymore. I’ve read plenty of books, tried different accountability methods - I even have a personal trainer. I’ve watched people on Instagram transform through “self love”, and I know the answer really is just “do it”, but I can’t find a way to stop myself reaching for snacks/sugar if my mood is anything other than “fine”.

For some additional context, I lost three people last year - one of them was my Dad (cancer). The weight has always been an issue, but that has obviously escalated it. I feel like now though it’s not helping the grief, and all I’m doing is shortening my own life.

I’ve also had two people close to me tell me there is no point in me trying because I always go back to my old ways—I would really love to have something to rub in their face, but also feel like they are right.

Has anyone had any success with the emotional side of this? What are your stories?

Thanks!

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Stuck and slowly gaining... Advice?

Hey friends, just posting for some advice. I feel stuck and very defeated.

Due to a very deep depression in the end of 2017/start of 2018 I was absolutely immobilized by depression and I put on 45 pounds. My normal weight is a muscular 120-125 pounds and I'm 5'2'' for reference so for someone of my size, it's a significant amount of weight to gain. Before that I was in very good health, active, eating well etc.

It was awful, but slowly I came out of my depression and over the course of about 7 months of stop and go dieting (CICO, OMAD) and exercise (cycling, walking) I was able to lose about 25 pounds. I would be on top of things for a month and then just... fall off... spend three weeks eating way too much and not really working out at all until I would snap out of it and get back on track.

It took me FOREVER to get below 140 but I eventually did, and weight loss slowed down. By then it was around the holidays and I was also preparing for a big move (to a different country) and I just kind of stalled under 140.

It's been almost four months here in my new country of residence and I just can't seem to lose the last 20 pounds (I gained about 5 back). I joined a gym and it's been fits and starts again, cardio... eating well and then just completely falling off. It's been about two weeks now of just really poor eating habits and very low activity and I am just terrified that I won't get back on track and that I am going to gain all of the weight back.

The most frustrating thing for me is that the progress at this point is just so S L O W. It's so hard to go to the gym everyday and be really mindful of what I am eating only to see the scale move like... a half a pound in two weeks. It just doesn't add up... and so after a few weeks of really being healthy and active I slip up with some pastries or something and then it's just all downhill from there.

I know I am capable of losing weight, I have done so before but as it stands right now my motivation/discipline is shot. This is probably a very repetitive post but, I'm just hoping someone out there might have some advice. I'm so glad that this community exists because even when I am at my lowest, I still can come on here and have hope :)

Any and all advice is appreciated. Thanks :)

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Dealing with anxiety after huge weight loss

Hello /r/loseit

I've been losing weight and getting into shape for the better of 3/4 years on / off, over this time I have gone from my max weight of 158KG to currently at a nice healthy 85KG.

I feel amazing, I've been getting much better sleep, I can breathe, I can run for miles now, last Sunday I did had a nice Little walk which I could not even do 1/2 miles before, life is amazing!

Heres the kicker, I am now getting much more attention than I previously got which is great and all but I'm finding social interactions harder now I've lost weight. When i was large I had pretty good confidence talking to people because I had more of a "I don't give a fuck" attitude towards everything, now I don't know how to handle social interactions since I've started to care about myself. it's really annoying me as I want the confidence of fat Jaxiki but not the body of Fat Jaxiki.

Heres a comparison not sure of the weight on the left.

I'm sure I'm not the only one in this boat, how did you all deal with it?

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I restarted my ‘daily boogie’ today and it feels amazing

So I’ll put this out there - I’m not the biggest exercise fan. I do a pretty active job (cleaning) so I feel this offsets any lack of exercise I do when I’m not at work. I like walking and stuff but don’t do any gym or running sessions. However, most mornings I used to enjoy a bit of a dancing session in my kitchen which I called my daily boogie.

I haven’t done this for a while and noticed my weight loss slowing down to about a pound a week for the last month, whether my daily boogie helped or not I don’t know - but it can do no harm so this morning I started again and getting that early boost of ‘exercise’ really hyped me up and made me feel good. I’m going to keep going and hope it has a positive effect on my weight loss journey

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Tuesday, April 23, 2019

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Wednesday, 24 April 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

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