Wednesday, May 8, 2019

How to love (or even like) yourself during weight loss?

Hello!

I've been in the process of losing weight (then gaining some back, then losing it again) for quite a while now. My progress has been good, but I can't help but feel tormented, especially when I have periods of re-gain, by my own self hatred. I despise the way I look. Whenever I pass by a mirror I always just squeeze my eyes shut and think "you'll look better x months from now..."

I don't want to hate myself into a better version of myself. I want to BE a better version of myself, but I want to like me as I am now while I get there. I think I would be healthier in general if I could see myself in a more positive light... but I don't know how. My mind is constantly occupied with my appearance and how much I hate it. I want so much to feel beautiful. But at this point, I think there's more to the problem than just needing to lose the weight.

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Weight Loss Isn’t All About The Numbers

I wanted to offer some perspective to those who are losing slower than they would like. I’m in a medical weight loss program and my progress has been slower than most, even though I have completely followed the plan. I’ve been having a hard time wondering if it’s worth it with some people losing 4x as much as me in the same timeframe. I had my weigh in last night, the scale barely moved and I was totally demotivated.

However I had my first blood tests done since starting the program this morning and those numbers show the big difference. My blood sugar is down to a completely normal level and my kidney function is up. After seeing that I can finally feel like while dieting is hard, the end results are worth it.

Remember that even if the scale isn’t moving, you are making positive changes. You can do this.

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Loosing motivation

First time poster here, congratulations on everyone's weight loss journeys I've seen! You're all amazing!
For myself I've currently lost 50 kilos (110 pounds) in 2 years & I'm sitting at around 110 kilos (242 pounds) at 163cm (5"4) It's been a long journey but I am proud of myself, even though that's taken some time to learn!

Lately I've been stuck in a rut, I've gained some weight since Easter, the scale goes up and down all the time I know its just disappointing to see some days. So now I've put the scale away as I used to weight myself everyday and get upset if it hadn't moved.
Going to the gym is a struggle, I get bored easy and some days I really just dont want to do it, does anyone have any gym routines they follow? Cardio bores me some days I don't mind lifting weights just don't have a routine down.

I think focusing on what I'm eating more is definitely going be somewhere to start, according to myfitnesspal my calorie intake should be 1700 calories a day to loose 0.75 kilos a week (1.65 pounds) I don't want to go back to cutting out a lot of stuff because then I just eat everything, I enjoy having bad foods every now and then as well so I dont feel restrictive.

Only issue is sometimes I seem to eat when I'm bored, has anyone got any tips to overcome that? I understand sometimes you can just be hungry as well and I try to make sure to drink at least 2L of water a day too.

Can everyone possibly post what sort of foods you eat each day? Need some inspiration I think for some new food ideas.

I appreciate any help that I'm given, this seems like a great community! My goal right now is to loose another 10kg (22 pounds) and get in the 90 kilo range!

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[Graph] Weight loss is not linear

I just wanted to share my scale progression the last couple of months. Im a 5'9 male and went from 217lbs to 180lbs pretty quickly doing IF over the span of several months.

However for around 3-4 months, I was stuck around the 180lb mark bouncing up and down endlessly

I had enough and decided to make some changes.

In addition to intermittent fasting that Ive been doing for a while, I added keto, stopped drinking alcohol at home/ during the week, and added some more cardio (running).

This is my progression for just these last 10 lbs.

Just wanted to share to show people that weight loss isn't linear but if you keep it up you WILL see a downward trend eventually

I have 5lbs to go to reach my goal final weight and I feel amazing, proud and happy. Wish me luck!

Here is the chart of my progression for only the last 10lbs. https://i.imgur.com/0DDSWGZ.jpg

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F/24/6'1" [355 lbs > 190 lbs = 165 lbs]. (4 years and counting). Losing a whole person, but gaining a new perspective on life and health/wellness.

I can't even begin to describe how it feels. Being overweight. Losing the weight. It's almost unfathomable and like it almost never existed--the bigger version of me. I had always been overweight my whole life, I was athletic as a child and throughout high school, however never had a handle on nutrition, I ate anything and everything in sight.

Until one day I was 21 years old, 355 lbs, staring in the mirror wondering what life was going to be like. I was unhappy, unhealthy, and lost. I can't really say what the exact reason that made me want to make this change--however, the next thing I knew I had started a weight loss program, it was easy to manage, and then the next thing I know I had lost 100 pounds in a matter of a year.

HOW DID I DO IT?

I cannot disclose the diet program I used. However, it was a doctor monitored program consisting of caloric restriction, with the use of appetite suppressants.

WHAT MY DIET WAS LIKE:

My daily caloric intake the first year was <900 calories a day, consisting of protein shakes, weighed out portions of protein, vegetables, and starches.

Breakfast:

Protein Shake and a fruit (apple, orange, etc., sometimes I didn't get to have one due to schedule)

Snack:

Protein snack bar

Lunch:

Meat protein, vegetable, fruit, and protein shake. All of it weighed out, white meats usually was around 5-6 g, red meats 3-4 g. Vegetables, 1 cup.

Snack:

Protein shake

Dinner:

Refer to lunch, with adding a starch: usually a rice cake or something along the lines of that.

After a year of this, I realized just my diet alone was not going to be something I could maintain...I love food too much, even after all this time. Once I lost 100 pounds I realized I needed to add exercise on to my program as well. I started off with going to PF and just walking on a treadmill, going on walks outside. I found a gym and was working with a trainer starting 3 days a week, and from there I fell in love.

I now am a powerlifter, lost an additional 65 pounds over the course of the last three years (I am now 24). I work out 6 days a week, I still eat all the things I love, I am just more mindful in my choices.

The biggest lesson I learned:

It's hard to explain all the struggles I went through, the plateaus I never thought I would make it through. However the biggest thing I learned was that everything takes time, you didn't put it all on overnight, it wasn't just going to come off overnight either. Something changed in my brain, I would like to think it rewired itself. I now actually think mindfully on my everyday life, when it comes to exercise and diet.

It's still hard looking in the mirror seeing who I am now. I still sometimes see who I used to be, some days are better than others, some are worse. As much as you don't want to believe it, people do treat you differently being thinner....I've had to learn how to build friendships and relationships in a different way. Life is completely different, but I would have it no other way.

Progress Pics

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Updated: I made you guys something! likwidtek's epic weight loss spreadsheet!

Usually when I post my updates I include my data as well. It looks like this: https://i.imgur.com/zjcsqqK.png

I've had a few people ask me for a copy and I've always put off fully automating it so that you don't need to know how to use excel to make it work and to set it up for the first time. So I went ahead and did that. I know it's not perfect and there are some things that could be improved so please give me feedback if you use it.

The reason why I made this was because none of the weight trackers out there had all the information I wanted. These are the questions I wanted answered when I look at my weight loss chart:

  • I weight 275 pounds and want to get to 198, how long will it take me if I lose 2 pounds per week average? Or 1.5 pounds, etc
  • How much have I lost so far?
  • How much am I losing per day?
  • How much am I losing per week?
  • Am I above or below where I should be right now?
  • If I keep losing at this pace, what date will I ACTUALLY hit my goal?
  • How many pounds until I hit my goal?
  • How long have I been on this weight loss journey?
  • How many more days until I hit my goal?
  • What percentage of my body mass have I lost?
  • What percentage of my goal have I reached?

I wanted all of this information at a glance and pretty to look at. I know it's not an app or super fancy but if you're like me, like seeing this kind of data, and making the information visible helps you stay accountable, you'll like this too.

You'll need a Google account for this to work.

Click here to get a copy for yourself

I included a "HELP" tab in the spreadsheet but here's a run down of that help and information.

  1. To use this chart first you need a google account. Then click File, then MAKE A COPY. Name it whatever you want. Once you have your own copy, you can then fill out the green boxes on the right. Put in your Start date, Start Weight, Goal Weight and Goal Pounds per week (how much you want to lose per week).

  2. Click the chart then hover over it to see floating summary box. If you have any questions, message /u/likwidtek on reddit, visit /r/4HourBodySlowCarb on reddit or email likwidtek@gmail.com. Hope this chart helps you as much as it is helping me!

  3. Make sure to weigh in at least every Saturday. You can weigh in as much as you want but you will need those Sat totals if you're interested in what you're actually losing every week. If you don't have a chance to weigh in on saturday, just retype your most current weight into the box next to Saturday.

  4. Pick a goal that is reasonable. Don't expect that you're going to lose 4 pounds a week. Make sure your goal is POSSIBLE. If you don't know, ask your doctor or chose something like 1 pound a week. Additionally this dynamic spreadsheet will only work up to 1,000 rows. If your number of days is larger than 1,000 rows, email me at likwidtek@gmail.com and I will make you a custom sheet.

Most recent Change Log: https://i.imgur.com/aqTZXCF.png

Previous post: https://np.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/24hv3d/i_made_you_guys_something_likwidteks_epic_weight/

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Scale obsession

I'm going to try and make this short. I (34m) started my weight loss journey at 385 lbs. In a little over 11 months I'm down to the 275 lb. neighborhood. I should be ecstatic. I always thought 275 would be a great weight for me, I'm 6'5" and have a very large frame, however I dont look anything like I thought I would at 275. I'm a recovering addict, and any addict worth their salt is good at obsessing. My wife is worried that I'm going to obsess so much that I start trying to lose weight in unhealthy ways. So we agreed I'm not going to step on a scale for the foreseeable future. How have you guys gotten okay with your body image? What tools can I use to help with my obsessing? Thanks in advance!

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