Saturday, February 1, 2020

Best friends reaction to my weight loss made me sad

I'm 19f and I've lost 15kg since september of last year. And I've went from a UK size 16 to a UK size 10.

I've struggled with my weight for a long time and last year I was at my heaviest, I was really unhappy. My best friend would motivate me to be healthier and lose weight. But i still continued my bad habits and put on more weight.

But around november of last year something changed in me and I decided to be consistent and do things differently this time. Instead of starving myself, I focused on making nutrious meals for myself that were healthy. I portion controlled. Cut out all junk food. And now thanks to that I'm 15kg and 3 clothing sizes down.

I hadn't seen my best friend in a while so I decided to send her a picture of my progress. I'm 5 ft 2 (158cm) as well, so 15kg makes a big difference on my frame. And I was expecting her to be proud that I finally made the change I would talk about. But i was really disappointed by her reaction.

She said "oh you looked good before. but i guess yeah.. you do look different now". I was so shocked? Like in my head thats not how I thought shed react at all. Now I'm realising that maybe its because she wanted me to lose weight but not be smaller than her. And I know that she's put on a bit of weight recently as well. But i still thought she'd be happy as shes my best friend and knows about my struggle with my weight.

But since then she's just been weird and distant towards me and I'm kinda sad about it. Has anyone else experienced something similar?

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A few NSV I've just noticed!

This is just a little post but I'm super proud of my progress thus far. I'm almost 60 pounds down and I definitely can feel it and see it. I have about 40 to 60 more to go depending on how much I finally settle on long term. I'm at least half way there now and that's a really big deal for me that just fell all at once with realization.

I was just casually sitting here for a little while after my IF, eating my egg whites, chilling out and felt my neck for a second without thinking. Next thing I know I'm literally touching my clavicles. I wind up taking a picture to see and sure enough, there's some hecking clavicles there! The last time I took a "selfie" or anything like that was over a month ago and noticed that I don't have a double chin anymore. Somehow. It's just gone. I'm feeling my face for the extra fat or skin and it's primarily bone with a little cushion. I never noticed how pronounced my jaw was or how large my upper chest is. I've always been fairly heavy since late high-school/early-college. I felt kind of like a dummy but noticed that I can also suck in my stomach and see the bottom of my ribcage -- like, there's clear definition happening there as we speak and that's wild to me. The other day I took notice in the fact that my stomach doesn't hang anymore when standing -- like, there's no fold. It's just there, plump, and slowly shrinking. I used to have this joke about how I could tell I wasn't laying straight in bed on my back because fat would droop to one side vs. the other side... I can't joke about that literally at all anymore. My stomach is completely flat while laying on my back and my ribcage, despite still having cushion, are just chilling there with my tum flat. This description is probably silly but it's something small that I notice that's kind of awesome. Haha.

Clothes-wise, I fit literally everything I wore ten years ago. It's to the point where I know I have to purchase clothes. I need a Goodwill trip and I'm super excited for when that happens.

I didn't take any progress pictures along the way but since I still have at least 40 to go I got the courage to take my first pictures so I can look back later. I didn't hate them. I'm able to look back now in like a year and see "oh wow, that's what I was like around 220 pounds." I was previously worried about extra skin but over time most of those worries have quelled -- so what if I wind up having a little bit of loose skin? It's part of me. I still have problem areas where I don't enjoy the cellulite, but I'm slowly coming to accept that I have it and it will reduce slightly over time. Even if it doesn't reduce I know that I'm on the right track health-wise and all of that is merely physical.

For some information:

I started losing weight a little over a year ago. I was 280 pounds. I use CICO, with occasional cheat days but always count calories even if I go over my deficit limit. I typically eat 1300 calories a day -- high protein, moderate fat and moderate carbohydrates. I never go over my BMR which is around 1750 right now. Egg whites are probably my favorite food I've discovered. When I started I had to limit certain foods -- like I couldn't purchase any chips, pizza or ice cream. After going a while without those things I reintroduced them to my diet and eat them in moderation, they're not triggering anymore. If I'm still hungry at the end of the day I'll whip up some more egg whites and call it a day. Maybe bake a potato to have on the side. Overall though, I don't do anything particularly special -- I give thanks to the concept of CICO entirely for weight loss.

I'm just really proud in this one moment and feel a lot of relief. I'm excited to see more progress and know that I'm going to reach my goal and maintain it!

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Four ​things I've found that helped me keep losing weight.

I thought id help share the three main things that helped me keep losing weight once I had felt "Stuck" and hit a major plateau. I ended up getting pretty severely injured in September. Could lift hands over shoulders for four months and now have to do a good deal of work to get back on track

1) Calorie Cycling:

I find that as I got leaner I felt much more restricted. This was partly due to the fact that I lost a lot of weight (70 pounds) and had gotten my calories relatively low but also due to the fact that I have a decently active social life. Between going on dates and spending time with friends I found myself with a lot of opportunities to consume alcohol and eat at restaurants. On my daily caloric intake this wasn't really possible and I ended up choosing not to enjoy going out rather than go over my macros and calories for the day. Once I started using calorie cycling this problem was pretty much solved for me.

My daily caloric intake was at about 2,500 calories per day and I would split it up like this:

Day: Calories:
Monday: 2100
Tuesday: 2100
Wednesday: 2900
Thursday: 2100
Friday: 2100
Saturday: 3300
Sunday: 2900

This would give me the same weekly caloric total and therefore deficit while allowing me two medium calorie days and one high day.

My Low days looked like this:

220p, 50f, 195c

My Medium days Like this:

220p, 50f, 395c

My High days looked like this:

220p, 95f, 395c

Some may not think these are big differences but for me that made a huge impact. I also felt like because I only has two day long low stretches that they really didn't bug me and my hunger wasn't that big of an issue.

I don't think this gave me any physiological benefit but it really helped my social life and helped me stick to my diet.

2) Diet Breaks:

I first read about these from a guy called Lyle McDonald several years back and started using them as I lost weight and my energy really began to suffer. I would do one week any my maintenance calories for every three weeks I spent in a deficit. Because I only had four low days as week as well I only felt like I was "dieting" for about 12 days every month while I was seeing great weight loss for three weeks at a time followed by one week where I would go up bit but return to my baseline weight by the end of the week followed by a big drop once my calories returned to normal.

Essentially I would eat my high days for seven days straight every month. If I Planned this right Christmas and Thanksgiving and my girlfriend birthday would both land on a high week. This made it so I didn't miss out on social events and I would even use calorie cycling to have a super high day on Christmas.

3) Tracking my Daily Steps:

This was something I had never done before but was an amazing way to raise my total daily calorie output. This way way better than jacking my cardio up super high and had a much smaller impact on my hunger. I started at 5k steps a day and got as high as 30k a day on hikes or nature walks. My target got as high as 15k per day. I had name brand fir bits die on my repeatedly and ended up using a cheap off brand step tracker that cost like $25 on Amazon.

I started getting my steps in by splitting them between the morning and the evening but also started doing little things throughout the day like park further away in the parking lot and try and get in a little walk after meals. The average person walks about 2k steps a mile and here are a bunch of charts that show you an estimate of how many calories you would burn at a given bodyweight.

Steps Charts:

4) Tracking Data

This was not only a huge benefit to helping me keep losing weight but it really helped me figure out what caused my weight loss and how I could keep my weight loss going by making the smallest adjustments possible. My position is that the more data you have and the more trends you can see the less you will end up getting stuck. Here is a picture of the chart I use to track my own data and the data of the people I help.

Note: working on converting this over to a google sheet to share but Numbers does not convert well and the google version is super ugly. Will update once its finished. Im also updating it based on a bit of feedback I received so feel free to drop your own feedback in the comments.

Progress Sheet

Also here is a picture of the progress I saw while dieting:

https://ibb.co/PjmMgHt

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Friday, January 31, 2020

Progress! Not necessarily weight, but tangible.

So, I have type 1 diabetes. Diagnosed at 10. And like a lot of fat people, I have insulin resistance. Since I started this weight loss, exercise and "fix my relationship with food" journey, I've noticed something I never even considered - it looks like my insulin sensitivity is improving.

I'm really strict about weighing out what I eat so I know how much to dose for it (And at the moment I'm on meal replacement bars while some scarring in my stomach from chronic gastritis heals, so my intake is consistent and easy to dose for) and my blood sugar readings are regularly hitting a little below target. Not enough to be dangerous, but enough that when I see my endocrinologist this month, I think we'll be able to adjust my insulin-to-carb ratio we I'm using less insulin, and that's fantastic.

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One month goal reached- couldn’t have done it without you all!

As of my weigh in this morning, I reached my goal for the month of losing approx. 2lb/week this month! I lost 8.3lbs doing CICO so far, started Jan. 2. I still have about 20lbs more to go before my goal (5’6”F, GW:135), but I’m celebrating this victory because this is the first time I’ve managed to stick with an attempt for a whole month.

Here’s what’s working:

-I initially was eating back calories my Apple Watch said I was burning, and was not losing the weight I expected to at 1200kcal. You all advised me to not do that, I course corrected, and that sped things up.

-I’ve been going to the gym 4x week for approx. 45 minutes, two days of intervals and 2 days of resistance training each week. Also walking my dog more. The cold had been deterring me from going outside much so I bought a better winter coat. (Also got one for my dog to keep him warm on longer walks). But like I said, not eating calories back.

-I significantly reduced my alcohol consumption and found other ways to relax after work like a hot bath with bath bombs/candles and also drinking lots of sparkling water.

-I guess I’m a volume eater, so I’ve been filling up on lots of fun and interesting salads for lunch and saving most calories for evening so I go to bed satisfied.

-I’ve been doing lazy IF (no breakfast, but I am having coffee with a stevia and a splash of oat milk in the morning which I know is technically against the rules but whatever).

-I’ve been vegan for ethical reasons for several years, and have had a pretty plant-forward diet, but I realize now I was spending a lot of calories on pasta and oil. So I’ve significantly reduced my pasta/ bread and oil intake.

-I’ve made my house a cracker & chip-free zone. I am a mindless snacker. Now if I have the urge snack, I have cucumber slices (still crunchy, but let’s be real I love crackers more) with eggplant hummus. Some days I budget my calories to have a Skinny Girl lime & salt mini popcorn bag (160kcal) to satisfy my mindless snacking urges.

-In the past, I’ve tried for a week here and there to lose weight but always forget/don’t prioritize, and then get discouraged and stop tracking. So I’ve been doing things to keep this effort top of mind like reading through this subreddit a couple times each day and listening to podcasts on the topic of health and weight loss on my way to/from work.

No one has noticed at this stage, but my clothes fit looser on me and I feel good. Anyway, hope that’s helpful to someone. I know I have quite a way to go but reading posts like this has kept me inspired throughout the month so I wanted to return the favor.

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Focus on diet or exercise?

I recently started taking my health seriously after gaining some weight from a lifestyle change (moved to a full time desk job) and a stressful living situation.

I've heard the saying that weight loss happens in the kitchen and fitness happens in the gym.

I'm currently at my heaviest weight (130) which is right on the end of the healthy BMI range for my stats (28F, 5ft2in) I haven't always had the best relationship with my body or food and while I've never been diagnosed I suspect i suffer from ED tendencies at the very least.

I would like to get down to either the middle or lower end on my BMI range which would be 15-20lbs. I know that the smaller you are the harder it is to lose weight. My question is should I be focusing my attention on losing weight through my diet or would fully investing in working out achieve the same results.

Note: I know that no matter what I do I will have to be eating fairly health (or at least much health than I am right now) I just want to know if it should be my primary concern.

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